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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by tbliss22(m): 12:42am On May 19, 2016
ellaV:
My dear I will advise u,be calm,well articulated n decent,if u wa[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][b][/b][/[b][/b]font]nt to be a wife u av to be a wife material,be homely n overall have the fear of God...ur tone of voice to a man should be subtle while u strike ur point...I will tell u dis...when u have all these qualities,Listen to what I av to tell u now...men loves it when they hunger 4 something n fantasising on d sweetneSs of it..make use of dis vacuum n us,DON'T F*CK HIM!!!! just give him hot romance when needed n ofcouse hot blowjobsthis should be after 6months of dating,by 3months of dating give him a kiss,more more kisses,just kiss d shit outta him ...then when he talks of sex..tell him u not ready 4 dat...not until ur married,u just want to package urself 4 ur husband hence forth n dis what u can give him because u love him n if he's not ok with it,instead of u finding out his cheating on u,he should just breakup with u n do not want a heartbreak.But u have to be very Faithful to him,never share ur body with anyother..u can allow him finger u ,suck u ,caress u BUT NO F*UCK!!! Try this n his all urs...Thank me Later

Bros this ur advice is dangerous ooo. Finger her ke? How will all that make him fall in love with her??

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 12:47am On May 19, 2016
"if you ask me eeee na who i go ask.... the Mata wey you c so ooooo.... no be go talk am. e heavy for mouth'
c kweshion.
kilode?
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Babaregg(m): 12:49am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you

Deny him sex while making him feel you will give it anytime soon. That will keep him close and guessing, then make him see D kind of person you are. If it doesn't work I don't know what else to do.
Thank me later grin grin
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by AustinStevens: 12:55am On May 19, 2016
Well been reading the comments and am really amazed at ladies misconception abt men, their altitude and why they act the way the act.




Dear wat u need to understand is the fact that men's love is different from women's love.....
If u really take ur time to understand how men think u will realise dey might not really be as complicated as u think they re.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Zealous2710(m): 1:04am On May 19, 2016
God and meet baba nw. All u need is jst to sprinkle d stuff in his food nd watch it work lik magic.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:04am On May 19, 2016

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by quickly: 1:11am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you

This is a monkey and banana question. Monkey Wan chop banana meanwhile banana want monkey to keep her as a pet.

Impossible !! Many have tried but stumbled and end up being baby mama
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by quickly: 1:17am On May 19, 2016
quickly:


This is a monkey and banana question. Monkey Wan chop banana meanwhile banana want monkey to keep her as a pet.

Impossible !! Many have tried but stumbled and end up being baby mama

if a guy wants to sleep with u only he can never fall in love. He will . eventually dump u

Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by laviecontinue: 1:22am On May 19, 2016
If you like allow him access to all the HOLES in your body or not Nobody can ever make love happen it just did. #truestory
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Praizo2(m): 1:38am On May 19, 2016
simply GO for the good guys.. unfriendzone them if possible...... plus also have good female friends too.......
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by johnsonjosbles(m): 1:46am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you
due to bad economy, love no longer exist in man's memory thanks
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by 19naia(m): 1:48am On May 19, 2016
You sleep with him and work his mind, body and spirit in that bed so skillfully that he will never recover when you release him and make sure he is spent so thoroughly that he will never imagine it possible for him to have anything remaining for anyone else.
And then from there, nurse him back to strength(use agbo if necessary) and let him know you are always there for him.
As soon as he is fully recovered, you must sleep with him like that again, several times over and nurse him back to strength again each time.
Soon he will become like a broken horse who will follow the reigns of your hands for the rest of his days.

But of course, if you are not superior to him in love and strength in the bedroom, then don't waste your time. Only the strongest women can tame wild men into faithful loves.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by madjune(m): 2:22am On May 19, 2016
You want a guy to stay?

