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Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by bluskyee: 9:06pm On Apr 15, 2016
I was not born or wired to become a cheat, same with other cheats roaming the earth. We all learned to cheat. Back in high school I was dumped by my babe for being too cool; she wanted someone with charisma, panache and dopeness written all over. I was dumped for a dancer (I can't help but smile while reminiscing) that dude can dance for Africa lol....I moved on got into school; was still a cool dude, shirts tucked all the time, shoes polished etc (freshman smiles again). I met a lady in my second year, the prettiest lady I have ever met she was from plateau she stood at 5' 11" pointed nose thin small lips, slit eyes and all that. We were so in love that we usually join our allowee together and spend like partners. When we came back from IT she told me she had met another guy and she would like to end the relationship. Obviously the guy was working then....My fantasy world ended. I am a cute guy no doubt so mingling wasn't much of a problem but I was always cool and could be easily mistaken for a jew man. I met another lady during my final year, she was lovely too I found her very interesting and gorgeous with an impressive height. During service, she met a working class guy and stylishly dumped me (she did it in a grand style). I almost cried, I moved on. After service I got a job the following year, then I understood the game!

Let me explain, Ladies often dump their university lovers for working-class guys. These guys end up marrying some, and those left out will continue to hope for another working-class guys. Some of the so called working class guys will end up marrying students and this will place the hopers in double jeopardy...Now the broke university guys you dumped are now working and it's time for them to start their game to enjoy what you taught them that is when one chicken legged babe will start screaming "real men don't cheat"...laffing in hispanic...

A lady at my work place once said "so many men are immature ", then I asked her how does a matured guy behave? She said "He is cool ,understanding, caring and able to listen to the words of a silent heart"....I told her so many ladies have dumped such men aeons ago.

For the records, the lady that dumped me in my final year was disappointed cos the guy dumped her. She came back I did what needed to be done banged life out of her, shared her with my friends (when we quarrelled), they also helped her ministry...Now the banging trend continues... I met some guys like myself and we all had similar stories to share....

I have continually enticed my former GF that left me after IT, she is married but I ain't giving up. she should thank her heavens that her husband is strong financially that is why she has successfully escaped all my snares. I am not giving up on her though. I will continue to exhaust all ideas and wait for that time when she slips...

Hey broke dude! Hustle hard keep cool it might just be next month and you land your dream job. Remember to fix all that needs to be fixed...REMEMBER....The ladies have had their time; When you get your dream job it's your time too to flex, flirt and cheat...don't get matured too soon...."Maturity is a term coined by ladies so as to give you this vague sense of being responsible"....If I can stay cool at my job(handle work pressures), take good care of my parents and siblings... then once rickety looking lady will wake up one miserable morning to define "Maturity" as being Faithful?...lool...

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by vickyO(f): 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2016
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along. Why not use that energy for a good cause instead of trying to break a home?

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by bluskyee: 9:31pm On Apr 15, 2016
vickyO:
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along. Why not use that energy for a good cause instead of trying to break a home?
Inferior? I have never dated an average chick... they were all classy. For the record; "Matured" guys back then we're often tagged inferior....no p...I guess now I am superior? lools...ladies very funny creatures

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by vickyO(f): 9:37pm On Apr 15, 2016
bluskyee:
Inferior? I have never dated an average chick... they were all classy. For the record; "Matured" guys back then we're often tagged inferior....no p...I guess now I am superior? lools...ladies very funny creatures

That's not the bone of contention; you dating classy or classless girls.

You were tagged inferior, yeah? But did you feel inferior?

You can be anything you want to be but your disposition can either be altered by other people's opinion or be strengthened by your own resolution.

Yeah, ladies could be really funny, men likewise.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by MzPecs(f): 9:44pm On Apr 15, 2016
OP, you need Jesus! cool

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by horladmejy(m): 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2016
hmmm.....I see...anyway Op repent..cos it can be applicable to ladies too

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by bluskyee: 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2016
vickyO:


That's not the bone of contention; you dating classy or classless girls.

You were tagged inferior, yeah? But did you feel inferior?

You can be anything you want to be but your disposition can either be altered by other people's opinion or be strengthened by your own resolution.

Yeah, ladies could be really funny, men likewise.
Well I have never conceived inferiority let alone felt inferior. I was privileged from day one I thank God for that...I was never tagged inferior, you just did. "I could be mistaken for a jew man" that was what I wrote up there cos I always kept my cool...anyway ur assumption is false. merci. Goodbye

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 15, 2016
You are not revenging bro because you gain nothing from sleeping with different women grin

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by JoeCutie(m): 10:00pm On Apr 15, 2016
MzPecs:
OP, you need Jesus! cool
Black Jesus! angry
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by vickyO(f): 10:06pm On Apr 15, 2016
bluskyee:
I was never tagged inferior, you just did.

