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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by sade1994(f): 3:14pm On Jul 02, 2016
Umarlulu:
in bed? cheesy


Mtchewwwwww grin
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Lovelynature(m): 3:16pm On Jul 02, 2016
LuveU2:
Well said!

@my signature.We need you on our lane. Hope that's no biggy? smiley
lol dear, all these Miss this and Mr that is not just my way. Inasmuch as I appreciate the idea, I usually stand miles away and watch in 3D while focusing on areas I consider more productive to me as a youth.

Nevertheless, notify me when it's time.

Your username is endearing. Most comments lovely and you look quite pretty as well.

Hope your bae isn't a Nairalander too? I don't want him to start frowning face at you after seeing my comments cheesycheesy
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Umarlulu: 3:19pm On Jul 02, 2016
sade1994:



Mtchewwwwww grin
Lol sorry no vex
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Adeyinka1758(m): 3:19pm On Jul 02, 2016
Need to know why those incompetent mumu mods didn't move this to frontpage because i see no difference...

www.nairaland.com/3182861/10-things-ladies-look-out

Bunch of Zombies...
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Odani: 3:22pm On Jul 02, 2016
DJHANDSOME:
When them clock 40 their eye go clearundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecidedundecided

I take it that u lack all 10 qualities angry grin
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 02, 2016
BrainnewsNg:




Thanks op

What a nice piece

materialism!
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 02, 2016
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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Saylawchar(m): 3:51pm On Jul 02, 2016
ikbnice:
and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.

The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him.

Am a living witness to this.....
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Agmohd008(m): 4:13pm On Jul 02, 2016
sade1994:
What I mostly check for is if you are hardworking.. .
Hardworking; marry donkey, it wont disappoint u
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Psoul(m): 4:26pm On Jul 02, 2016
pippimp:


No it's not. It's all lies. There is only one thing a woman checks for before marrying a guy. Can he provide comfort or have the potential of providing it someday. Every other thing is secondary. Height ko. Height ni. If that were the case Lara would never have married Oshiomole.

The problem wt most of us is that we don't like to read a post before commenting. We comment based on assumption of what we feel the post is talking about.

Many will read wtout understanding it and they still go ahead to comment ignorantly.

If you read this post very well, it's about those things that most ladies look out for in choosing a husband that may eventually lead them to early marriage break-up if you base your choice majorly in them
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by cardoctor(m): 4:27pm On Jul 02, 2016
What has love got to do with it?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ArcToyin(m): 4:32pm On Jul 02, 2016
BrainnewsNg:



Thanks op
What a nice piece
What's nice here?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Psoul(m): 4:38pm On Jul 02, 2016
anitank:


That is precisely my point!! Just like you every single man also look for materialistic qualities in ladies(fair skin,tall,beautiful...), that's why most end up marrying the wrong ones and eventually regret it. Some men are still lonely waiting for the "perfect" woman. So stop making it look like that behavior is only exhibited by ladies

U r correct my dear, u may wish to marry a man possessing all of these. No one wishes to suffer. But my point is, in as much as you desire all these, they shouldn't be a do or die thing. When u see a man that has that good inner characters, go for him. Support him, who knows, he may be better than the rich guy you are dying for. He'll live u better than the other one that will always see u as a gold digger.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ArcToyin(m): 4:45pm On Jul 02, 2016
sade1994:
What I mostly check for is if you are hardworking.. .
wat abt faithfulness?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Psoul(m): 4:47pm On Jul 02, 2016
queenDD:
Every woman wants her home to be better and more comfy than that of her mum, op I bet your sister and cousin sisters want the same thing too..

Yes daz my prayer for them. Even at that I always encourage them to go for inner characters than material things, but if eventually they meet a man possessing both, good.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by pippimp(m): 4:48pm On Jul 02, 2016
Psoul:


The problem wt most of us is that we don't like to read a post before commenting. We comment based on assumption of what we feel the post is talking about.

Many will read wtout understanding it and they still go ahead to comment ignorantly.

If you read this post very well, it's about those things that most ladies look out for in choosing a husband that may eventually lead them to early marriage break-up if you base your choice majorly in them

Like i said, if you understand women, they don't care about all that. A man can be short, fat, ugly, have eczema, pimples etc, and a woman won't care as long as he provide comfort. Which is why i used Oshiomole as an example. If you think she married for love then you have a long way to go in understanding how women function. It is not a bad thing. It is just how women are built.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ArcToyin(m): 4:56pm On Jul 02, 2016
Jay542:

That's what you are meant to check for and God fearing. How will somebody be checking for 6pack. Biko Iss that what they will use and raise their kids

funny but that's a confirm talk from u

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by sade1994(f): 5:30pm On Jul 02, 2016
Agmohd008:

Hardworking; marry donkey, it wont disappoint u


Donkey like you?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by wadetaw202: 5:33pm On Jul 02, 2016
JustHere2Observ:


Well my host is not complaining tongue

Yeah, until you cause him chronic inflammation, leading to necrosis, culminating in thromoembolism with its attendant ischemia and final decompensated cardiomyopathy, prior to coma and subsequent death.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by sade1994(f): 5:33pm On Jul 02, 2016
ArcToyin:

wat abt faithfulness?

