postmann:


Don't try to walk in my shadows.
I'm the sun here. You're the moon.
Respect my intellectual superiority.

I told you much earlier you type faster than your brain could assimilate. Don't try to recycle that to me, Nancy boy.
And I told you each comment leaves trails of your intellectual bankruptcy.

I was wise enough to give feminism its laudable dues before bashing it for all its evil, because I was expectant of male-poshovers like you. I gave you very little room to operate. But you so needed to impress Janet badly, and you came like an unprepared boxer.
My jabs at your chin left you ugly and Janet now knows you've been bruised by an ALPHA MALE.

In the old days when men and women farm, the women farm less hard than their male counterpart and most times they farm near home for the young children's sake. While the men can farm very far away, long into the village boarders

While raising a child is the responsibility of both genders, the mothers role in the infancy, toddler and developing years are without question. The 3 month leave for maternity leave is not enough. Babies need their mothers' undivided attention during and after that stage.

While daddy goes to work, she must be available to bring the children back from school, ask them pertinent questions, bathe them and put them to sleep.
She must not entrust her child to a maid or daycare except in some very difficult and abnormal situation.

She gives her husband a run down of what transpired in school between Junior and Peter. And necessary correctional measures are taken immediately before Junior grows with it.

Mainwhile, she should be looking fresh and lovely for her husband as he comes back from work.
Her beauty and homeliness will give him a resting place from the hard day's work.
Not a tired, rumpled faced carrier woman who isn't even home to kiss her husband welcome and loosen his tie.

Oh, she can work at this stage. But it is important that she control her work/time and not her work controlling her. Junior needs her undivided attention at his very young age and so does his daddy. She is a nurturer.

Father passes his instruction to mother, and mother says to junior, "Daddy said you must not do this".

Junior doesn't get confused where the authority is coming from and he is better shaped to respect authority in the society when he is out as a grown man.

When Junior is grown, mother is freer, with permission from her husband to pursue her dream.

Nancy boy, this is complete, though highly summarised version of a healthy family structure. And society gets safer for it.

I hate it when I see men fall from grace and become doormat to new ideas. Their place will be taken.

You're not an intellectual. You're just in denial. You're too afraid of change to entertain an opposing idea. You did not intelligently criticize feminism, all you did was bring up a few examples of misandrist groups.

You're too simple-minded to understand that there are men out there who aren't threatened by women in way. Why are you so paranoid about losing authority?

What you described as a 'healthy family' is a monument to your social ineptitude. If you think you made a flawless argument with your OP (as you always reference) then you truly have a pre-pubescent mind.

A healthy marriage should be one where the man and woman make the decisions together. Ideally, both parents should make out time to spend with the children.

Why are you so afraid of being challenged? You come across as a creepy, controlling individual to me.

Nigeria, is a country that is characterized by male dominance, I don't see how that created a 'safer' society.

Your posts are vapid, your points are empty, you fear losing your dominance, you can't respond to a different opinion like a decent human being. In other words, you're just another bigot. I've already wasted too much time condescending to your kind.

postmann:



"I don't know what you mean about the western society being in decline. Their economy seems stable and their populations seem comfortable"


He is talking about moral decline.
Wake up.

He was talking about economy, genius.

Now piss off.

AVRecruit:


Western society is in decline economically. Economic power has shifted to the East (Asia), middle east and africa.

CoolUsername:


You're not an intellectual. You're just in denial. You're too afraid of change to entertain an opposing idea. You did not intelligently criticize feminism, all you did was bring up a few examples of misandrist groups.

You're too simple-minded to understand that there are men out there who aren't threatened by women in way. Why are you so paranoid about losing authority?

What you described as a 'healthy family' is a monument to your social ineptitude. If you think you made a flawless argument with your OP (as you always reference) then you truly have a pre-pubescent mind.

Your posts are vapid, your points are empty, you fear losing your dominance, you can't respond to a different opinion like a decent human being. In other words, you're just another bigot. I've already wasted too much time condescending to your kind.

