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hmm ur own good oo,I left my parents house when I finished secondary school

Omawumi18:
Do u stay in portharcourt?am an undergraduate of uniport. I ll love to enrol in ur skill acquisition school.abeg.....

Aww, good morning dear
We are based in lagos..and i live in lagos too.
Wev not yet extend to other states.

U hav a childish mentality.....
Grow up bro.

U hav a childish mentality.....
Grow up bro.
"any man dat complaints too much cannt grow in life"

sisisioge:
Are you serious sweetheart? They put you through school and are feeding/housing you now. Pls do not fail to launch...they have invested a lot on you biko. May God provide you with a good job o madam(sorry o, I meant oga, u sounded like a girl...).

About the little boy, it is his turn now.

is he really a boy i think say na woman dey talk maa

1. u are jobless; its affecting your reasoning
2. sincei graduated; I've not collected a dime from my mum and I was raised by her only btw and the only child....
3. we all have issues with our folks whenever we are idle...it is the unstated law
4. can u please grow up and stop whining. .
5. wch school did you attend?.....Private abi?....
no disrespect to private unis; we at the state kinda hustled for a lot, to eat, to class, we didn't pay for meal, I practically went hungry many times.......Ladokites can relate to that

*in Dracs voice* Go far away and never return

iPrevail:
Some people are just dumb, maybe for the fun of it.. Y'all calling him lazy and ineffectual didn't read where he said he wanted to go off to PH and start a job?

To you Op, you'll accomplish nothing through hate.. pata pata Na you e go kill.
Just chill okay? look for other jobs around your area or nearest locality. learn a skill or som'in.

However, follow your guts if you must! If you have a reliable friend you can crash with while trying to get a job.. cool, do it.

No look anybody face o.. This life na only you waka come.

But na somebody bring person come ooo!

amicable09:
Hi dear
What inspired you to choose this moniker?

It has been my nickname for a while now, I came up wit d moniker frm my name Amaka and yes, I'm amicable..

What abt u

Op enter Lagos, begin hustle... No thief o, nor kidnap, nor rape. Even if na conductor do am, sleep anywhere.
One day, one day NA one day your tory go change. Na so mine start na. But today I dey West side, now my papa don dey regard me dey dobale on top. Meanwhile my degree dey cool off for im drawers.

Elcemento:
Madam, well done oo. So this is you permanent abode now. Better bring yourself home now and come serve my eba and egusi soup

you know how we roll na . But you get bad mouth sha, you gat no chill for the guy at all.

Amicable24:
It has been my nickname for a while now, I came up wit d moniker frm my name Amaka and yes, I'm amicable..

What abt u

Oh! Uhm... Lol, It's been so many years and I can't even remember the details on how I came about it but I had a neighbour while growing up who called me that. I'm Amara by the way

amicable09:
Oh! Uhm... Lol, It's been so many years and I can't even remember the details on how I came about it but I had a neighbour while growing up who called me that. I'm Amara by the way

Nice meeting you

Amicable24:
Nice meeting you

Same here
See you around.

Hope you are aware that by starting to hate your mother you are also starting to hate yourself, except she isn't your biological mother.

Don't mind those modas sef!

Check out how d Eagles show "wickedness" to her eaglets:

stage 1: [b]The gathering of food and the nest

Now it’s the task of the mother to
feed the little eagles. I don’t know why
it’s the mother’s job, but it is. The
mother eagle goes out and finds the
food; flies back to the nest; stands on
the edge; and drops the food
systematically into the gaping mouths
of the little eaglets. It’s an unending
process as over and over again she
flies out and flies back.
This has been carefully researched;
while the mother eagle is out
"shopping," researchers have
rearranged the little eagles in the nest.
The mother, however, has an
absolutely unerring sense—she knows
exactly which babies have been fed
and which have not, and she never
misses.
The lessons taught in the nest
What a beautiful scene from nature
about how the Lord provides not only
for the birds of the air, but takes care
of us (see Matt. 6:26-27). The scene in
the nest should describe our spiritual
lives only initially, not forever,
however. Things don’t go on like this
forever, because the nest is not only a
place of feeding; it is also a school of
sorts.
Let me show you "the ways of an
eagle" in the nest, and give you a
picture of our lives as well. After the
eaglets get to a certain size, or
maturity, everything changes! One day
the mother eagle comes back from
being gone, but this time there’s no
food in her beak, and she doesn’t land
on the edge of the nest. Instead, she
hovers over the nest.
You may not know this, but an eagle
can do almost what a hummingbird
can do. Even though they are great
birds, they can remain almost
motionless in midair with those great
wings just undulating in the breeze.
They do this about three feet above
the nest. I’m sure if little eagles could
talk to one another—and maybe they
can—one would certainly say, "My,
what strong wings Mommy has."
Why does the mother do this? She is
demonstrating that those curious
appendages on the babies’ backs have
a useful function. Eagles, of course,
were meant to fly, but they don’t know
that. If we take an eagle and separate
it at birth from its parents, it will never
learn to fly . It will just grovel around in
the dirt like a chicken. It might even
look up and see eagles soaring
overhead and never guess that it was
meant to soar in the heavens.


