ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

Y am I not surprised, What kinda topic would u expect from an Igbo gal.Mtcchewwwwww

See, that weeping galore, I will tell you that you are not alone one this, as I am weeping for you too. Go get a job.

Godsgal:
i wud av been disappointd if i didn't see a comment lyk dis. But thanks for not disappointing.
Its a pity & a shame as well when ladies unveil the bitter truth dat wil spur u guys 2 strive a lil' harder and be financialy fit so u'll be able to maintain that spark in ur r/ship & marital life, u misinterpret it & conclude she's a golddigger. I weep 4 guys like u.

YOU ARE RETARDED

ronald4lif:


What's love?

I think you're being idealistic but the writer of the exegesis is realistic. Everyone wants their friends to have a positive impression of their partner, male and female alike. Parading anything otherwise is self-deceit and misleading.

Well, except for anyone who lives in isolation and seclude themselves from friends. Once you've got friends, to positively impress them is indispensable. This I believe you know very much.

9ce 1

Nothing wrong with dating a 'broke' guy as long as he's ambitious and promising. . Together, both of you can help each other attain your goals..

However, he must have something doing, no matter how small, before thinking of marriage. ..

Yeah. To impress them is indispensable, so right now I am going to kee myself.

ronald4lif:


What's love?

I think you're being idealistic but the writer of the exegesis is realistic. Everyone wants their friends to have a positive impression of their partner, male and female alike. Parading anything otherwise is self-deceit and misleading.

Well, except for anyone who lives in isolation and seclude themselves from friends. Once you've got friends, to positively impress them is indispensable. This I believe you know very much.

.

olly4dc45:



Confirm

my nigga.. wida u bro! some gals want turn gold digging 2 career

No matter how you may pretend writing this bullshit you're not a modest woman. You're an irresponsible. I am not broke in anyway. Thank God you mentioned some super successful women. Can't you be rich and help or must it be from him all the way. You're only contribution in relationships is big booty, begging and talking. Nonsense.

Reeberry:
Can I be your second husband?

I no dey do polyandry, my boo is enough for me

vizkiz:
[b]A broke biitch forming high class because a brother isn't making $$$

but these hoes can't work and get established because they only know how to make money by depending on guys....

Ps: I didn't read the bullshiit story... [/b]

Why are you always sounding bitter? And you probably think you are being cool.

Make sense

ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

@OP; First things first; try not to look down on any man; be it a poor/rich man. A MAN IS A MAN WHETHER HE’S FROM A HUMBLE, AVERAGE OR RICH BACKGROUND. As you’re seeking for a rich man, I hope you’re rich as well (No offence hope none taken) as being rich is not meant for only men; ladies can be rich as well.

No doubt, we all have preference’ as to what we want in a partner; but laying so much emphasis on RICHES can be a dangerous game. Besides, you’re entitled to marry a rich man IF THAT’S WHAT YOU WANT AND WOULD MAKE YOU HAPPY. But let me tell you, a man who’s rich today can become poor tomorrow; likewise a man who’s poor today can become rich tomorrow. Always look at the potential for the future in a man when seeking for a mate and not riches. If he has the potentials to make it big tomorrow; I can’t see what stops you from using your influence to bring the not so well to do guy up financial.

Do you know how many ladies wants to marry a rich man? There are more ladies seeking rich men than there are rich men available. The sensible ladies, would look for a man with potentials even though he might not be currently rich and encourage him to push ahead to make it and become comfortable later on in life. You might say what if I marry a poor man and he remains poor? Well you’re not in a position to see the future; hence, you can’t answer that question correctly. If he has a job and can take good care of you and the kids you’ll have; then why not? It’s not as if the not so well to do guy wouldn’t want to improve his lot in life. I am pretty sure he would want to work hard and become comfortable. WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

There are lots of women who have toiled your part in marrying a rich guy; and they are miserable in their marriages as their husbands see them as not adding any value to their life’s financially; some are even termed as GOLD-DIGGERS. On the other hand, there are also women who have married rich men that are not facing that dilemma.

Finally, look for more important qualities that a man has aside money/riches before settling down with him to avoid stories that touch/hurt. NEVER EVER PUT HIS MONEY AND RICHES FIRST AND BLIND YOU IN HIS SHORT-COMINGS TO AVOID POTENTIAL PROBLEMS AFTER MARRIAGE.


I rest my case

Pheals:

GOD bless u. i no a lady who makes shoes bags etc with ankara. also organize trainings and this one is out there writing abt poor bf. like mother like daughter. dont mind the fool

Most of the guys who have an issue with this post are either broke, stingy or gold diggers. What the op said is very true to a lot of extent and it is not to bash broke guys. I have been there so I know, and yes, I'm very far from being broke. One of the issues most of these broke guys have is that when they see a girl who accepts them that way, SOME of them get too relaxed and the drive to be successful dies in them. Trust me, only a few broke guys who date girls that care less about their financial status put in an extra effort to pursue their dreams.

