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What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 4:01pm On Apr 26, 2017
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 4:03pm On Apr 26, 2017
Get ready sis. They are coming in 1...2...3.... grin grin

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 4:06pm On Apr 26, 2017
Safiaa:
Get ready sis. They are coming in 1...2...3.... grin grin
Just saying it as it is.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by EmekaBlue(m): 4:07pm On Apr 26, 2017
You were making 50% sense until you wrote this...

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.



Typical nigerian girl poor mentality

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ojun50(m): 4:29pm On Apr 26, 2017
Stingy guys value there relationship more, respect his woman nd i think thy try to be around wen u need them, bt one tin hv notice about guys that spend on his woman cheat very well, he does nt respect d woman, he feel he can get any woman of his choice.

Add yrs na wetin i notics i take

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Tolexander: 4:34pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a women say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
what is now the responsibility of the ladies in a relationship or better put, what do ladies have to offer in a relationship in return to the guys financial spending?

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Kondomatic(m): 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2017
You're not financially responsible if young women do not see you as a stingy man - Tallesty1

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by xynerise: 4:39pm On Apr 26, 2017
Tolexander:
what is now the responsibility of the ladies in a relationship or better put, what do ladies have to offer in a relationship in return to the guys financial spending?
Sex undecided

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2017
EmekaBlue:
You were making 50% sense until you wrote this...

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.



Typical nigerian girl poor mentality
it has nothing to do with being a poor girl or not, even a rich girl will value a guy with free hands more than the tight fisted ones.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2017
Tolexander:
what is now the responsibility of the ladies in a relationship or better put, what do ladies have to offer in a relationship in return to the guys financial spending?
the guy who went out to ask her out should know what he wants from her undecided

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:09pm On Apr 26, 2017
ojun50:
Stingy guys value there relationship more, respect his woman nd i think thy try to be around wen u need them, bt one tin hv notice about guys that spend on his woman cheat very well, he does nt respect d woman, he feel he can get any woman of his choice.

Add yrs na wetin i notics i take
you are not wise.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ojun50(m): 5:12pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
you are not wise.

i will nt exchange words with u

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2017
ojun50:


i will nt exchange words with u
thank you
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by uk10(m): 5:20pm On Apr 26, 2017
it will be better if the girl starts up something to support the man since she knows that he is broke,i don't really like the idea that the girl just extracts money from the broke guy without doing something to help him at least maybe a small business,or some blogging stuff

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Alphamale2017(m): 5:20pm On Apr 26, 2017
ur post made sense from the beginning. but u didn't end it well.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by MrSavage: 5:22pm On Apr 26, 2017
His ability to keep money grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Shegzy8(m): 5:35pm On Apr 26, 2017
You nailed it at first then you later bent it...you just indirectly encouraged guyz to be stingy..so a guy can offer his all and get nothing in return..if a lady shouldnt spent for a man because he would run away then it should be vice versa also..you just proved ladies are inferior to men..

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:37pm On Apr 26, 2017
EmekaBlue:
You were making 50% sense until you wrote this...

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.



Typical nigerian girl poor mentality
some men like to be dependent on women, always asking from her, those are the ones I warn ladies against.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:38pm On Apr 26, 2017
Shegzy8:
You nailed it at first then you later bent it...you just indirectly encouraged guyz to be stingy..so a guy can offer his all and get nothing in return..if a lady shouldnt spent for a man because he would run away then it should be vice versa also..you just proved ladies are inferior to men..
anyone who believes both sexes are equal is deceiving himself.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Shegzy8(m): 5:53pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
anyone who believes both sexes are equal is deceiving himself.
Right tho..but i still dont believe in a lady giving nothing in a relationship..is that how you are?

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by alignacademy(m): 5:54pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a women say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

You have a point; money is important.

However, maybe you could look at it another way.

Gifts, airtime, etc can be ways of expressing the LOVE people have for each other.

This may sound old-school, but the LOVE is more important than the cash.

And just because someone doesn't dole out cash on a per-second billing does not make him "stingy".

If you are looking forward to a long-term relationship, you'll think of how to make financial plans together, how to BUILD a future for your home, how to survive the ups and downs of life.

That kind of growth mindset is hard to build when you see the man as your personal ATM.

Thank you

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by pryme(m): 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2017
Op you are not so smart, you are just another material girl blessed with a slow working brain, I won't be surprise if you are a very pretty girl, cos most you pretty girls think it's enough to be pretty and that should be enough for what you have to offer.

I said you are short sighted cos you can't see that what you demand in a relationship is only going to run the man down. If the man is not wise and dump your ass you will ruin him financially.

From your write up it's obvious you are liability.

LIABILITIES HAS NEVER MADE A MAN RICH, ONLY INVESTMENTS DO.

'Nuff said.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by pcguru1(m): 6:05pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a women say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

Well a guy should be open and spend on his babe but no I disagree a guys job is not to spend on a lady that's a Husband or Father's job Shea not entitled to such but he can out of sheer will. Fix that mentality you are not owed anything. However a stingy guy is too extreme and I won't recommend people to date stingy people that includes both men and women.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 6:46pm On Apr 26, 2017
Shegzy8:
Right tho..but i still dont believe in a lady giving nothing in a relationship..is that how you are?
nope.
She can give little gifts once in a while, it will make him feel loved too.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 6:48pm On Apr 26, 2017
pryme:
Op you are not so smart, you are just another material girl blessed with a slow working brain, I won't be surprise if you are a very pretty girl, cos most you pretty girls think it's enough to be pretty and that should be enough for what you have to offer.

I said you are short sighted cos you can't see that what you demand in a relationship is only going to run the man down. If the man is not wise and dump your ass you will ruin him financially.

From your write up it's obvious you are liability.

LIABILITIES HAS NEVER MADE A MAN RICH, ONLY INVESTMENTS DO.

'Nuff said.
pained much.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Shegzy8(m): 6:51pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
nope.
She can give little gifts once in a while, it will make him feel loved too.
LOL...why little? she can do better..what if the bf is broke

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 26, 2017
Fvck it!!

A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive.

Why should it always be the guy doing these things? undecided

If you can't recharge your phone yourself, you're O.Y.O


The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
it has nothing to do with being a poor girl or not, even a rich girl will value a guy with free hands more than the tight fisted ones.

God bless you.

No value ,whatsoever

Stingy guys ? They always sucks one dry .
Not good at all

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Mansions: 8:53pm On Apr 26, 2017
All I can say is that laziness and oloshoo, runs and ashawoo has entered into the heads of Nigerian girls . You girls should continue asking for money and men will continue dumping your lazy assss till you get to 36 to 40 years and no man will marry you. You think any man likes liability ?

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 9:19pm On Apr 26, 2017
Shegzy8:
LOL...why little? she can do better..what if the bf is broke
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 9:20pm On Apr 26, 2017
Mansions:
All I can say is that laziness and oloshoo, runs and ashawoo has entered into the heads of Nigerian girls . You girls should continue asking for money and men will continue dumping your lazy assss till you get to 36 to 40 years and no man will marry you. You think any man likes liability ?
stingy man spoted. Ladies pls beware of such guys.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Shegzy8(m): 9:24pm On Apr 26, 2017
Dominicah:
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.
You see am not talking about broke guyz....am saying why a lady would have to contribute little or nothing...a guy might not be broke but has important things to do with them like business...and what if there is an upturen..even naija is broke...i believe it depends on the relationship

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