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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by sweetcocoa(f): 7:16pm On Mar 04, 2016
Babe might just be having the feeling of owning a new toy, you just have to call her attention to it, she probably didn't mean to ignore you but this one you are talking about chatting constantly, I hope it's not a chyker sha.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 04, 2016
Dial *121#
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by dammytosh: 7:17pm On Mar 04, 2016
Is dt tecno ?

Buy her iphone 6S plus, 64GB.

She will be busy learning au to use it.

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by ladyF(f): 7:18pm On Mar 04, 2016
You sef try and play to her tune na. Be sending her pishures too and be buzzing her on the Telegram grin

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Modsenemy(f): 7:18pm On Mar 04, 2016
KINGinVALHALA3:
@OP, if i were in your shoe, you know what i will do? i would seize the phone from her. Stop thinking of breaking up with her. It isnt every issue that comes up in a relationship that must lead to breakup, and these issue is one of them that isnt worth ending ur relationship.
Seize the fone...the question is , did he buy it?

Op jst talk to her over it.
Soon anoda phantom will be out ! kiss undecided
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by mako007(m): 7:19pm On Mar 04, 2016
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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by kulekaa(m): 7:20pm On Mar 04, 2016
bqlekan:
Dude, phantom 5 is your nemesis, sue tecno cheesy
hian
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by skillfulrapper(m): 7:21pm On Mar 04, 2016
Bro...you too get the phantom 5...she will come back begging...









grin tongue
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Exponental(m): 7:22pm On Mar 04, 2016
jealous of a phone.... tufiakwa!!!

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Tobium1(m): 7:22pm On Mar 04, 2016
Take de fone, kip on a hard surface, get a sledge hammer and shatter dat device into pieces before it shatters ur long time relationship
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by magicminister: 7:23pm On Mar 04, 2016
broke people problems!
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Kangol99(m): 7:24pm On Mar 04, 2016
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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Kangol99(m): 7:25pm On Mar 04, 2016
Ok
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Ozzaa(f): 7:26pm On Mar 04, 2016
Dennygirl:
Quit if you can't bear it anymore.
Are u in a relationship urself?

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by jayloms: 7:26pm On Mar 04, 2016
The way I see it, you can either sue Techno or blame Babu Bahuri undecided
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Achilles2(m): 7:27pm On Mar 04, 2016
Bro so na you and phone dey compit for attention from your gf ? Haba naw.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by chigoizie7(m): 7:28pm On Mar 04, 2016
menabae:
LMAO, phone don collect this man babe.. Op dnt worry she will be calmed, the new phone is still shacking her , gurls loves gud thing na haba


Will d OP b available after d phone don shack her finish?
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Hadeep: 7:31pm On Mar 04, 2016
Na jealousy dey worry you.

Or do u suspect another guy bought her the phone??
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by LastSurvivor: 7:32pm On Mar 04, 2016
Wtf!!!
U mean ur dragging "competing" ur GF with a mere Techno phone?
Lmao

On a serious note, give her little time, that's how most people behave when they get new things that wow them..
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by hardewaih(m): 7:32pm On Mar 04, 2016
infect the phone with virus......she is gonna spend months trying to repair it ;Dinfect the phone with virus......she is gonna spend months trying to repair it

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Atlantian: 7:36pm On Mar 04, 2016
I feel ashame that a girl that has a boyfriend who loves her is using a phantom phone. Chai.... And the fucker is even feeling insecure. If I jam your girl, bros, she go leave you immediately.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by rastle(m): 7:39pm On Mar 04, 2016
Talk to her about marriage and then see her reaction. The reaction will tell you whether you are in a relationship or not. If she dance to your tune then try to get married to her (since you love her). Then dont get bothered about who she chat with or what she do with the phone, after the marriage. You don make her expire frm market be that. If she commits adultery afterwards, then inform us, we will give you further advise.

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Objectives: 7:39pm On Mar 04, 2016
Talk to her about it,
Observe,
Give her time and probably space too,
Observe again,
And then decide where you want to be.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by menabae(f): 7:39pm On Mar 04, 2016
chigoizie7:



Will d OP b available after d phone don shack her finish?
c'mon is only phone,she is not dating anyone... He should be patient and observant that's all
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by egopersonified(f): 7:42pm On Mar 04, 2016
Please who knows how much this phone costs now, I need a new phone
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by MrMichaelB: 7:43pm On Mar 04, 2016
Op, your concern is real and very common in relationships, it gets worse when guys have dated for long periods and there is not much excitement anymore, when this happens the less mindful partner (which is your woman, according to your narrative) moves on to the next interesting thing while the more mindful one (you in this case) starts feeling ignored.
It doesn't mean she don't love u anymore (at least not yet) but truth is there is a great danger in a married woman or man ( or even people in serious relationships) finding excitement in any other thing than her partner (in this case, it's her phone), it leaves the other partner downcast and may eventually lead to a downward spiral in d relationship.
You need to communicate your concern to your partner and avoid assumptions, that's always the first and best step. Have a serious conversation and let it be clear that it's a serious conversation. U don't need to threaten to leave her, that's not necessary cos it might just be a temporary excitement but your happiness should be her primary concern and vice Versa, and so, bring it to her notice and if you are still important to her she will apologize and you will see improvements in your relationship.
The challenge now comes in when u don't see any positive changes from her, if you don't, bring up d discussion again after say a month, remember that some people are just naturally not mindful, you have to give her the benefit of doubt.
On your 2nd conversation bring up the conversation of mindfulness. Ask her if she understood what it meant to be mindful in a relationship (you sef go and google it before the conversation) and if she thought she was mindful enough of your relationship.
Hopefully she realizes she can be more mindful and starts practicing that in the relationship. Give it another month or two and review her improvements at the end of that period.
In between these months make sure you guys are engaged I.e. Doing fun things together, join her in those things she loves doing and encourage her to join you in things you love doing e.g. If u love watching EPL then encourage her to, if she loves watching Telemundo then watch with her, it's all in a bid to make you guys think of each other when doin the things you love. If it all goes well then u should have your woman back.
Relationships take conscious effort to succeed, it's best when both partners understand this concept. Wish you all the best.

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Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by Manuiski(m): 7:44pm On Mar 04, 2016
Some people sha.

Someone is confuse, took time to write a thread simply because he needs advice.

Atleast the fact that he wrote this post should have told you clearly that he's in trouble, but instead of some of you to advice him, you are busy commenting rubbish, some are even admiring the phone, Shame.

@OP, i think you should call her, and talk to her before things get out of hand, you know girls love flashy things, just express how you feel concerning her new character, i believe she will change if she loves you.

It's Manuiski.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by chigoizie7(m): 7:45pm On Mar 04, 2016
menabae:
c'mon is only phone,she is not dating anyone... He should be patient and observant that's all


Please be ready to advice a girl to be patient when her poor bf suddenly hamma better money, bought a new car and start hanging out with his friends (flexing his new car, same way she is flexing her new phone) and not having anytime for his babe.


My dear. Do unto others as u wish them do unto u.


Seriously, God knows the kinda people he allows certain things to happen to.
Re: Urgent Help!! My Fiancee Is Now Addicted To Something Else. I Feel Very Sad by ogele: 7:46pm On Mar 04, 2016
You girl friend has a job with an IT FIRM, so what do you do to keep yourself busy. GET A JOB AND GET BUSSSSYYYYY

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