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snoow:
Nawa o... Una no get work?... Before they upload post I will see like 30comment... Nawa o

Decker:
There is nothing 'gbammish' about that comment. Raping someone and having sex with someone is still sex. The only difference is that rape involves force without consent. What moves a man to_rape a woman is the same thing that would make a man want to have sex with another woman. The only difference here is that the former lacks self control, patience and doesn't feel he has what it takes to persuade her to have sex with him.

Dressing provocatively and indecently is what arouses a man and it's what fuels the desire to have sex or engage in any stimulating sexual activity. That's why men_masturbate to pictures of girls in playboy magazines and not pictures of nuns.

woodcook:
Who decides what decent dressing is? For how long are women going to live their lives pleasing a set of deranged men who are not only encouraged but protected by the society we live in?

sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.

Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

woodcook:
Who decides what decent dressing is? For how long are women going to live their lives pleasing a set of deranged men who are not only encouraged but protected by the society we live in?

Trust me...


Two months ago, I had this same mentality.

Let's take lassa fever for example... it's a deadly virus. the government and health workers even went as far as telling masses not To drink Garri.
Yes, I Adore drinking garri. Buh what right do they have telling me not to drink garri? Are they crazy? who do they think they are?

Buh if I wanna prevent myself from contracting the virus. I have to quit Garri. even if It's annoying.

People commit crimes... Râpe is real. The world is that way. the best we could do is Curb it. minimize the provocative dressing, especially at Nights. when one very much know You're alone.

You lock Your gate at night dontcha?? You lock Your door? Why? so as to prevent Criminals from entering. Why don't You leave it Open? For how long are you going to live your life pleasing A set of Obnoxious thieves? Buh you do it anyway...You lock Your door. even when it's so hot.


It's A matter of being safe. Life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. there are bad people Amidst us all. the least we could do is not be a victim.

Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

atoleybaba:
or telling a cultiist in school that u av right to wear black and yellow and whatever colour dy forbid. they would av killed u before u come back to ur senses

Estharfabian:
Trust me...


Two months ago, I had this same mentality.

Let's take lassa fever for example... it's a deadly virus. the government and health workers even went as far as telling masses not To drink Garri.
Yes, I Adore drinking garri. Buh what right do they have telling me not to drink garri? Are they crazy? who do they think they are?

Buh if I wanna prevent myself from contracting the virus. I have to quit Garri. even if It's annoying.

People commit crimes... Rqoe is real. The world is that way. the best we could do is Curb it. minimize the provocative dressing, especially at Nights. when one very much know You're alone.

You lock Your gate at night dontcha?? You lock Your door? Why? so as to prevent Criminals from entering. Why don't You leave it Open? For how long are you going to live your life pleasing A set of Obnoxious thieves? Buh you do it anyway...You lock Your door. even when it's so hot.


It's A matter of being safe. Life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. there are bad people Amidst us all. the least we could do is not be a victim.

Estharfabian:
Trust me...


Two months ago, I had this same mentality.

Let's take lassa fever for example... it's a deadly virus. the government and health workers even went as far as telling masses not To drink Garri.
Yes, I Adore drinking garri. Buh what right do they have telling me not to drink garri? Are they crazy? who do they think they are?

Buh if I wanna prevent myself from contracting the virus. I have to quit Garri. even if It's annoying.

People commit crimes... Rqoe is real. The world is that way. the best we could do is Curb it. minimize the provocative dressing, especially at Nights. when one very much know You're alone.

You lock Your gate at night dontcha?? You lock Your door? Why? so as to prevent Criminals from entering. Why don't You leave it Open? For how long are you going to live your life pleasing A set of Obnoxious thieves? Buh you do it anyway...You lock Your door. even when it's so hot.


It's A matter of being safe. Life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. there are bad people Amidst us all. the least we could do is not be a victim.

kaziblake:
A think rapist are mentally deranged people ,Because you can't tell me what to wear,I wear what I like. ..its doesn't gives you the right to rape me.

Rubbish

oloyede252:
cool.so you can reason like this.GOD is Great..

If I knock You peoples head!



I am not always controversial jaweh.

Adonis3:
wow... I'm really surprised to hear u say this!


I just hope some folks can be reasonable.

Rape is just something that can't be totally defeated



But like your last line..

Isn't it better to make efforts not to be a victim?



#Adonis3HasSopken

LoL!


Why's everyone surprised about my comment? I feel really weird already!


Exactly! we should all do something to Prevent the act.
coz at the end, even if the Rapist is jailed or killed, The joke would be on yah!

Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

CaroLyner:
there are ways of preventing rape and dressing with decency is one of the key.

Estharfabian:
Clothing is not a significant factor in sexual Violence.

