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kaboninc:
That's the point.

Do you live or is your survival which in this case is so vague dependent on a validation from me? Do you know what I define or what are my criteria for validation are?

It is very difficult (and I must acknowledge the very rare ones) to find young girls who can easily give out (not just making sacrifice) without fuming. If you no be like that (dem crowd), shey you go die? For the fact that those who post cute pictures of themselves on instagram and co are getting married doesn't make them 'winners'. Heck, those guys who marry these social media crazy girls end up in the same social media way.

Most important thing is finding happiness and true peace. So safarigirl, if them pweetysugar or Mhizsucre is so selfish and stingy even against her own self, that does not make you want to 'copy' her just because you perceive that she is a 'winner'.

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

Ayomide93:
I decided to contribute to this post having seen so many comments.
1. The idea of guys been polygamous is a very wrong notion. Personally I am not polygamous. I am a one man one woman person.
2. The act of guys cheating even when they have all they want in their partner is inevitable. Let me give an example. As christians we all love God but often time we sin, that's us cheating on him. When guys cheat simply it is physical, it might probably be to boost their ego, boost their control over the women folks or probably to boast among their friends so they won't be ridiculed.
3. The issue of money and some guys been scared of their women more comfortable than them. Personally I don't know why some guys think a confident, self assured woman is a turn off. I would always want my woman to elevate me in the positive ways.
4. I decided personally that no matter how rich my partner is when I get committed, I would always pay you a salary for your upkeep, though it might be small but yes I would pay my part. I took you from your parents because I felt I can take care of you, when then should I not play that role. So earn *2 of what I earn, I would still pay you salary.
5. The issue of sex again. Personally I believe in intimacy sex. If you can give me a good Mouth Gig then I should be able to eat you out there so well. I believe a normal penetrative sex shouldn't be more than 5-7minutes. The fore play and the intimacy is the sexual stimulation. That is even enough sexual satisfaction to me.
6. As for guys being nice or doing a lot of calling when asking a lady out. I do that often personally because I believe communication is key but I learnt my lesson the hard way because I pushed my one true love away due to that. It became stalking at a time. Sometimes in relationship I believe we need space, space to do our own thinking without our partner interfering.
7. Personally I don't like excessive. I don't love the busty and big yanshed woman. Just me moderate and above all be very intelligent. Your intelligence is what I need, not you cooking my food or doing styles in bed. And the idea of you washing my cloth is a no no for me. You are not my slave.
For any relationship to work, communication and time is key and money is very very important. I say again important, if not now later, responsibilities needs money and as a man it is my duty to provide for my partner and my family, that's what makes me a man. Thank you.

mimzy:
I think it depends on the individuals involved and the level of commitment

But if you ask me who loves more in a relationship . Most times it's usually the lady

emmas2k570:
Is it true that wen a guy loves more dan d lady in a relationship d lady tends to take d guy for granted

RoyalBlak007:
How cum prettythicksme....naughtynaughty...laveda...sinaj...

[color=#AB56BA]ain't on seat to take up questions layed down? [/color]

iAmCharis:
Nice input but since when did your woman helping you with laundry turn to slavery?

Laveda:
Very busy, I attend to questions when I'm free to do so.

Oahray:
Hmmm... Read every damn post up to this point. Turns out there are some intelligent ladies on romance section (no vex, it hasn't been all that obvious ).

Safarigirl, you are refreshingly different. Twaci. i, Mimzy. y, Ivy.y, optional. 1, em...

Okay I shouldn't have mentioned any names sef. This my memory. Pardon my oversight, you all tried.

Nice thread, very nice.

eagleccentric:
why do girls like hearing the words 'i love you'?

even when they know guys don't mean it

and guys why do we find those words hard to say? (deepest apologies to the girls' only thread)

Mediapace:
Thanks,you are the most helpful :
Twaci
optional1
Laveda

One more question :
*How do you feel when these categories of Men you'rent dating or gat any relationship with him seees your unclad ?
*A MAN THAT Bumped into your room without knocking,he knowingly did it
*A MAN THAT PEEPs when taking your bath
*A MAN That walked up to you in a bathroom not knowing you're there,probably you forgot to lock the door
*A MAN WALKING ON HIS OWN,AND YOU COMING OUT OF BATHROOM YOUR TOWEL ACCIDENTALY DROPPED

WHhat will be your reactions with those categories of men mentioned above?

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

shulamitewoman:
she is still in love with her one of her EX..and she is finding it hard 2move on even wen sum1 is showering her love.

Dejideji1:
This ur response is very disturbing and misleading. Another lady on this thread posted a similar comment. What are you insinuating? Are you encouraging guys to be promiscuous? This is sending out a wrong message to the virgins amongst us. This is a very bad response coming from you girls.

Mediapace:
Thanks,you are the most helpful :
Twaci
optional1
Laveda

One more question :
*How do you feel when these categories of Men you'rent dating or gat any relationship with him seees your unclad ?
*A MAN THAT Bumped into your room without knocking,he knowingly did it
*A MAN THAT PEEPs when taking your bath
*A MAN That walked up to you in a bathroom not knowing you're there,probably you forgot to lock the door
*A MAN WALKING ON HIS OWN,AND YOU COMING OUT OF BATHROOM YOUR TOWEL ACCIDENTALY DROPPED

WHhat will be your reactions with those categories of men mentioned above?

Spyde:
Pls when a final yr student tells a working graduate engineer dat she is nt ready for a relatnship,wat does it mean?

Cutehector:
yes she confessed she still loves d dude.. d dude sef has moved on.. doesn't even regard her anymore.. it's pretty surprising ladies never forget exes who giv dem great s**

shulamitewoman:
*smiles* not just great sex.

Spyde:
Pls when a final yr student tells a working graduate engineer dat she is nt ready for a relatnship,wat does it mean?

Twaci:
Could be just that

Could be she feels having a relationship at that time could be a form of distraction (her being in finals and all), or she feels she would not have enough time for the relationship.

Or she's mildly telling him no.

Spyde:
hmmmm! Nice thread

Smellymouth:
What is the most commonly missed activity or action in the bedroom that all guys should be doing?

Twaci:
Thanks

Spyde:
if i still want her, wat do u think i cn do?