Hisduchess:


lolzz.thanks.buh that ur moniker though

don't be shy dear, say what u thought about it.... the 3rdleg nigga has a mind of it's own and i wouldn't wanna go in to details about it's qualities, not proper

I trust my galfrd wit 100% nd she can't disappoint me.

[quote author=toniapat post=46312392]A woman's post...u might want to read it

Don't ever generalize. Never ever generalize no matter what. No matter how terrible most men are, there are still good men out there; thats the kind of philosophy that got me through it all and I'm grateful to God for where I am today. Does trusting a woman make you stupid? No. Even if you trust her and she betrays the trust, for God sake it doesn't make you stupid!

I tried never to maintain a hard, unbending philosophy that all men are cheats and monsters even though i had been served fatally before. There is no such thing as "they are all thesame". There are still wonderful women out there, just that the dirty herd has masked the good ones. sometimes women just think men don't deserve their faithfulness cos they are an adulterous breed and so they throw caution in the wind. Forgetting they would end up losing more

One of my hard rules was; I don't do guys who tried to impress me with their expensive rides #fuckyou! (sorry for d lang) and I block out any man who starts off by buy "things" or offering d "wanna go out?" towel. Men just can't hide it...one way or the other u know the fake ones. Where i was raised, women had self-worth. Men couldn't buy us with their smelly stash.

One day my ex looked at me and said with a low tone "so there are still good girls around". He loved me, flaunted and spoilt me but he still messed up one day even though I had his back. I moved on but I didn't put the blame on every man God created. I respect men a lot cos they are unique, strong, and mature. I know how some women can be brutal to men too but not all women. Four relationships down and I was feeling shattered cos I was never d one who flopped. Yet I never generalised

One day I met someone. He promised to be good, I trusted him and I put the past behind me. He proposed to me within four weeks of courtship, it was hard but I trusted him. I told him i would be faithful and he believed me. Does that make him stupid? Common guys...I never doublecrossed my ex but he flopped.
It's two years into our marriage and every day is just better. Sometimes I wonder how I got so lucky. He treasures me like d girl he's still planning to woo. Some men can be dat great. We have a one year old son and we are happy. I never generalised, it paid off.

You can paint women black all you want but what would u say about the woman u would one day love. What kind of man would you be to her and what would she say about you?
Whatever you say or do....Don't ever generalize

God bless you sister. Your post have really rejuvenate my trust in womanhood.

toniapat:
A woman's post...u might want to read it

Don't ever generalize. Never ever generalize no matter what. No matter how terrible most men are, there are still good men out there; thats the kind of philosophy that got me through it all and I'm grateful to God for where I am today. Does trusting a woman make you stupid? No. Even if you trust her and she betrays the trust, for God sake it doesn't make you stupid!

I tried never to maintain a hard, unbending philosophy that all men are cheats and monsters even though i had been served fatally before. There is no such thing as "they are all thesame". There are still wonderful women out there, just that the dirty herd has masked the good ones. sometimes women just think men don't deserve their faithfulness cos they are an adulterous breed and so they throw caution in the wind. Forgetting they would end up losing more

One of my hard rules was; I don't do guys who tried to impress me with their expensive rides #fuckyou! (sorry for d lang) and I block out any man who starts off by buy "things" or offering d "wanna go out?" towel. Men just can't hide it...one way or the other u know the fake ones. Where i was raised, women had self-worth. Men couldn't buy us with their smelly stash.

One day my ex looked at me and said with a low tone "so there are still good girls around". He loved me, flaunted and spoilt me but he still messed up one day even though I had his back. I moved on but I didn't put the blame on every man God created. I respect men a lot cos they are unique, strong, and mature. I know how some women can be brutal to men too but not all women. Four relationships down and I was feeling shattered cos I was never d one who flopped. Yet I never generalised

One day I met someone. He promised to be good, I trusted him and I put the past behind me. He proposed to me within four weeks of courtship, it was hard but I trusted him. I told him i would be faithful and he believed me. Does that make him stupid? Common guys...I never doublecrossed my ex but he flopped.
It's two years into our marriage and every day is just better. Sometimes I wonder how I got so lucky. He treasures me like d girl he's still planning to woo. Some men can be dat great. We have a one year old son and we are happy. I never generalised, it paid off.

You can paint women black all you want but what would u say about the woman u would one day love. What kind of man would you be to her and what would she say about you?
Whatever you say or do....Don't ever generalize

.....Lovely post!!....Unfortunately the average nairaland male is just too immature/childish to get your drift.

...They spend all their productive time on this forum whinning and generalizing about how 'bad' women are(usually Naija women)..In the process they miss out on any chance of finding the right one cos they are consummed by bitterness,anger and frustration...

...One bad experience and they either become monsters or threatn to be one ...like disappointment is not part of life.Its okay to be cautious after a bad experience,but being so bitter and shrieking from dusk to dawn how women are ALL bad will not help at all..At the end of the day who loses??...cos i am yet to see a shallow,bitter and nasty man who is happily married...a word is enough for the wise.


