joseph1832:
Funny your friend never did get the joke that I was referring to her ex who let her and her lil man go.

Every child deserves to live and grow under the loving and watchful eye of a mother and father.

Ishilove:

This is just putting it mildly.

Postmann, I told ya you have poetry in you, didn't I?

You make a fine poet, yet. O yes you will.

sweetcocoa:
Ishilove btw, why won't you respond to my post? Because of the topic?

joseph1832:
This is more like asking why won't you respond to my pm?.

5minsmadness:

How I wish I had the vocal ferocity of our mutual friend, I would have ripped u to shreds for quoting me.

U r the only MOD to have ever banned me for no reason whatsoever.

sweetcocoa:
SMH.

You didn't have to explain, I just couldn't not state my observations. Carry go.

sweetcocoa:
And here I was, thinking you understood why.

I don't want to, that's why I won't.

Ishilove:

Which post is that ma?

sweetcocoa:
like I didn't know you'd say something like this, anyways it doesn't matter how long we argue over it, the fact remains that you cant prove that this little girl may not turn out better than her counterpart with hetro parents, simples.


You miss it, anyone who supports a little girl dancing the way you describe is mentally unstable, kids should be protected from anything sexual.

sweetcocoa:
Somewhere on this thread where I quoted you.

Not that you have to, you know, just wondering.

joseph1832:
Really, how nice. Please state it lemme know... I'm ever curious to know.

Thank you for letting me know, you're fronting. I appreciate honesty.

sweetcocoa:
Your curiosity isn't mine to feed, though, so..

Whatever you think.

Ishilove:

Sorry about that, lemme go through my mentions. I always have so many mentions that i sometimes miss some.

Did you quote me today?

Ishilove:

I am yet to meet the fellow who can rip Ishilove to shreds. Seriously.

I am no longer a mod. I resigned since July 31 last year, so feel free to attempt to rip me to shreds. I will likely ignore you and report you though, because I am in a very light mood this evening.

And so you know, I will quote whoever I please, WHENEVER I please on this forum, capish?

CFCman:

I hope so too. Conte shouldn't be afraid to ship out players that aren't ready to work hard on the pitch. Who knows, he may lead CFC to the UCL title.

Anyway, you're not far off when you say the white guys carry pinkies as dicks, on average. That's why Viagra was invented But there also Black and Latinos that aren't well endowed down there.

It's not inconceivable to believe that some married white ladies Bleep black guys outside because of the inadequacy of their white husbands.

joseph1832:
No doubt, but I was hoping you'd oblige me, for the sake of courtesy.

francis18:


YOU ARE A KILLER GUY, WHEN A WOMAN CAN'T RESPECT HERSELF AND BEHAVE LIKE A TOUT SHE DEMANDS NOTHING BUT INSULTS.SINCE YESTERDAY IN THE MORNING TILL MIDNIGHT A WOMAN WHO CLAIM TO BE IN A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AND HAS A CHILD SPENT FIGHTING ON A FACELESS FORUM AND YOU WANT TO TELL ME TO CONSIDER ANYTHING THESE BIMBOS TALK HERE.SHE HAS NO CLASS,DECORUM OR SELF RESPECT TWA,VERY DISGUSTING COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO LIVE IN A CIVILISED COUNTRY.I GUESS SHE WANTS TO BE NOTICED SINCE MOST OF HER FRIENDS NO LONGER DO E FIGHTS,SHE WANT TO WEAR THE CROWN.I HAVE NEVER SEEN ANYONE ON NL SO SHAMELESS THAN THIS BITCH,SHE IS NOW HIGH CLASS? THIS ONE THAT LIVES ON GOVERNMENT INCOME TO SUPPORT HER SON AND HER,CHECK HER POSTS AND YOU WILL SEE HER SON DIDN'T GO TO SCHOOL YESTERDAY BECAUSE SHE SPEND THE WHOLE DAY HERE,A LOW LIFE WANNA BE.MY BROTHER NOT EVERYONE ABROAD IS ENLIGHTENED,FORGET THE USE OF ENGLISH,GUTTER IS THEIR DESTINY.

5minsmadness:

How I wish I had the vocal ferocity of our mutual friend, I would have ripped u to shreds for quoting me.

U r the only MOD to have ever banned me for no reason whatsoever.

sweetcocoa:
Courtesy? Aren't you funny.

Please brother, there's no talk here.

