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bakynes:
You see how your brain works. Do you guys even know what " Party" means for God sake. Have you gone to a white person's wedding before. At least if you never travel out before you dey watch am for TV, food they always yapa they do buffet and even serve dissert after the main meal. This one is not about economizing anything. What are you monetizing? give yourself brain and google the word " Party" if you guys cant treat your guest then just dont organize a party.

In white man party they are your role models ..everything is in moderation not the stupidity we see in owambe


And it's strictly by invitation


Don't depend on party food to survive ...hungry man

ontruth:
How far Is Anambra to Imo State?Nawa ooo the way you were saying far distance,I thought you came from Sambisa Forest to Imo.
You just came here to belittle your fellow Ibo lady and went as long as mentioning the state,which might lead to Imo vs Anambra trying to fight it out here.

I don't think the other tribes will do what u just did no matter how worst they were treated at the wedding,besides what you wrote here never changed anything from what happened at the wedding,next time try to learn how to endure things like this because you're a lady.

Imo people are coming for you be ready.

my dear u wnt understand until u r in my shoes... i neva said anything abt my frnd...

Lmao. Someone is obviously seeking for attention

CindyeMerAld:
am one of the ashoebi gals so yes they invited me.....
talking of payback.. its nt a competition and besides am nt stingy

So you are one of those attention seeking asoebi chicks?
Sorry for the lack of attention towards you.
Meanwhile as an associate to the girl, you should have assisted in serving and attending to the guest not fighting over your stomach and crying over your transport expenses.

CindyeMerAld:
i came from a far distance 2 attend a wedding... left my house so early in other to meet up and obviously forgot 2 eat only 4 me to get to the place and not served anything even after the stress...my dear what is more bad than that..

Forgot to eat indeed I can relate to the frustration you must have felt but to go ahead and generalize? That's a big no for me .

CindyeMerAld:
my dear feel free to lauff cos its verwi funny... i left my hauz by 6am juzt to meet up n help out..stayed there till 6pm and got home by 10pm... i just thank god for journey mercies cos the journey was risky

Be careful with such travels, the country ain't speaking safe now, good u did your own part, just make sure you have adequate preparations when your time comes, even if na 50 people you go invite........which I doubt.

IkpuMmadu:
In white man party they are your role models ..everything is in moderation not the stupidity we see in owambe


And it's strictly by invitation


Don't depend on party food to survive ...hungry man

Shame don catch you, which moderation you dey talk abt. You dont even know wetin be buffet you dey talk of moderation. So Oyinbo wey dey chop buffet and dissert na Poverty too or na Hungry man. Strictly by invitation and the OP wey be one of the bride's maid no see food chop. Better open your dictionary to know the meaning of Party and Buffet.

ivyy:
Forgot to eat indeed I can relate to the frustration you must have felt but to go ahead and generalize? That's a big no for me .

left hauz by 6a.m so food was nt on my mind, was concerned abt getting 2 my destination to help my frnd out....
d generalization was juxt out of vexation my dear.. ve apologized 4 it tho

IkpuMmadu:
I have been reading how people especially Yoruba keep saying party this and that ...we admit that Yoruba are good in frivolities and living a frivolous and prodigal life. We Igbo do not do that
We analyse things economically and technically including parties and before we embark on such we either monetise it or check the derivable


Yoruba can stay in a room apartment and have a party killing cows and blocking the street....with borrowed money . That is Yoruba for you...they tag it sophistication but I just tag it stupidity


I enjoy their stupidity that they call party so why should igbo do that


When a Yoruba boy or girl grudgingly learn a trade ..which most if then don't like doing anyway ..instead of using whatever pittance they raise to buy tools and rent a space ...they will use the money for freedom party and at the end of the day ...they will loaf around


In terms of flamboyance and frivolities in party ...I give it to Yoruba a d that's not debatable


Simple

am not igbo nor Yoruba but I know they're stingy igbo parties and stingy yoruba parties but you don't see me generalizing all of them as stingy as if I've attended every igbo or yoruba parties on earth, ITS LIKE GIRLS SAYING ALL MEN ARE THE SAME BECAUSE ONE MAN DO HER STRONG THING, SHE TASTE ALL THE MEN? HOW DID SHE KNOW THEY'RE ALL THESAME

CindyeMerAld:
left hauz by 6a.m so food was nt on my mind, was concerned abt getting 2 my destination to help my frnd out....
d generalization was juxt out of vexation my dear.. ve apologized 4 it tho

its a lie from the pit of hell, its not only 6am its midnight and food was even in your dreams, impatient you will stay at a wedding till evening from 6 am ma hear even the devil will call you a liar. SPITS

CindyeMerAld:
my dear u wnt understand until u r in my shoes... i neva said anything abt my frnd...

