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Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]
Nonsense!!

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

pinceprinz:
But sex is good to share. Isn't it?

KingCheezyPuff:
No. Its for those not wanting it or not wanting it too soon.
Virgins first or secondary
Celibates
Folk in new relationships etc.

MrCork:
...can you change your name back to QueenValerie....I keep thinkin am talking to a guy..I ain't no fagggggggot

That's easily fixed......change ya mindset bye

KingCheezyPuff:
That's easily fixed......change ya mindset bye

MrCork:
...thanks boo..anyways .we need to discuss that question I asked you later..which you preffffa wearin:... pant, tong or G string!

Ewww Goodbye Cork!

KingCheezyPuff:
Mmm hmm,but some don't want to whatever their reasons.
This is for them.

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

Lezzlie:
[sub][/sub]

Nice advice for unblemished virgins whose bodies havn't be burnt by the fires of sex!!!

For every man and woman who have come alive in a sexual relationship that made them see life in 4D,
you know it's only divine intervention that will stop you from having the next fück.

Let's just advice for condoms, abstention has never really worked!!!

I think you mean YOU can't.... even then I say ya can

KingCheezyPuff:
I think you mean YOU can't.... even then I say ya can

Lezzlie:
Sex is a multi-billion dollar business and the whole world is buying!!!

If you want to narrow it down to me, that's being narrow-minded.

I think the early HIV campaign groups tried the prudish no-sex gospel until they were forced to retreat to the safer grounds of prophylactics.


Looking reality in the eye helps us confront our fears better.

KingCheezyPuff:
Nah,just shows folk are bull headed an goat stubborn.
When warned,some don't listen.
Yer free ta do as you wish Le.zz, this is for those who care for it.Goodbye.

Audray:
Oh i got one.Make garlic ur BEST FRIEND! Put it in ur omelette, chew some as a snack, its delicious in noodles too! Grind some and add little spice to ur coffee.wanna smell unique?....use a spritz...or four of pure garlic oil everyday, toss the bleach aside!garlic water works wonders for ur clothes!.Trust me, once garlic is ur Bff, Sex is the last thing on anyone's mind(I know this for a fact!). Hmmm. Garlic... Nature's best multipurpose bet for a long lasting abstinence.

good stuff

KingCheezyPuff:
good stuff

Audray:
yeah.garlic is the worst.its such a turn off for me that i thought it deserved an Ad commentary. I hope you dont mind my asking, but do you follow your "how to avoid sex" rules/commandments?

KingCheezyPuff:
I pick the ones I like an can handle,yes.

Medunah:
How to avoid sex:


1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

Audray:
you pick the ones you can handle. Sooooooo are you saying u are an abstainer?!!!

KingCheezyPuff:
Virgin,so yes.

Audray:
really.? Dear kingcheezypuff aka valerie?(i really like ur name). Cos if thats really u in that profile pic...phew! But come again.yo said you can only handle some. Why some? Why not all of em?

I like when men cook fer me,that would require us ta be at his house
An I thinking cooking tagther is a great date idea.
So if you can handle being alone in someones home, do so.
That is if he/she can handle that too

KingCheezyPuff:
I like when men cook fer me,that would require us ta be at his house
An I thinking cooking tagther is a great date idea.
So if you can handle being alone in someones home, do so.
That is if he/she can handle that too

Audray:
hmm. So you have to be at HIS house in order for him to cook for you? Lol that's not fair o. Cooking together is great! I should know that, at least with girls.. . But you know African men and their mentality.

Is to fair

KingCheezyPuff:
How to avoid sex.


Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
.