What I said:

vickyO:
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along.

What you said:

bluskyee:
For the record; "Matured" guys back then we're often tagged inferior....no p...I guess now I am superior?

So I didn't deem you inferior, I only thought you felt inferior to other uncool guys.

bluskyee:
merci.

Je vous en prie.

bluskyee:
Goodbye

Goodbye.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by feldido(m): 10:11pm On Apr 15, 2016
OP, just wait For ur bashing grin

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by pennytration(m): 10:19pm On Apr 15, 2016
Op but wots ur point

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by bluskyee: 10:21pm On Apr 15, 2016
SillyeRabbit:
You are not revenging bro because you gain nothing from sleeping with different women grin
That is one lie you will continue to tell yourself until you become Aaron. Dude different women gives you different pleasure and different sensation. Women have different sexual skills and the more you explore the more you enjoy. Staring at lady X gives you a different sensation when you Stare at lady Y. Some are more experienced than others. Some touch better than others. Even the texture, size shape and colour of their sensitive parts such as breast, thigh et al are different from one lady to another these differences creates different sensations. Stop living in the shadows; go do some random sampling. I am not on a revenge mission, I am just catching fun

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by ItzTun3chi(m): 10:26pm On Apr 15, 2016
MzPecs:
OP, you need Jesus! cool
holier than thou angry
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by MilesLamar(m): 10:44pm On Apr 15, 2016
Nigga just dey praise himself.. Smh

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Ucheosefoh(m): 11:36pm On Apr 15, 2016
Bro go on and catch fun but remember to protect yourself always.
This girls don deal with broke guys finish
At times I wonder if a poor guy have no right to love and be loved
A bitch to a rich guy will be a jewellery to a poor guy yet will be treating the poor guy like trash
I notice such trend is mainly on girls from poor homes looking for helpers in the name of relationships.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by sofadj(m): 12:52am On Apr 16, 2016
Really, you are that petty?

You're going to allow these ladies whom you tagged "rickety looking" and 'chicken legged" to influence how you live your life henceforth?

If their actions is powerful enough to influence your behaviour henceforth then you're probably just "immature" as they said.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Blackfire(m): 4:54am On Apr 16, 2016
In your flexing galore, may u not bang your destined wife to be ,and dump her in your flexing galore, thinking u are flexing flexing..

*take if from the baddest-god forsaken-angel trying to repent*

am i advising u, no ! I am blackfire.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by onstelly(f): 5:30am On Apr 16, 2016
Someone will just wake up and wrote nonsense
Fling my weaves and walk away
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by ebamma(m): 5:59am On Apr 16, 2016
onstelly:
Someone will just wake up and wrote nonsense
Fling my weaves and walk away
aunty no waka yet,
abeg come explain this English were you write, for us were never go school

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by covbrand(f): 6:16am On Apr 16, 2016
I wouldn't say I understand how you feel, but I do know what it is like to be hurt emotionally because you don't meet certain "exciting" criteria that excite women. but based on your story most of this ladies you dated where students and naturally were in the phase of thier lives where anything exciting would have appealed to them.

Secondly, the time line of a woman and a man isn't the same thing, most of this ladies probably felt you wouldn't be ready in time to wife them which led to the decisions they made.

don't make permanent life decisions based on something that is the normal metamorphosis of life.

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by dinachi(m): 6:40am On Apr 16, 2016
bluskyee:
I was not born or wired to become a cheat, same with other cheats roaming the earth. We all learned to cheat. Back in high school I was dumped by my babe for being too cool; she wanted someone with charisma, panache and dopeness written all over. I was dumped for a dancer (I can't help but smile while reminiscing) that dude can dance for Africa lol....I moved on got into school; was still a cool dude, shirts tucked all the time, shoes polished etc (freshman smiles again). I met a lady in my second year, the prettiest lady I have ever met she was from plateau she stood at 5' 11" pointed nose thin small lips, slit eyes and all that. We were so in love that we usually join our allowee together and spend like partners. When we came back from IT she told me she had met another guy and she would like to end the relationship. Obviously the guy was working then....My fantasy world ended. I am a cute guy no doubt so mingling wasn't much of a problem but I was always cool and could be easily mistaken for a jew man. I met another lady during my final year, she was lovely too I found her very interesting and gorgeous with an impressive height. During service, she met a working class guy and stylishly dumped me (she did it in a grand style). I almost cried, I moved on. After service I got a job the following year, then I understood the game!

