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KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°We just begging ta date!
°*How dare he charge me!
...that's just grounds fer replacement! [/color]

johnson232:
it isn't enough reason for replacement..
though there seems to be a consesus that men should foot the bills for first dates, but there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman offers to pay instead...

such act reflects good on the lady... if u knw what i mean...

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]Pfft.It is to reason [/color]

johnson232:
Pfft... it is not up to....

[color=#A74AC7]°•It is up to me an I'm replacin' him!
.....bye [/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•It is up to me an I'm replacin' him!
.....bye [/color]

johnson232:
yeah.... u re right...

the conversation has since reach its breaking point, but i was just trying to sustain it till u get tired...

so i win... bye too

KingCheezyPuff:

johnson232:

[color=#A74AC7]°•Lol! You a clown!!![/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•Oh Snap!!
I'm in the presence of greatness !!
.....oh,teach me!! [/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•Lol! You a clown!!![/color]

MzOnajin1:
Yes now. No matter how stingy a guy is, there is a girl out there collecting from him. His weak point is all we need. They will be coming to NL to form strong head.

johnson232:
lol...

what were u thinking, after saying the same thing over and over again...
i was just after the winning, @ a point i thought u wont give up, until i saw the pfft, i knew u were tired....

i knw u re trying to win,but dont worry, another match is coming up next week, do equip yourself....
till then... i am the WINNER!!!

[color=#A74AC7]°•You are both annoying an fun [/color]

MRBrownJ:
by their answers, you shall know them... bunch of brokass women!!! even simple dinner they CANT or DONT want to pay. yet down the line they will be begging on their knees for handouts, recharge cards and Brazilian hair. may thunder fire you all and the donkeys you are seeking in life.

MBJ's rules....
A) never bring these animals, on the 1st few dates, into a place where you have to spend money to chill... instead go to a park etc
if SHE wants to go to a restaurant/bar, then let HER pay for whatever she orders (aka we go DUTCH). if she makes ANY mention that she doesnt want to pay for her own share, DROP THAT LIABILITY!

B) after the initial few FREE dates (at the park etc), any date involving a restaurants etc must be SHARED EQUALLY (aka whatever you/she eat, you pay half of the bill). if she asks why, simply tell her that you prefer that you both stay on NEUTRAL grounds (aka i dont owe you shiit, and vice versa). if she has any issues with that, beware of that mad woman, who foolishly believes that she deserves to be treated like a princess (aka LIABILITY)

C) beware, these women have a funny way of calling such man STINGY, as if being stingy was worst than being HIV+, lol .... these are just emotional tricks played by these women. simply answer by telling them:"YES, i am careful with money, and proud to be as i wish to spend my hard earn money on ONLY what i deem worthy.... but hey, if YOU aint stingy then why dont you fukcing pay then?!"

johnson232:
must u always think towards the wrong direction?

how do u knw a girl is collecting money from him?
u need to reform your perception....

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•Oh you are very good
...A woman must be a master player at the game if she was ta beat you.[/color]

MRBrownJ:
for you women its a game where you must "beat us" and win (aka get pampered, get paid, get gifts etc) at all cost, but to us men its simply about finding a proper mate that wants us, and would respect us, FOR US.... and possibly get some "loving" along the way (aka sex).
the sad part in this game is that, when men win, BOTH of us would enjoy the loving, so in reality we BOTH win (abi you dont enjoy sex?)... but when women win (pampering, gifts, money etc), only WOMEN win.

[color=#a74ac7]°•Actually I was just playing
But then I actually read what you wrote an modified my post
Look again


But you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to invest in her
That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places
Giving her love gifts outta yer love[/color]

johnson232:
what if it is a simple test?

probably to know how generous and considerate u are?

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•That in the bold is so very correct
If he doesn't consider her worth his money
.....she should go.
I wanna know an be showed he thinks I'm worth his valuable, because it is with all it can get you,money.
[/color]

MRBrownJ:
sadly, many women out there FOOLISHLY believe that the minute they are dating a guy, they are automatically "worthy" of their partner's money.

ezychris:
Ladies come and answer ooo! This one I have plans of doing this wif Mama Iyabo

KingCheezyPuff:
[b][color=#a74AC7]°•No
..A women's worth no be here,she as a human being is priceless

...A man could never have riches to give that equal her worth.

°•But I want to know that he dies consider me to br as vauable as the dollars in his wallet
That he would spend on me.

