It's not an option

I fail to see the big deal. I do like the idea

Yes it is a good idea, First a man wouldn't want to see Panties and other women stuffs hanging all over his masters bedroom jacuzzi or what have you, as a Young Man in my mid 20's I have my own room, she has hers, but we both sleep in mine at night, and play around in hers sometimes during the day, but her stuffs are in hers.

It not Gud for mi own opinion ooooo. Bt some married man n woman der need private place,so der can stay alone n call der side chick be able to chat and do anything der lyk[quote][/quote]

YES! I do have my separate room

OK so I have ma room n hubby has his but we sleep together everynight in his room...ma room is for ma clothes cos its plenty oooo ....dey r things to be discussed by 3am,moves to be made by 4am...d sweetest is d bed is not so big so if we quarrel body must touch each other o n Before u say jack,d quarrel is over but when u quarrel n u sleep in ur room,negative tots,pride n prolonged quarrel starts....my opinion ooo

Perfectdanny:
Good day Ladies and Gentlemen.
I need matured minds on this. Thanks.

Is having seperate rooms in the house really good? As married couples is it really advisable or not? I just want your views. Thanks again.

Whatever works for you.

Why disturb her with your loud snore ?

Not good at all. A friend of mine is having this problem now. While they lived in a 2 bedroom apartment, he shared a room with the wife. Later they got a three bed room house, and the wife insisted on having her room. This has resulted in decrease in closeness and love between them. They are living like strangers now.

The only reason I can think is when people are not happily married.

OXCUBA:


FOR YOUR SMALL MIND YOU .....WAN MAKE FRONT PAGE ABI?

she made it.....so......quietly....

There is nothing wrong in it, no big deal ....I even like it that way !

gonkraziiiiii:
OK so I have ma room n hubby has his but we sleep together everynight in his room...ma room is for ma clothes cos its plenty oooo ....dey r things to be discussed by 3am,moves to be made by 4am...d sweetest is d bed is not so big so if we quarrel body must touch each other o n Before u say jack,d quarrel is over but when u quarrel n u sleep in ur room,negative tots,pride n prolonged quarrel starts....my opinion ooo

Hmmmm. Nice.

It ain't right at all

[quote author=gonkraziiiiii post=45414113]OK so I have ma room n hubby has his but we sleep together everynight in his room...ma room is for ma clothes cos its plenty oooo ....dey r things to be discussed by 3am,moves to be made by 4am...d sweetest is d bed is not so big so if we quarrel body must touch each other o n Before u say jack,d quarrel is over but when u quarrel n u sleep in ur room,negative tots,pride n prolonged quarrel starts....my opinion ooo[/quote Madam, you are very much on point, especially the area of prolonged quarrel and pride]

Person like me na everyday I go dey chop

No, it is not good.
Having same room will help you build stronger bond, it will also help you reconcile your differences quicker than when you use separate rooms.

You can then keep a separate room as your closet because one room might not be able to do that for both of you if you are like me that have plenty stuff but there won't be a bed in the room that has your closet.

I dont see anything wrong with that.

having a seperate room shldnt be a sin

Its not a good idea at all for couples to sleep in different room... Couples who sleep in different rooms, tend to keep secret from one another... If they have a misunderstanding, it tends to last longer, than when they share the same room... When couples share the same room, they tend to discuss matters bothering them to each other... Couples that share same room have long lasting marriages... You get so used to your partner, that his/her absence on bed, would draw you more closer to him/her, even if your guys are not in good times... You guys would be able to pray together, even after a stressful day.

Many couples do it, but after they have nothing to do with Pampers company(when they are through with reproduction)

If you got 2 wives or more, you need no such question.

Op make I go toilet I dey come with a reply

I see nothing wrong with it.

I love space, peace of mind and my alone time.

It is one of the worst thing to happen to a marriage.
Once such happens, disintegration is nearby.
I am talking from experience.

'my alone time' shouldn't be compromised
When he wants a glass of water late at night, he promptly makes provision for that without bugging me

Yes they can have seperate room to keep their stuff

But they must share one bed, and the bed should be a small bed, if the bed is too big, its another problem o, hmmn ,

From my little personal observation. most couples who sleep in separate rooms, dre marriage doesn't last at all. thy always argu a lot.


its not gud oooooo

Are we talking one wife two or three?

What really is the African tradition?
Let us ask Emir Sanusi or

Okonkwo in Things Fall Apart

Husband and wife living separately in a house should not happen if there is no disagreement between them but if there is, its possible for them to sleep separately till dey reconcile and come back again. When room separation happen thru fight the couple do think about trashing out the crisis in time in other to bound their relationship.

Segadem:

[size=14pt]Op, u need to elaborate your point, I think there's nothing wrong for couple to have separate rooms but they should not have separate bed.[/size]

Sir, i was thinking about this for a while now. I met my elder brother who's married. He said he'd prefer his personal room in his house. I asked his wife, she said she won't support it.

It's like this. I have my room with my own tv, bed everything a room needs in my house.

Is it right for me as a husband to have my own room in a house knowing fully well that me and my wife have become one flesh.

Hope you get me now

Wow!!! This year my marriage will be 14yrs. My hubby n I has always sleep and share separate rooms. Personally, I don't like it but he insisted on it so I gave in.
Few months ago I told his father about it n he adviced that we should sleep on same bed. We started sleeping together few weeks ago cos my eldest daughter (13yrs) is beginning to code our movement when its time for the act.
We barely have sound sleep cos we aren't use to it but its more advantageous to sleep together as a couple.It promotes peace, love, intimacy and quick resolution to disagreement.