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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by olac21(m): 12:01am On Jun 15, 2016
What's this thing saying?Na that your shoe dey freak you abi?Teamvirginity ko teammorbidityni!Oloshos tagging themselves Virgins!Go fvck your self biatch!
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by olac21(m): 12:09am On Jun 15, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#E238EC]°This the truuuuth!!!
If you want to sex her like a wife = you take care of her and her needs like a wife!!!!![/color]
Oponu leleyi o
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 12:13am On Jun 15, 2016
olac21:
Oponu leleyi o
°Why are you always insulting mehuh?
...I know yer an insultive man,I've seen yer comments.
But you go out of yer way to quote and insult me? Whyhuh?
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(op): 12:13am On Jun 15, 2016
olac21:
What's this thing saying?Na that your shoe dey freak you abi?Teamvirginity ko teammorbidityni!Oloshos tagging themselves Virgins!Go fvck your self biatch!
KID
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by anadozie1: 1:00am On Jun 15, 2016
Any girl that requests for money from her Guy because she had sex with him, which both of them enjoyed is simply a wh*ore. I see no difference between them and prostitutes. So don't complain when we guys see you ladies as sex objects. You ladies made it so.

Nb: Guys don't spend on your girl because you had sex with her. Spend on her because you feel is the right thing to do and because you want to.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 1:04am On Jun 15, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
my account was banned last month. Over a month now. But was freed 2 days ago that's why you haven't seen my posts on that account.

It's back now tho. Just too lazy to log it in
I thought as much. The way you dey take chop ban ehn... grin welcome back bro
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by ClintonDal(m): 1:08am On Jun 15, 2016
You folks have just decided not to get it. The problem here is the link between sex and money. How did it even come about? Sex with your man is not doing him a favor cos you obviously enjoyed it too.
These are just mere stories and counter accusations. Until you came come up with a tangible reason why sex is tied to money then your argument is flawed. Same goes for the guys too who think giving a woman money is directly proportional to her offering her kpekus.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 1:21am On Jun 15, 2016
Laveda:
Then what?
Be careful while at it. tongue
And how do I do that? undecided

Well, I am. tongue
NeverMind tongue

It is not that i will rip it off grin I'm a gentle being

Don't worry, time will tell grin grin

I dont think your name is 'No one' cheesy tongue

Anyways, it's nice meeting a lady with with some sense of humour. tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by drmikeadams(m): 1:45am On Jun 15, 2016
hibiscus76:
You're right but the truth remains that most of them if not all see us as objects of sexual gratification only..
?.where ve u been all my life? grin
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 5:42am On Jun 15, 2016
hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!!
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You wrote in your post "pay for damages".

So am paying for Sex? Is that what you mean...

Its mentality like this that makes people like PaulKillerman talk trash about girls.

If you are looking for happiness, and you think No sex relationship is the solution. Then you must be 16 years or something...because you talk like one.

If a guy is spending a lot on a lady and she is giving him sex, at the end if she still says she is not marrying him.

If the guy loves her and wants to marry her, he will still feel the pain. Irrespective or whether they've been having sex or not.

So life is not black and white as you seem. But you are probably too young and inexperienced to know that.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 7:53am On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
I thought as much. The way you dey take chop ban ehn... grin welcome back bro
no mind those mods o. I get the longest ban for the tiniest offence. Dunno why


Imagine getting over 4 weeks ban for typing 'fvcktard' shocked
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by rosieluv(f): 8:55am On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
Sex free relationship for where? and some guy will be somewhere shagging my acclaimed virgin grin Abeg, let them ask for the money, we shall give it to them. cheesy
lols dnt worry no1 wil shag ur virgin,she wil wait for u
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Aviero: 9:16am On Jun 15, 2016
Nnamsco4real:
Asides sex, what else does your gf offer you?
Don't tell me she feeds you, else I assume you are there for her pleasure only.
Lol. She found me a job. Before that, she sponsored my project. Fam, I'll just say I'm bloody lucky.

[s]It seems I'm the one that has only sex to offer. LMAO[/s]
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by NevetsIbot(m): 9:43am On Jun 15, 2016
Laveda:
Nice one, but then I don't totally agree with you..

Why should a girl feel cause she had sex with a certain dude he's supposed to take care of her every need? I mean they both enjoyed it..

A relationship should be a two way thing and not the girl solely depending on the dude for her every need, no way!!! I don't support that.. In as much as I don't like some guys seeing females as sex objects I wouldn't Also want us to make it a must that a guy should Care for our every need cause of sex.
you're totally right!!! I love you already lady
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by NevetsIbot(m): 9:45am On Jun 15, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#E238EC]°This the truuuuth!!!
If you want to sex her like a wife = you take care of her and her needs like a wife!!!!![/color]
come on cheezypuff.... Dnt tell me you side with this.