By Brandi Walton
APRIL 21, 2015
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Dear LGBT Community,

I am not your daughter. I never carried a flag in one of your gay pride parades. I have never written a letter on your behalf to a congressman or anyone else, and I have never felt the need to make people accept the fact I am the daughter of a lesbian. Perhaps it’s because she never felt the need to force people to accept her for being one.


No, I would never align myself to a community as intolerant and self-absorbed as the LGBT community, a community that demands tolerance with fervor and passion, yet does not give it in return, even to its own members at times. In fact, this community attacks anyone who does not agree with them, no matter how lovingly any difference of opinion is expressed.

I myself am a product of the Lesbian Revolution of the 1980s. My mother always knew she liked girls, but tried hard to be a good, straight, southern Baptist girl. When I was a year old, she left my dad for another man, whom we lived with until I was somewhere around four years old. After the divorce, she told my father to leave, which he did, and in his own words, “I did because I knew I couldn’t fight the entire family to see you.” I cannot remember the man she left him for very well, but I can remember being happy living with him. It did not last, however, and when she left him, she left him for a woman.

Silencing People about Homosexuality Won’t Change What Kids Can See
I knew from a young age that living with two women was not natural. I could especially see it in the homes of my friends who had a mom and a dad. I spent as much time with those friends as I possibly could. I yearned for the affection that my friends received from their dads. I wanted to know what it was like to be held and cherished by a man, what it was like to live with one from day to day.


I yearned for the affection that my friends received from their dads.
As far as I was concerned, I already had one mother; I did not need another. My dream was that my mother would decide she wanted to be with men again, but obviously that dream did not come true. My grandfathers and uncles did the best they could when it came to spending time with me and doing all the daddy-daughter stuff, but it was not the same as having a full-time father, and I knew it. It always felt secondhand.

Growing up without the presence of a man in my home damaged me personally. All I wanted from the time I was a little girl was a normal family. When I graduated high school, my thoughts were not entirely where they needed to be. While my friends were excited about college, a piece of me was missing, and I knew I would never feel whole until I found it.

Men Need Women Need Men
[b]I had a desire unlike any other to create my own family and have stability, and this led to two extremely unhealthy relationships. Luckily, I found my way out of both, but after being hurt and used so badly, I decided happiness just was not meant for me. Shortly afterwards, I met my husband, and everything clicked. For the first time, I felt alive and complete. Having children and seeing a man parent a child for the first time was beautiful and awe-inspiring. It only reinforced my belief that a child needs a mother and a father, and that same-sex parenting and single parenting are far inferior to heterosexual parenting when done correctly.

As an adult, I have tried to talk to my mom about how difficult my life was, but she simply cannot relate because she was raised by a mom and a dad.
Knowing next to nothing about males is hardly all that was hard about being raised by two women. It probably comes as no surprise that growing up in Podunk, Oklahoma, was not a walk in the park. Unlike other kids who were apparently raised in gay utopias, I grew up very alone and isolated. I was an only child and there weren’t other kids around like me to talk with and relate to. No one I knew understood what I struggled with each day, and I had no option but to keep it all inside.

As a child, I would not have spoken out about the way I was being raised, either. I love my mom. She was the center of my universe and the thought of saying something to outsiders that would have hurt her devastated me. Writing this letter right this very moment is devastating me.

Gay People and Their Children Don’t All Think Alike
But I am doing it anyway. I am doing it because people need to know that it is not all roses. The effects of growing up the way I did still plays a part in my life today. I was beyond self-conscious as a child, and constantly worried about what others thought of me. I was always terrified of someone finding out my mom was a lesbian and then wanting nothing to do with me. For most of my life, the perceived opinions of others have dominated, and only recently have I been able to let that go.[/b]

The studies claiming we are just as well or better off than our peers raised by straight parents are hardly scientific in most cases, and do not represent us all.
That is only the tip of the iceberg. The studies claiming we are just as well or better off than our peers raised by straight parents are hardly scientific in most cases, and do not represent us all. People need to know that some children of gay parents do not agree with gay adoption and marriage, just like some gay people themselves don’t agree with it, either! But you will notice that fact is not making headlines.

The Huffington Post published two responses to Heather Barwick’s recent letter here at The Federalist, and both were written by people who were raised with members of the opposite sex in the home—a male raised by women, and a female who had brothers present. It makes total sense that their experiences were not like mine and Heather’s, since we were both raised by women.

