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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by AlienStar: 11:52pm On Jul 04, 2016
Mehn! been soooo busy. Glad some1 noticed my absence smiley
iykekelvins:
Sister, where haff you been?

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by 2sexycom(m): 11:54pm On Jul 04, 2016
misspicy:

i was expecting you to type a rebuttal Mr jambito Omega mighty matured grandpa cheesy


Farano,rocktation,lalasticlala,Dominique please transfer this thread to family section/frontpage


@Op oro sunukun leleyi o,jeki a won agba ba E fo ju sunukun wo

Btw,do away with that wife o,she is a killer
people who have been married have better experience at things like this and they will give the OP the best advise.

I am not just in the mood to give any advise... my mood is just not interested but on a normal day, I could write an encyclopedia for such case...
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by jackyraw09: 11:54pm On Jul 04, 2016
na wa o

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by iykekelvins(m): 11:56pm On Jul 04, 2016
AlienStar:
Mehn! been soooo busy. Glad some1 noticed my absence smiley
Lol, why wouldn't I

Eyah, you'd be staying longer now?
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by danduchi(m): 11:59pm On Jul 04, 2016
Invite ur parent and her parent and play the voice records for everyone to hear.... Its obvious her mind has been poisoned... Listen to what your wife has to say if she will be sincerely sorry for it. Show her more love, it will weaken her evil heart towards you... Pls don't divorce her unless there is a twist from her again. You guys will grow in love better than this

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by AlienStar: 11:59pm On Jul 04, 2016
Thank you!
Time shall tell.
iykekelvins:
Lol, why wouldn't I

Eyah, you'd be staying longer now?
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by iykekelvins(m): 12:04am On Jul 05, 2016
AlienStar:
Thank you!
Time shall tell.
Alright no problem
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by PModes(m): 12:09am On Jul 05, 2016
ehn!

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by samsam2019: 12:13am On Jul 05, 2016
1st of, I'm a married man.




So about your family; I personally don't think I would be able to live with such a snake.



I personally would send her away but I'm not you and you're not me.



If you believe you can forgive her then fine. If not just let her leave

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Raalsalghul: 12:16am On Jul 05, 2016
I love reading stories like this because it reminds me of why I never want to get married

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Raalsalghul: 12:16am On Jul 05, 2016
Raalsalghul:
I love reading stories like this because it reminds me of why I never want to get married

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by misspicy(f): 12:25am On Jul 05, 2016
2sexycom:
people who have been married have better experience at things like this and they will give the OP the best advise.

I am not just in the mood to give any advise... my mood is just not interested but on a normal day, I could write an encyclopedia for such case...
The advice he will get from the jambites cheesy here too will go a long way.



No one cares about your mood married man, sleep well wink

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by uchedydy: 12:37am On Jul 05, 2016
ADVICE!!!
1. ENSURE YOU TRANSFER THOSE VOICE RECORDS TO YOUR DEVICE AND KEEP IT SAFE. YOU WOULD NEED IT AS EXHIBIT.
2. CALL YOUR OWN FAMILY AND PLAY THE TAPE FIRST AND HEAR THEIR ADVICE.( I KNOW DIVORCE IS THE ONLY OPTION FOR THEN COS ITS OBVIOUS , YOU AINT SAFE. I WORK OFFSHORE AND THE TERM IS ......SAFETY FIRST)
3. CALL A MEETING OF HER FAMILY MEMBERS AND PLAY THE RECORDS IN HOME THEATRE FOR ALL TO HER...YOUR FAMILY AND HER FAMILY TOGETHER.
4. THEN FILE FOR DIVORCE, YOU WOULD NEED THOSE FILES, SO THE JUSGE CAN GRANT YOU YOUR DIVORCE IN COURT.

You may reach me on facebook so we can excahnge numbers.....johnson idika.....sure we would talk more. am interested in your story. Am so so sorry bro,

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Nobody: 12:44am On Jul 05, 2016
Tears dropping embarassed lipsrsealed
Don't really understand some ladies mission on earth
Imagine your wife calling you a half man??
It's time to take a walk Sir.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Nobody: 12:51am On Jul 05, 2016
Ruemufaith:
Tears dropping embarassed lipsrsealed
Don't really understand some ladies mission on earth
Imagine your wife calling you a half man??
It's time to take a walk Sir.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by sashishalom(f): 1:01am On Jul 05, 2016
Haaa this is disheartening .....pls don't let her know you saw the records....you need an elderly advice most esp your dad...your dad would give you the right advice and handle it very well emotionally than your mom...

That lady is wicked,she fit kill you oh...don't start coming back late oh because of it...send the records to your phone....I think she is scared of loosing you,rem she started begging,I bet that wasn't part of the plan...
I am short of words self...don't even know if what am saying is right but please your dad is the best person to turn to...I can understand how you feel...can you imagine?..