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stigmond:



Guy, you know nothing about me. Okay!!! And if I said I trust my GF 100% is non of all your problem. Because you don't know what our relationship is all about. Though I don't know about your girl or any other girls out there but my own believe and opinion towards my own girl friend is 100% guaranteed. And there is different between mine believe and yours because individuality is allowed....

so you want to cry now? Simple because he told you the "BLUNT TRUTH"...pack well oga

Trini45:
so you want to cry now? Simple because he told you the "BLUNT TRUTH"...pack well oga

Lolsss. You need serious help. I think your problem is beyond normal human reasoning. I quoted my opinion on this issue long time ago that I don't even remember the date and you're here insulting me on it. Do you even understand the topic at all? In case u don't, this is it "(DO YOU Trust That Girl You Are Dating?) it asked about personal experience. Guy! You need to get a life. Rather than resurrecting dead discussion . And I think the person that created the topic didn't do it for insulting purpose but to impact more understanding.

I trust God and my family

halfricanadian:

Did i tell u im nigerian?

Baby!!! I miss u.. how've u.been

armylord:
Baby!!! I miss u.. how've u.been

Good you? i miss u more sef

halfricanadian:


Good you? i miss u more sef

I'm great , just a lil bit cold.. sprained my ankle couple of days back.. its swollen..

armylord:
I'm great , just a lil bit cold.. sprained my ankle couple of days back.. its swollen..

Awwwww so sorry

Let me kiss it for u

I never believed the story of girls' unfaithfulness until recently.

A Unilag babe that was in a serious relationship was sleeping with my flat mate!..It's that terrible.

My question is why? This guy calls like all the time and showers her with a lot of gifts and care, but it's always my flat mate's arms that she finds solace.

Later, when a babe claims she loves me and i run away. They will say I'm a coward, LOL!

The truth of the matter is something is missing in that kind of relationship, or the fact that the babe is psychologically deranged. She needs to be evaluated, because her situation is no longer physical. Wallahi.

Be that as it may, there are excellent relationships everywhere. Believe Me.

We all need to watch and be prayerful. Some girls are dangerous.

My name is Deturla, and i run a Relationship, Events and Photoblog at www.deedeesblog.com

halfricanadian:


Awwwww so sorry

Let me kiss it for u

Aww thank u love.. it feels soo much better.. plus u got very soft lips..

armylord:
Aww thank u love.. it feels soo much better.. plus u got very soft lips..

ogbeni, you see your life. just common kiss wey she blow (who knows if she truly blow the kiss sef) nai leg wey you break some days back don suddenly dey feel better. Guys ehn!!! Na only toto fit kill us shar. The love of toto.

stupidity:
ogbeni, you see your life. just common kiss wey she blow (who knows if she truly blow the kiss sef) nai leg wey you break some days back don suddenly dey feel better. Guys ehn!!! Na only toto fit kill us shar. The love of toto.

lol its not toto bros.. toto is overrated.I love Halfricanadian .. yes I said it!! first nairalander..I'm attached to .. she .. is unique

Dude no offense but it seems the problem is with you.

The ladies you date don't respect you that why she can just dress up after sex with you to meet another guy..

You are like a living Love Machine, just for sexual satisfaction , no strings attached

As aforementioned no offense intended.

armylord:
lol its not toto bros.. toto is overrated.I love Halfricanadian .. yes I said it!! first nairalander..I'm attached to .. she .. is unique

Tank u

halfricanadian:

Tank u

:* .. u wc love

armylord:
:* .. u wc love

halfricanadian:

Aww u look so cute

[quote author=Silas0 post=46416473][/quote]

This is lovely

armylord:
Aww u look so cute

Awwwww thank u

halfricanadian:

Awwwww thank u

u wc bae

armylord:
u wc bae

How are u today?

halfricanadian:


How are u today?

I'm good , just woke up.. tho . brain still trying to boot.. how u ?

armylord:
I'm good , just woke up.. tho . brain still trying to boot.. how u ?

lol wen u are nt me?

Im good o fine at d same time

halfricanadian:

lol wen u are nt me?

Im good o fine at d same time

I guess d constant electricity supply is helping matters for u.ba? . here in Jos .. the epileptic power supply is frustrating.. the Generator magically yelled at me for over use..

armylord:
I guess d constant electricity supply is helping matters for u.ba? . here in Jos .. the epileptic power supply is frustrating.. the Generator magically yelled at me for over use..

lol abi na

So sorry shey make we go phcn office go beat their boss?

halfricanadian:

lol abi na

So sorry shey make we go phcn office go beat their boss?

no o sweet heart.. ion want them to touch u.. ill go alone

armylord:
no o sweet heart.. ion want them to touch u.. ill go alone

No i cant let them touch u either i gat to go wiv u

halfricanadian:


No i cant let them touch u either i gat to go wiv u

he he .. aww.. I lawv u

armylord:
he he .. aww.. I lawv u

Awwww