That one dey too. But hardworking is no 1 on my list.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:36pm On Jul 02, 2016
wadetaw202:


Yeah, until you cause him chronic inflammation, leading to necrosis, culminating in thromoembolism with its attendant ischemia and final decompensated cardiomyopathy, prior to coma and subsequent death.

Sounds like someone knows their pathophysiology. Anyway I'm a gentle parasite, he won't even know I'm there.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by LuveU2(f): 5:44pm On Jul 02, 2016
Lovelynature:
lol dear, all these Miss this and Mr that is not just my way. Inasmuch as I appreciate the idea, I usually stand miles away and watch in 3D while focusing on areas I consider more productive to me as a youth.

Nevertheless, notify me when it's time.

Your username is endearing. Most comments lovely and you look quite pretty as well.

Hope your bae isn't a Nairalander too? I don't want him to start frowning face at you after seeing my comments cheesycheesy
grin My bae has no problems here
I like your focus, if more young men can learn as you, i wish!

Anyway, thank u very much for your support. I will give you a mention or mentions as the case may be when it kicks off. Thank u !!!! wink
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jul 02, 2016
theEYe21:
You are even worse than girls sef grin genomics? Your high standard is out of this world grin

It's not high standard, when looking for a life partner, you go for someone that compliment you, someone that have the qualities you are lacking in, and of course you having some suitable qualities they themselves lack in return. Mustn't be perfect match, but to the best of your ability.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by wadetaw202: 5:53pm On Jul 02, 2016
JustHere2Observ:


Sounds like someone knows their pathophysiology. Anyway I'm a gentle parasite, he won't even know I'm there.

Hmmmm......parasites are ever "gentle" at their latent phase. But what happens when they progress to their geometric phase? It would have been too late to save the hapless host by then.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by theEYe21(f): 6:13pm On Jul 02, 2016
Lovelynature:
Yeah, that's a big error among the youths nowadays. The error is mostly in the areas of searching for 'perfect look' and 'extreme riches' thereby ignoring the things that really matter. Our parents were content with moderate looks, moderate riches, character and hardworking while choosing spouses, thus solid love is built leading to lasting marriage, even when most of our fathers married many wives. But today, divorce seems to be on its peak, mostly among the so called celebrities thereby misleading the people as some couples would like to follow their steps over minor problems that can be simply solved. Today couples breakup on minor issues that could just be solved and laughed over within few minutes.


Truth is that compatibility is what matters most in marriage but no two people are totally compatible, hence some level of compatibility and understanding are good to go. Riches and good look may create comfort but not compatibility. Compatibility is a product of character - understanding.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by PrinceKelex(m): 6:23pm On Jul 02, 2016
Money
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Lovelynature(m): 6:26pm On Jul 02, 2016
LuveU2:
grin My bae has no problems here
I like your focus, if more young men can learn as you, i wish!

Anyway, thank u very much for your support. I will give you a mention or mentions as the case may be when it kicks off. Thank u !!!! wink
ok dear. I'm always available.

God's grace keeping us all

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Phranex(m): 6:44pm On Jul 02, 2016
Emeka71:
And some of these Men who are hardworking and successful but because they don't have money at present won't mind marrying SSCE babe who can accept than waitinto for a graduate babe who is measuring his financial stand.


am not a very rich dude yet but I have a thing for ssce gals. prob cos they age gracefully and are tight.. I believe my wife is still in sss.



you are so right
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by JustHere2Observ(f): 7:33pm On Jul 02, 2016
wadetaw202:


Hmmmm......parasites are ever "gentle" at their latent phase. But what happens when they progress to their geometric phase? It would have been too late to save the hapless host by then.

Yea yea, my host has a lot and much more to spare. Lol
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by oglalasioux(m): 7:59pm On Jul 02, 2016
...and they that wait for such men shall wait forever...
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by elinah11(f): 8:21pm On Jul 02, 2016
I pity their condition. Eleyi gidigan.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ChiSun27(m): 8:27pm On Jul 02, 2016
ikbnice:
and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.

The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him.

God bless you.

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