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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by tabisegroup(m): 11:32pm On Apr 27, 2016
SANDOSKI:
No of this matter to me.....

The most important thing;
cheesycheesy
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by ebubey(f): 11:38pm On Apr 27, 2016
tosyne2much:
Hmmmmm !!! The write-up reeks of greediness.


Though I stand on the fact that money is a lubricant to a successful relationship but not to the extent to which the OP took it to
tosyne my crushcheesy hw could u say such? hw am i greedy? have i ever asked u 4 cash? angry
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Mypeople2(m): 12:01am On Apr 28, 2016
OP I love this speech of yours. But I want to ask you some questions.
...what do you contribute to the relationship? Is he your ATM? Is he your father? Are you not working?. To summarize,you are a broke girl that is why you are begging him for money

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by ebubey(f): 12:02am On Apr 28, 2016
Mypeople2:
OP I love this speech of yours. But I want to ask you some question.
...what do you contribute to the relationship? Is he your ATM? Is he your father? Are you not working?. To summarize,you are a broke girl that is why you are begging him for money
my frn go and sleepcheesy...lols pls i dnt want to insult anybody agn biko
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Mypeople2(m): 12:31am On Apr 28, 2016
OP I don't want to insult you but let me say this; take care of the broke guy because when he is wealthy, he is going to value you. He may not have a thousand naira to give to you today but he will not hesitate to give you millions tomorrow because you stood by him. If you want to start washing his clothes, cooking or giving him quality advice, start doing it now ...and not when he is wealthy.If you start doing it when he is rich, he will not value it since you are doing it because of the cash .Please ladies stop fighting your guys because of money .Share with him the little you have. When he is comfortable, he will quickly show you the ring.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Mypeople2(m): 12:43am On Apr 28, 2016
BioXtraOrganics:
Op, I don't have any business with who dates who. Everyone goes for who they want, rich or poor should totally depend on you. I've got one advice for you tho, if you don't free yourself from that bandwagon effect of impressing your girlfriends and letting you esteem partly hinge on their assessment & approval, am afraid having a fulfilled life would elude you. Making your boyfriend "appear" rich before your girlfriends, like WTF? Separate your squad of girlfriends from your relationship, and help your man build that future you see in him.

Edit.. .

Oh, this is even some lifted fiction and am wasting my breath.

Still all girls should learn from what u said above, girlfriends won't build your own home for you.
Thank you very much. Girlfriends don't build our homes anymore.That is why some guys drop the girlfriends and marry someone else.They are no longer GIRLFRIENDS but MONEYFRIENDS

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by tosyne2much(m): 7:49am On Apr 28, 2016
ebubey:

tosyne my crushcheesy hw could u say such? hw am i greedy? have i ever asked u 4 cash? angry
This is not the matter of you asking me for cash, I only commented based on my comprehension of the write-up cool

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by oluwadanie1(m): 7:00pm On May 05, 2016
Emmatdayo:
LAZY girl,go nd work, stop depending on guys, useless olosho lipsrsealed

hmm egbon
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Emmatdayo(m): 8:56am On May 06, 2016
oluwadanie1:


hmm egbon
hw far
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by oluwadanie1(m): 9:22am On May 06, 2016
Emmatdayo:
hw far
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Emmatdayo(m): 9:34am On May 06, 2016
oluwadanie1:


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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by davidif: 7:15pm On Sep 24, 2016
Wow! What a shallow post.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by superstarDikk(m): 8:11pm On Sep 24, 2016
vizkiz:
A broke biitch forming high class because a brother isn't making $$$

but these hoes can't work and get established because they only know how to make money by depending on guys....

Ps: I didn't read the bullshiit story...

God bless u

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by superstarDikk(m): 8:11pm On Sep 24, 2016
cr7lomo:
Gender equality...u should show us how capable u are
Jah bless u
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by superstarDikk(m): 8:11pm On Sep 24, 2016
vizkiz:
A broke biitch forming high class because a brother isn't making $$$

but these hoes can't work and get established because they only know how to make money by depending on guys....

Ps: I didn't read the bullshiit story...