Some of you ladies push your guys to do the wrong things to impress you and your friends. Because I can assure you that only the wrong/unlawful deals bring money fast. You don't just want to know how he got, urs is to spend and impress and showoff. Wa Na O!

trisha01:
i see nothing wrong with what the post, op is not out to bash broke guys but to encourage them bcoz no matter wat every girl wants to show of her boyfriend :-/

Reeberry:

One fake moniker spotted here. It's eight you are a female disguising to be a male on here, or you're a pvssy.

U can't even spell right ...dick head .

Inception:



You are very lucky that i am married.

If not i would have seized you and would have paid your bride price this very hour!( regardless whether you are married or not)

What a damsel with a beautiful mind! (yes i say this without even knowing you)

Thank God for that cz you'd be breaking someone's heart if you did..
Thank you for the compliment!

Oma307:
I have been reading through romance section since the past two years, this is the most sensible respond i have ever read























u have my like and share

Thank you! I'm honoured!

Damn homie, you went all in! Couldnt have said it better .

vizkiz:
A broke biitch forming high class because a brother isn't making $$$

but these hoes can't work and get established because they only know how to make money by depending on guys....

Ps: I didn't read the bullshiit story...

Tbells91:



Truthfully, these things you listed here happen and it can be frustrating at times! But there are some things you as a lady dating a broke guy should know and do.
First, you knew he is broke before going into a relationship with him cz you saw something other than money.. Why not focus on that and find other means to get money, you can start a business or just manage your allowance from your parents to maintain yourself. (you don't have to share that with if you're not cool with it)

The issue of buying things for your friends to impress them is so unnecessary, is it to get their approval to date you or what? I guess you're just trying to boost your own ego. Know his capability at that time you're asking him to buy things and still insisting shows you're not considerate and that will definitely cause fight cz he'll feel bitter about his status and it's a damage to his self-esteem and ego and you're not helping matters.
What I do in situations like that is, whenever I have money, I'll buy things for my friends, what I know they'll appreciate, and tell them it's from my boyfriend. I'll tell him he's owing me and trust me, I always know how to get it back.

Another thing is a guy wey stingy as e broke go stingy if he get money! By stingy, I mean not sharing the little he has AT ALL.. Always saying he has plans!

If a guy is not lazy and things ain't just working yet, it's better. But if you're dating a student who is not working, my dear, na to just enjoy any other thing he has to offer or join the next train.
All in all, A woman has got to be independent too! Work for yourself, spend money and live your financial life like you don't have a boyfriend, that way you won't think of his brokeness cz you're paying your own bills yourself!

Shout out to all the ladies dating broke guys! It's not easy mehn!

Come closer lil sis and allow me to....

Leave d guy na...but wen God pick his call ...do not go back to beg.....asif ur dad married ur mum rich@op

My girlfriend left me because i couldn't measure up with her friend's boyfriend. I met my wife during this same period when i can hardly buy a shirt for myself and cannot even afford to rent a room but,she stood her ground. Today, the least of her car bought by me is Toyota Camry 2009 model.BE WISE LITTLE GIRL!!!

So because you are dating a broke nigga, you have decided to put your great grand parents problems on his head abi............. Where are your parents for God's sake, can't they take care of your bills abi your guy done replace them? The fact you are dating him doesn't mean all your problems becomes he's ? Marriage is not all about money hmmm!!

Story here sounds familiar.

I hope you're not my ex, cos I loved you more than I loved myself, but God alone saved me from you!

youmour:



Lie you haven't used it to trade.lie,just lie.

there they go again, disturbing. Abeg, Pikin. Make i rest!

younowell:


Come closer lil sis and allow me to....

Ewwww! Do you kiss your lil sis?
I fear you o, big bro

NobleG1:
I don't blame you, girl! No successful girl should settle for less!

No man wants his daughter to marry a broke as*s guy who has no good future.

I'm not talking about marrying multimillionaires, at least, the guy should be in the middle class. I wouldn't want my daughter who's in the middle class herself, to settle for less. Or a millionaire daughter going for a broke guy.

There're broke guys who just finished school, very ambitious and have great bright future. I've no problem with those.

oh ok a millionaires daughter should marry a millionaire...hahahaha may God have mercy on u and ur daughter

CopyLearner:
Most of the guys who have an issue with this post are either broke, stingy or gold diggers. What the op said is very true to a lot of extent and it is not to bash broke guys. I have been there so I know, and yes, I'm very far from being broke. One of the issues most of these broke guys have is that when they see a girl who accepts them that way, SOME of them get too relaxed and the drive to be successful dies in them. Trust me, only a few broke guys who date girls that care less about their financial status put in an extra effort to pursue their dreams.

are you in other words saying this broke guys love being broke?

Godsgal:
i wud av been disappointd if i didn't see a comment lyk dis. But thanks for not disappointing.
Its a pity & a shame as well when ladies unveil the bitter truth dat wil spur u guys 2 strive a lil' harder and be financialy fit so u'll be able to maintain that spark in ur r/ship & marital life, u misinterpret it & conclude she's a golddigger. I weep 4 guys like u.

See how your mates are reasoning.

cherryice:
Sm rich men r stingier dan broke dudes.. All dt matters is that, no matter hw little he's got hes able to give you

you make we ladies feel worthless. why were you sent to school huh?