KingCheezyPuff:
°•I'm no rapist!!!
°•I'll behave as a perfect lady should.
I'd buy you a 4 course meal at 5star restaurant an take you dancing after if that's what you like
....An after I'll take you home an won't even beg fer a goodnight kiss.
.....you'll offer that freely

HARDDON:


That is the first statement that pops out of most rapists; "I'm no rapist" even when u catch them in d act!

N ur perfect lady behaviour wud put me on edge because I wud just know u have a hidden agenda( yea I got that from d experiences of been a guy)

If I wasnt off ur league( ouch! #murder!) I wud have jumped @ d offer, eat meal, order alota take away. Ofcos we can go dancing n drinking thereafter.

Just as wen i notice u getting tipsy, we go home: but I wud only stop @ ur gate, bid u farewell n be gone! Even b4 u utter a word with ur seductive eyes.
Leave u hanging with ur colourless drippings inbtw ur legs!

N shatter all ur hopes n plans of getting a lil som som

I'm not ur average Jones, Jane! there r guys money can't move , B00bs Cant blur , B00ty can't blow .

You had me laughing hard
..Do I at least get some of the take away?
...Or do you deny me that as you've denied me my goodbye kiss?

KingCheezyPuff:
You had me laughing hard
..Do I at least get some of the take away?
...Or do you deny me that as you've denied me my goodbye kiss?

KingCheezyPuff:
You had me laughing hard
..Do I at least get some of the take away?
...Or do you deny me that as you've denied me my goodbye kiss?

KingCheezyPuff:
[b][color=#A74AC7]°•If you spoke to me on the street an we got talking
an you decided there after you wanted ta see me again an we went out to eat
You should pay.You asked me out.

If I asked you out, I should pay.The rule is if you invite someone out,you pay.Get it

You got some gender war yer fighting an I'm not interested in doing battle with you.

Investing in the start of dating is to be done 1st by the asker
In the case of the op's question it is the man
So yes,he must prepare his wallet
Time etc.

An I notice you didn't quote the part where I told you "Good early morning to you an Goodbye"

MRBrownJ:


lol is that the trick you women use to defraud men?! if i met you in the street, and was interested, i would ask to see you again, YES, but i certainly wouldnt believe you deserve anything from me.... and i would instead invite you to a park or something free like that, to get to know you (since it is MY choice, lol)... but we all know that deluded women would "demand" to go to some eatery, or biatch about how hungry they are, lol
its only clueless deluded women that believe that money must be spent ON THEM in order to get to know them.



we already know that you women would never invite a man out. and... thats where you trick these men, because since you never invite men, therefore men have to do ALL the work, thus we are on the receiving end to pay for everything (as if you women dont want to get to know these men)
my war is with COMMON SENSE, and has nothing to do with gender. if you dont know what a prostitute is then ask Google.
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! in Africa, men MUST ask women out, thats the way it is done because they are all full of shakara and pretending. i
then stop quoting me and i wont have to point out the wholes in your money hungry desperate and cheap views about dating.

HARDDON:


Ofcos not ! N she shows up with an empty purse, after x guy had fed her tommy, he wud take her home.... Or she wud hv to beg for tp ....

Oh my world ! Not an iota of shame

ebyoma:


And how sure are you she showed up with an empty purse?? (unless you're dating a teenager).

Besides she didn't beg to be taken out he did so he should be a man

HARDDON:


PH be real u:

Tell us when last did u take as much as a purse on ur first dates?

U just assume he call out, he foot bills!

oshe11:
wat if he pays and den friendzone u afta eating ur punna

Kherry:
I wil surely pay for d 1st date,bt trust me not d second

MRBrownJ:


i never have sex "with a woman", we BOTH have sex and therefore investing in her is not remotely on my mind.
and if dating is investing on a partner then WOMEN should invest equally, as an equal beneficiary (important word here is EQUAL).



again, A) women are just as priceless as men, and therefore you should always write that HUMAN BEING are priceless, and not put any gender in that statement. B) there are many human beings who are WORTHLESS... child molesters etc



yes, a woman who demands for Iphones and Brazilian hair before she can value a man (aka love/care for him) is indeed an undercover prostitute. if you dont know what a prostitute is, you should look up the definition to understand that they are both the same. the only difference is that one is at street corners, while the other goes on dates and then demand for gifts/handouts etc before she has sex. same animal, different setting.



there aint any worth to a person who values wallet and handouts over character OR one who demands for gifts before she can value a man.... NONE!

ebubemicky:
correct guy

oshe11:
dnt mynd ha, she tynks its ha RIGHT to eat frm a guy bt d guy has no right to eat 4rm ha

KingCheezyPuff:
°• I quoted you with more because you refused ta take my goodbye
But wanted ta argue yer case
an just as I thought
talking with you further was a waste of time because you didn't/won't hear me

I'm upset I gave you the time I did an I'll waste no more.
......°•°Goodbye.

