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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by TomLepskie(m): 4:37pm On Jul 03, 2016
wildQuincy:
I honestly don't fancy it atall undecided once you give me money after a date, I will never take you seriously because my head starts recieving some funny ideas about you and that could make me very uncomfortable! Even if I chose to have sex with you as a guy, pls don't give me money after the whole deal because you will never see me anywhere near you again! I know a lot of naija babes will not agree but that's just me.

Na Lai, oya proof am to me. 080........
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by 2loadedguy: 4:38pm On Jul 03, 2016
VaginaTerrorist:

GUY, YOU DID EVERYTHING WRONG!
Let Me Correct The Following Errors:-


Infact I was pounding ontop A lady when I saw this.

OKAY ley me now answer you:


(1) -----Always ask a girl out even if General Buratai is looking @you & never ever take the coward lane which you just did cux it tells alot about your moral & confidence in steering her affairs. Women love Bold guys.


(2) -----Never truly disclose too soon secret how you got a Lady's Contact. It makes you look cheap and manipulatable.


(3) ---- Never take a Lady Stranger to the most expensive places just to prove your worth. Take her to places you can take your fellow men to, then you'l earn her respect. So you were not natural to her.
Going to expensive places makes you look despirate and inexpirenced!

(4) ----- Never let a girl know that you even know the route to a Bank not to talk of ATM. It makes you look like just another MAGA!

(5) ----- Never quit on Ladies, There are nice ones out there who would not stress you or try ruin your financial life.

(6) ------ Never give a lady money after a date. Because this make's you look stupid & Dumb. Are you rewarding her for what??

Remember its a power play. Doing so would keep you @her mercy. And really turn you to MAGA.

(7) Always Try to re-route a first date to your bedroom and not to just escort her back to her house after spending on her. Expect some resistance but be assured she would respect you as the man for ever if you finally hit her asss on the first date.

(cool On the day one you lost! She won! But not the way she wanted it and dats why she is not happy she didnt dealt much on your pocket.


......Your wise answer when she said you Fvcked up not givin her money should have been: '' She forked up not giving you s3x.




Summary.... Next time ups ur game. If you still wand her Pusssy. Just negitiate with her. SHE IS NOT A GIRL FRIEND OR WIFE MATERIAL. FUCCK HER AND GO !
U are spot on bro.
Master of d game , wr knw ourselves.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by titosantana(m): 4:38pm On Jul 03, 2016
Hazkel:
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. Everyone is entitled to theirs.
A real man would see that as an insult, especially on a first date.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 4:43pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:
Y

How can you pay for sex when you didn't f**k her that day? It's amazing when guys think they can pay for a woman's body. You can't pay for sex. Women who collect money for sex are insulting themselves. When you think about how heavenly s*x feels, you will realise that all your life earnings can't cover it up
is it heavenly only for male?

if not then tell me why should I pay for a mutual benefit? isn't that cheating? it's like you girls are addicted to cheating.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 03, 2016
titosantana:
A real man would see that as an insult, especially on a first date.
Why?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 03, 2016
titosantana:
A real man would see that as an insult, especially on a first date.
Why?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:46pm On Jul 03, 2016
Owliver:
is it heavenly only for male?

if not then tell me why should I pay for a mutual benefit? isn't that cheating? it's like you girls are addicted to cheating.

I didn't specify that it was heavenly for a man. And I remember typing in my message that it can not be paid for. Read well! And if you feel everything about a woman is cheat related, marry a man and let me know how it feels [size=8pt][/size] grin
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by titosantana(m): 4:47pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:

Why don't you bang the beggars?
See them grin
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by oodua1stson: 4:51pm On Jul 03, 2016
Na her type go open mouth like goat de shout gender equality



At least in foreign countries, you either spilt the cost of the food you eat or you or the lady might deicde to pick up the bill.




Not that she will be expecting to get paid for nothing
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 4:54pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:


I didn't specify that it was heavenly for a man. And I remember typing in my message that it can not be paid for. Read well! And if you feel everything about a woman is cheat related, marry a man and let me know how it feels [size=8pt][/size] grin
then what am I paying for? why am I investing cash on something that will benefit you and I? why can't you equally invest cash as I do?

why do I need to carry your burden alone?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by titosantana(m): 4:56pm On Jul 03, 2016
Hazkel:
Why?
You splitting the bill with me on the first date is a big insult; every normal gentle man would reject that. I wouldn't asked you for a date if I'm not capable. It's a different scenario if you volunteer to take me out.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 4:58pm On Jul 03, 2016
titosantana:

You splitting the bill with me on the first date is a big insult; every normal gentle man would reject that. I wouldn't asked you for a date if I'm not capable. It's a different scenario if you volunteer to take me out.
normal gentle man? where did you get that from. OK what does a normal gentle lady do? sit back and open mouth squander gentle man money? how old are you sef

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by ichommy(m): 5:01pm On Jul 03, 2016
Abodunrin07:
Baba mi, no agreement o, dat kind gel go just turn you to ATM

grin Sharp Guy.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 5:10pm On Jul 03, 2016
Owliver:
then what am I paying for? why am I investing cash on something that will benefit you and I? why can't you equally invest cash as I do?

why do I need to carry your burden alone?

