I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort.
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
P.s: candid opinions only pls. Shove up criticisms and insults up your fingers. Thanks.
Lalastica

Kpele...

I don't know what you're dating o

iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o

faints and dies

Give her sniper

Babe dah cannor even hug talk less of kiss, is dah one girlfrnd?

iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o

mind your tongue

abimbawealth:
Kpele...

not helping

kossyablaze:
Give her sniper

how many have you killed?

Hmmm...the way u narrated ur story it does not look like u were dating but in a platonic relationship. I will rather advise u define the relationship as fast as possible, then try to understand her character traits.

The question is Are you two old enough to date ? Because it doesn't seem like you both have the capacity to be in a relationship. No offense though.

Israel5:
mind your tongue

I still don't know, bro

Best definition of friendzone 2

richardoz:
try to understand her character traits.

ok. Thnk u.

Awwwwwww it must av hurt

FlySly05:
The question is Are you two old enough to date ? Because it doesn't seem like you both have the capacity to be in a relationship. No offense though.

no offence taken. We're old enough. She's in her twenties and i'm older.

halfricanadian:
Awwwwwww it must av hurt

what are you even doing here sef? You never help matters

Israel5:
what are you even doing here sef? You never help matters

Its bad to sympatise sorry i crossed my boundaries

Bye

you're not dating.. you just like me who has never had a girlfriend (cuz I don't want to)..
Girls are big distractions which I'd like to avoid at all cost..

OP quit that relationship ..you're definitely her "side guy"

halfricanadian:

Its bad to sympatise sorry i crossed my boundaries
Bye

Bye.

Israel5:
Bye.

Ok

About ur signature even tho theres no revenge

Karma knows how to f*ck pple up

CaptainEColeJnr:
you're not dating.. you just like me who has never had a girlfriend (cuz I don't want to)..
Girls are big distractions which I'd like to avoid at all cost..

OP quit that relationship ..you're definitely her "side guy"

i know she has no other guy. I even know her period days. Pls Define dating

halfricanadian:


Ok

About ur signature even tho theres no revenge

Karma knows how to f*ck pple up

i'm sorry na i didn't mean to be rude. Plsss. Y are u single?

Israel5:
i'm sorry na i didn't mean to be rude. Plsss

wats my own

Israel5:
i know she has no other guy. I even know her period days. Pls Define dating

Dating is defined as two people (a couple) having a romantic affair between them,which usually involves members of both sex (a man & woman) ...


















now underline the word "Romantic"

halfricanadian:

wats my own

okay. Fine

CaptainEColeJnr:
Dating is defined as two people (a couple) having a romantic affair between them,which usually involves members of both sex (a man & woman) ...


















now underline the word "Romantic"

so in essence, since she resists romance, i shld look elsewhere? Say halfricanadian?

Israel5:
so in essence, since she resists romance, i shld look elsewhere? Say halfricanadian?

Who's that?
Anyway if she cannot show you off in front of other people not even as a friend .. then she ain't love you no more dude!
Look elsewhere !

Both of y'all still kids.

You just made my evening aswearigad...

iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o

CaptainEColeJnr:
Who's that?
Anyway if she cannot show you off in front of other people not even as a friend .. then she ain't love you no more dude!
Look elsewhere !

Pls sound it in his ear well

Look elsewhere op!!!!!!!