monex:
The primary responsibility for her upkeep falls on her parents. That i get a nice gift for her on her birthday (and/or on other days) doesn't mean I provide for her. I do same for my friends.

The important thing to note is that I have NO FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY to someone I am DATING.

MARRIAGE is a different ball game where All I OWN BELONGS to US.

so if your girl friend for instance is in dear need of 500 or 1,000 u won't give ?? no one said u should pay her school fees or give her millions.

Rexhenrex:
mehn you get sense that's what they don't understand they didn't read it well prolly..

it's like guys have suffered so much from girls that they have contracted golddiggingphobia, lol.

Even to buy tooth pick sef is considered gold digging. Lmao!

repogirl:
okay, I was actually playing when I wrote that but then again the original poster didn't imply that you should spend all you have on your girlfriend.

He was simply advicing that you can do a few things for a girl you claim to love.

Guys just jump into calling girls gold-diggers and all when asked to just do nice things for a girl he likes.

Granted there are gold-diggers out there who take it to the extreme but doing something nice for your girlfriend once in a while, is that so much to ask?

u funny aswear...lol. d question u asked in ya last paragraph is opposite of wat d topic says. Read d topic again.
As if keeping a gal friend is now a crime or spending on dem is a must do and if nt, y kp one?
A lady pinged and asked my sincere opinion abt dz ish... I said, It ain't an obligation to spend on a gal friend except we're getting married dz Sunday. Mind u, wen u spend on a gal, there is another or bigger spender outthr. Wen we kw girls r insatiable.

Dunno ya name shaa, buh b4 I spend on a gal...wud hv kwn d'typa gal. A gal who can convert resources to wealth b4 making u my wife o. ofcus we hv dem buh rare. nt all dz tit brains gold diggers spewing thrash here.
so my question, do u hv any resources converter as a sister or friend? see my signature and let her ping.
Happy Sunday.

repogirl:
[size=16pt]Tell all those stingy koko small boys, hoarding dia money as if dey will die and go to hell with it! CHEAPSKATES! [/size]

tell all those hoarding dia kittykat too.as if they will die and go and get it serviced in the grave

Josephamstrong1:


u funny aswear...lol. d question u asked in ya last paragraph is opposite of wat d topic says. Read d topic again.
As if keeping a gal friend is now a crime or spending on dem is a must do and if nt, y kp one?
A lady pinged and asked my sincere opinion abt dz ish... I said, It ain't an obligation to spend on a gal friend except we're getting married dz Sunday. Mind u, wen u spend on a gal, there is another or bigger spender outthr. Wen we kw girls r insatiable.

Dunno ya name shaa, buh b4 I spend on a gal...wud hv kwn d'typa gal. A gal who can convert resources to wealth b4 making u my wife o. ofcus we hv dem buh rare. nt all dz tit brains gold diggers spewing thrash here.
so my question, do u hv any resources converter as a sister or friend? see my signature and let her ping.
Happy Sunday.

well....whatever works for you,I guess.

Happy Sunday to you too.

And the chick pinged you for your six packs not your opinion.

Meeky:
tell all those hoarding dia kittykat too.as if they will die and go and get it serviced in the grave

lmao! I will forward your message to them.

MrsPhyno:
I hate it when men complain about womens' various demands on them. Then quit the relationship, even quit life, jump off a bridge if that's what you want.

No one forced you to date her, if she makes demands you cannot or do not wish to fulfill, you know what to do. So stop whining and just do something for pete's sake.

I bet u whr born year 2000.
All tnkz to android phones and Social platforms like dz. If nt, U shud b long forgotten in Zoo gardens.

repogirl:
well....whatever works for you,I guess.
Happy Sunday to you too.
And the chick pinged you for your six packs not your opinion.

lol...u didn't see my question I guess.

Josephamstrong1:


lol...u didn't see my question I guess.

I did, guess I don't know anyone with your requirements.

repogirl:
so that's what you think about women @ bolded. Interesting.

That it is a man's duty to provide is now a lie abi?

Ofcourse in marriage, a wife should support but please don't forget who likes to claim to be the HEAD of the family.

How can you be the HEAD when you are not in control...which kind HEAD be that?

oooom, see eeh even in marriage. Shud b 50:50 tnz. Y do claim equality Btw? wen u can't own up to a crown. we r d head, u're d neck. Dat's y we hv high divorce and infidelity rate in Nigeria. If we want to embrace westernization, y take some and leave some. u sef shud even contribute more sef if u nid dat respect... lol.
plz @d'bolded, was only referring to d lady talkin' abt DATING. I don't juz get it. Does quoting sm1 implies any intention of dating? we ain't interested, she'll stl b dated.
Girls shud start to rsn life from 30 or whr they shud b 10yrs frm now. Shakara go soon end naa.

Josephamstrong1:


oooom, see eeh even in marriage. Shud b 50:50 tnz. Y do claim equality Btw? wen u can't own up to a crown. we r d head, u're d neck. Dat's y we hv high divorce and infidelity rate in Nigeria. If we want to embrace westernization, y take some and leave some. u sef shud even contribute more sef if u nid dat respect... lol.
plz @d'bolded, was only referring to d lady talkin' abt DATING. I don't juz get it. Does quoting sm1 implies any intention of dating? we ain't interested, she'll stl b dated.
Girls shud start to rsn life from 30 or whr they shud b 10yrs frm now. Shakara go soon end naa.

okay o, I have rested my case.

