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k by succyblinks(op): 11:39pm On Jun 23, 2016*

Re: k by halfricanadian(f): 11:43pm On Jun 23, 2016

He is treating u like gabbage u saying u wanna stay is like u presenting ursef to him also as a bucket of maggot sorry tho

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Re: k by thorpido(m): 11:43pm On Jun 23, 2016

First guy hangover!
He disvirgined you,so what?You can't let him go because of that.You realise he treats you like trash,so why not let go so you can have someone in you life who would treat you well?
If you do not live on the same street with him,stop answering his calls,block him on social media and avoid him coming to visit you.With time,you'll get over him.

Commit suicide kwa?How old are you?

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Re: k by raphie01(f): 11:45pm On Jun 23, 2016

Once he starts hitting you, its time to move on. Most times we give these sonzabeeches the go-ahead to hit us! Damn.

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Re: k by ikbnice(m): 11:46pm On Jun 23, 2016

The fact that he disflowered you doesn't tie you to him till eternity. You shouldn't start suffering at this boyfriend/girlfriend stage. Sit him down and have a heart to heart discussion with him, if he doesn't change, then he is not yours. Forget suicide, it's for the cowards.

Re: k by vizkiz: 11:46pm On Jun 23, 2016

halfricanadian:
He is treating u like gabbage u saying u wanna stay is like u presenting ursef to him also as a bucket of maggot sorry tho

Advice her

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Re: k by dillycool(f): 11:47pm On Jun 23, 2016

Commit suicide over a guy?
Please re consider. There are lots of men out there for you to choose from.

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Re: k by ojun50(m): 11:47pm On Jun 23, 2016

Nd am here searching for a partner nd dis lady is with a man who wil kill her one day.

My dear leave that relationship bf is too late.

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Re: k by magabounce(m): 11:48pm On Jun 23, 2016

Love could be really confusing tho.
It's safe to say uv built ur world around him, buh trust me, out there are other bricklayers who could build their world's around u.
Receive sense to act fast.
Ur boyfriend yaf taya

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Re: k by halfricanadian(f): 11:48pm On Jun 23, 2016

vizkiz:
Advice her

Done that

Told her d truth

Ive come to realise it

If u place ur sef low nd accept all bullsh*t like a mother theresa get ready to b walked over

So stand ur ground he hits u u move on

Virginity ko even virgins die painful will we na say are dey not saint nd non virgins enjoying life in a large way

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Re: k by succyblinks(op): 11:50pm On Jun 23, 2016

halfricanadian:
He is treating u like gabbage u saying u wanna stay is like u presenting ursef to him also as a bucket of maggot sorry tho

I swear you won't understand, it's not as if I want to stay but I just can't find enough strength to move on

Re: k by kirchofff(m): 11:52pm On Jun 23, 2016

raphie01:
Once he starts hitting you, its time to move on. Most times we give these sonzabeeches the go-ahead to hit us! Damn.

hey whollop?

Re: k by vizkiz: 11:52pm On Jun 23, 2016

halfricanadian:
Done that

Told her d truth

Ive come to realise it

If u place ur sef low nd accept all bullsh*t like a mother theresa get ready to b walked over

So stand ur ground he hits u u move on

Virginity ko even virgins die painful will we na say are dey not saint nd non virgins enjoying life in a large way

The reason why I quoted you an not her is because I don't have any clue what she is experiencing as a lady...but i want you to show she step by step guide.

She is inlove baby...just the way you are inlove with me

Re: k by succyblinks(op): 11:53pm On Jun 23, 2016

thorpido:
First guy hangover!
He disvirgined you,so what?You can't let him go because of that.You realise he treats you like trash,so why not let go so you can have someone in you life who would treat you well?
If you do not live on the same street with him,stop answering his calls,block him on social media and avoid him coming to visit you.With time,you'll get over him.

Commit suicide kwa?How old are you?

am in my early twenties, I don't need no soothsayer to tell me to move on but I just can't find the strength, apart from my ex schoolmates who I see once in a blue moon he's my only friend

Re: k by foolinlove(f): 11:54pm On Jun 23, 2016

This is awful but you need to leave him.

I've tried to take my life over a guy and it just made more trouble for me, not him because he didn't care if I live or die anyway.

Cut him off. Don't listen if he comes back begging. You may be able to find someone better.

The bottom line is that if he breaks things off all the time he just doesn't want to be with you. Accept it and live with that pain. It is a lesson. You're young. You overcame a lot of battles to be with him, so this is just another step to God's plan. Another battle. Fight through it.

Value yourself and show everyone, including yourself, that you are better than his behaviour. Better to be single than someone's punching bag.

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Re: k by succyblinks(op): 11:55pm On Jun 23, 2016

ojun50:
Nd am here searching for a partner nd dis lady is with a man who wil kill her one day.

My dear leave that relationship bf is too late.

lol.. search well oh

Re: k by ForeverYoung197(f): 11:56pm On Jun 23, 2016

You can get over him if you really wanted to. Nobody can help you but yourself. Now if you commit suicide, it's your lost and not him. Eventually he will just move on with his life while you're cold and lifeless and worse, he could even bring his other b1tch on your wake.
So, stop being sorry to yourself. Get rid of useless people in your life and you will grow as a better person.

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Re: k by succyblinks(op): 11:57pm On Jun 23, 2016

foolinlove:
This is awful but you need to leave him.

I've tried to take my life over a guy and it just made more trouble for me, not him because he didn't care if I live or die anyway.

Cut him off. Don't listen if he comes back begging. You may be able to find someone better.

