₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,325,406 members, 8,421,764 topics. Date: Sunday, 07 June 2026 at 12:43 AM

Toggle theme

Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceTwo Wife Materials: Who To Choose? (4255 Views)

1 2 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by nikkypearl(f): 3:49pm On Apr 28, 2016
choose the one who cant finish two wraps of moi moi
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Yes. She left me for another and came running back. Happened twice with different guyz
lol
Nd u took her ass back
M sorry to say dis
Are u insecure
Or have low self esteem
And to even tink u are considering her for marriage

Now I get d whole shez always pushin me to get better
No, she pushin u to be d kind of guy she wants
Bcs shez nt satisfied wt who u are


Ok I dnt wanna be an enemy of progress to her
Buh tink abt it well...
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by olac21(m): 4:07pm On Apr 28, 2016
Pietrak..I think you should speak with the lord abt it..He sure has a solution to your dilemma cos am short of words here..btw,who among the duo is on ur DP?
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 28, 2016
olac21:
Pietrak..I think you should speak with the lord abt it..He sure has a solution to your dilemma cos am short of words here..btw,who among the duo is on ur DP?
None of them on my DP. The lady on my DP is a relative
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by olac21(m): 4:20pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Both fit that category but the first even though nags pushes me more to become a better person. Cos of past betrayals when I gave all my heart yo her, I don't love her anymore like before and unhappy. But I still can't let go
Do you mind sharing the "betrayal" of a thing stuff?maybe it could help direct my decision@the first one..then how many abortion(s)for the second one?it could be sth you will just overlook!
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Tinynita(f): 4:35pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Yes. She left me for another and came running back. Happened twice with different guyz
did I hear u say she is an SU type?...I doubt.... Nd wat makes u think she won't leave u again in future?...dnt do things coz ur mum wants u to...u r a man...u should make d decision....I think u lyk d 2nd person better
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Apr 28, 2016
bardella1:
lol
Nd u took her ass back
M sorry to say dis
Are u insecure
Or have low self esteem
And to even tink u are considering her for marriage

Now I get d whole shez always pushin me to get better
No, she pushin u to be d kind of guy she wants
Bcs shez nt satisfied wt who u are


Ok I dnt wanna be an enemy of progress to her
Buh tink abt it well...
Of a truth I was in a difficult moment and had nothing to be desired.

I was very poor and it was like a future in jeopardy ahead.

My self esteem suffered as I tolerated her. I loved like my life depended on it. She was there for me but not that I put all my burdens on her.

Twice she felt I was not good enough and walked away. She courted another man and couldn't get what I always offered. (True and obsessive love) she came back.

That happened over 5 years ago.
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Of a truth I was in a difficult moment and had nothing to be desired.

I was very poor and it was like a future in jeopardy ahead.

My self esteem suffered as I tolerated her. I loved like my life depended on it. She was there for me but not that I put all my burdens on her.

Twice she felt I was not good enough and walked away. She courted another man and couldn't get what I always offered. (True and obsessive love) she came back.

That happened over 5 years ago.
ok
Hope ya financially stable now
May God help u choose a good wife
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 28, 2016
bardella1:
ok
Hope ya financially stable now
May God help u choose a good wife
Why do you think the two are bent on staying when I asked each of them to go.
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Why do you think the two are bent on staying when I asked each of them to go.
lol
Person no fit ask u question ni
Marry any1 u like tongue
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by reservd(m): 6:40pm On Apr 28, 2016
After keepin dm 4 so long, now u gat to break one's heart, whr do u want her to begin 4m? U knw if these types naked swear 4u, e dey come to pass. For mi OYO lo wa oo
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Umennajiego(m): 6:55pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
I can't marry both.

I met the second when I had problems with the first. When the first came back, I accepted her back and managed both.
Manager MD, super striker, macho man!!!
I can relate to this man... am sure at the end of the day you will make the right and best choice for YOURSELF
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 28, 2016
potbelly:
Nigga are you gay?
What for?
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by chyammy(f): 8:41pm On Apr 28, 2016
@ op what makes you think the SU girl has not had series of abortion? Cause she didn't tell you?just like the second girl was sincere to you.