I'm not asking the question isn't asking for a man to be provider
But that when he asks her fer her time
so that he might woo her an possibily move on to more
That he not make me pay fer that.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•If he asked me ta pay,I would
.....an never fool with him again
[b]He's wooing me an I have ta pay for it :- \[/color][/b]

MRBrownJ:
BWAAAAH, whaf nonsense!!!!! many women are worthless and just a waste of time. all the brokeass begging undercover ashawos, that are quick to sell themselves, for an Iphone or Brazilian hair, aint worth shiit (or their worth is exactly that, an Iphone/Brazilian hair). i suggest you re-evalute your definition of "priceless".

and they SHOULDNT..... because men should be viewed just as priceless as women, and therefore there shouldnt be any need for "riches" to buy women.just her being, and a man's being is what is needed for them to connect as ONE. the minute a woman expect "riches" in order to connect, then she becomes WORTHLESS.

the minute you put a price on your worth then you have failed. either you want a man to spend on you in order for you to value him, thus you have a price (aka you are an undercover LovePeddler) OR you want to value him by his CHARACTER/BEING etc, and connect on a higher level than financial, thus you are indeed priceless. make up your mind and stop pricing yourself and thereafter calling yourself priceless.

get down from your high horse.... you BOTH want to get to know one another, you BOTH need to spend time together to evaluate each other, you are BOTH Seeking for a r/ship here. so why are you acting like its only men that should bankroll the wooing (as if we are the only beneficiaries)?!
get your bloody facts RIGHT.

but sadly its this "holier than thou" way of thinking that have you women fail time and time again on this issue, and settle for DONKEYS.

[color=#A74AC7]°•I said priceless as a human being
...are men not human
I've not equated women to pr0stitutes by saying this
...but you sir called some of us worthless
...an it shows me just why you wouldn't spend on us
nor hear the truth in what I said before.
My time,I've wasted enough
Good early morning to you an goodbye. [/color]

HARDDON:
So u were fooling with him b4?

@ bolded, Who said he was wooing u? He took u along to share his space,spot n sprite n uve concluded in ur tiny mind he is wooing? Women ! Arrrh!

I have done that b4 to a Gurl though in a very subtle way, she was paying n laughing! N was totally blown a guy cud cud hv d gut to make her pay for asking him out!

That is one of my main test , coz some ladies can be so stingy, n ain't got no time to scrub around stingy souls

[color=#A74AC7]Lol
°I would ask you out Harddon an pay gladly!...... [/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#a74ac7]
But you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to invest in her
That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places
Giving her love gifts outta yer love[/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•I said priceless as a human being
...are men not human

I've not equated women to pr0stitutes by saying this...but you sir called some of us worthless

...an it shows me just why you wouldn't spend on us
nor hear the truth in what I said before.
My time,I've wasted enough
Good early morning to you an goodbye. [/color][/b]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]Lol
°I would ask you out Harddon an pay gladly!...... [/color]

ebyoma:
I won't.... He shoulda cut his coat according to his cloth.

HARDDON:
No can't do! I jump am pass...... For U r like them network providers; Give freebies with the right hand n collect it back a triple times over with d left hand!


Wudnt wano be raped tru d night coz u bought me a tiny cupa coffee. ....

[color=#A74AC7]°•I'm no rapist!!!
°•I'll behave as a perfect lady should.
I'd buy you a 4 course meal at 5star restaurant an take you dancing after if that's what you like
....An after I'll take you home an won't even beg fer a goodnight kiss.
.....you'll offer that freely [/color]

MRBrownJ:
i never have sex "with a woman", we BOTH have sex and therefore investing in her is not remotely on my mind.
and if dating is investing on a partner then WOMEN should invest equally, as an equal beneficiary (important word here is EQUAL).

again, A) women are just as priceless as men, and therefore you should always write that HUMAN BEING are priceless, and not put any gender in that statement. B) there are many human beings who are WORTHLESS... child molesters etc
yes, a woman who demands for Iphones and Brazilian hair before she can value a man (aka love/care for him) is indeed an undercover prostitute. if you dont know what a prostitute is, you should look up the definition to understand that they are both the same. the only difference is that one is at street corners, while the other goes on dates and then demand for gifts/handouts etc before she has sex. same animal, different setting.
there aint any worth to a person who values wallet and handouts over character OR one who demands for gifts before she can value a man.... NONE!

[color=#A74AC7]°•If you spoke to me on the street an we got talking
an you decided there after you wanted ta see me again an we went out to eat
You should pay.
You asked me out.
If I asked you out, I should pay.
The rule is if you invite someone out,you pay.
Get it
You got some gender war yer fighting an I'm not interested in doing battle with you.

Investing in the start of dating is to be done 1st by the asker
In the case of the op's question it is the man
So yes,he must prepare his wallet
Time etc.

An I notice you didn't quote the part where I told you "Good early morning to you an Goodbye" [/color]