Where are our hearts??what colour do they show forth now??what have we exchanged our feelings for??



Dejifalade

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Nobody: 1:02am On Jul 05, 2016
Things are really happening o!

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by ednut1(m): 1:06am On Jul 05, 2016
Can this be real . Get d recordings and send ur parents nd her parents too. Take ur child and chase d her outta ur house

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by bakynes(m): 3:03am On Jul 05, 2016
Here is my own advice.
Transfer the recordings to your phone, like many has advised on this thread call a family meeting with both of em wife's sisters and their husbands, your wife's parent and your own parent.

Play the recordings to them and watch as they all begin to beg you on their knees.

Give your wife's family two conditions
1. You file for a divorce or
2. Tell your wife's parent and her sisters husbands to warn them sisters to keep away from your family.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by 2sexycom(m): 3:23am On Jul 05, 2016
misspicy:

The advice he will get from the jambites cheesy here too will go a long way.



No one cares about your mood married man, sleep well wink
just woke up. I never marry o. Just saying this section has lost its flavour.
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by ummeey: 5:25am On Jul 05, 2016
When fate brings an angel and a demon together in the name of marriage.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by sumborri: 5:52am On Jul 05, 2016
I may not be in the best mind to give advice now, but its clear everything is all a plan. My cuurent EX is like your wife, many don't have minds of themselves and thus easily influenced. She might be listening to the scripts of her siblings without realising their bad intentions towards her marriage. Its a family affair and introducing the family to what you have seen will be a revelation wwith no going back. Serious consequences. Thus I believe you have one on her and should utilize it to be a step ahead of them.

Keep monitoring your wife, reveal what you have leant to your dad, don't tell ur mum cos she will get protective aand destroy those women. Let some people on ur part be aware of these evil schemes andd watch matters unfold. Counter a lot of her moves. Let her keep coming up with more and let's see her end game. This would tell you all you need to know about her and your next move.

No point calling a meeting for a settlement. This matter is one that could involve murder and deciet. Thus its a do or die affair

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by general111(m): 6:10am On Jul 05, 2016
Op!op!op!...how many times I call you??listen and listen good.if you still love your wife,NEVER REVEAL THIS TO YOUR MOTHER.else your mummy may even get diabolical with your wife..I think your father in law and your dad should be the first to know.and please do it fast,because if she discovers that you are aware of what she did,she could kill you to hide her secret..nevertheless,try as much as you can to save your marriage...

In addition, I think I understand your wife a little.based on the fact that she is the last born amongst her siblings which includes already married ladies. She feels her elder sisters understands marriage better than she does and is tempted to always take their advice.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by byvan03: 6:18am On Jul 05, 2016
Don't be in a hurry to tell your family, once they hear this, the marriage has ended. A family with too much interference hardly lasts.


Tell her what you know, make sure she spends 2 weeks or more with those precious sisters of hers. She needs a reality check, she might not be a bad person but she is vulnerable. It's a shame when a woman has a weak personality, people like her operate with others steam. She has no mind of her own. You can save your marriage but you need to make your mark now, a huge mark that will reset all misplaced nuts in her brain.


If you want to restore your marriage, please don't tell your parents, they won't forgive this. Any meeting should be between you, her sisters and their husbands. Your problem is salvageable, you still have a fighting chance and you will win if you stampede those roaches into their hiding places. Those yelling divorce won't be there there to console your battered heart. Marriages do have their ups and down, deal with this like a man. Warn that wife of yours that the day she reports you to anyone again is the day the marriage ends and mean it.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by obiak4(m): 6:21am On Jul 05, 2016
pharmagba:
I feel very sorry for you, but a man got to be a man
Firstly I don't know the real sickness and precise age of your daughter but one thing you must know is it is not good for a wife to have too much free time as it is a veritable devils workshop you ought to ensure she is working; open a shop for her or impregnate her so she continue baby nursing,

Now to your findings first of all copy it somewhere else like your phone and then confront her with it, play everything to her hearing, pause at intervals to ask her what you've done wrong, please don't be aggressive or angry; control your emotions. Ask her what she has to say.

Let her know it is betrayal, threaten her you will summon a family meeting of both family and see her reaction.
If or not she apologies don't tell anybody either your family or her. NEVER.. It must not come from your mouth.
But make a stand none of her family members should have your respect. They must never come to your house. Don't give reasons, don't pick or answer their calls until you see full repentance in her. which must be after like a year. .it is her family that must bear the brunt and punishment Nothing more

Don't divorce her she is your wife, folly is in the mind of a woman. I know it will definitely leave a scar in your relationship, forgive her still and try to let go, call her from work and be a good father and husband.
Sorry are same, Just asking because you sound like the wife sister or mother
Op if you take advice from people like this prepare for your obituary in 2weeks
If she get to have an infinitesimal idea that you have heard that recording you are dead pls believe me because from your narrative the whole family is against you,
Your best bet is get a copy of the recordings tell your family members and her family members you want to celebrate your union back if you have strong men hired to restrain her family members because They might get violence during the meeting
Play the recordings everyone would know where he stands