Sheeesh!!!
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 10:09am On Jun 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
you're totally right!!! I love you already lady
Thank you. smiley
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 10:37am On Jun 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
come on cheezypuff.... Dnt tell me you side with this.


Sheeesh!!!
°Yes and no.
I know that every sex relation will not and should not mean a man should treat a woman as his wife.
But I do feel sex is the privileged of a husband and it's why I'm team #virgin tell wedding night.
Because i know I want to be sexed AND taken care of like a wife.
and marriage is the way, the right way,for me to go about having that.

Anymore clarifications neededhuh? smiley
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 11:36am On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
NeverMind tongue

It is not that i will rip it off grin I'm a gentle being

Don't worry, time will tell grin grin

I dont think your name is 'No one' cheesy tongue

Anyways, it's nice meeting a lady with with some sense of humour. tongue
smiley grin

Nice meeting ya too. tongue

Morning Lekan smiley
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by NevetsIbot(m): 1:16pm On Jun 15, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°Yes and no.
I know that every sex relation will not and should not mean a man should treat a woman as his wife.
But I do feel sex is the privileged of a husband and it's why I'm team #virgin tell wedding night.
Because i know I want to be sexed AND taken care of like a wife.
and marriage is the way, the right way,for me to go about having that.

Anymore clarifications neededhuh? smiley
No more.

You seem confused!
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 15, 2016
NevetsIbot:
No more.

You seem confused!
grin grin grin...
...*I bet I know why I,"seem confused "
.... because I said sex was the privilege of a husband? grin
Or was it the wait tell marriage to have sex? grin

Please do share your feelings on the topic.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 2:09pm On Jun 15, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
no mind those mods o. I get the longest ban for the tiniest offence. Dunno why


Imagine getting over 4 weeks ban for typing 'fvcktard' shocked
probably they have black listed your moniker. Don't be surprised if you get a lifetime ban grin
i never chop ban before, i no know how e dey be. grin
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 2:12pm On Jun 15, 2016
Laveda:
smiley grin

Nice meeting ya too. tongue

Morning Lekan smiley
Good Afternoon ermmmm angry (i don't even know the name yet) angry lemme call you 'Abeni'
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 2:16pm On Jun 15, 2016
rosieluv:
lols dnt worry no1 wil shag ur virgin,she wil wait for u
lol, Who cares, so long i do the shagging too. It's a free world. cheesy
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by rosieluv(f): 3:37pm On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
lol, Who cares, so long i do the shagging too. It's a free world. cheesy
grin
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 3:43pm On Jun 15, 2016
rosieluv:
grin
what is it with the teeth? oya take your own tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 3:59pm On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
Good Afternoon ermmmm angry (i don't even know the name yet) angry lemme call you 'Abeni'
Uhhmm I'm Laveda. smiley





tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by rosieluv(f): 4:00pm On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
what is it with the teeth? oya take your own tongue
lols take wat?
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 4:13pm On Jun 15, 2016
Laveda:
Uhhmm I'm Laveda. smiley





tongue
Not the tongue out smiley again grin

I didn't see that name in the dictionary tongue Wanna help with the meaning? cheesy
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 4:14pm On Jun 15, 2016
rosieluv:
lols take wat?
tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2016
bqlekan:
Not the tongue out smiley again grin

I didn't see that name in the dictionary tongue Wanna help with the meaning? cheesy
Lol yeah..

Purified.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 15, 2016
BeastAmbition:
MOE! Bills over any fu*cken shit! f*uck the p*ussies! f*uck the bi*tches! fu*ck the p*ussy assniggaz!


You exist only for men sexual gratifications and procreation, all other things is secondary.
STALE, why is it stale? its because I have heard it somewhere, oh wait! someone said same thing on my thread. Ok,bye.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by NevetsIbot(m): 6:56pm On Jun 15, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
grin grin grin...
...*I bet I know why I,"seem confused "
.... because I said sex was the privilege of a husband? grin
Or was it the wait tell marriage to have sex? grin

Please do share your feelings on the topic.
I have no problem with the wait till marriage... Buh for the ''sex is a priviledge for the husband''.... That's where I disagree with.


Sex, both inside and outside marriage is a privilege for both genders.... the girl wan say she no get orgasm ni or that she didnt enjoy ithuh Turns out that the way women are wired, the enjoy sex more... So if at all we're to call sex a privilege fot one gender... It will be a privilege for women....
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