1. Invest in your education. Make sure you're good in your discipline and never be arrogant about your level.

2. Be good in the kitchen and be sensitive to his tastes.

3. Never be a party freak.

4. Don't sound overly materialistic.

5. Ensure you've the drive to update yourself alongside
Your peers.

6. Be truly God fearing.

7. Don't hesitate to tell him when he's wrong and rebuke
Him in a gentle tone and privately so.
Don't shout on him or do it in front of a third party.

8. Share freely with him ( I don't mean sex )

9. Find out what he likes and encourage him to be better
At it.

10. Don't give him sex so easily and even when you do,
Never act as if you've lost something.

Act as if it's no big deal.

Now, this is the mystery element.

This will so astound him that he'd keep trying to
Unravel what makes you tick.

In so doing, he won't know when he eventually stays.

Because, he's in love.

N/B- Never try this with an uneducated mind.

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by ransomed: 2:32am On May 19, 2016
Make sure you zip up and package yourself very well. Erase lies from your feminine dictionary and show him your virtues.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by AreaFada2: 2:33am On May 19, 2016
Festivalofholi:
U can prove to him dat u have other value/worth besides ur pusssy. Let him know he has other things he can benefit frm u beside sex. Also try to show him ur an independent lady and u dont need his money.

But how many naija girls can do dat? With their poverty mentality of always expecting a guy to spend on 'em. So if he treats u like a sex object, u bargained for it.

In fact if you're not dropping money with immediate alacrity, all your good characteristics simply make no sense.
If you like be nice from here to Tora Bora or Timbuktu and back. Waste of time. Poverty is too much and hustle is real.

Lots of girls have conveniently 4gotten that guys observe how greedy or economically dependent each girl is.

Despite the outward nonchalant attitude most guys show, they codedly analyse girls' behaviour. So they very quickly confine a girl into a box: f**kbuddy, wait & see, possible wife material, etc. grin

Except you seriously tickle their fancy beyond measure, then they will overlook certain things, but that's rare.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Mayflowa(m): 2:52am On May 19, 2016
love2016:
Play hard to get... But easy to subdue

Men love a woman that plays hard to get but not too hard... When you show a man that you have weaknesses (that is showing that you are easy to subdue) He would want to win over you... But by also playing hard to get it will make it worth his while and he would want to stay forever

Some guru in the house. Know thyself. I can see you are reading! What book are you reading. Can I recommend more?
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by GloriaNinja(f): 3:10am On May 19, 2016
This is a boring thread.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 3:12am On May 19, 2016
Get these books by "apst. Prof. Johnson suleman".
"FALLING IN LOVE WITHOUT FALLING iNTO TROUBLE"
"HOW SINGLES MINGLE".
Thank me later
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:16am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you
why would you want to do the impossible when you can as well wait for Mr Right? Have you heard of emotional and psychological abuse? I mean undecided
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Tropicmaster(m): 3:16am On May 19, 2016
[color=#990000][/color].... Flee from immorality. A guy dat came to use you. Dat hv been his mission so dnt try to change him.... A good warning signals
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 3:58am On May 19, 2016
Festivalofholi:
U can prove to him dat u have other value/worth besides ur pusssy. Let him know he has other things he can benefit frm u beside sex. Also try to show him ur an independent lady and u dont need his money.

But how many naija girls can do dat? With their poverty mentality of always expecting a guy to spend on 'em. So if he treats u like a sex object, u bargained for it.
This is the bitter truth! undecided Thank God I am independent by nature! grin
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 4:00am On May 19, 2016
madjune:
You want a guy to stay?

1. Invest in your education. Make sure you're good in your discipline and never be arrogant about your level.

2. Be good in the kitchen and be sensitive to his tastes.

3. Never be a party freak.

4. Don't sound overly materialistic.

5. Ensure you've the drive to update yourself alongside
Your peers.

6. Be truly God fearing.

7. Don't hesitate to tell him when he's wrong and rebuke
Him in a gentle tone and privately so.
Don't shout on him or do it in front of a third party.

8. Share freely with him ( I don't mean sex )

9. Find out what he likes and encourage him to be better
At it.

10. Don't give him sex so easily and even when you do,
Never act as if you've lost something.

Act as if it's no big deal.