You talk like the senseless feminist you appear to be.

The OP is only advocating that marriage have a power structure. Democracy does not exist my dear; did nigerians vote on bvn? it was imposed. You cannot take decisions together in authority, inputs can only be entertained. i can discuss with my boss but he ultimately says what needs to be done.

It is a man that marries a woman not the other way round. the man can send you packing anytime.

most wmen forget this!

All the women reading this? Are you the one to marry your husbands? Do you have that power?

CoolUsername:


He was talking about economy, genius.

Now piss off.

i was talking about both now GET OUT. ur too local for me to use the british piss off on u.

village headmaster/ head mistress.

HannibalXVI:


Please do in depth research on what exactly feminism is and don't attack a movement based on the actions of extremists. We do not discard religion because of fanatics, neither do we discard science because of greedy corporations that seek to exploit humanity and engage in unethical practices, nor do we discard banking because of those who rip off nations and their people with high interest and lending rates and the like. If we did, Islam and Christianity would be gone because of Al-Qaeda, ISIS, and the massacres instigated by the church in centuries past. If we did, science would be gone due to crimes such as those committed during the World Wars and due to such things as mutation in humans as a result of nuclear fallout. There will always be those who take a thing and turn it on its head for their own selfish purposes, but as the Englishman would say, do not throw out the baby with the bathwater.

Real feminism seeks to end cultures and practices which are detrimental to women. These include
-Unequal voting rights (eg in Saudi Arabia where women just voted for the first time)
-Ending honor killing : In certain countries, mostly in the middle east, a woman may be killed by a member of her family if she is deemed to have brought shame on the family by whatever means, and the killer may go scot-free.
-Female genital mutilation
-Unequal pay: Equality of pay does not mean if Nneka is absent for 4 working days due to her period she still deserves to be paid same wages with Kunle who was present all through the month. Equality of pay means if Nneka and Kunle are present for equal working hours, doing the same job, then they should be paid accordingly. This is not just a men vs women issue as abroad it has been noted that minorities(blacks, Hispanics etc) are less paid than whites, with the white man being at the higher end of the range.
-Rape culture, which tends to demonize the victim instead of advocating justice. This also goes both ways as in societies where it is hard to get justice for victims, even men and boys who have been raped or molested suffer in silence.
-It also seeks to end the practice of sending boys to school while the girls are left without education.
The list goes on but I will leave you to research on your own. A real feminist will not see a problem with a woman driving a trailer or working in a mine as long as she is capable (physically and otherwise) AND WILL NOT EXPECT ANY SPECIAL TREATMENT ON THE BASIS OF GENDER.

The movement is not about being equal to men IN MARRIAGE and disrespecting one's husband. I capitalized "IN MARRIAGE" as it is their husbands women are biblically to submit to, not just any man; people in general are to respect/submit to authority, as children (male or female) should submit to their parents. It just means a woman is not a second class person and should not be treated as such. In marriage there are roles and instructions for husband and wife, a popular biblical one being "Wives submit to your husbands…Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the Church". Failures of marriages today are not the fault of true feminism but due to the warping of the sacred institution by both man and wife. One cannot engage in things which the Bible/Holy book (eg. Quran, I'll use the Bible as I'm a Christian) condemns (fornication, irresponsibility, lying, etc.) & expect to experience success in any area of life, not just marriage.

As for those who are talking about things such as men sitting down to urinate we need not be bothered by the rantings of mad people; as Sir Winston Churchill said "One will not get to the destination if you stop to throw stones at every dog that barks".

Wow!!! This is a different sort of feminist.if all feminists are like this, I would've joined the band wagon tee tee

@Chidoks
same here i would have joined as well.

AVRecruit:
@Chidoks
same here i would have joined as well.

Honestly, since I started hearing about feminism; that post was the only one I truly appreciate. Looks like feminism was abused by extremists

CoolUsername:


You're not an intellectual. You're just in denial. You're too afraid of change to entertain an opposing idea. You did not intelligently criticize feminism, all you did was bring up a few examples of misandrist groups.