God bless u

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by superstarDikk(m): 8:16pm On Sep 24, 2016
Godsgal:
i wud av been disappointd if i didn't see a comment lyk dis. But thanks for not disappointing.
Its a pity & a shame as well when ladies unveil the bitter truth dat wil spur u guys 2 strive a lil' harder and be financialy fit so u'll be able to maintain that spark in ur r/ship & marital life, u misinterpret it & conclude she's a golddigger. I weep 4 guys like u.
aunty u no get hand? Can't u work for ur own money?....Most it always be a guy buying shiit for u and feeding ur asss?..........Weep for ur lazy_asses jor.....Nigga be trying to make something of himself u r here saying shiit....No go make ur own money, wait for a nigga to sexually transmit his success to u
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Frankraj: 8:20pm On Sep 24, 2016
The truth is that the girls that write this is a professional prostitute, that his guy needs to be careful because soon she may in fact the guy with sexual tranmited deases. Fool if you love the guy as you claim take him to baba lawo and sacrifice your life for him so he can be rich to his name. Ashawooo . Guys listen to me either you are rich or poor. Is good to be stingy to a woman so they can be more useful to themselves and struggle to make money for themselves

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by klassic(m): 9:27pm On Sep 24, 2016
ebubey:



Source: http://www.kamdora.com/2016/04/24/dating-a-broke-guy-my-experience-is-it-worth-it/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=broke

If you truely love him, you will help him plan on how to earn more money. For example, if he has a small shop, you will help him but he to manage the small shop and grow it, you may not invest your money, but your time and ideals. In such a way you become an asset to him.He does not have today does not make him broke. You can build him with humility into the kind of man you want.
Quit making unnecessary noise about dating a broke guy.If heat dey he house buy am fan or find a way for him to earn more and make more money.
I am begining to realise my wife is indeed an angel. And that won my heart and today she is reaping her long labour of turning a broke ass nigga as at 2006.into a millionaire. And today she is enjoying the very best of way I have. Build your man, become his most cherished asset and stop these rubbish. Thanks.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Mypeople2(m): 6:45am On Sep 25, 2016
klassic:


If you truely love him, you will help him plan on how to earn more money. For example, if he has a small shop, you will help him but he to manage the small shop and grow it, you may not invest your money, but your time and ideals. In such a way you become an asset to him.He does not have today does not make him broke. You can build him with humility into the kind of man you want.
Quit making unnecessary noise about dating a broke guy.If heat dey he house buy am fan or find a way for him to earn more and make more money.
I am begining to realise my wife is indeed an angel. And that won my heart and today she is reaping her long labour of turning a broke ass nigga as at 2006.into a millionaire. And today she is enjoying the very best of way I have. Build your man, become his most cherished asset and stop these rubbish. Thanks.
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by smathias424: 7:59pm On Oct 30, 2019
When I met my girlfriend now wife I was 20 years old I just got out of a bad relationship where she was not supportive whatsoever and I felt like a failure with such low confidence working at a minimum wage dead-end job . Fast forward to my now wife that was so supportive and pushed me to go back to school and pursue my dreams and now at the age of 29 I am in my career and have been making $200,000 every year for the last five years. You’d be surprised what you can achieve when you treat your significant other like a teammate instead of your slave as she owns her own business and we both continue to support each other. If you work together great things can happen I don’t know too many other people younger than 30 that together make nearly $400,000 a year but why do I know my last girlfriend was a piece of shit just like you ! Everyone goes through struggling times and if money is the only reason you love someone you are a dumb Bitch and he deserves better that you he deserves someone who supports him and that will in return build a successful man? Hows your finances you gold digger? If you dont have a pot to piss in you are a pathetic human being for judging and not loving him. I wish I knew him or his phone number to remind him just what a dumb bitch you are���
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by endsarrrs(f): 11:44am On Dec 14, 2020
sad
Godsgal:
i wud av been disappointd if i didn't see a comment lyk dis. But thanks for not disappointing.
Its a pity & a shame as well when ladies unveil the bitter truth dat wil spur u guys 2 strive a lil' harder and be financialy fit so u'll be able to maintain that spark in ur r/ship & marital life, u misinterpret it & conclude she's a golddigger. I weep 4 guys like u.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by kepstone: 7:07am On Dec 15, 2020
God bless you, you nailed it......
Wahalaboy:
Ok... So first, you claim ti see a future in him, but you are ashamed of him. You claimed that the primary motive of a relationship should be "LOVE", but you are concerned with whether or not he impresses YOUR FRIENDS? Excuse me? Has it ever occurred to you that most of the "rich guys" you are actually crying about spend their parents money? Do you think long term or short term? How rich do you think those "rich boys" will be in 10 years time?

