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cassieblake:
I think 2yrs is a long time to leave your fiancee.

Some of the guys here will tell you to break up with her but you need to consider her and the time spent in the relationship.

Best solution:marry her and take her along with you.

he can't take her along with him because the training is just for him alone and other colleagues selected..he should just do the normal marriage proper, starting with the trad then he can travel.

Pls op...tell ur HR dat u can connect with sum1 dat can go...den hand over the letter to me....pls stay and wash ya fiancee pata pls




Furking hediot


Which stvpid fiancee?

Kai...yaro ne dan iska

schumastic:
he can't take her along with him because the training is just for him alone and other colleagues selected..he should just do the normal marriage proper, starting with the trad then he can travel.

I understand now.Thanks.

Cutehector:
it still doesn't change anything.. he can't rush d wedding preparations in less than a month! Think. And it's also not healthy for him to leave her and travel in a newly wedded marriage.


So that wedding thing is just a means to also tie him down.. u ladies should try and be supportive of ur man's career biko. I knw if if were in his shoes, u would hav zoomed off., and be saying he doesn't support ur career.


Pls let's be frank

He shld follow his mind but if I was the fiancee I will not agree.
Haba 2yrs no be beans o.


I was banned

cassieblake:
I understand now.Thanks.

you welcome

cassieblake:
He shld follow his mind but if I was the fiancee I will not agree.
Haba 2yrs no be beans o.


I was banned

lol thank God I Ddnt ask u out






So why did u pretend u didn't knw who is was refering to eh?

Cutehector:
lol thank God I Ddnt ask u out






So why did u pretend u didn't knw who is was refering to eh?

You are not serious


Just joking

cassieblake:
You are not serious


Just joking

u dis fyn geh, eh, wat did u do this tym, I neva knew u to be a trouble maker. Wat's ur crime?

Cutehector:
u dis fyn geh, eh, wat did u do this tym, I neva knew u to be a trouble maker. Wat's ur crime?

Nothing o.
I only corrected one dude asslicking that Indian guy.The guy called one of the mod and he gave me 7days banned.

Check my siggy for the mod name

cassieblake:
Nothing o.
I only corrected one dude asslicking that Indian guy.The guy called one of the mod and he gave me 7days banned.

Check my siggy for the mod name

lol u should quit politics section sweetie

Guy Abeg Your Future First.

since shes is ur fiance,engage her in a small introduction then once a while u can invite her over to swizerland on few days visit till u ar through with your program.

she needs to feels secured and be assured of the relationship.i wunt blame her becos shes worried u wil change once u leave.
babes are not smiling and you never can tell who grabs you the next minute irrespective of your status.

i am sure she wil be willing to wait for u once you engage her. but if u dont intend to make her your wife or u stil feel indecisive about the relationship then u can go on wit your program and stay focused. que sera sera




congrats and all the best.

cassieblake:
what kind of prayer is this?

a young man is trying to advance in life and is girlfriend is boldly telling him she would call of the relationship if he does, he is going to feed her and the kids when they finally arrive by mere sentiments. if u are to be the one ,will u do the same

Dude, if she can't wait for two years...its alright end the sh!t up. You might even find a pretty white girl with good attitude in Switzerland.

Your fiancee is telling you not to go like if she is the one that got the offer...she will dump you and go

She should be happy for you sef. Insecure selfish fiancee.

schumastic:
he can't take her along with him because the training is just for him alone and other colleagues selected..he should just do the normal marriage proper, starting with the trad then he can travel.

You are kind of right but what happens when konji strikes the newly married wife?? She is human you know. I asked because I know married women whose husbands ain't close flirts a lot.

airmirthd1:
So the best solution is to bring our matter come NL....... Op, you're so in soup

u are funny

It's a matter of priorities, your girl or your job. If it were me I'll choose the job. Girls are easier to find than jobs these days.

igwegeorgiano:
u are funny

Let's wait and see.... You'll know it's not funny

airmirthd1:
Let's wait and see.... You'll know it's not funny

am waiting

iyke926:
You are kind of right but what happens when konji strikes the newly married wife?? She is human you know. I asked because I know married women whose husbands ain't close flirts a lot.

i agree with you and the plain truth is this, if the op should leave without the marriage proper, sorry to say but the relationship is going to be a joke cus 2years without seeing each other physically is not advisable..one or both of them will certainly be deceiving each other.

Ignorance.

