demiladegold:

i meant island tho

It's alright, I got your point.

vizkiz:
these are not mistakes, these are actually what women 9ja girls wants a guy to do to get her attention.

Well i don't buy the idea of beating women though but some girls need one or two slaps to reset their factory settings. I.E Estharfabian

You will never learn

cherry007:
Women this, women that, make una leave us alone! U as a man u no wot u want and wot you are capable of doing for your babe. Play your part and leave the rest for God anything that happens is a lesson to move ahead. Simple

im actually a lady

demiladegold:
being too much of a nice guy

women dont base their choices of men on how nice they are. they choose guys because they feel a very powerful attraction for them. and being nice doesnt make a lady feel that kind of attraction. it probably doesnt make a lot of logical sense but its true.

trying to convince her to like you

what do most guys do when they meet a girl they like and she doesnt feel the same way?
they try to convince her to feel differently. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN FEELS BY BEING PERSISTENT IN TRYING TO CONVINCE HER. you probably would just end up irritating and annoying her.

trying to buy her attention with food and money

how many times have you bought things for a lady and she rejects you for someone not nearly as nice as you?
probably a lot of times.
most women see this as a sign of unnecessary compensation for insecurity and weak attempts at manipulation.

thinking that all it takes is money and looks

this is a mistake almost all guys make. most women are interested in far more than a man's looks and his wallet.
there are certain personality traits that are magnets to women and if you just know how to use them, you can win any girl's heart. confidence goes a long way in winning a woman.

giving all your power to a woman

some men make the mistake of trying to get a girl to like them by doing everything she wants or tells them to do all in the name of being caring and romantic.
WRONG!
WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKLINGS. a woman wants a guy that knows what he's doing and can control her even a little.

[color=#006600]beating up a woman to gain her respect[/color]

some men make the mistake of thinking by beating up their woman they are exerting a kind of control and are going to be respected more by the woman.
this mentality is wrong. a woman tends to lose respect for a man that beats her and as time goes on she slowly starts loosing feelings and finally leaves the man....





those are my own opinions... i stand to be corrected.

Something tells me you are not married.

OP, your assumptions are off point. What rocks Lady A may be a very nice bobo. But what rocks lady B can be the hard bobo. It all depends on what is your #GidiBlues.

Experience oligbese has spoken,how many women esp naija ve u encountered? Women r dynamic in nature they move along wit what is trending. D style wen ur papa use for ur mum dat tym if e tryam now e go wound. U don too read books on relationships,get reality

[quote author=demiladegold

It doesn't matter!! Another man food is another man poison. Beside I didn't mention any name

I nor suprise for comment,c ur name stupedinluv

David4best:
OP is 100% correct due to my past experiences with girls. I have become very difficult and hard with girls now. I don't value them again. I have stopped disappleasing myself in other to please them. I learnt to become a bad guy to women even after marriage. There are some lessons u will never learn from book or person except life teaches u

welcome to our world

Orikinla:
OP, your assumptions are off point. What rocks Lady A may be a very nice bobo. But what rocks lady B can be the hard bobo. It all depends on what is your #GidiBlues.

these are no assumptions
they are facts. ladies are sisters under same cloak of flesh ....

go figure

cassidy1996:
jus get rich and every other thing will follow....

There are still Girlfriends/Wives of Very wealthy men who disrespects them and cheats on them.

hmmm

cherry007:
[quote author=demiladegold

It doesn't matter!! Another man food is another man poison. Beside I didn't mention any name

Alright

I stand to be corrected

podoski1981:
Experience oligbese has spoken,how many women esp naija ve u encountered? Women r dynamic in nature they move along wit what is trending. D style wen ur papa use for ur mum dat tym if e tryam now e go wound. U don too read books on relationships,get reality

imagine

All this depend on individual... Girls in calabar are so hungry that car, food, money is all they want,,,confident ni!!!!!!

vizkiz:
these are not mistakes, these are actually what women 9ja girls wants a guy to do to get her attention.

Well i don't buy the idea of beating women though but some girls need one or two slaps to reset their factory settings. I.E Estharfabian

vizkiz:
these are not mistakes, these are actually what women 9ja girls wants a guy to do to get her attention.