The most important value of a man is his future. How bright they are.. . There are a lot of guys who are rich dummies. meaning they got a lot in their pockets now but are likely to end up middle class in future. You are short sighted and all that matters to you is the glamour that comes with a relationship. You think with your belly and that's why you are exactly the type of chic to avoid.

My dad was broke when he married my mum. Looking at my family now you wouldn't believe there was ever a time my dad was ever broke. I'm so glad she didn't think like you. Because if she did she would have gotten married to a "rich young man" in 1990 who wouldn't have been a wealthy as my 2016 dad.

And what about you? Don't you have money? You don't have the right to want a rich boyfriend if you are broke yourself. Pressuring your boyfriend for money and show off when all you bring to the relationship is pussy and hungry friends. Only a broke girl places so much value on money. Lack of money doesn't make you broke. A shallow mind does.

Bye.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 7:48am On Dec 15, 2020
Sometimes i feel ashamed on how some ladies, reason on this forum, I guess its a major reason why a whole lot ladies within 30's are yet to get married, just pray you don't meet a rich man that suffered to make his money, You will experience stingyness at its peak.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Lucyspa: 10:36am On Dec 15, 2020
Everything u stated is true hun. Dating a broke guy is hell. I remember breaking up with my rich ex to now date a broke guy. It was not funny at all. My rich ex then did everything and more for me. I was so happy just one or two things made us break up. I went ahead unknowingly to date my broke ex it was not funny in that his one room that i only visited once and ontop of that he was stingy. Birthday will come, i won't see anything from him. I will ask him for something, he will refuse. After 10 months, i left. I don't want to ever have that experience again.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by chinchonglee(m): 10:41am On Dec 15, 2020
Lucyspa:
Everything u stated is true hun. Dating a broke guy is hell. I remember breaking up with my rich ex to now date a broke guy. It was not funny at all. My rich ex then did everything and more for me. I was so happy just one or two things made us break up. I went ahead unknowingly to date my broke ex it was not funny in that his one room that i only visited once and ontop of that he was stingy. Birthday will come, i won't see anything from him. I will ask him for something, he will refuse. After 10 months, i left. I don't want to ever have that experience again.
What did u buy for him on his birthday?
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Lucyspa: 11:27am On Dec 15, 2020
chinchonglee:

What did u buy for him on his birthday?


His birthday is before mine
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by kepstone: 3:51pm On Dec 17, 2020
That guy should go and give testimony in church you exited his life and he dodge a major bullet. You equate love to money, hear u my rich boyfriend. Guy i keep saying the best time to know if a lady loves u is when you are climbing the ladder. Don't marry a woman dt never contributed anything to your life. Oh my God i remember how my ex dealt with me despite everything i did for her, never ill i use money to buy or influence love. If its not coming naturally its not God sent
Lucyspa:

This girl has an entitled mentality>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


His birthday is before mine
Re: Dating A Broke Guy (my Experience): Is It Worth It? by Lucyspa: 6:11pm On Dec 17, 2020
kepstone:
That guy should go and give testimony in church you exited his life and he dodge a major bullet. You equate love to money, hear u my rich boyfriend. Guy i keep saying the best time to know if a lady loves u is when you are climbing the ladder. Don't marry a woman dt never contributed anything to your life. Oh my God i remember how my ex dealt with me despite everything i did for her, never ill i use money to buy or influence love. If its not coming naturally its not God sent

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