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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 5:03pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
This introverted personality can be a pain in the arse at times. whenever I hear guys tal 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 6:13pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Olarewajub:true, mostly on fb |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gunshat: 8:31pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
well for me , i possess most of the attributes listed here but the most important part of me is d (OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND) attribute. wen am not seeing my friends i tend to forget everything about them and wen am listening to my favorite hits(ROCK) that one caps it all. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
charley94:I share dsame pain with u bro.. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bighead1(m): 5:57am On Jun 13, 2016 |
@Ggrin, this is where you are needed |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bighead1(m): 6:07am On Jun 13, 2016 |
slimbryan: We plenty for here o |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ggrin(f): 7:18am On Jun 13, 2016 |
bighead1:bighead |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 7:26am On Jun 13, 2016 |
slimbryan:my friends just see me as one weird guy |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 13, 2016 |
bighead1:God help us. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 12:54pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Hello All, I have read some posts in the last few pages and I am stirred to say a few things about introversion. I'm an introvert myself, a typical one. But I do well with public speaking although I don't like the crowd itself. I can communicate well with people too, but I'd rather not except it's necessary. But... I wasn't like that as a teenager. Now to my point, being an introvert, ipso facto isn't a bad thing. It's only a class on its own. If you can isolate shyness from introversion by learning to overcome your shyness through public speaking, overcoming fear and worry (which I see as the core of problems Introverts have), and most importantly 'letting go' of mistakes as easily as reciting ABC, then you'll do socially fine as an introvert. Like the gentleman who writes good English but believes he doesn't speak it well, has no other problem but Fear and Worry. If you can tell yourself repeatedly (and use helpful resources like books) that your mistakes don't define you as long as you improve on yourself, then it is only a matter of time before you see yourself as an orator. And finally, when you interact with strangers, think of them as your friend and family and communicate with them so; you'll find out how easy it is to make eye contact and communicate. Pardon the long story... I'm a prolific writer and hardly know when to stop. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bighead1(m): 1:23pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
ggrin: Why call my name? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 5:35pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Bidexluv:Ramadan is going on smoothly...hope you're with us on this fasting? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 11:45pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
I join Donoms to say that introverts are great thinkers hence it would be a disaster to let our personal ideal or fears get in the way of communicating with others. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vikel2104: 6:09am On Jun 14, 2016 |
bighead1:Wahala! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by RICKYMARIO(m): 2:40pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
charley94:chai. we r in the same boat o |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bighead1(m): 12:11am On Jun 15, 2016 |
ggrin: You look just like my school son, the same grin on your faces.. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Sard(m): 3:50pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Here's a front-page thread about introverts. Quite comical but mostly true.
www.nairaland.com/3155365/only-introverts-understand-these |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jobhuntng: 4:34pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
slimbryan: LMao...we plenty |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jobhuntng: 4:38pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Damn |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by nas00(m): 5:27pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by toluine56(m): 5:32pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Newest member here. Find it super-hard maintaining a conversation thats if i start at all. Jus prefer being alone. Some term it selfishness..i jus value personal space and actually nice to people trying to come close. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rickcutie(m): 6:23pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
My own be say i dont have passion or zeal to coverse or speak long wif pple, and most of d time, i usually dont know wot to say to keep conversation going. To converse wif pple for long, u must have passion and zeal for it, u must enjoy d convo. Conversing wif pple only interest me wen its about a topic i love; like football, academics etc... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kushfc(m): 8:29pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Hey great ppl, u all have spoken all i have in mind and my situation as well. But these are my questions : is being an introvert a problem? (2) what are d advantages and disadvantages of been an introvert? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Isiterere(m): 8:41pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
The degree of introvert in me has reduced drastically because of the kind of work I do. I must initiate and maintain conversation with customers. But whenever I am at home, strictly me, my phone, laptop and radio. Introvert are great thinker.... ALL IZZ WELL |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charlesu49(m): 9:00pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