Whatever works for you is fine.

Rexhenrex:
and u can't make your point without insulting her I guess?

Ogbeni, hwfa naa?
I for say make u dey ya lane, buh they ain't worth d hassle.
U don't come to a market place to raise dust. u kw wat it is...guess she did.
Tnk abt dat.
#peace

Rexhenrex:
well said some guys brag amongst there peers how there g.f has never ate there money its actually a thing of shame even if she turns down the opportunity just surprise her that's how to win a woman's heart its not by the expensive stuffs but by the little things you give her with a happy heart indeed not all girls but a large percentage just want a guy to do little things that matters like buying her rose e.t.c

Suigeneris93:
Three ways a man shows he loves a woman: he provides, protects and professes- Steve Harvey


The bolded says it all


*modified*
I won't dignify your quoting me with a response especially if you don't have anything meaningful to say. I'm not dating you and I most likely never will, so save your breath or in this case your epistle

Hello dear, Steve Harvey was talking about a wife not a girlfriend or just a FWB.

Josephamstrong1:


U ladies alwz wana hear manipulatv lies. Anyway, we tell u wat u wana hear and hv our way. O'p u gv him d e-hug for faking perfection?
better get a life and stop depending on a guy for ya needs in relationship wen u ain't married yet. if he doesn't gv, show him how to gv. little from u either won't hurt. It's vis-a-vis.
Shudn't hv quoted u, buh ya beauty nids ya grey matters d most. Tot u shud kw better wt ya low cut.
#peace

Depending on a guy how??, coz i said giving gifts no matter how little it is could go a long way. Boy you go get a life , i know ur type already, just try not to quote me anymore coz i wont be giving you a reply.

Leriebloom:

Depending on a guy how??, coz i said giving gifts no matter how little it is could go a long way. Boy you go get a life , i know ur type already, just try not to quote me anymore coz i wont be giving you a reply.

Kw my type? U're far from home swthrt.
Ain't quoting u so quote back.
Like i said earlier, Ur beautiful Dp got me attracted.
Buh u've proven dat "u beauty wt tit brain".

Josephamstrong1:


I bet u whr born year 2000.
All tnkz to android phones and Social platforms like dz. If nt, U shud b long forgotten in Zoo gardens.

Lol. What's all this for? Wetin consine android phones with the fact that nagging about your girlfriend nagging you is pitiful and irritating?

SycophanticGoat:



All you've listed are all welcomed by me. Tho will not ask a woman for financial support because I believe it's the man's duty to support his fam financially.. Although I would love to have a woman that will always be willing to contribute at certain times without me urging her to. Btw, if you will give your man all the listed, then you deserve nothing but the best from me. Your kind is rare..

There are some occasions that arise unexpectedly and the lady has to help out too even if na borrow. Thanks

SycophanticGoat:



All you've listed are all welcomed by me. Tho will not ask a woman for financial support because I believe it's the man's duty to support his fam financially.. Although I would love to have a woman that will always be willing to contribute at certain times without me urging her to. Btw, if you will give your man all the listed, then you deserve nothing but the best from me. Your kind is rare..

There are some occasions that arise unexpectedly and the lady has to help out too even if na borrow. I don't think that's supposed to be a big issue, any lady who's worth her salt can help her man out during those times. Thanks

firstking01:
me, i dnt have a problem spending on her, but let her be contented with the lil i give her and be loyal, point and blank

Change the caliber of girls you meet

jaga bam!!!!!!

Suigeneris93:



There are some occasions that arise unexpectedly and the lady has to help out too even if na borrow. I don't think that's supposed to be a big issue, any lady who's worth her salt can help her man out during those times. Thanks

Hope your Sunday is going well?

SycophanticGoat:



Hope your Sunday is going well?

Yea it is, urs?

Suigeneris93:




Yea it is, urs?

Fine.. Hope you ministered today?

mommysgirl:

Change the caliber of girls you meet

like you are exempted:-/, abegi shift go wanside

Rexhenrex:
just came across this on f.b this morning whats your take?? I don't care what name anyone might wanna call me but I strongly support the notion of this quote below .

if you indeed love someone at least you spending on them shouldn't be a problem no matter how small.some men even find it difficult spending on there wife's or fiance some guys its a taboo to give their girl friens money or buy her a gift truth has to be told.

bros abeg chop kiss(French kiss ooo)lol. he will always be like babe I love this ur cloth I love this I love that buh to bring out small money to support the ministry he wouldn't.pls God save ur pple

firstking01:
like you are exempted:-/, abegi shift go wanside

Open your eyes
If I refuse to shift,
Bring your police

mommysgirl:
Open your eyes If I refuse to shift, Bring your police

ngwanu stay there ma con catch you first

firstking01:
ngwanu stay there ma con catch you first

mommysgirl:

catches her, humm, she looks pretty after all

SycophanticGoat:



Fine.. Hope you ministered today?

Lol, in what?

Suigeneris93:



Lol, in what?

In the church na! Abi na for man room dem dey minster before?