stanliwise:

I have a problem with you saying that he should follow his heart. which heart?
The guy bit-off too much than he can chew and now what he intend doing is to spit the remaining away after he is satisfied. Let him finish wat he started.

tammie24:
I just have to quote you man
For the record
You made too much sense!!!

UjSizzle:

What's the relationship btwn the situation on ground and what you just typed?

emekamigo:



I as one am annoyed with the guy,he is running up and down because of the girl's curse when the mother and father have not placed their own.I said that based on the fact that he should have found a common ground and not dump the gal entirely-my friend is in that kind of trouble now marrying our of pity/sympathy and the gal lives in a horrible situation in the house because of maltreatment.But be that as it may,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Karma is a bitch,do you think if the girl keeps quiet,the guy will still go free? he can't .

shaiba:
hmmm....
Quite sensitive situation.

To the lady
It is quite sad. After crying and the pity party, pull yourself together and move on. You have no choice but to forgive him, not because of him but for yourself cause when you don't forgive people who hurt you they tend to have power over you and it keeps you down. You cant hold on to a relationship that does not want you. Five years on, you will look back and wonder what in the world you saw in him in the first place and will thank him for leaving you. like I said, it hurts very bad, trust me it will take a while (cause of all what you and your family went through to support him, memories of the good and bad times you shared and such) but you have one life and it is not tied to this guy. Be glad you didn't lost your life, some who had worse situations never lived to curse the man. Let go and let God.

To the guy
You should have done something to appreciate the parents of your now ex-gf before moving ahead of yourself. Don't know how you intend to breach this, but you have to do all you can to make peace with them. They are more like your parents.
Congratulations on your new found love. I hope you don't grow weary of her after marriage.
I hope you followed your instinct rather than your heart. Please do all you can to be at peace with her parents first, then their daughter.
I pray your pastor guides you in the right path.

Think carefully before you take your next step.

My thoughts though...

mizlovette:
Am surprised at people sha, 6years and in all that u still promised her marriage, tied her down, enjoyed her finances emotions body and all, 4abortions and now u wanna get married to another. Hmmmmmmm my dear if u love this new lady u want to marry then u will not marry her and cause her untold misery. The curses from her ain't finished u are yet to hear from her parents that u took advantage if their care. There's no way u don't know u didn't love her that much. True live can't just fade, u were greedy u used her to step up in life and for that I add my own curses it will not be well with u. People like u do not deserve anything good. Who have u now dumped ur used property for? Ur village elders I guess. May devil set not forgive u

sweetyinks:
Guy, hear my words perfecrly cos i really really know the power in those words. You were wrong to have stayed that long too knowing perfectly you werent compatible anymore. Ladies can possess such powers as to destroy lives by that reason. For you to have known her unclothedness. You just have to pacify her if not in years to come you will find yourself more distasteful than you are now. Trust me, i know what curses can do.

Diddyydiva:
love?

love you say?

So because she was in inlove she had to risk her life ,

Love isnt stupid lady,

tundebayy:
shes in love doesn't mean shes stupid, many have loved that way and it works for them. just pray you don't fall a victim of love.

Frei:
Hahahah' bad guy.....I can't blame him tho' if a girl aborted for me four times and I fūcked her for 6years' mehn its a no-no

1k001:


How do you suggest he finish what he started? Get into a marriage doomed for failure? Or wait to have kids then break up the family?

The bitter truth is that with matters of the heart one has to be fully in for things to work. His heart is not in it so there's nothing to finish.

emekamigo:
I have been forced to look at this situation again:Let's look at it this other way.What if God is actually saving this good woman from some problems in future?
What if God has reviewed it and found out that this good girl is going to suffer from this guy in the near future if they get married?

or-what if God loves the guy that he actually does not want the guy to suffer from this babe in future?
what if God has reviewed it and found out that this two are not compatible spiritually and are bound to end up tragically?

Or what if the Girl is also being punished for what she committed ?

As at the time they got into each other,was there a medical test to determine if the two are biologically compatible to marry?

There are so many issues going on in the spiritual and metaphysical realm that we don't know except we have spiritual eyes and to see And the laws of metaphysics are still there-And if these actions are in support of a predetermined retribution,curses don't have effect;and for curses to have effect depends on the spiritual level of the curser and cursed but in this situation the girl's curse can never have effect on the guy(Note that she has already soiled her hands with series of abortions or killings ) except if and only if the mother or the father of the girl in question performs some rituals and lays the curse on the guy which hitterto still depends on their own spiritual level.

Just like I said earlier and I still believe that :

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage either way for the two of them-

Or the guy should actually have gone ahead to marry her and divorce later -

Or waited a bit before proposing to another babe-


Nothing happens for the fun of it,so let it be-I rest my case!

Ghost447:
Honestly I don't support the guy's action, but what would you have advised him to do under such circumstances?

shugar321:



rili niqqa?how senseless can one b? may God have mercy on u

belli:
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Y will u Bleep a gal 4 6yrs... if u won't marry her after

uboma:



Immature boys like you take advantage of girls and dump them at will. Why wont her curses follow you?

Laveda:

Just shut up and don't showcase your stupidity here