Now, this is the mystery element.

This will so astound him that he'd keep trying to
Unravel what makes you tick.

In so doing, he won't know when he eventually stays.

Because, he's in love.

N/B- Never try this with an uneducated mind.
grin
These lines remind me of relationship books! Lol
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 4:12am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you
The best way to let a guy who wants to use you fall for you is to let him have his way.

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by godunia(m): 5:22am On May 19, 2016
Use what he wants to get what you want. Love is a game, while you are using the 90 day rule, be yourself,advertise your products that is everything you think you have that a guy can't resist but no sex. You can kiss him and by body language make him feel he will do it then withdraw. If he is real, he won't run and if he does he's truly after sex.every man looking for sex also look for a woman to keep, the problem is the dont know the difference until a girl proves it to them. Be extremely nice but no sex. Every guy wants a good girl,the question is are you. Nobody values what is cheap, that's what pure is not affected by fuel increase. Lol
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Allywealth: 5:37am On May 19, 2016
You better run now that tour legs are still strong
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Teddeebear: 5:38am On May 19, 2016
love2016:
Play hard to get... But easy to subdue

Men love a woman that plays hard to get but not too hard... When you show a man that you have weaknesses (that is showing that you are easy to subdue) He would want to win over you... But by also playing hard to get it will make it worth his while and he would want to stay forever
what ever book you learn this from, good for you, but In reality it may not work, even if he keeps his cool after you played hard, nothing will stop him from dumping you afterwards.

either because you played hard with your pussyyy, which he has finally eaten or you have some attitudes.


Stop reading those books, they don't align with reality, just be open minded and friendly. no sex, in few weeks the one that wanted only sex will leave and the one that was serious will still hang on
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by raziboi(m): 5:39am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you


a decent personality... can make dat
a unique life style can make dat
always try and know De long term and short term goal of de proposed lover!!!!
don't go for God fearing men only!!!
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Nobody: 5:40am On May 19, 2016
Festivalofholi:
U can prove to him dat u have other value/worth besides ur pusssy. Let him know he has other things he can benefit frm u beside sex. Also try to show him ur an independent lady and u dont need his money.

But how many naija girls can do dat? With their poverty mentality of always expecting a guy to spend on 'em. So if he treats u like a sex object, u bargained for it.
... I couldn't have composed any better, rightly said.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Pyno30: 5:45am On May 19, 2016
post=45736532:
Hi everyone. So, in this age that almost every guy that comes to you is thinking of how to sleep with you, my question is how can you make or how can a guy who just wants to sleep with you, fall in love with you? Please mature responses only. Thank you
Keep being nice to him. Don't show him you love him, don't be quick in getting to bed with him, don't visit his house too often, don't ask him for money, pretend as if you know that things are hard now, (even though the ladies don't seem to care) in that way, he will start considering you.

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Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by vchykp(m): 5:48am On May 19, 2016
my dear the fact is that you can never get people to change especially in relationship because that's who dey are and want to be,even if they wanted to they couldn't do it,they can modify their behavior, but they can't change their personality.

If you can't be a baby mama for him, don't get involved because they will never marry u,such guys are everywhere,the funny thing is that "their is someone for everyone".. Someone will love u someday,so keep your clm and stop wsting time on people that will destroy your future

Please don't even give it try because u can't change them,they might pretend for a while,probably months, but when the sense of euphoria(who dey are) comes back, my dear u r in trouble, so my dear just get it straight, you can't change people.
Re: How Can I Make A Guy Who Just Wants To Use Me Fall In Love? by Reach87(m): 5:57am On May 19, 2016
THE BEST WAY TO GET A GUY TO REALLY LOVE U IS BY,JUST BE UR SELF AND BE A DECENT GIRL TOO,ALWAYS DO WHAT IS RIGHT AND BE UPRIGHT IN WHAT SO EVER U DO,NEVER U TRY TO IMPRESSE HIM AND ALWAYS PACKAGE UR SELF WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY

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