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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by wildQuincy(f): 4:01pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by CAPSLOCKED: 4:03pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ op did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, to take myself on a treat, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Blessograo(f): 4:04pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bruzrecordz:Sorry to say the lady is the stupid one and please flee from her, she has been eating and taking care of herself before she met you and besides you owe her nothing so giving her money on a first date is crap and totally not your responsibility. Your responsibility was to pay for the meal and pay for her T fare but instead you dropped her at her home and I think that is gentlemanly enough and if she needs money that bad she can get it from wherever she has been getting it before not making you a money making machine. This is why guys are scared of even saying hi to a lady. Infact if you offer me money on a first date or any date I take that as an insult you rather pay for my transport than hand the Tfare over to me and that is more polite. If you both are already dating then giving money is not a problem so she can go Bleep herself now that she got no dime for you. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
@OP YOURS ITS BETTER met a girl via facebook, all things going on well, went to the movies, went to pizza joint and a crazy chinese restaurant on the island in lagos, the next 2 days she called me complaining of less funds for her project that is 40k & was like its isn't up to a week we met u asking for money, asked for her parents to issue her the funds, she said she's an orphan, ok told my accountant of my company to deduct it from my monthly salary and issue her the funds, on going back home, was listening to some radio relationship talks of different people and then i remembered what this babe called me some time within the last 3 days we me when she spoke to her friend in my presence,remembered the kind of phone she uses, an S7. Though 40k is just about my monthly capital savings to my private account that i'm saving for my housing project since 3 years, so 1month payment into the account won't kill me but the fact that she uses a big phone and big items, why cant u borrow a loan or sell item to fulfil the need & dts was how i left her till today. Invest in future not in a Woman 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by GodblessNig247(m): 4:06pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
wildQuincy: OK. Sorry about that OK. Will be rectified soon. Meanwhile we could drop acquaintances and pleasantries here. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 4:07pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
She is either 17 or she is a begger..for me l cant guve out money to a lady on the first date.. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:07pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Owliver: Giving a lady fare now is financial dependency? Are you kidding me? What is the guy paying for? I don't ask for hair money, feeding and I make my clothes myself. I don't know about the type of ladies you date but when I visit man, I get my fare allowance for the week no matter how much he sees in my purse. And then he buys me once a while gifts which i appreciate and I do thesame too. It's just common sense! It has nothing to do with dependence. Stop dating children |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Coolgent(m): 4:10pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Bros you should thank your God cos she exposed herself for you to know what kind of girl she is before you go think say u meet wife material. Anyway she was indirectly telling u that with your money you can enjoy her honey pot |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Owliver: Why don't you bang the beggars? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Franky826: 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bruzrecordz: Oga better go thank God that girl just exposed who she is, An ammature! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by snowking: 4:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Naavah:May God continually give you sense. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 4:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Anabel:so am paying for sex. that's prostitution. then just say it. why the beating around the bush. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by davibid: 4:17pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
That girl b like...
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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bruzrecordz:Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Mistermamus(m): 4:18pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Dat1 only don scatter am. Naija gals sha no just sabi dats y i luv the 'other' girls |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by donMIG(m): 4:19pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Na hungry girl....not even worth a dime...bosss flush her from ur mind jor...dats a mugu monster |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bruzrecordz:Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. Everyone is entitled to theirs. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:20pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Y Owliver: How can you pay for sex when you didn't f**k her that day? It's amazing when guys think they can pay for a woman's body. You can't pay for sex. Women who collect money for sex are insulting themselves. When you think about how heavenly s*x feels, you will realise that all your life earnings can't cover it up |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Thobiy(m): 4:20pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Very very wrong |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by UyiIredia(m): 4:21pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Naavah: Abi o? As if she's an escort or something. @ bruzrecordz You didn't do anything wrong bro. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by marv1: 4:25pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
wildQuincy:If u are real. Ladies like u are rare. |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:27pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Hazkel: your principles are right by you and it suits you. And I'm glad it's your opinion. She did wrong asking tho. Agreed! Especially with the fact that he dropped her at home. But when a guy makes the move for a date, it's his bill. I spend on a daily budget, not everyone is loaded. I have my cash with me but it's the first time. There are things a man should be responsible for and one of such things is paying the bills for a date he asked me to. It's a wrong impression if a lady starts showing a man his incapability on a first date by splitting bills. As time goes on, when you get to know him,you can host him on a date and he'll be glad. Guys complain about ladies a lot but trust me, they take advantage of ladies that rush into their purses to split bills. I have an aunt who is paying that price now even in marriage |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by wildQuincy(f): 4:29pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
GodblessNig247:Yea sure! Anytime |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by titosantana(m): 4:30pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
MrCork:They will soon design your face with broken bottle 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by missmary(f): 4:30pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
: Its Like the aunty is Spiritually stupid...Her brain is asthmatic ... |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by busyfishing(m): 4:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Cutehector:your comment made me laugh so much.thanks bro |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Hmm... Wetin man no go see.
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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by busyfishing(m): 4:35pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
cruz419:my man.correct comment |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Cutehector(m): 4:35pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
busyfishing: |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Anabel:Well you do have a point but I guess it varies and wisdom should also take precedence. It's not really about being rich, that's why I said, when there's excess, I treat myself out. Truly, everyone is entitled to their opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by GodblessNig247(m): 4:37pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
wildQuincy:OK. Thanks |
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