The bottom line is that if he breaks things off all the time he just doesn't want to be with you. Accept it and live with that pain. It is a lesson. You're young. You overcame a lot of battles to be with him, so this is just another step to God's plan. Another battle. Fight through it.

Value yourself and show everyone, including yourself, that you are better than his behaviour. Better to be single than someone's punching bag.

this literally brought tears to my eyes
thanks a lot

Re: k by vizkiz: 11:58pm On Jun 23, 2016

foolinlove:
This is awful but you need to leave him.

I've tried to take my life over a guy and it just made more trouble for me, not him because he didn't care if I live or die anyway.

Cut him off. Don't listen if he comes back begging. You may be able to find someone better.

The bottom line is that if he breaks things off all the time he just doesn't want to be with you. Accept it and live with that pain. It is a lesson. You're young. You overcame a lot of battles to be with him, so this is just another step to God's plan. Another battle. Fight through it.

Value yourself and show everyone, including yourself, that you are better than his behaviour. Better to be single than someone's punching bag.

First reasonable comment from you. Doesn't mean you wouldn't go back acting like a misandrist as usual

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Re: k by ojun50(m): 11:59pm On Jun 23, 2016

succyblinks:
lol.. search well oh

thanks my dear.

Re: k by Trudiee(f): 12:00am On Jun 24, 2016

Maan, ladies nowadays.. talking about women subjugation, we r the ones who subjugate ourselves. my dear, first rule of dating.. love yourself FIRST. he treats u like trash.. u just said so and u still need advice. he deflowered you.. so freaking what?? u ve always wanted to marry the man that deflowers u, u probably should've waited till u actually got married to him..

but that's by the way. the fact that he was ur first does not make him perfect for u or.. how do i put it.. compulsory that u d marry him.

come to think of it, he hits u. I'm tired of typing. find a man who respects you first. if he hits u, he s a freaking coward.. and an animal. you sure as hell don't want to get stuck with one.

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Re: k by Mjshexy(f): 12:01am On Jun 24, 2016

Sweetheart pls take the tots of suicide off your mind. Uv actually fallen in love with a man who doesn't care about you, he knows u love him so much & feels u can't do without him all because he has taken ur virginity. You really have to prove him wrong by standing ur ground my dear.
God has designed a particular man/woman for everyone of us but most time we reject God's choice for us and go for ours, u must knw that your parents & siblings re all looking unto u, pls don't let them down, that man doesn't deserve u dear. Give ursef some sense... sad

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Re: k by halfricanadian(f): 12:01am On Jun 24, 2016

succyblinks:
I swear you won't understand, it's not as if I want to stay but I just can't find enough strength to move on

It might hurt you to walk away bt never compare to the pain of staying

Dont let d fear of being alone keep u in a relationship where u are alone embarassed

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Re: k by thorpido(m): 12:02am On Jun 24, 2016

succyblinks:
am in my early twenties, I don't need no soothsayer to tell me to move on but I just can't find the strength, apart from my ex schoolmates who I see once in a blue moon he's my only friend

Let me help you.What do you do now?School or work?
If you school and he is not in the same dept or faculty with you,get busy with activities around school.Get into extra-curricular activities,join a club.Make acquitances.
If you work,then most of your day will be spent there including communing to and fro.What you need is learning how to occupy yourself.

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Re: k by foolinlove(f): 12:02am On Jun 24, 2016

succyblinks:
this literally brought tears to my eyes
thanks a lot

You are welcome. God is with you always.

Re: k by VaginaTerrorist(m): 12:04am On Jun 24, 2016

The Girl Is AdDicted To OnE Man PricK.

APC!!!!

CHANGE!!!!!!

Re: k by halfricanadian(f): 12:05am On Jun 24, 2016

vizkiz:
The reason why I quoted you an not her is because I don't have any clue what she is experiencing as a lady...but i want you to show she step by step guide.

She is inlove baby...just the way you are inlove with me

I feel like we both waiting for something that aint goin to happen

Re: k by foolinlove(f): 12:05am On Jun 24, 2016

vizkiz:
First reasonable comment from you. Doesn't mean you wouldn't go back acting like a misandrist as usual

You haven't seen my advice to men on here? Some good advice to men who have been cheated by their girlfriends, solid advice that has been well met.

I'm not a bad person, I've been damaged by men who did me wrong. So I refuse to date because I refuse to be hurt again. Yes, I hate men. So what? How is that hurting you? It makes no difference to your life so why care so much?

Re: k by succyblinks(op): 12:06am On Jun 24, 2016

Mjshexy:
Sweetheart pls take the tots of suicide off your mind. Uv actually fallen in love with a man who doesn't care about you, he knows u love him so much & feels u can't do without him all because he has taken ur virginity. You really have to prove him wrong by standing ur ground my dear.
God has designed a particular man/woman for everyone of us but most time we reject God's choice for us and go for ours, u must knw that your parents & siblings re all looking unto u, pls don't let them down, that man doesn't deserve u dear. Give ursef some sense...

thanks a lot, it hurts so bad but I'll move on

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Re: k by succyblinks(op): 12:08am On Jun 24, 2016

halfricanadian:
It might hurt you to walk away bt never compare to the pain of staying

Dont let d fear of being alone keep u in a relationship where u are alone

God/Allah bless you

Re: k by Lasveg(m): 12:08am On Jun 24, 2016

succyblinks:
I swear you won't understand, it's not as if I want to stay but I just can't find enough strength to move on

Op i've been there b4, i knoow how ur feeling. I waas able to pull out of dis kind of relationship after asking maaself some questions. And right now, i'm over her.

Re: k by vizkiz: 12:09am On Jun 24, 2016

halfricanadian:
I feel like we both waiting for something that aint goin to happen

lol...and what might that be?

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