pharmagba:
I feel very sorry for you, but a man got to be a man
Firstly I don't know the real sickness and precise age of your daughter but one thing you must know is it is not good for a wife to have too much free time as it is a veritable devils workshop you ought to ensure she is working; open a shop for her or impregnate her so she continue baby nursing,

Now to your findings first of all copy it somewhere else like your phone and then confront her with it, play everything to her hearing, pause at intervals to ask her what you've done wrong, please don't be aggressive or angry; control your emotions. Ask her what she has to say.

Let her know it is betrayal, threaten her you will summon a family meeting of both family and see her reaction.
If or not she apologies don't tell anybody either your family or her. NEVER.. It must not come from your mouth.
But make a stand none of her family members should have your respect. They must never come to your house. Don't give reasons, don't pick or answer their calls until you see full repentance in her. which must be after like a year. .it is her family that must bear the brunt and punishment Nothing more

Don't divorce her she is your wife, folly is in the mind of a woman. I know it will definitely leave a scar in your relationship, forgive her still and try to let go, call her from work and be a good father and husband.

buksaylor001:


I wish I knew you personally,I for use two hands shake you but meanwhile-Madam,give this man 2 bottles of origin bitters!

pharmagba:

Divorce and come and marry you?
Divorce and you will take care of his children?
Do you take divorce as a one day walk?

Please reason with your head. It is marriage we are talking about.

ISpiksDaTroof:



Ok, I dont want to call you "foolish" as I do not know your age or how Nigerian culture it handles marriage issues such as this, but I'll tell you this: You're living with a snake that'll not hesitate to strike you when the opportunity presents itself. Take that anyway you want to.

In your best interest, and if you really love your life, separate (at the very least), continue providing her money for your child's upkeep till you figure out what it is you really want to do. But living with her--for now-- is dangerous to your health. Also, let your mum and dad hear the recordings.

Be safe and good luck.

9twalker:


Which kind talk you dey talk...

GoldenJAT:
call a family meeting sharply....giv them no room 2 suspect that you are up2 something,do make sure every1 of her siblings are there ...as well as urs.. play those records for them... and divorce her.. the marriage is over already... Just tell urself d hard truth.... u married a wolf in sheep clothing... that family is a cult,prepare 2c and hear more than u can take.... ur time start's now.. I personally be following you up.. don't mind having ur number... stories like these one.. is what makes men treat even d good women with disdain. ...it breaks my heart 2 know that those that can clean ur tears are actually d ones that will make u cry blood.. u will come out stronger. the Lord is ur strength!

AlienStar:
I can never advise you to divorce her esp since she is not infidel... This generation forgot that marriage must have it's ups & down, it ain't a bed of roses. And you should know that she knew her siblings b4 you (I'm ain't justifying her o, buh it's the reality) so it may be easy for them to manipulate her esp as she's the last born! So now copy does recordings to your phone (as proof) and ask her about it, tell that this is her home that she shouldn't allow her siblings to run it for her to avoid expensive mistake. I think you shouldn't invite a 3rd party and always pray together ("cause the family that prays together, stays 2geda".)

friendl:
It doesn't make sense ,what will she gain?

luvablesam:


Really? Is this an advice?

ohynedar:
its a very sensitive ish mister, your wife is only a kid and she allowed her siblings totalk her into blivin that dia is nothing like real hapiness in the world. its so bad u r d victim here but here are the things i thibk you can do;
give the marriage a break
pray to God for directions
search through your heart very well cos ur wifes deeds cud be a nemesis for what u av done to someone else in the past, if she is ur nemesis, even if u marry a woman wt no siblng at all, she will stil do the same tin or worse to u.
if u still love here nd u still beliv in d survival of ur union wt her, dnt expose her yet, u can confide in ur dad or anybody else but kip d mata off ur moms knowledge for now, dat is if u still love ur wife. this is because dey may neva be frnds again nd dis wud affect the marriage negatively nd ur wife wnt be hapi nd free anymore as ur wife, cos she is gonna spend the better years in that marriage trying to right her wrongs...
that said, a think a word is enof for u in dis situation no one is in dis but u, u know beta dan everyone but i bliv dia is notin God cannot do, maybe its ur call to save ur marriage dis time, pls do nd dnt forget God,He only knows all... The Lord will help you nd giv u rest, Amen

AlienStar:
I can never advise you to divorce her esp since she is not infidel... This generation forgot that marriage must have it's ups & down, it ain't a bed of roses. And you should know that she knew her siblings b4 you (I'm ain't justifying her o, buh it's the reality) so it may be easy for them to manipulate her esp as she's the last born! So now copy does recordings to your phone (as proof) and ask her about it, tell that this is her home that she shouldn't allow her siblings to run it for her to avoid expensive mistake. I think you shouldn't invite a 3rd party and always pray together ("cause the family that prays together, stays 2geda".)

vicchi12:
Exactly what I was saying. And some idiot had the audacity to insult me.

vicchi12:


@shym3xx...this thing!

ezechueze:
Op,DIVORCE her immediately.one day she would poison you and take over your assets.

pharmagba:
I feel very sorry for you, but a man got to be a man
Firstly I don't know the real sickness and precise age of your daughter but one thing you must know is it is not good for a wife to have too much free time as it is a veritable devils workshop you ought to ensure she is working; open a shop for her or impregnate her so she continue baby nursing,

Now to your findings first of all copy it somewhere else like your phone and then confront her with it, play everything to her hearing, pause at intervals to ask her what you've done wrong, please don't be aggressive or angry; control your emotions. Ask her what she has to say.

Let her know it is betrayal, threaten her you will summon a family meeting of both family and see her reaction.
If or not she apologies don't tell anybody either your family or her. NEVER.. It must not come from your mouth.
But make a stand none of her family members should have your respect. They must never come to your house. Don't give reasons, don't pick or answer their calls until you see full repentance in her. which must be after like a year. .it is her family that must bear the brunt and punishment Nothing more

Don't divorce her she is your wife, folly is in the mind of a woman. I know it will definitely leave a scar in your relationship, forgive her still and try to let go, call her from work and be a good father and husband.

MrMcJay:
OP, keep her in your house very well you hear? Wetin dey worry u sef?

The day her sisters advise her to kill you, you are a dead man. Rat poison is very cheap, 3 for N50. [b][/b]You'll just start getting dry and die behind the fridge. Alternatively, when she disconnects the brake of your car and you dance under Dangote trailer, we'll read it here on NL.

Even if you don't value your life, pity your mother and daughter and kick out that devil even if it's a temporary separation.

Flee from temptation... and don't leave a forwarding address.

saasala:


What do I think?....It is the worst decision of your life and I can guarantee that you are a dead man walking. She will finally tell everything to her sisters and you will die, they will kill you...DIVORCE her now or you die.

pharmagba:

Divorce and come and marry you?
Divorce and you will take care of his children?
Do you take divorce as a one day walk?

Please reason with your head. It is marriage we are talking about.