₦airaland Forum

Stupedinluv:
You generalised but its true for so many. Me am tired of them already, i want a foreign/European partner.

Your European partner's folks probably think yor race are monkeys, he could treat u as such... Be careful of what u wish for.

Fabulocity:
lol
bye

What you have written is a definition of rubbish.

wait on!u would have better luck chasing shadow

All these points dnt apply to all men, well, its not compulsory u date a Nigerian guy, go to benin and get a man. As if all naija women are saint too. Hehehehe

That's your opinion

daretodiffer:
What you have written is a definition of rubbish.

You dat posted this stuff u no get talk, anyway hope u knw ur father is also a Nigerian

Fabulocity:
That's your opinion

It is a fact

alright, if you say so.

daretodiffer:
It is a fact

In as much as I tried to agree with some of the statements,I kept seeing the op as an aggrieved,bittered and a broken woman.

Am sorry Hun,but your assumptions are unduly wrong.

In as much as I tried to agree with some of the statements,I kept seeing the op as an aggrieved,bittered and a broken woman.

Am sorry Hun,but your assumptions are unduly wrong and are fallacies.

chigoizie7:
No bro, she is not dating possessed me. She is only attracting her likes.

hehehehehehehe......I concur

3rdlegxxx:
Dude are you sure you aren't my long lost twin

hehehehehehehe......we fit b Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.....i'll ask ma parents as soon as d're bk....aw ur side bro?

Every single thing the op said is true. Although, it seems like the post could do with some dumbing down for most of the guys on here ..
Don't bother, dear. You're too polite already.

I love threads like this because most Nigerian guys ALWAYS end up proving the post right in the daftest of ways
On the downside, it gives credence to the racist "research" that the Nigerian IQ is below average.

daretodiffer:
I didn't ask for a sob story

sob,you called that. You're irritating.

Angelberry:
On their kneels begging you or what? Girl what are you feeling like on Nairaland?

Help me ask her again o..some girls can flatter themselves sha,shez still a learner..

maryrosz:
u ain't suppose to say this.

He suppose to say what? Or you want him to applaud the op for her stùpid stereotype for generalising?

Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome

you're a very useless somebody to come up with such trash. Nigerian guys are known for being different and not easily brainwashed. Why didn't you just say that you're looking for an unfortunate man that will fall for your already hopeless life?

amokeme:
Mtchw.
Anyways most of the Nigerian men iv met are nothing like what the OP has mentioned(met more of the positives than the negative). I know alot of responsible NIGERIAN men.
and I'm definitely going to get married to a wonderful NIGERIAN MAN. By God's grace
The thing is know your class and evaluate.
If as a lady, you keep meeting the "wrong"(because everybody's defination of wrong is different) men, then check yourself. There is something wrong with you or what you are doing. Same applies to the guys also.

Beautiful woman with a brain that works..God bless u a million, and will give u ur hearts desire..in fact let me start looking for a ring to give u myself, BTW..beautiful stature u got there..

SmoothCruiz:
Let me start with this:

If you're a gold-digging oppurtunistic leech, don't date a Nigerian man. We will find you out. It's not a one-off that an 18-year-old Nigerian boy can con a 56-year-old British professor. WE ARE WORLD-FAMOUS FOR BEING SMART.

Of course, the thieving Nigerian girls wouldn't want smart Nigerian men. We'd screw you girls and pass you on to our friends when we discover you're unfaithful.

Who wants a woman who's always at the receiving end of favours? Nigerian women always beg for favours!

When was the last time you visited your boyfriend, do his laundry then prepare him a meal with YOUR OWN MONEY? You can't remember? I thought as much.

How many girls on this thread bought the phones they're using with their OWN money? The fake wigs? The eyelashes? Heck! You even beg to purchase sanitary pads.


The average Chinese and American girl starts getting wages for job done from age 13. She babysits, runs errands, sort out groceries... Anything.

Nigerian girls? They sit on their lazy, buttpadded behinds!

The average Nigerian girl fantasizes about Marriage from age 16. No, it's not because she's romantic or homely. It's because she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs while she brings only her unshaved _vagina to the table.


Oops! Bad for them, my Nigerian brothers are getting wiser.

Until you girls learn to be homely, loving and stoic like our mothers past, we'd continue to play and prey on you.

You guessed right- IT'S A MAN'S WORLD.


Cry us a river!

You baaaaaad gan o. You really gave it to her in multiples folds.

banmee:
You and Toks2008 should hook up. You both think alike.

No be only hook up,nah hook down lol!

The OP is fine tho.

NemzySeries:
hehehehehehehe......we fit b Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.....i'll ask ma parents as soon as d're bk....aw ur side bro?

O boi, my side as e dey jare, work things done with, na to rest and enjoy the weekend remain..... u be lag guy too

Rubbish

MrCork:
..THA PHUCK YOU TALKIN ABOUT.......Falconey over me?...that ugly mofolick orangotang loookin monkey ape chingpanzi?.....well i can now confirm Angelberry is oficially desperate!! (REAL TALK)

he is handsome

Angelberry:
What?

..darling anyways..since you ask...did I mention I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot....you don't be lieve me..ask kashyBaby!

MrCork:
..darling anyways..since you ask...did I mention I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot....you don't be lieve me..ask kashy.Baby!

I'll rather trek with felconey than step into your range rover spot

ineedajobfast:
10 bottles of origin for u, miss. abi na Smirnoff u dey take?

Angels don't take alcohol, I'll take bottled water

Angelberry:
I'll rather trek with felconey than step into your range rover spot

Angelberry <<<<<< Lesssssssbian!!

ineedajobfast:
10 bottles of origin for u, miss. abi na Smirnoff u dey take?

...son...you Barrrrra bakkkkkkof from me Angelberry...you this mechanic loookin Somali!! (No ofeensense)

MrCork:
Angelberry <<<<<< Lesssssssbian!!

MrCork bisexual

MrCork:
...son...you Barrrrra bakkkkkkof from me Angelberry...you this mechanic loookin Somali!! (No ofeensense)

MrCorrrrrk!!!!!!!!!why are you telling him to back off