You're too simple-minded to understand that there are men out there who aren't threatened by women in way. Why are you so paranoid about losing authority?

What you described as a 'healthy family' is a monument to your social ineptitude. If you think you made a flawless argument with your OP (as you always reference) then you truly have a pre-pubescent mind.

A healthy marriage should be one where the man and woman make the decisions together. Ideally, both parents should make out time to spend with the children.

Why are you so afraid of being challenged? You come across as a creepy, controlling individual to me.

Nigeria, is a country that is characterized by male dominance, I don't see how that created a 'safer' society.

Your posts are vapid, your points are empty, you fear losing your dominance, you can't respond to a different opinion like a decent human being. In other words, you're just another bigot. I've already wasted too much time condescending to your kind.

Talk is cheap.

And you fall into the minority of men who lack the mental muscle to look deep. Feminism has gone deep. It has even ultered the Holy Bible and has also ulterd mathematics by changing certain attributes.

But I think sound reasoning is far beyond your capacity.
You would rather hide under cheap blackmail and spew trash.

I wonder what a home like yours will look like, since you're disgustingly feminine in nature, albeit a dumb version.
Has your wife thought you how to straddle your baby across your back, while you're in the kitchen preparing breakfast and she sits in the living room chatting with her friends?

#MaleSlave

You're that kind of a doormat. Your existence as a male is a misadventure. You reason like a woman with hormonal imbalance.
You've been blown away by western movies and you don't realize you're one huge mental experiment of the devil.

How will your children react to a no clear authority in your home? They will have problems accepting leadership of any kind in the society and even in your home. When you give an order to them, even in the absence of your wife, and it didn't go down well with them, they will gladly wait for their mother to come and try to have her cancel your orders.
Since you're effeminate, you suffer the same emotional over flow as your wife.
Man, you're a real waste!

You're both a psychological and medical case.
I believe you are a product of Oligospermia, a medical case of poor sperm quality, as you show serious traits of a tetestorome deficient male.
Or Maybe there is a mixup somewhere and you were originally meant to be a female. Even for a female you still sound daft. A handful of the women here did better than you in their
presentation and I find you copying their lines.

You are a lazy man who hides behind the shadows of gender equality, while enslaving your wife to work and feed your lazy ass, as you sprawl lazily on the couch while she works her ass out for you.

Your only usefulness is to plant your genetically compromised, weak seeds in her, and raise yet another generation of mentally deficient dads and modern day female slave-drivers in disguise, who couldn't look at the world and see that the world lacks real male leadership and children are losing their moms to carrier, because they prefere women to carry their financial burdens while still carry all the burdens of her nature.

Your wife definitely will age faster since you're a lazy man, both with your brain as with your hands.
A spineless sissy and the devil's lab-product like you, you're taken by every new idea.You have fallen from your place of privilege, and you room the earth like a vagabond without purpose.

You mistook godlessness for civilization.
You're a perfect case of authority vacancy.
I guess you must have regretted not having huge breasts so you can feed your babies exclusively for six months, while your wife work and feed you both. Bloody hermaphrodite.

You love the female benefits of maternal leave, don't you, Nancy boy?

Since your base of morality has no spiritual roots, but is based on the input of mere mortals,
I denounce you as a roaming, aimless vagabond without a sense of heritage and noble ambition.


#Nuisance

AVRecruit:


I read your post. I did not see anything to disagree with. it is a masterpiece. Perhaps we can categorize feminism into two: godly feminism and ungodly feminism

i learnt from ur post.

one thing to add though. girls should be married before going to university as 90% become unmarriable feminized sluts if not so. secondly the time at University the girl also ages a bit - a youthful time that should belong to the husband. marriage today is laden with risks. what are the benefits of marrying today? thanks

I disagree with you on the issue of girls marrying before going to school.
At what age?
To be a liability on their husband?
Too many issues are at stake.

postmann:


Come on, woman! counter my points if you are brainy enough.
I like my woman, lover or foe, intelligent.

