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| SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by jchima14(op): 4:54pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. 1. Don't push it: You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don't bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want. 2. Get her to relax: The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you. 3. Make you move: Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, 'Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.' In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don't push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level. Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex. SOURCE: http://thesummary.com.ng/index.php/news-categories/lifestyle/item/6271-ultimate-seduction-tips-3-things-to-do-if-she-comes-over-to-your-house-and-refuses-to-have-sex |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by dharay99: 4:58pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
teach me berra, dz tips are outdated, teacher. 1 Like |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:03pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
'Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass
of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.' Say that to me and i'd Run Outta Your House screaming "Pervert".  12 Likes |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Vicintonsh(m): 5:06pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Estharfabian:'Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and leave u there'  1 Like |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Vicintonsh:lmfao! Perv....  1 Like |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. 1. Don't push it: You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, that's all you need do 2 Likes |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by IamLEGEND1: 5:11pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
All this story just to get a peek at some weird opening between a girl's legs that bleeds every Month. 1 Like
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| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:18pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
This won't work on me |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Smellymouth: 5:19pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
When she comes visiting -- Start with less intimate touching and work your way up. Some women consider certain actions more intimate than others but here’s a general guideline of how things escalate sexually: Playing with her fingers. Running your fingers on her arms or legs. Massaging her back. Kissing her neck. Kissing her cheek. Kissing / nibbling / licking her ear. Kissing her collarbone. Kissing her lips softly. Kissing her lips more passionately (with tongue). Running your hands through her hair. Running your hands on her body: outer thighs, inner thighs, stomach/waist, a5s, and chest/breasts. Kissing her stomach, breasts, and panty line. Lifting her shirt up to expose her skin or taking it off completely. Unbuttoning/unzipping her pants slowly with your fingers or teeth. Rubbing her Vee through the outside of her panties.Sensually removing her panties while looking her in the eyes. Having sex with her. Am outta erre mhen## 1 Like |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by naijaboiy: 5:30pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
[color=#1980BC]Anything new? [/color] |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Smellymouth:Steps to doomnation |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by KingRex1(m): 6:07pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Smellymouth:At least u try pass OP |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nature8(m): 6:19pm On Mar 09, 2016 |
Smellymouth:Lol.. You just killed it bro 1 Like |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by ehix89(m): 2:37pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
HateU2:heyyy....u snubbed my pm  |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
ehix89:I hardly reply pms |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by ehix89(m): 2:58pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
HateU2:buh its me nau |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by ehix89(m): 3:19pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
HateU2:its ok, I cld be an exception if you want me to be |
| Re: SEDUCTION TIPS: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 3:21pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
ehix89:I know it's you nah  |
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