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3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by mizlolar(f): 12:58pm On May 06, 2016 |
You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. 1. Don’t push it: You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want 2. Get her to relax: The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you. 3. Make you move: Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, ‘Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.’ In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don’t push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level. Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by nonny400(m): 1:01pm On May 06, 2016 |
...and if it doesn't work? Are we free to devour her voraciously? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by donbenedict(m): 1:04pm On May 06, 2016 |
Cheeeeeei Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back Damn if I ever get hold of that ass, I will sure get u to heaven and bak Okon: wat ur u doing donbenedict Donbenedict: I dey try cram wetin the op talk so I will tell d babe wey wan com see me today 13 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Frei(m): 1:15pm On May 06, 2016 |
Is it by force to have sex with her 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by simzco1: 1:20pm On May 06, 2016 |
Frei:Whatz now the essense of dating her..?? esp if she is just a side chick |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 1:23pm On May 06, 2016 |
simzco1:And someone is begging me not to give up on our men? Our men are shameless. 6 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Frei(m): 1:27pm On May 06, 2016 |
simzco1:sex is the essense of dating her? So anytime she visits, all you think is sex. She refused' let her be! Not like she won't open next time. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Marlvin(m): 1:29pm On May 06, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: You're delusional and possibly a schizophrenic . 14 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by raayah(f): 1:44pm On May 06, 2016 |
How about respecting her wishes and not manipulating her to have sex? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by zadok60: 1:56pm On May 06, 2016 |
Mr op,na rape be this..
If she no want,you forget about it simple. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Aviero: 2:03pm On May 06, 2016 |
raayah:You see, here in Nigeria, you have to be a master manipulator to succeed. In politics, you manipulate. In education, you manipulate. In Church, some pastors de manipulate Some ladies de manipulate to collect our money without respecting our wishes. Even in marriages, some women de manipulate their husbands. So, you see, we just have to manipulate to chow the ponmo, because if we don't, someone else will. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Dymaco(m): 2:10pm On May 06, 2016 |
una get time.... u Côme my house and u want no sex for no reason. i go just delete your Number sharp sharp. imagine... so wetin do cool joints |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by HolyHero: 2:21pm On May 06, 2016 |
[size=15pt] OP true talk [/size] 1 Like |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by olushowunm(m): 2:24pm On May 06, 2016 |
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Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by PureWays(m): 2:38pm On May 06, 2016 |
And after the sex, I guess you will be given a Trophy and some dollars right? All these, just to nail a*s Nah... I'll pass. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 2:49pm On May 06, 2016 |
mizlolar:So, you're a woman and gives unscrupulous guys room to manipulate your folks? Shame on you! |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by alobright17(m): 2:50pm On May 06, 2016 |
Op na me you wan teach all this old methods.Haba I used them way back Secondary school days na,anyway there are beginners here though they need it. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by seunwen2(m): 2:56pm On May 06, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: Speak for yourself |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by KingRex1(m): 3:23pm On May 06, 2016 |
She doesnt want sex then free her. Yur girlfriend aint a sex machine for cooling off. |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by LieDetector(m): 5:28pm On May 06, 2016 |
nonny400:hahahahahahahahah Dude, I swear down I'm really laughing out loud right now 1 Like |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by LieDetector(m): 5:31pm On May 06, 2016 |
donbenedict:Rotflmao Lots of comedians on this thread Una no go kee me o |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by UyiIredia(m): 5:31pm On May 06, 2016 |
Sex won't be on my mind if she comes over unless she's damn sexy. |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by xtervaganza(m): 5:34pm On May 06, 2016 |
Don't think ican remember the number of times I've had sex. I really don't need this Besides I'm married now 1 Like |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by donbenedict(m): 5:55pm On May 06, 2016 |
LieDetector:funny enuf the babe read this and cancelled her visit |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by franklyneo(m): 6:11pm On May 06, 2016 |
Do i need this if she only calls to know if I'm home so she could come and have me rock her? And not me asking for it?? Guess i should now make her beg for it lol |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by p2t2r(m): 8:13pm On May 06, 2016 |
raayah:Manipulate Nd u'r sure u know the meaning of dah word? |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by rhymxkid(m): 8:50pm On May 06, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: where are the Mods ?? how can someone just come up here and type this nonsense... u overly just keep spewing rubbish every time ...u are so delusional and need to be taken to the lawma's dumbsite.... u are a shame on African women!! |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 9:36pm On May 06, 2016 |
My broda @Rhymxkid d stock fish @Stupedinluv is frustrated. |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by matrix199(m): 3:32am On May 07, 2016 |
mizlolar: Why not teach them to respect her first decision? |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 6:22am On May 07, 2016 |
this is one of the reasons I dont honour "the come to my house" invitation, guys are so fond of that these days,you meet a girl today,the next day na come know my house go be the next thing |
Re: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by Nobody: 9:22am On May 07, 2016 |
mizlolar:can we fork? |
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