Friends are made to endure each others mess,you claimed you never mentioned her name but you went as long as putting her hometown name,what if that your friend or someone who also attended the wedding happens to visit this forum and see this thread? Don't you think it will be a stab in the back? worst than whatever treatment you got from the wedding.

At times the organizers of events causes all this mess.

They said you're a man though,even at that I must say you went to far,This is a betrayal of friendship.

ivyy:
Forgot to eat indeed I can relate to the frustration you must have felt but to go ahead and generalize? That's a big no for me .

lmao forgot to eat haha, she's just too good a liar, this is my look when someone lies

dauntless15:
its a lie from the pit of hell, its not only 6am its midnight and food was even in your dreams, impatient you will stay at a wedding till evening from 6 am ma hear even the devil will call you a liar. SPITS

my dear u need mental health examination cos ur brain is nt functioning properly

dauntless15:
imagine o, the thing pain am, am not from imo but i Can discern from the way she looks with the way she's bitchin,g that her source of vexation is the things she expected to pack in her handbag aint forthcoming shes coming here to chop me

Don't mind her..... I'm not from Imo State too....

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

same thing happened to me April 1 this year when I went to cover an event in IMO state, the husband is from ABA while the wife is from IMO. Those people doesn't even know how to entertain guest. You can't believe even a the main photographer,I have to go and hustle food on my own for me and my partner. Come see as people dey fight for food. And the husband's brother keep shouting and we gave them enough money for food o, it is bad but generally,THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING PEOPLE, food aspect excluded. That being said,

Personal text: i wake up happy not because i have to buh because i want to..#happiness is everything# ( so you are god over your own life right?

dauntless15:
ehn tiv people like food alot too and can eat anything meat they like meat wella, maybe thats why you carry yoruba for head like gala and purewater mind you am not igbo or yoruba so i dont need your psychoanalysis just shove it in your tyavnande doshima ass

doesn't still change d fact dat I'm Tiv & a proud 1 @ dat & on d orda hand tell ur fat galfwend dat shez an angel who's too big to fly

Perfecttouch:
same thing happened to me April 1 this year when I went to cover an event in IMO state, the husband is from ABA while the wife is from IMO. Those people doesn't even know how to entertain guest. You can't believe even a the main photographer,I have to go and hustle food on my own for me and my partner. Come see as people dey fight for food. And the husband's brother keep shouting and we gave them enough money for food o, it is bad but generally,THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING PEOPLE, food aspect excluded. That being said,

Personal text: i wake up happy not because i have to buh because i want to..#happiness is everything# ( so you are god over your own life right?

@personal text.. just trying 2 say that happiness is an attitude n i try 2 be happy alwayz...
back 2 d trad..pple dragged 4 food n barbecue there,i just jejely carry myself dey go hauz

NemzySeries:
doesn't still change d fact dat I'm Tiv & a proud 1 @ dat & on d orda hand tell ur fat galfwend dat shez an angel who's too big to fly

yeah you should be proud and thats a way to tell your girlfriend she's fat without sounding rude, tanchu and welcome

Mcowubaba:
Don't mind her..... I'm not from Imo State too....

later she will say everyone from imo is out to get her lmao

CindyeMerAld:
my dear u need mental health examination cos ur brain is nt functioning properly

exactly, why will a well fed, contented guy that isnt jumping from place to place just to eat and get attention like me, not need mental health examination i do need it badly, since your kind of gluttony is the normal thing this days. With your fallen angels hanging loose like they where strangled to death two days ago. SPITS

CindyeMerAld:
@personal text.. just trying 2 say that happiness is an attitude n i try 2 be happy alwayz...
back 2 d trad..pple dragged 4 food n barbecue there,i just jejely carry myself dey go hauz

you jejely carry yourself come nairaland come the cry and curse them lol seriously as old as you're, i wont be suprised if you're just a secondary school leaver not even a jambite you called me last night, haha jambite keh cant stop being an amusement to me, joker

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

Smdh read your post and observe how shallow it is, generalization is bad so learn to avoid it.