MRBrownJ:


how can i take anything you wrote as a goodbye when you still quoting me while writing the above nonsense?! read again the gibberish you wrote, and focus on the simple and very REAL answers i gave you.... then go look at yourself in the mirror, and ask this simple question:
if a prostitute is a woman who will have sex for money, and I only value (and thus sleep with) a man after he has spent money on me, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE ME?!

here is a clue: since all you deluded women think that sex is a gift from you to us men (and not a mutual beneficial act), then that is the reason why so many men are "unwillingly" paying for these dates/gifts/handouts, as a DOWN PAYMENT for the sex. yet you wanna turn around and call yourselves "priceless"?! bwaaaah!

all you hypocrite women should stop coming to NL writing rubbish trying to act smart, and instead should start being honest with your damn selves.... when did ANY of you lot A) made the bold move to invite a guy on a 1st date, and B) gladly paid for that said date?!?!

some are talking on this thread as if it aint us (men) you try your tricks on. highly laughable!

°•You are full of assumptions an baseless accusations
I never said sex wasn't mutually beneficial or enjoyed by both
Nor did I say the dates or gifts where payment fer sex

°•Nether do I have sex with a man only after he's spent on me
I won't/haven't had sex with 1at all
Not that I have anything to prove to you
I just want ta lay it all out here.

But thank you sir for tagging me a money hungry wh0re.

°First time in my young life I've been called that
I guess it was bound ta happen some time
I'm so happy I experience it taday

You dismissed me
an projected what you think onto me
an called me a dirty name based of what you thought you knew
Is there anymore sir

KingCheezyPuff:
[s][/s]°•You are full of assumptions an baseless accusations
I never said sex wasn't mutually beneficial or enjoyed by both
Nor did I say the dates or gifts where payment fer sex

°•Nether do I have sex with a man only after he's spent on me
I won't/haven't had sex with 1at all
Not that I have anything to prove to you
I just want ta lay it all out here.

But thank you sir for tagging me a money hungry wh0re.

°First time in my young life I've been called that
I guess it was bound ta happen some time
I'm so happy I experience it taday

You dismissed me
an projected what you think onto me
an called me a dirty name based of what you thought you knew
Is there anymore sir

KingCheezyPuff:
[s][/s]°•You are full of assumptions an baseless accusations
I never said sex wasn't mutually beneficial or enjoyed by both
Nor did I say the dates or gifts where payment fer sex
°•Nether do I have sex with a man only after he's spent on me
I won't/haven't had sex with 1at all
Not that I have anything to prove to you
I just want ta lay it all out here.
But thank you sir for tagging me a money hungry wh0re.
°First time in my young life I've been called that
I guess it was bound ta happen some time
I'm so happy I experience it taday
You dismissed me
an projected what you think onto me
an called me a dirty name based of what you thought you knew
Is there anymore sir

KingCheezyPuff:
you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to INVEST in her That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places Giving her love gifts outta yer love[/color.

But I want to know that he does consider me to be as vauable as the dollars in his wallet ...That he would spend on me.

MRBrownJ:


BWAAAAAHHHH see a confused woman trying her tricks on MBJ (out of all people on NL)
ok, let me school you for a minute:
when i wrote that sex was beneficial to both men and women, and that NO MONEY nor gifts etc should be handed out, YOU replied by saying:"



further saying....



so we can clearly understand from the above that YOU can only have sex with a man who has "invested" in you, and who has spent a great deal of money on you (unless there is something else than MONEY in that wallet you are so focussed on?). that, sista, is A) the definition of being an undercover prostitute and B) certainly aint beneficial to the both of you, if the guy has to pay BEFORE he can enjoy the sex. the above statement clearly show that you use SEX as a tool to get what you desire from men, and NOT as a mutual beneficial act.

these aint assumptions or baseless accusations, these are FACTS taken from what you have written in this thread.

Sigh
No sir,you assumed again
You should have asked me to explain myself

You mentioned sex with a woman after you didn't even wanna spend money on her
I was asking
If it was okay in yer eyes for you ta put it inside
But not spend on it

An I never meant that any gift or dinner was payment
Nor did I say money was the only way he invested
I also said his time etc.(go back an look at yer quotes of me if you need to)

Whether you take her to a park or a restaurant yer working up into something (whatever it may come to)
That's simply all I meant by invest.

Anything I need to further clarify for you
Please ask me questions an don't shot accusations at me again as you have been
Thank you sir.