It feels really good I'm seeing multiple reflections of myself here, I'm an introvert and I love it- apart from the uncomfortable feeling I get when I have to make a presentation in school, address a crowd and the likes. I also cnt maintain long conversations. Growing up I had problems with approaching the opposite sex too but I worked really hard on that one, it paid off, I can almost approach any girl now, I only have to ignore that gnawing feeling of shyness and sometimes nausea, and at 22 I can say I was a late bloomer but I've landed my fair share of gazelles if u know what I mean. Also I'm always too self-conscious, always trying to stay off the spot light and not make mistakes etc etc. I write better than I talk too, because I'm always trying too hard to literally hear myself as I'm talking and trying too hard to make it perfect. I get bored easily. I prefer books to movies. I'll talk you to hell if you broached matters that hold my interest, like the idea of "faith" n "reason", their very essence. If you come to me for answers in matters I'm well versed in, be ready for an "epistle" as my friend calls it- I don't just give an answer, I start frm the seemingly unimportant beginning and expound beyond what you were concerned with. Lol. I'll stop here, lol... I'm Charles, I'm an introvert. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 9:02pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
And that illustrative pictures about introverts on Front page led me here, I have not come across this lounge before. It's good to meet you guys. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 9:21pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
charlesu49: Just like me. The introverted me can turn to a lecturer in a few seconds if I am to discuss anything of interest. Public speaking is not my thing, public writing is (lol) I talk to myself more than I talk to people, sometimes I prefer to get lost than to ask for direction. I moved to a new place six months ago and yet to have a friend, even my neighbors don't know my name. Hell was nearly let loose when I was called in mosque to say prayers in Yoruba after the obligatory salat. I just utter few sentences and back it up with a verse, they were waiting for More and I was like datz all. I have a lot of friends in my former place but I can't handle 5 of them at a time, I like it when we are in 3s, it is less rowdy and more fun to me. Only few of my friends are introverted. It is easier for me to do my toasting things on Whatsapp, Bbm or Facebook. Sometimes when I am interested in a girl, I just act like I don't care and let her do the needful. It's always like " This bros is too gentle o, always smiling and pressing phone" I now know how to switch when it is necessary but trust me, I hate those pinching eyes that penetrates when I am talking. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Dreydoe(m): 12:40am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Horlawoomey: i see more of myself in this post.i am extremely an introvert..i only allow very few people in and they are all far away now.i feel alone most of the time like no one gets or understands me. i feel when i talk people are ready to bounce on my mistakes or error, i feel the whole world is watching my movement when i move or talk. i like buryn myslf indoors watching movies,especially season films. i av never been in any relationship,just only very few flings. I'm 24 now and i have never had any girlfriend not even one (its scary |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 12:48am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Hmmn |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jimrealf(m): 1:01am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Seriously thought I was the only one. Good to know their are people like me |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:01am On Jun 17, 2016 |
This rely is long over due. Sorry for the late entry, any thing I try to reply some thing just comes up. LUCAS99:Something you must know my friend is that introverts express themselves easily and comfortablly with people they are familiar with and not total strangers and that’s the reason you can express yourself correcly when you’re with your family members. What you must first do is to try to get to know few of your colleagues maybe by short conversation, and when you speak, make sure you don’t give much attention to your spoken English. Just allow it to flow naturally. It might not be a easy task at first, but as I will always say; move out of your comfort zone. Introversion is not timidity. On keeping converrsation, try and envision the type of conversation you are likely to have that day. You can decide to have a political debate in your head. In so doing, you will have tons of things to say when the issue of corruption among government officials or scarcity of tomatoes comes up. You have to be ready before time. Ever wonder how Susan Cain does it, “Preparation bro”. Day dream.
On issue of relationship, I’ve got little advice. First don’t beat yourselve about not having a girlfriend although it might be painful seeing how guys around you change girlfriends like wrappers are their ability to easily scope girls. When it comes to friendship, introverts are usually carefully. There are ladies out there who are naturally attracted to introverts. It means you have’nt meant the right girl. Make sure you are able to interprete green light because that is the indicator ladies give. A Google search should help you through this. Don’t enter into a relationship with a lady that does not understand and appreciates your personality. On the last part, read articles about talking to ladies to go out on a date with you, but remember anything you do, let it be spotaneous.
The reason why you fall asleep by 6:00 PM maybe due to your biological clock or nature of your Job. When you wake up to read or watch a movie, do you do this in the comfort of your bed? If yes, always read or watch movies while sitting down in a chair uprightly and you can decide to drink warm water. Make sure you’re well clothed, if possible wear socks.
Thinking of giving up on life? Bro the World is waiting for you. Any problem you’re facing, someone somewhere else is facing a worse scenero. Research and read books on building self esteem. Try to discover your God given talent and life will become worth living. On increasing your vocabulary, read books and watch good hollywood movies. If you have a PC, download “Audacity” and use it to practice speaking fluently, and also learn to practice of public speaking. Is it just names you forget? If yes, it happens to most introvers. Your coworkers thinks you’re stupid because they don’t know what your personality is, they see you as a weirdo and not as an introvert. Set goals for yourself and try to achieve them. I strongly recommend you read the book Quiet by Susan Cain, the pdf file is everywhere online. Whatever you do, be yourself. Life is amazing. Live a happy life. 3 Likes |
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