In this age of technological advancement. Where even WhatsApp can make video calls..

The relationship can burn to blazes..... just hear talk.

schumastic:
i agree with you and the plain truth is this, if the op should leave without the marriage proper, sorry to say but the relationship is going to be a joke cus 2years without seeing each other physically is not advisable..one or both of them will certainly be deceiving each other.

Exactly, it's going to be a joke. I don't fancy the idea of having a marriage then he zooms off. If he trusts her he can do it. But it's a no-no for me, bro. My mind won't be at rest.

LADIES!!!..........

Shey u still dey deir dey find advice?? Me I don dey fast break up!! Her fada!

realtalk19:
since shes is ur fiance,engage her in a small introduction then once a while u can invite her over to swizerland on few days visit till u ar through with your program.

she needs to feels secured and be assured of the relationship.i wunt blame her becos shes worried u wil change once u leave.
babes are not smiling and you never can tell who grabs you the next minute irrespective of your status.

i am sure she wil be willing to wait for u once you engage her. but if u dont intend to make her your wife or u stil feel indecisive about the relationship then u can go on wit your program and stay focused. que sera sera




congrats and all the best.

Yeah sincerely i proposed this very idea to her but she refused outright insisting i should decline the offer to prove my love for her which is practically imposible. everthing is set am i swear am good to go.

igwegeorgiano:
Yeah sincerely i proposed this very idea to her but she refused outright insisting i should decline the offer to prove my love for her which is practically imposible. everthing is set am i swear am good to go.

dats selfish of her to say u shuld reject d offer afterall its for the best. you can go ahead with your program nd stay focused.if she relly have your interest at heart she will wait for u but if not it means u av to move on.

be sure about your stand with her by having a discussion so that she wunt end up wasting your time. coz if you reject this golden offer i wunt b surprised if she wil be d first to drop ur sorry ass for a better guy.

plz apply wisdom nd pray harder. all the best

¤Spits on the ground¤...

if that spit dries up and u're still in 9ja...that letter can catch fire o...infact

bring one oyinbo 4 me 2 wen ya're comin

Op am sure you already know what to do. If you are convince she is your wife then i would advice you do a little introduction or a formal engagement. All she wants is to see your committment. Two years is too long a time to wait for sm1 that you are nt sure abt. Make her know you surely would come back and marry her.

Cutehector:
Omgosh, dat relationship will just die Allah.. Dat thing she is looking for, she will get it!


Who turns down a switzerland trainin offer? She dey madt? I go just break up

i swear she don mad self, she even they craze

realtalk19:
dats selfish of her to say u shuld reject d offer afterall its for the best. you can go ahead with your program nd stay focused.if she relly have your interest at heart she will wait for u but if not it means u av to move on.

be sure about your stand with her by having a discussion so that she wunt end up wasting your time. coz if you reject this golden offer i wunt b surprised if she wil be d first to drop ur sorry ass for a better guy.

plz apply wisdom nd pray harder. all the best

am doing that already the two families are involved now. as at lat night both families met to chart the way forward before my departure on 30th April. i do hope she will change her stance and be on the same page of wise reasoning with me. thanks bro, i really appreciate.

igwegeorgiano:
Most times it beats my imagination how some babes think they can dominate their relationship or have their way at any time they deemed fit. Again understanding is supposed to be the key word spiced with true and sincere love.

On the 1st of April this year, which coincidentally was my birthday, my HR summoned me to our Lagos head office. Please note that i work in Portharcourt with one of the big multinational oil firm.My flight was fixed and in less than 2hrs i was seated with my Hr boss. After few delay, my boss repeated the exact questions that i was asked they day i was interviewed for the job.

Fast forward; after the interview sessions he offered me a hanshake which i accepted. few minutes later he handed a letter to me and when i opened and read it contents, itwas a recommendationletter. i have been nominated to be one of those who will be travelling to switzerland for training which will last for two yrs.

That same day i called my fiancee and told her the good news lo and behold she was so repulsive about it she told me emphatically that i should decline the offer and when i inquired after her reasons she told me leaving her behind will mean that the relationship will die automatically.

I have tried to let her see reasons why i should go for this training but all pleas fell on deaf ears and honestly i love her so very much but with the recent development am just confused. am due to depart the shores of nigeria on the 30th of this month. fellow nairanladers pls advise what should i do am confused.

Tell her that when you settle in switzerland, you work her to visit you.

Its simple..