And just because one product of artificial insemination does not feel she was robbed does not mean others don’t. I am aware there are kids out there who disagree with my point of view, just like there are gays out there who disagree with the LGBT community’s point of view. But to suggest this is not a reason to validate and listen to a handful of children raised by gays, and who are against it, is ridiculous. After all, it is but a handful of people demanding we redefine marriage and parenting, and we all see how well that’s going.

Not Yours,

Brandi Walton

Brandi Walton grew up in southern Oklahoma as the only child in a lesbian household. She has decided to come forward at this time to discuss the issues surrounding children of homosexuals in hopes of educating the general public. She is married and is the mother of four children.

postmann:



My man, pls forgive.

5minsmadness:


Sure, sure. There's no advantage in having a grown woman in the house who can relate to her esp when she hits puberty. No disadvantage in seeing two men kissing each other in her presence. No emotional turmoil in going to school and realising everyone has a mommy and daddy except her.
No emotional or psychological trauma at all. She's going to be fine and grow up well adjusted. Google has said so.


Ah, dont u know I must be a sexual pervert in seeing something wrong with a little girl pointing at her genitals while the mothers here cheer her on?

5minsmadness:

[s] I no get her time.
She thot she was MTN, that she can never be brought down.
Always talking about nyash and capish and banning indiscriminately and with bias. Imagine if she is given power in real life.
Mtcheeew. [/s]


Anyway.
Forgiven.

It's the forgetting part that's the problem.

5minsmadness:


Not interested in ripping u to shreds. Not my thing. And u certainly aren't worth the effort.

Lol. So you r no longer a MOD. That's karma. You were too powerdrunk anyway.

You can quote me as much as u like. It's my choice to decide wether u deserve an answer, capish?

joseph1832:
Funny? How? No talk where? Surely you aint judging me base on my comments here?

postmann:


You just did what real men do. Forgetting will come naturally as healing to a wound. Slowly but surely.

postmann:


True, some black guys ain't gifted down there. But we do far better than the average than any other race.

I really hope Conte be bold and do the needful and bring Chelsea back to the contending for every single title.

sweetcocoa:
Oga forget talk abeg.

Ishilove:

This is funny. He is crying over bans on an internet forum. Lmao!!!!

Let him not forget. Keep remembering bans that he very well deserved, it shows he doesn't have what he's thinking of. I will like to be a bit like him, so that the only thing that bothers me is a ban on a faceless forum

joseph1832:
Already forgotten. Know the song titled Forgotten by Linkin-Park? No I doubt it.

Enjoy your evening.

sweetcocoa:

The things I've seen.

Ishilove:

This is funny. He is crying over bans on an internet forum. Lmao!!!!

Let him not forget. Keep remembering bans that he very well deserved, it shows he doesn't have what he's thinking of. I will like to be a bit like him, so that the only thing that bothers me is a ban on a faceless forum

francis18:


YOU ARE A KILLER GUY, WHEN A WOMAN CAN'T RESPECT HERSELF AND BEHAVE LIKE A TOUT SHE DEMANDS NOTHING BUT INSULTS.SINCE YESTERDAY IN THE MORNING TILL MIDNIGHT A WOMAN WHO CLAIM TO BE IN A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AND HAS A CHILD SPENT FIGHTING ON A FACELESS FORUM AND YOU WANT TO TELL ME TO CONSIDER ANYTHING THESE BIMBOS TALK HERE.SHE HAS NO CLASS,DECORUM OR SELF RESPECT TWA,VERY DISGUSTING COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO LIVE IN A CIVILISED COUNTRY.I GUESS SHE WANTS TO BE NOTICED SINCE MOST OF HER FRIENDS NO LONGER DO E FIGHTS,SHE WANT TO WEAR THE CROWN.I HAVE NEVER SEEN ANYONE ON NL SO SHAMELESS THAN THIS BITCH,SHE IS NOW HIGH CLASS? THIS ONE THAT LIVES ON GOVERNMENT INCOME TO SUPPORT HER SON AND HER,CHECK HER POSTS AND YOU WILL SEE HER SON DIDN'T GO TO SCHOOL YESTERDAY BECAUSE SHE SPEND THE WHOLE DAY HERE,A LOW LIFE WANNA BE.MY BROTHER NOT EVERYONE ABROAD IS ENLIGHTENED,FORGET THE USE OF ENGLISH,GUTTER IS THEIR DESTINY.