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by obiak4(m): 6:26am On Jul 05, 2016
2sexycom:
next time anything that has to do with marriage should be taken to family section where mature minds are, not here that is largely filled with jambites.
Seconded mod do.............
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by obiak4(m): 6:33am On Jul 05, 2016
IRserveMyComent:
Before you do anything first take your daughter for a dna test. It is unbelievable how your best friend is turning to your worst foe. If possible transfer all the recorded evidence to your phone, then call her two sisters the very ones you listened to their conversation. Fix i meeting with them in an eatry or any other un hidden place but do not let your wife know about it. Play the records to them and demand explanations or if they are married call their husbands and play the records to them. Either way make it known to them that they cant succeed in tryin to break your home. Tell them you love your wife (even if you feel otherwise at the moment). That she is your best friend and that all their gimmicks to break your home or make it unstable will never work. (and while at it make sure your phone is on record). When you are home call your wife and ask her exactly what she wants. Play her call recorded conversations with her sisters from your phone (this will shock her). Then tell her of your meeting with her sisters or their husbands as the case may be. Then play where you where telling them they wont succeed in breaking your home or making it unstable. If she still has a living conscience she would apologise and admit her wrongs. (you are taking these measures to save your home, not because you are at fault or anything) I wish you God's grace.
Op please bypass this if her sisters get to know the food or drink you will taste in your home would be your last,
What happen when a full family decides to make a mans family miserable DEATH.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Eketem: 6:34am On Jul 05, 2016
I hope you transferred the recorded calls to your phone. If you did, go home act as nothing happened and summon a family meeting where you play the call and ask for a temporary separation.

Let her go and think of what she has done and if she wants to continue being married.

She will cry and beg not because she is sorry but because she has been caught.

If you bow to pressure to let it go you will be miserable and hurt because this betrayal is plenty and harsh you both need time away from each other to heal

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Eketem: 6:38am On Jul 05, 2016
byvan03:
Don't be in a hurry to tell your family, once they hear this, the marriage has ended. A family with too much interference hardly lasts.


Tell her what you know, make sure she spends 2 weeks or more with those precious sisters of hers. She needs a reality check, she might not be a bad person but she is vulnerable. It's a shame when a woman has a weak personality, people like her operate with others steam. She has no mind of her own. You can save your marriage but you need to make your mark now, a huge mark that will reset all misplaced nuts in her brain.


If you want to restore your marriage, please don't tell your parents, they won't forgive this. Any meeting should be between you, her sisters and their husbands. Your problem is salvageable, you still have a fighting chance and you will win if you stampede those roaches into their hiding places. Those yelling divorce won't be there there to console your battered heart. Marriages do have their ups and down, deal with this like a man. Warn that wife of yours that the day she reports you to anyone again is the day the marriage ends and mean it.




Let the marriage end if that is what would happen. Why do we want to shield this nonsense? Because a woman is involved we are suddenly concerned about home restoration.

These witches would have continued this torture for years if he had not heard this recording.

Let the whole family come let them seperate temporarily let her go and think about her actions

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Funnyguy83: 6:40am On Jul 05, 2016
Nawa o. Women shaaa.

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by obiak4(m): 7:08am On Jul 05, 2016
Its funny how people advice others
1 when a woman start having secret savings when his husband is not aware
2, when she decide to destroy the reputation you have build for year in a few hour
3, when the whole family is against you
Its simply point to the end of the man or DEATH

FUNNY HOW PEOPLE ADVICE THE OP TO FORGIVE AND TELL HER NOT TO VISIT HER FAMILY IS SHE BEEN SOLD
NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY YOUR INLAWS ARE YOUR INLAWS
PLEASE FILE FOR SEPERATION YOUR MOM MUST ALSO GET TO KNOW WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY MIGHT HAVE PLANED FOR HER

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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by emekachimek: 7:14am On Jul 05, 2016
My brother, it's so unfortunate that you've got married to her. The bible says a wise woman builds her home while a foolish woman tears her home apart: You now know what your wife is. You did not get married yesterday to divorce tomorrow. So my advice for you is this: download the recording and play it to her in your presence and let her be aware that you've seen her foolishness and that she can't be trusted. You don't need to call any of your in-laws because she will tell them herself: Never discuss the matter with them, they will fear you as long as you are living with their sister. Secondly, DO NOT tell your relations about this, except you've already made up your mind to divorce her. Lastly, do not say anything to her after playing the recording; the purpose is for her to know u are aware of her foolish act. Even if you will eventually go your separate ways, let her be the one to initiate it; she'll regret it all her life.

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