What burden am I giving you to carry? The burden of paying for a date you asked me to? I don't get?

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Abodunrin07(m): 5:10pm On Jul 03, 2016
ichommy:


grin Sharp Guy.
Even we men gas get sense nowgrin
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 5:11pm On Jul 03, 2016
titosantana:

See them grin

Who be them o? If you get something to talk, talk am
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by andreawills96(f): 5:14pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
. Some girls don't deserve good things cause not every girl that fixes weavon and wears jeans is mature
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by andreawills96(f): 5:15pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
. Some girls don't deserve good things cause not every girl that fixes weavon and wears jeans is mature
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

Don't be deceived boy! 99.98% of girls here in Naija except the pretenders want your money before you can be referred to as a caring guy. Well, I'm a lady and I like 'thanks for coming' anyway. If not I won't take the date serious. The pretenders will say it behind ur back except the the girls that are just growing up. Guys of nowadays are full of shit. I won't eat on a date but I like money. Nothing like love anymore except you toddlers just keep deceiving yourselves. Mind you, I reciprocate too o!
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by habeemurfty: 5:21pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc...May be she expected u to drop t-fare after taking her home...

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by RichYoungNigga: 5:23pm On Jul 03, 2016
graci:
You stink...I doubt Weda u hv sisters abi na

Shut up
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 5:25pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:


What burden am I giving you to carry? The burden of paying for a date you asked me to? I don't get?
yes same way an interviewer gives you a date. do you ask them for transport back home?

before you begin to say they are different. THEY ARE NOT. it's all getting to know each other, it's all the first face of pretence and deception. for of cos mutual benefit.

do you ask your interviewer for transport back home? knowing fully well heavenly feeling(your work needed, their salary needed) would be mutual if achieved ?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by habeemurfty: 5:27pm On Jul 03, 2016
Hello ouse, pls am new here, aw do I comment on post?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Phranex(m): 5:31pm On Jul 03, 2016
wildQuincy:
I honestly don't fancy it atall undecided once you give me money after a date, I will never take you seriously because my head starts recieving some funny ideas about you and that could make me very uncomfortable! Even if I chose to have sex with you as a guy, pls don't give me money after the whole deal because you will never see me anywhere near you again! I know a lot of naija babes will not agree but that's just me.


Lesbian alert spotted...
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jul 03, 2016
titosantana:

You splitting the bill with me on the first date is a big insult; every normal gentle man would reject that. I wouldn't asked you for a date if I'm not capable. It's a different scenario if you volunteer to take me out.
Oh, I see.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Itzurboi(m): 5:47pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:
Y

How can you pay for sex when you didn't f**k her that day? It's amazing when guys think they can pay for a woman's body. You can't pay for sex. Women who collect money for sex are insulting themselves. When you think about how heavenly s*x feels, you will realise that all your life earnings can't cover it up
Hmmm, did i just see someone typed "Heavenly feeling", Heavenly feelin which you still need a man around you to achieve that, you sound as if sex is just for the guys(big lie), ladies enjoy more, do you feel ur life savings can also cover it.... my dear, you need to understand the feeling is mutual

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by tabithababy(f): 5:50pm On Jul 03, 2016
Don't spilt bills with a nigeria man o. Chaii. He will become a liability in no time. There are a lot of golddiggers out there. angry angry
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by nellyelitz(m): 6:07pm On Jul 03, 2016
Cutehector:
Wen u just got out of ban and u don't want to bash anyone grin
hahaha i feel ya broke, I was once there but now....I don't give a fuvk
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 03, 2016
tabithababy:
Don't spilt bills with a nigeria man o. Chaii. He will become a liability in no time. There are a lot of golddiggers out there. angry angry
Lol. I agree with you. Gold diggers but In the form of men and women too. And I think we should expand the range. Lol, gold digging isn't limited to just Nigerians.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 03, 2016
tabithababy:
Don't spilt bills with a nigeria man o. Chaii. He will become a liability in no time. There are a lot of golddiggers out there. angry angry
Lol. I agree with you. Gold diggers but In the form of men and women too. And I think we should expand the range. Lol, gold digging isn't limited to just Nigerians. Besides, who really are gold diggers?
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by DMerciful(m): 6:14pm On Jul 03, 2016
Truth is because you're not really attracted to d guy. If he is d kind of man u dream about, forget this story!
LuveU2:
Ive had to call it off with a guy after he tried giving me money immediately past our first date.

Firstly, its cheapening
Secondly, disrespectful and rude
Thirdly, it just shows i made a mistake dating a boy.

Well, as for the Op, sluts would always be sluts and they must live too. embarassed
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by butanep(m): 6:14pm On Jul 03, 2016
guntranno:
Well, we ladies gat different sense of reasoning.


Firstly, you don't show a lady how fat your pocket is because that first impression goes a long way.


Secondly, you shudda told her you're outta cash but only had your atm card. Ask her to take a taxi to your hauz telling her you'll pay her tfare to n fro n see the result.


Some girls r cheap n blunt sha!!!

Most girls are cheap. That's why we see most of them as sex object.

You aren't suppose to ask a guy T-fee on your first date. It shows how cheap you are...if you don't have money, don't just go. it takes two to tangle.

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