[quote author=CindyeMerAld post=47176700]i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....


swt heart soo sorry abt u not eating. buh you know stuffs like this happen in all this kind of wedding, thats y pple advice eat before you attend one. even when you know the couple weddng you may still not eat. one of the major reasons are funds, noo be everybody get like that and the couple may have planed for just 100 people and 200 people come not their fault sorry.

secondly, everybody knows to marry an ibo chic nah money. thats why i advice pple if you dont have money marry yoruba girls cus ibo parents dem goo calculate all they have spent on their daughter times two or four and give as bride price, soo if u noo get money leave their daughters noo be new story thats ow it is.

sign out. ibo chick 4 lyf

This thing is in the blood no mata how u talk is continues

Cinder..... Whatever you call your name... I should slap right now, but for the fact that you didn't mention her name I will spare thee... I had to look carefully at your profile picture to identify you properly. I hope you attend the white wedding also and keep forming with your useless phone while waiting for your servants to come serve you food.

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

A few questions, out of My 21 questions which dey baffle me the way some Nigerian gals (no) dey reason life;

Why did an igbo bride share aso-ebi for an Imo state wedding or is Imo now a yoruba state??

Why invite people to travel to your traditional wedding as guests only to treat them as pests, were you expecting them not to feast and celebrate with you or did you want the joy of having them beg for food/water at your wedding in your father's house??

When the bride was busy sharing asoebi and inviting "pests" from all around different umunnas around the country, did she actually have a plan to entertain invitees in her father's house or did she leave that job to the groom as well??

At a time when Rivers, Anambra, Enugu and Abia state boys and gals are wedding up and down the place, why put yourself in a motor going to Imo state for traditional wedding without putting 2 Spare gala, One satchet of funtime coconut chips, one bottle of lacasera plus one small bottle of eva water (or even pure water) in your bag for personal moral support in case of emergency!!?? Why?? Hmmmmmmmm...........Why??

Why the bride allow - without any form of protest - for her parents to charge a #100k for dowry?? Is she a walking real estate or fresh piece of property from lekki or alausa or just another priceless work of art to be "hung".................in his gallery??.......................

I just tire for how some human beings dey reason sef??

obitee69:
My friend shatap there before I sound you. What do u know. Where u there? Have u been to a wedding and not served food. Trust me ul leave angry. I went to one wedding I wasnt served I left soo angry. Meanwhile I had 40k in my car to buy any kinda food.

Sometimes poverty is not about cash but a state of mind bro, being angry because you were not served food at a wedding?! wtf!? let's be realistic at the end of the day most of the meals they served at weddings are not even up to class ( average Nigerian wedding ) even if the meal looks delicious can't you afford yourself any kind you want later on? Naija people and their sense of entitlement.

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

Hi dear, anybody in your shoes would have felt same but that's not enough to badmouth the entire indigenes of Imo state. Your grudge should be laid on the family that disappointed you.

CindyeMerAld:
i came from a far distance 2 attend a wedding... left my house so early in other to meet up and obviously forgot 2 eat only 4 me to get to the place and not served anything even after the stress...my dear what is more bad than that..

Hahahahahaha so your anger is a product of hunger? lol you call yourself a friend to that girl? why couldn't you buy something to eat? you were hoping to have a boil of meal huh? Because your presence in the wedding gives you that privilege? if you were that hungry you could have found someone to get you a hot plate of something it at worse go out and buy something goddamnit.

CindyeMerAld:
hypocrite trying to form holy online... all the ashoebi gals left angry, am nt the only one who complained... try going 4 a wedding and after the stress u didnt get to take something then come back lets diskus... mumu ni

As a grown you should learned about taking care of yourself (by yourself) if you understand what I mean. You should have known that such things are likely to happen in naija wedding and should have prepared by eating before going or ensuring the bride made a separate provision for you ashoebi since you guys could get riled up that bad. Start learning to take care of yourself dear it kicks shots away from you.

sinaj:
see as she package for her dp.



Person wey see her no go knw say hunger de finish her

lol lmao lmfao my dear Nancy the case of many Nigerian girls oooooooo many of them.

CindyeMerAld:
d gal wey marry na serious runs gal,she kom invite all her man frnds ,dey kom dey spray her moni,, i kom dey pity her husband

And you call yourself her friend. Are you sure you are not a runsgirl too? Since your friend is one. Hmmm.