Well i don't buy the idea of beating women though but some girls need one or two slaps to reset their factory settings. I.E Estharfabian

Lazy op

Simple and factual

it's a lie.,let me a larger chunk of dough,believe u me,I will make any lady crave for me,rest of his life.,I will spoil her,do lots of magic on her.,she will definitely bow for me,with my dough,I can tune ladies on..,but I will not discard them.,I will treat them well.

Wo cares....well people wo luv u 4 wo u ar hmm

Ezedon:
I'm still waiting for the time they said that 7 women will come and be asking me to marry them with their own money, just waiting patiently

vizkiz:
these are not mistakes, these are actually what women 9ja girls wants a guy to do to get her attention.

Well i don't buy the idea of beating women though but some girls need one or two slaps to reset their factory settings. I.E Estharfabian

Sir/ma, you don't support beating woman but you ok with one of two slap..you contradicting yourself.what's the definition of beat and slap..both is hitting which cause bodily harm whether its first degree or second degree injury, injury na injury..so either u support both or u dont support any..sha I don't support hitting a woman

Ice

Ghost447:
Being too nice to women is a big crime, they're like devil, when you give them a step, they take 10. When you cook for them today out of love, tomorrow they will command you to cook for them. Women are just necessary evil in the lives of men.

Well I totally agree with you.. but some pple ve this inborn to be Nice. It's just who dey are.

EroticAngelina:
women blah blah blah, men blah blah blah
I'm seriously tired of these dry topics.

next!!!!

God go bless you o
u do dz..complain
u do dat..complain
haba!!

demiladegold:
being too much of a nice guy

women dont base their choices of men on how nice they are. they choose guys because they feel a very powerful attraction for them. and being nice doesnt make a lady feel that kind of attraction. it probably doesnt make a lot of logical sense but its true.

trying to convince her to like you

what do most guys do when they meet a girl they like and she doesnt feel the same way?
they try to convince her to feel differently. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN FEELS BY BEING PERSISTENT IN TRYING TO CONVINCE HER. you probably would just end up irritating and annoying her.

trying to buy her attention with food and money

how many times have you bought things for a lady and she rejects you for someone not nearly as nice as you?
probably a lot of times.
most women see this as a sign of unnecessary compensation for insecurity and weak attempts at manipulation.

thinking that all it takes is money and looks

this is a mistake almost all guys make. most women are interested in far more than a man's looks and his wallet.
there are certain personality traits that are magnets to women and if you just know how to use them, you can win any girl's heart. confidence goes a long way in winning a woman.

giving all your power to a woman

some men make the mistake of trying to get a girl to like them by doing everything she wants or tells them to do all in the name of being caring and romantic.
WRONG!
WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKLINGS. a woman wants a guy that knows what he's doing and can control her even a little.

[color=#006600]beating up a woman to gain her respect[/color]

some men make the mistake of thinking by beating up their woman they are exerting a kind of control and are going to be respected more by the woman.
this mentality is wrong. a woman tends to lose respect for a man that beats her and as time goes on she slowly starts loosing feelings and finally leaves the man....





those are my own opinions... i stand to be corrected.

you damn right girl.....but all this listed above are off point cuz most guys are wiser in dealing with girls nowadays.

Come babes don turn suya wey person dey chop everyday for Nl abi? Every guy has a formula that he thinks works for him... Op F U C K D A T S H I T meenn

vizkiz:


woah! I never tagged you as the type who steps down during competitions... Why? Those girls are too hot for you right?

Estharfabian:

vizkiz:


woah! I never tagged you as the type who steps down during competitions... Why? Those girls are too hot for you right?

Bia two of u should just go and get laid and stop disturbing is here on nairaland with ur ish

[color=#006600][/color]OK na

Zceesneh:
welcome to our world

exactly bro

Ezedon:
I'm still waiting for the time they said that 7 women will come and be asking me to marry them with their own money, just waiting patiently

hahahahahahahaha..funny you. you will wait as long as we are waiting for the world to end one day. MR.DREAMER.SMH