stage 2
HOW EAGLES SHOWS "WICKEDNESS" TO EAGLETS


Eagles have to be taught, and that’s
the mother’s job. So first she just
demonstrates.
The next thing she does is come down
into the nest and surprise her young.
One can imagine how warm it must
normally be for the little eagles to
snuggle with their mother and be
enshrouded with her feathers, but this
time she puts her head up against one
of the little ones, and pushes that little
one closer and closer to the edge of
the nest. ("Hey mom, mom, what are
you doing?"
All at once she pushes the little one
out of the nest, and the eaglet falls
down the face of the cliff, surely to be
destroyed. But not so! In a flash the
great mother eagle flies down, catches
the little one on her back, and flies up
and deposits it in the nest. ("Whew!
Mom, that must have been an
accident." [b]But it wasn’t an accident.
The mother bird pushes the little one
out again, and again, over and over.
Why would a mother do that to her
young? Does she hates the little one?
Not at all. It’s just that those little
birds were made to fly, and they don’t
know it, so she is going to push them
out of the nest. She never lets them
hit bottom, but she does let them fall,
because they have to learn something
they don’t know.
The next time the mother bird comes
back she decides to clean house, and
so she stands on the edge of the nest.
The first things to go are the feathers
inside; she drops them over the edge.
Then the leaves go over the edge—
heave ho! While this is going on, she’s
not very talkative, either. ("Mom, what
are you doing?" She pays no
attention. Since she built the house,
she knows how to take it apart.
Next she decides to take the sticks
out of the middle of the nest, and with
her great strong beak and feet, she’s
able to break them off and stand them
straight up. ("Mom, it’s not
comfortable in here anymore." Then
she takes certain key sticks out of the
nest and throws them over the edge.
("What are you doing, Mom? You are
wrecking my room."
She seemingly pays no attention to
the concerns of her young as she
prepares to pull the nest apart, for she
is determined that those little ones will
fly, and she knows something they
don’t. She knows they will never fly as
long as they remain in the nest.[/b]
Again, the Bible tells us all about these
things. Deuteronomy 32:11 says,
"...like an eagle that stirs up its nest
(makes it uncomfortable) and hovers
over its young, (showing them how to
fly) that spreads its wings to catch
them (as He pushes them out of the
nest) and carries them on its
pinions..." so is the Lord God to His
people.
God is out to mature us. Because we
were made to fly, He will stir up our
nest—our world. We weren’t made to
languish in the comfortable
surroundings of our nest-like world.
We’re created in the image of God,
made to fly and train our young to do
the same. You and I were made to
soar, but sometimes we simply don’t
know it or forget it, so there are times
when God will push us out of the nest.
"Hey, God, what are You doing? I was
enjoying the food You were feeding
me. I just had to wait with my mouth
open and You provided for my needs.
What is happening now, Lord? I’m
getting hungry. Surely You don’t
expect me to feed myself?"
Or maybe your eaglet experience is,
"Hey, Lord, what are You doing? I feel
like I am falling—like everything in my
life is heading for disaster. Surely You
don’t expect me to fall! How could I
possibly be responsible to help others
and be responsible for my own
actions. You don’t want me to fly, do
You?"

Re: Eagles' "wickedness

Source:


http://www.eagleflight.org/cyberstudies/actions-and-attitudes-of-a-growing-church/157-with-eagles-wings

DonOms:
3) DO NOT EXPECT HELP FROM ANYONE. Don't get me wrong. You can accept help, but never expect it's someone's job to give it. This will give you a sense of responsibility that will give you the edge you need in this competitive world of ours.