Ferdyboss:


Take it easy ooo. Don't get unnecessarily worked up.

°I'm actually calm

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8ab2e2]Sigh
No sir,you assumed again
You should have asked me to explain myself

You mentioned sex with a woman after you didn't even wanna spend money on her
I was asking
If it was okay in yer eyes for you ta put it inside
But not spend on it

MRBrownJ:


why should i ask you to explain yourself?! i understand English PERFECTLY.



YES, thats is what i am saying, DUH!!!!! i want to have sex with women where MONEY is irrelevant to that act, because guess what?! if "spending money on her" has any barring to whether me and that woman are gonna have sex, then she is INDEED an ashawo. and thus, you are confirming AGAIN (with the above post) my whole point about women (like yourself) expecting to be paid before having any sexual contact with a man. MONEY should NEVER be the deciding factor, if it is then that woman is no better than a prostitute (however you wanna look at it).
CASE CLOSED!!!

Oh BrownJ I weep
......an I laugh
°•At the fact that dispite me telling you I don't have sex with men for money
favors
Gifts
outings etc.
that I don't in fact have sex at all
°•*You STILL insist I'm a Pr0stitute

°•I even explained what I meant by investment
.....An that the investment was to be done not solely with money but with a man's time
His attention etc.
YOU LOOKED OVER IT

....AN STILL you Persisted I was a Pr0titute
***********

**********
°•°You even left off an didn't address the above but closed the discussion
Why na?

KingCheezyPuff:
Oh BrownJ I weep
......an I laugh
°•At the fact that dispite me telling you I don't have sex with men for money
favors
Gifts
outings etc.
that I don't in fact have sex at all
°•*You STILL insist I'm a Pr0stitute

°•I even explained what I meant by investment
.....An that the investment was to be done not solely with money but with a man's time
His attention etc.
YOU LOOKED OVER IT

....AN STILL you Persisted I was a Pr0titute

°•°You even left off an didn't address the above but closed the discussion
Why na?

MRBrownJ:


whether you "supposedly" never had sex, a virgin, a super virgin, or even an EXTRA CRISPY virgin, it doesnt change the fact at hand... so focus on the words:

we dont need to wait until a prostitute has SEX before she can be labelled one. as long as she is at that street corner, willing to sell her body to prospective customer, then she IS indeed a prostitute ... so whether you've had sex already or not is irrelevant, so long as that "failed" ashawo state of mind is within you

Haha
°•You acussed me wrongly
...an slapped me across the face with yer ugly label again!

AN STILL you've neglected ta address where I said :
quote author=KingCheezyPuff post=45411812][b]
An I never meant that any gift or dinner was payment
Nor did I say money was the only way he invested
I also said his time etc.(go back an look at yer quotes of me if you need to)
Whether you take her to a park or a restaurant yer working up into something (whatever it may come to)
That's simply all I meant by invest.


°•But I bet even after reading this again you STILL are of the mind I'm a Pr0stitute
...Or

KingCheezyPuff:

Haha
°•You acussed me wrongly
...an slapped me across the face with yer ugly label again!

AN STILL you've neglected ta address where I said :
quote author=KingCheezyPuff post=45411812][b]
An I never meant that any gift or dinner was payment
Nor did I say money was the only way he invested
I also said his time etc.(go back an look at yer quotes of me if you need to)
Whether you take her to a park or a restaurant yer working up into something (whatever it may come to)
That's simply all I meant by invest.


°•But I bet even after reading this again you STILL are of the mind I'm a Pr0stitute
...Or

MRBrownJ:


i wont reply the BS above because this is EXACTLY what i have been saying all along and YOU (of all people) have been against what i wrote (now you wanna change your stand and claim holy?!).

i have been saying all along that NO money should be spent on dates, that men shouldnt spend a dime on women and that they should NOT take them to restaurant but instead in parks and free places, walking hand in hand etc because at the end we would ALL be enjoying the sex, and if women want to go to restaurants then they should at least pay for their own share of the meal etc.... so if you are saying the same thing then fair enough, but sadly you AINT. so stop contradicting yourself because there is NO "time" in a man's wallet. if "time" was indeed your focus then walking hand in hand in free places, like the park etc, would be HIGH on your agenda, and not INVESTING/SPENDING as you wrote.... unless, f course, the "time" spent at the park or free places is NOT worthy enough for you?!

°•I didn't change anything
... I've said that from the first
You where just so caught up on not spending money
You honed in on that an overlooked/dismissed everything else.
Oh! An projected.

°•Yes I want his time an attention,that's a must.
I also want to be takken out
an given nice things
°•But I do understand that it's not my right
Nor a man's job to furnish those things

°•°But then I like dating men who are generous with me an give me those things anyway