Feminism isn't new. But it has always failed.
Real men don't see it as a personal threat.
We just hate the hypocricy and deceit embedded in it.

There's no greater inequality than trying to make the unequal, equal.

@bold .
this point right here is undisputed

I can't help but agree

I got nothing against equality

CoolUsername:


He was talking about economy, genius.

Now piss off.

He said he was talking about both. How about that for a shameful dismissal?

Hey, bootless sissy, how did you manage to irritate a gentleman in the person of AVRecruit?

You really are one senseless, empty-headed, weakling blown away by every new concept and idea.

CoolUsername:


The more I read the post the more sympathy I feel towards you, 'cause you're a grown man with a prepubescent mind and you probably need help. I don't know whether your jaded view stems from sexual frustration, as is the case sometimes, or some unfavourable past experience.

Your post is long but vapid. You never tried to understand the meaning of feminism. All you did was look at a few extreme movements in order to buttress your silly points. You read a few articles and suddenly felt you had it all figured out. But you don't. You seem to still be stuck in the 20th century.

I feel that if you're confident in your ability as an adult, then the sky is your limit. Don't try to reduce your competition by eliminating women. If you're as intelligent as you say you are, then you should have the ability to objectively weigh the pros of gender equality, instead of making such pedestrian points, such as: demonizing female protests, and accusations of witchcraft.

Posts like this subliminally discourage our women from wanting to stand up for themselves and force them into silence when they are treated a little better than kids. People like you who want that are, fortunately fighting a losing battle. A few rants here and there won't change anything.

Now, I want you to take a good look at yourself and try to identify what went wrong and why you're so full of hate and bitterness.

Listen, mental load is clearly something you aren't cut out for.

Cease the boring rhetorics and ad hominem and tell us why a society like Nigeria is still having feminist ranting when there are no statutes or law preventing women from career path, educational choice or pay discrimination.


Feminism should be directed to the middle East like Saudi Arabia and UAE where women still live a little below primal survivability, and not in Nigeria where women are already given quotas they didnt merit, but rather for their gender.


Feminism is a raving fad most African women don't fully understand in concept, it is a borrowed fad which like homosexuality has a powerful lobby group seeking to revolutionise society.


You need to visit Sweden, the oldest feminism practising country and other western society to see the effects.

When I come to Africa and see people churning feminism everywhere, I give a smirk.


No African has ever sat down and ask, " what is the end goal of feminism? "

lezz:
Listen, mental load is clearly something you aren't cut out for.

Cease the boring rhetorics and ad hominem and tell us why a society like Nigeria is still having feminist ranting when there are no status or law preventing women from career path, educational choice or pay discrimination.


Feminism should be directed to the middle East like Saudi Arabia and UAE where women still live a little below primal survivability, and not in Nigeria where women are already given quotas they didnt merit, but rather for their gender.


Feminism is a raving fad most African women don't fully understand in concept, it is a borrowed fad which like homosexuality has a powerful lobby group seeking to revolutionise society.


You need to visit Sweden, the oldest feminism practising country and other western society to see the effects.

When I come to Africa and see people churning feminism everywhere, I give a smirk.


No African has ever sat down and ask, " what is the end goal of feminism? "

Now here comes the king, albeit a randy one.

Thou Revered troll, whose resovoir isn't limited by faith like mine, I knew you would take the egg-headed Nancy boy to some correctional facilities where his hermaphrodistic organs would be severed.

But while at it, please be gentle cos Janet is watching.

You don't wanna bring him down so hard and cos poor Janet more tears.

I forgot to add that he is inane and illogical. He is of the rare type of men suffering from emotional over-flow.

I'm talking about CoolUsername. You can see how daft his moniker sound. It's an indication of his lack of creativity advance thinking.
He comes short in everything MALE.