Let me explain, Ladies often dump their university lovers for working-class guys. These guys end up marrying some, and those left out will continue to hope for another working-class guys. Some of the so called working class guys will end up marrying students and this will place the hopers in double jeopardy...Now the broke university guys you dumped are now working and it's time for them to start their game to enjoy what you taught them that is when one chicken legged babe will start screaming "real men don't cheat"...laffing in hispanic...

A lady at my work place once said "so many men are immature ", then I asked her how does a matured guy behave? She said "He is cool ,understanding, caring and able to listen to the words of a silent heart"....I told her so many ladies have dumped such men aeons ago.

For the records, the lady that dumped me in my final year was disappointed cos the guy dumped her. She came back I did what needed to be done banged life out of her, shared her with my friends (when we quarrelled), they also helped her ministry...Now the banging trend continues... I met some guys like myself and we all had similar stories to share....

I have continually enticed my former GF that left me after IT, she is married but I ain't giving up. she should thank her heavens that her husband is strong financially that is why she has successfully escaped all my snares. I am not giving up on her though. I will continue to exhaust all ideas and wait for that time when she slips...

Hey broke dude! Hustle hard keep cool it might just be next month and you land your dream job. Remember to fix all that needs to be fixed...REMEMBER....The ladies have had their time; When you get your dream job it's your time too to flex, flirt and cheat...don't get matured too soon...."Maturity is a term coined by ladies so as to give you this vague sense of being responsible"....If I can stay cool at my job(handle work pressures), take good care of my parents and siblings... then once rickety looking lady will wake up one miserable morning to define "Maturity" as being Faithful?...lool...



Funny but true. Most ladies are hypocrites.
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by MzPecs(f): 6:43am On Apr 16, 2016
JoeCutie:
Black Jesus! angry
He needs Jesus Christ sad
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by MzPecs(f): 6:44am On Apr 16, 2016
ItzTun3chi:

holier than thou angry

Whatever.. cool
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Nobody: 6:50am On Apr 16, 2016
bluskyee:
That is one lie you will continue to tell yourself until you become Aaron. Dude different women gives you different pleasure and different sensation. Women have different sexual skills and the more you explore the more you enjoy. Staring at lady X gives you a different sensation when you Stare at lady Y. Some are more experienced than others. Some touch better than others. Even the texture, size shape and colour of their sensitive parts such as breast, thigh et al are different from one lady to another these differences creates different sensations. Stop living in the shadows; go do some random sampling. I am not on a revenge mission, I am just catching fun
Continue (in patience's voice). Till you catch hiv too, or dash out ur destiny to one karashika all in the name of fun
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by JoeCutie(m): 6:51am On Apr 16, 2016
MzPecs:

He needs Jesus Christ sad
Of course. smiley

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Nobody: 6:55am On Apr 16, 2016
onstelly:
Someone will just wake up and wrote nonsense
Fling my weaves and walk away
Have you heard of Concord? These ur verbs dey quarrel no be small.
How can you WAKE and WROTE?

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Nobody: 6:56am On Apr 16, 2016
ebamma:
aunty no waka yet,
abeg come explain this English were you write, for us were never go school
Shots fired
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Nobody: 7:02am On Apr 16, 2016
Hmmm
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by kullozone(m): 7:26am On Apr 16, 2016
ma niggur! we play in the same club..
Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by onstelly(f): 7:31am On Apr 16, 2016
kokaneprodigy:

Have you heard of Concord? These ur verbs dey quarrel no be small.
How can you WAKE and WROTE?
Mr teacher have you ever heard of the word mistake
I guess I will employ you as my English teacher
Check the time I post that was just waking up from sleep

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Re: Why We Cheat; My Personal Experience by Slapsticker: 7:35am On Apr 16, 2016
Babies everywhere!

Back then in school when ever girls try loving up I also told them to go find a working class dude. why? I figured that a girl is averagely four years ahead of her male colleague.

I never had anything serious to do with them, and I always made them realise that fact. some folks ain't just realistic sometimes. they live in some fantasy world.

so OP expected the girl that got married to the working class guy to have stuck with his hustling ass. If she were your sister, what would you have advised?

my point; don't take it to heart when a lady leaves you, most of them want a secured financial future.

And maybe, you prolly dated bimbos that had nothing except a charming body.

I tell my friends, if you wanna do students, do the enterprising and ambitious ones. not just cute bimbos.

I have never had a heart break. prolly cos I have never expected much. maybe in some 8yrs I can start becoming expectant.

OP can claim to have fun all he likes, he is just battling with a crushed ego. doing every shade of girl isn't fun. it's being sick. and trying to lure a married woman shows how madly wounded he is.

Start a counseling session with a psychologist bro.

Babies everywhere.

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