Sexual aggressors Would still Commit the dreaded act irrespective Of How short Your skirt is. or how much cleavage Your tank top reveals.

Yes, we get that. Buh......

....truth be told, we can't just decide to wear Booty revealing clothes At 12 Mid9t, walking alone...With A mark on Our forehead screaming "YOU CAN'T RAPE ME EVEN IF I WALK AROUND NAKÈD" that's plain stupidity!

It's testing fate.
Although no one deserves rápe. there are ways to prevent it.

I Can't just leave my Phone in the library, bank or someplace Open and Not expect to have it get stolen. Of course It would get stolen. but then again, I could've prevented it. yes, The thief shouldn't have taken it. its not their business where i left it. Buh, honestly, I could've prevented it from getting stolen by Putting it in my purse, bag or something..
At the end, I'm the victim. the one who lost A phone.

Why?
because I was careless, ignorant and somewhat nonchalant.

Wearing provocative clothes doesn't mean You deserve to be rapèd, but it makes one more vulnerable. hence, fuelling the Evil, Causing the Rapist to Rápe.

karleone:
Hit! You just put smiles on my face.

sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.

magicminister:
its just so sad...
women can never win in Nigeria.
If she gets pregnant, its cos she is irresponsible.
If she works hard and gets in a well placed position, its cos she slept with men.
If she has her car and house, she is intimidating men.

Most of our men are just lazy with sever traits of low self esteem.

true....



And I wonder why people Are actually against feminism? O.o

Those are the exact inhumane, irrational thing feminists Are fighting against...

Estharfabian:
LoL!


Why's everyone surprised about my comment? I feel really weird already!


Exactly! we should all do something to Prevent the act.
coz at the end, even if the Rapist is jailed or killed, The joke would be on yah!

Estharfabian:
LoL!


Why's everyone surprised about my comment? I feel really weird already!


Exactly! we should all do something to Prevent the act.
coz at the end, even if the Rapist is jailed or killed, The joke would be on yah!

exactly!

Like I said earlier,


It's the girl that'll have to deal with the trauma and pain


And not the person who advised her to dress decently


And probably not even the RAPIST, as he might not be caught!


Another nice one from EstharFabian

Estharfabian:
If I knock You peoples head!



I am not always controversial jaweh.

tranxo:
Hmmm. Making sense for a change.

Adonis3:
exactly!

Like I said earlier,


It's the girl that'll have to deal with the trauma and pain


And not the person who advised her to dress decently


And probably not even the RAPIST, as he might not be caught!


Another nice one from EsthárFabian

#Adonis3HasSopken

Hahaa!


thanks Adonis!
Thumbs up to yah!

Estharfabian:
Clothing is not a significant factor in sexual Violence.

Sexual aggressors Would still Commit the dreaded act irrespective Of How short Your skirt is. or how much cleavage Your tank top reveals.

Yes, we get that. Buh......

....truth be told, we can't just decide to wear Booty revealing clothes At 12 Mid9t, walking alone...With A mark on Our forehead screaming "YOU CAN'T RAPE ME EVEN IF I WALK AROUND NAKÈD" that's plain stupidity!

It's testing fate.
Although no one deserves rápe. there are ways to prevent it.

I Can't just leave my Phone in the library, bank or someplace Open and Not expect to have it get stolen. Of course It would get stolen. but then again, I could've prevented it. yes, The thief shouldn't have taken it. its not their business where i left it. Buh, honestly, I could've prevented it from getting stolen by Putting it in my purse, bag or something..
At the end, I'm the victim. the one who lost A phone.

Why?
because I was careless, ignorant and somewhat nonchalant.

Wearing provocative clothes doesn't mean You deserve to be rapèd, but it makes one more vulnerable. hence, fuelling the Evil, Causing the Rapist to Rápe.

oloyede252:
you are not controversial.just that in two months you moved from fanatical level of conciousness to the last stage which is the critical level..congrat....what happened to you in two months?

I think I grew Up!

Estharfabian:
true....



And I wonder why people Are actually against feminism? O.o

Those are the exact inhumane, irrational thing feminists Are fighting against...

Estharfabian:

Diddyydiva:
Even a nun can be raped . Its not about dressing indecently alone, Children are raped too



A rapist will act as one irrespective of the clothes you put on .

oloyede252:
what is true in what he said?

women can never win in Nigeria.
If she gets pregnant, its cos she is irresponsible.
If she works hard and gets in a well placed position, its
cos she slept with men.
If she has her car and house, she is intimidating men.

tranxo:
Lol. Yes. You got yourself stereotyped.

Well, I deserved it!



I could be annoying as hell sometimes...