But this doesn't mean we're even. I'm still looking for ways to give you a left jab across your chin, where it hurts most.

postmann:


Now here comes the king, albeit a randy one.

Thou Revered troll, whose resovoir isn't limited by faith like mine, I knew you would take the egg-headed Nancy boy to some correctional facilities where his hermaphrodistic organs would be severed.

But while at it, please be gentle cos Janet is watching.

You don't wanna bring him down so hard and cos poor Janet more tears.


But this doesn't mean we're even. I'm still looking for ways to give you a left jab across your chin, where it hurts most.

I'll leave you panting in a double daze over my scathing expletives.

Your fingers will need a double lens microscope to sort out your letters.

lezz:
I'll leave you panting in a double daze over my scathing expletives.

Your fingers will need a double lens microscope to sort out your letters.

You don't scare me. I'm not like the others. I know when, where and how to deliver my punches while being quite the opposite of you.

I'm the only one that can do that.

postmann:


You don't scare me. I'm not like the others. I know when, where and how to deliver my punches while being quite the opposite of you.

I'm the only one that can do that.

I don't like scarring people, it doesn't yield a good fight.

I'm a rare specimen; I actually enjoy taking e-blows as well as I enjoy giving them.

lezz:
I don't like scarring people, it doesn't yield a good fight.

I'm a rare specimen; I actually enjoy taking e-blows as well as I enjoy giving them.

Ok.

postmann:


Ok.

Clown!!!

What's Chelsea playing ? Seems the wind of luck has run its course!

lezz:
Clown!!!

What's Chelsea playing ? Seems the wind of luck has run its course!

Given the present situation a draw isn't that bad. The unbeaten run continues. Though a little disappointing with conceding the silly late goal.

Watch your tiki-taka loving barca get knocked out somewhere in the UCL.

WhatsApp me.

AVRecruit:


There is no contention at all its outright rebellion. So because you are allowed to wear whatever you want you put on tattoos of satanic origins and nose rings of satanic origins? And put on mini skirts that makes all and sundry want to sleep with you? Its foolishness. Feminism should teach women to be appropriately dressed the same way it enjoins men not to hit women.

The power is temporal though. Anything upward of 26 years of age even wear the tightest skirt most men wont even blink.

A word is enough for the wise.

Western society is in decline economically. Economic power has shifted to the East (Asia), middle east and africa.

Thank you very much.......though, I don't hate all feminists, because some of them fought for good cause which any sane person should endorse but some especially the radical feminists disgusts me for all they stand for. I hate them for real......

I'm actually studying literary criticism in school right now, and everything I've read and learnt so far about them savour hatred from me. Seriously, they actually gave rise to lesbianism, homo, trans-gender and other barbaric things....and they are all divorced stinking breeds. Damn!

postmann:


Given the present situation a draw isn't that bad. The unbeaten run continues. Though a little disappointing with conceding the silly late goal.

Watch your tiki-taka loving barca get knocked out somewhere in the UCL.

.

Ok, go check.

postmann:


Given the present situation a draw isn't that bad. The unbeaten run continues. Though a little disappointing with conceding the silly late goal.

Watch your tiki-taka loving barca get knocked out somewhere in the UCL.

.

Ok, go check.

@ postmann , I posit Chelsea finishing at a European position this season will be received with relish given the unprecedented turnouts this season.




*****derailment is intentional*******

lezz:
@postmann, I posit Chelsea finishing at a European position this season will be received with relish given the unprecedented turnouts this season.




*****derailment is intentional*******

If I don't know you too well, I'd miss the sarcasm. European spot indeed.
Why not spell it out that it's the Europa league you're talking about.

Tika-taka ticks away gradually as Messi prepares to sun his boots in the not too distant future.

Then you laugh all you want.

.

postmann:


Do this thread a favour; go back to where you're coming from.

Even the feminist didn't see your output as tangible.

You reek of low intelligence.

Take a brief look at the comments from cream.ish.
She sounded like she knows what's she is in for.
She can engage me intelligently.