Op, meditate on these words, you will become the giver instead of the receiver in that family in the shortest time.

My brother you're not a bad guy neither are you a lazy guy only that you lack understanding and refused to take control of your life which they want you. I lost my parents when i was still in jss1 but i am graduate today managing my business and still looking for the best for my life and every one directly or indirectly identifies with me. So my brother your parents only want you to take charge of your self, take decision that will favour you even sometimes without they consent. With God you will succeed.

Never you hate your parents, God made them the source of your life- proverb 1:8.

Bros u shouldn't have brought it here, ur'e own is even good. Just chill and live a quiet and calm life till u get a job.

Holywizard:
sir, pls I am still waiting.
Should in case u'd be needing my account details...

ACC name--Ndukwe Wisdom
ACC No. 6170634284
Fidelity bank

God bless

I believe you have seen your alert by now, pls leave the sir part.

TheArchangel:
You sound so entitled to your mum's pocket. So she can't treat herself to good things because she has an ineffectual Buffon as a son.?

Get off

Guys, please, stop quoting me to yarn trash. A grown ass man yapping about how he hate his mum, huh? Yo want me to clap for him? Ain't happening. Thanks for your understanding.

You're always harsh in your comments! What kind of person are you? You keep calling people ineffectual buffon in every thread, is that how you're brought up? Change your ways girl because you may take this bad attitude to a man's house and he may not tolerate it

U know ehat they say... that if u have a boring life because u listened to ur parents, pastors n co on how to live life, it's ur fault. so sorry. But it's a lesson.

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

U know what they say... that if u have a boring life because u listened to ur parents, pastors n co on how to live life, it's ur fault. so sorry. But it's a lesson.

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

I'm also wondering if they didn't see that line or everyone is trying to act 'mama's love' online even those that fight their mothers...smh

Holywizard dear, I think your mum is being over protective of you which she doesn't know she is doing and you are also misunderstanding that. Both of you misunderstand eachother. I say this because you said you got a job in PH but she wouldn't let you go. Maybe she doesn't want you to stay with a friend she can't trust.

To avoid this hate ,please leave the house,go stay with any of your siblings while you wait for your service ok.

Sometimes when people scold me on certain issues,I try to see the good side of it by saying 'oh! they care but simply don't know they do'.
Find another job,don't worry about the one you missed. Someday,both of you will remember this little drama and laugh it off. Mum will apologize to you i.e. if all you said is truly how it's happening.

And, hey! Don't worry about the online insults..lots of fake ass and wannabes on the Internet.

iPrevail:
Some people are just dumb, maybe for the fun of it.. Y'all calling him lazy and ineffectual didn't read where he said he wanted to go off to PH and start a job?

To you Op, you'll accomplish nothing through hate.. pata pata Na you e go kill.
Just chill okay? look for other jobs around your area or nearest locality. learn a skill or som'in.

However, follow your guts if you must! If you have a reliable friend you can crash with while trying to get a job.. cool, do it.

No look anybody face o.. This life na only you waka come.

[quote author=Acidosis post=46517080]So none of your elder siblings is ready to accommodate you?

They left the same house to their present locations, and want you to stay back home?



Grow up bro.that means its time for you to take a step forward bro

saintandsinnerz:
You're always harsh in your comments! What kind of person are you? You keep calling people ineffectual buffon in every thread, is that how you're brought up? Change your ways girl because you may take this bad attitude to a man's house and he may not tolerate it

Get the fuc out of my mentions.
Men are now gods that should be worshipped. Being in a man's house is how you equate successful women.? Caveman. Nigerian sorry excuse of men are tolerated here not the other way round.

Man house my left black ass. So standing on the existing protocol, i have to repeat the Ineffectual Buffon name on you. Deal with it.


Ignore if you can. Having one of my bad days.

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

But why the emphasis on your mother? What happened to your father?

Charity begins at home. The same energy it'll take you to love is the same you'll need to hate. Start doing somethings for yourself and try to assist your mum in other areas.

@holywizard hope u now get my point about assistance from @shitshappen pls learn to detect opportunity he don't spell it out but I saw d handwriting on the wall.
some people still show mercy in this wicked world.

Daddy's little girl