If she cheated on you twice I bet you, she would do it again. Even when you are married to her

My own opinion though. Pls go for the one who has been open about her past relationship with you.
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by obyrich(m): 9:25pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Yes. She left me for another and came running back. Happened twice with different guyz
Yet you describe her as an SU type of girl?
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by potbelly(m): 10:22pm On Apr 28, 2016
read your comment i quoted
BreketeMind:
What for?
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 28, 2016
potbelly:
read your comment i quoted
EXPLAIN URSELF OR MIND UR BUSINESS. UR WARPED MIND SEES GAY IN EVERYTHING. IF NOT TO AVOID A BAN, I'D HAVE DRENCHED U WITH UNNAMABLE INSULTS. I HATE U GAYS. U STINK. *SPITS*
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by oshe11: 10:59pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Yes. She left me for another and came running back. Happened twice with different guyz
Niggy U r a FOOL. Tot U were serious until I saw dis.....
No mata hw much U love a gal dnt take ha bak if she left u 4 anoda kos it will hapen again, nt to talk of wen she has alredi dn it twice.....
Sorry 4 kallin u a fool but.........





Niggy u r a FOOLISH FOOL






NONSENSICAL NONSENSE
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by potbelly(m): 11:05pm On Apr 28, 2016
Lool... Bros I am as straight as a ruler... Your comment made mention that you are the 1st type. And with reference to the op topic he was refering to two types of women out of which wants one to be his wife... That's why I asked that question
For easier understanding I will post your comment again
*Choose whom your heart (not ur mum) chooses. Ur mum won't be there to handle all d tiny issues. Meanwhile, am dat 1st one. If u dare tell people about dis again, I'd scold d hell outta u. OK?* the asterixed is your previous comment
BreketeMind:
EXPLAIN URSELF OR MIND UR BUSINESS. UR WARPED MIND SEES GAY IN EVERYTHING. IF NOT TO AVOID A BAN, I'D HAVE DRENCHED U WITH UNNAMABLE INSULTS. I HATE U GAYS. U STINK. *SPITS*
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Dannidom(m): 11:18pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
I have 2 ladies I consider okay for marriage.

The first, is with 8 years relationship. The second is 4-5 years.

Both relationships had breif breakups.

Now that I want to settle down, both are pulling me hard and I just can't choose between the two or marry both.

The first is tough, often nags and has betrayed me in the past but we resolved issues.

She is the SU type, don't use earings and the skirts type. accepted by Mum.

The second is gentle like a dove. Can't finish two wraps of moi moi. Loving and respectful. Never nags. Always obedient and far more beautiful and presentable. But with past relationships that I don't appreciate. Has committed abortion in past relationship. Not the SU type as she uses earings and put on trousers. My mum don't like her.

I need advice on what to do. I have been praying that one finds an alternative but they are pulling harder as they disvover i'm about to get married.

They know each other through whatsapp now.

What do I do. I am in a dilenma
is she smarrh? Is she loyal? Is she respectful? Is she a good cook? Then marry her
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by rosieluv(f): 11:50pm On Apr 28, 2016
PietraK:
Lol. Point noted.

She is begging me to let go of the second and promising to become a better person by stopping the nagging etc...
dats nt reasonable,u put both of dem in dis situation buh i tink d u luv d second one more,go 4 er
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by Nobody:
potbelly:
Lool... Bros I am as straight as a ruler... Your comment made mention that you are the 1st type. And with reference to the op topic he was refering to two types of women out of which wants one to be his wife... That's why I asked that question
For easier understanding I will post your comment again
*Choose whom your heart (not ur mum) chooses. Ur mum won't be there to handle all d tiny issues. Meanwhile, am dat 1st one. If u dare tell people about dis again, I'd scold d hell outta u. OK?* the asterixed is your previous comment
Who cares if u are as straght as a river? i yab d guy claiming to be 'dat 1st one' (not 1st TYPE as u dirtily read it) & he understood it & responded with a lol while ur mind began to get dirty out of nothing only 4 u to come deceiving urself now dat u'r as straight as noodles. *vomits*
Re: Two Wife Materials: Who To Choose? by potbelly(m): 7:08am On Apr 29, 2016
Okay...
BreketeMind:
Who cares if u are as straght as a river? i yab d guy claiming to be 'dat 1st one' (not 1st TYPE as u dirtily read it) & he understood it & responded with a lol while ur mind began to get dirty out of nothing only 4 u to come deceiving urself now dat u'r as straight as noodles. *vomits*
1 2 Reply

Short Girls Are Wife Materials, The Other One Are Just Antennas -twitter UserShould I Marry Two Wife?Joro Olumofin Recommends 30 Places Guys Can Meet 'Wife Materials' In Nigeria234

Five Reasons Your Boyfriend May Never Get Jealous Or ProtectiveMeet The Two Hottest Guys On NairalandI Proposed Marriage, And She Said No