But you,
you're a crowd - following, she-zombie feminist who can't defend her cause.

I usually prefer ignoring fools but the world would continue to have more of them if we do not make it our duty to educate them.

If it weren't for feminism women would not be able to hold offices that were previously reserved for men! If it weren't for feminism child marriages would continue to be to treated as a common harmless practice. If it were for feminism grown women would continue to be classified and treated as minors. If it weren't for feminism wives would continue to be raped by their husbands and it would not be regarded a crime.

You copied and pasted paragraphs of something you know nothing of. If your want to continue displaying your ignorance, by all means do. I will never lose sleep over it.

postmann:


If I don't know you too well, I'd miss the sarcasm. European spot indeed.
Why not spell it out that it's the Europa league you're talking about.

Tika-taka ticks away gradually as Messi prepares to sun his boots in the not too distant future.

Then you laugh all you want.

Anytime the sun choses to set away from camp nou, Barca goes down as the greatest club of the century, Messi the greatest player known since the age of television

Moana:
I usually prefer ignoring fools but the world would continue to have more of them if we do not make it our duty to educate them.

If it weren't for feminism women would not be able to hold offices that were previously reserved for men! If it weren't for feminism child marriage would continue to be to treated as a common harmless practice. If it were for feminism women would continue to be classified and treated as minors. If it weren't for feminism wives would continue to be raped by their husbands and it would not be regarded a crime.

You copied and pasted paragraphs of something you know nothing of. If your want to continue displaying your ignorance, by all means do. I will never lose sleep over it. I will not make your foolishness my headache.

I like your foolish rants. But you once again yielded to my command --you're trying to sound smart and intelligent.

You actually obeyed me when I told you to sound intelligent. You have the potential to be a good female if some extra work is done on you.

I appreciate your effort trying to be an obedient female. But you still got a long way to go in shedding some of your ignorance and stupidity. Your prons for feminist movement have already been covered by my post in the first paragraph.

Would you mind trying again? And this time dont take forever. I have little patience for apprentice


And point of correction, my post is mine.

lezz:
Anytime the sun choses to set away from camp nou, Barca goes down as the greatest club of the century, Messi the greatest player known since the age of television

And it fades away as fast as it came.

Moana:
I usually prefer ignoring fools but the world would continue to have more of them if we do not make it our duty to educate them.

Your definition of fool leaves you looking and acting like one

Moana:

If it weren't for feminism women would not be able to hold offices that were previously reserved for men!

You're an event-thief!!! That's actually owing to world war 2 when millions of men where conscripted and many more died. Women actually started filling up the slots since then.

Moana:
If it weren't for feminism child marriages would continue to be to treated as a common harmless practice.

Give the credit to UNICEF!!! 2005, I personally attended a workshop organised and sponsored by UNICEF at hotel Concorde, Owerri, where so many southern states of Nigeria were acclaimed to have signed that declaration. I was the personal guest of Barrister Taiwo Akinlami. Facebook-search that now and Shush!!!

Moana:


If it were for feminism grown women would continue to be classified and treated as minors. If it weren't for feminism wives would continue to be raped by their husbands and it would not be regarded a crime.

You copied and pasted paragraphs of something you know nothing of. If your want to continue displaying your ignorance, by all means do. I will never lose sleep over it.

The rest of your post are excessive emotional responses that bear little correlation to the substance of the issue under discourse.

Patch your leaking emotions and try again.

Chidoks:

I disagree with you on the issue of girls marrying before going to school.
At what age?
To be a liability on their husband?
Too many issues are at stake.

it was the norm in yesteryears for girls to get married 18+. She should be going off to university with a stable relationship with marriage pledges to each other. most ppl dont know what they want men and women and end up sleeping around.

Marriage is a calculated risk. Men face risk of divorce, marrying the wrong woman (nagging, has issues, etc, child support and alimony payments for life, temptations to cheating with nicer things outside the marriage, losing half their assets,etc