DeCypherMe:

Posted on the diary...
how about you?

Seen.
my story similar to yours only that i've had sex with both guys and ladies.
I didnt get any _erection from ladies so my sexuality was clear to me.
so when u were a kid were u in any way effeminate?

iamdurent:
Seen.

my story similar to yours only that i've had sex with both guys and ladies.

I didnt get any _erection from ladies so my sexuality was clear to me.

so when u were a kid were u in any way effeminate?

Crazy lol, yeah.

I liked all the high heels, the baby dolls and everything girly. But not PINK, actually hated pink.
I still like heels lol. Once in a while I put on any of my sister's or aunt's shoes that my leg can fit into. In secret though.

In senior secondary school, I was nicked "Caro".
Yeah, I said it. My classmates called me Caro. It didn't get under my skin though. A week ago, a classmate from junior secondary school engaged me on facebook and was telling me about how girly I was then and why she didn't confess she liked me lol.

So I was effeminate. And did I mention I had a high pitched voice? I've worked on getting it strong after secondary school, over the years though. So its better now.

DeCypherMe:



Crazy lol, yeah.

I liked all the high heels, the baby dolls and everything girly. But not PINK, actually hated pink.
I still like heels lol. Once in a while I put on any of my sister's or aunt's shoes that my leg can fit into. In secret though.

In senior secondary school, I was nicked "Caro".
Yeah, I said it. My classmates called me Caro. It didn't get under my skin though. A week ago, a classmate from junior secondary school engaged me on facebook and was telling me about how girly I was then and why she didn't confess she liked me lol.

So I was effeminate. And did I mention I had a high pitched voice? I've worked on getting it strong after secondary school, over the years though. So its better now.

LOL. I asked bcuz i read an article on relationship btw homosexual in men and gender non-conforming behaviours.

I was also girly as a child,(sucks) and am yet to see a gay man who wasnt effeminate as a child.

iamdurent:


LOL. I asked bcuz i read an article on relationship btw homosexual in men and gender non-conforming behaviours.

I was also girly as a child,(sucks) and am yet to see a gay man who wasnt effeminate as a child.

Hehe.
I've not met many gay men.

Just one personally.
And here, I'm meeting people like me.

Yikes, its almost 1am.
I've got an exam by 9am. Jesu!
I gotta run.
Be back later today.

DeCypherMe:



Crazy lol, yeah.

I liked all the high heels, the baby dolls and everything girly. But not PINK, actually hated pink.
I still like heels lol. Once in a while I put on any of my sister's or aunt's shoes that my leg can fit into. In secret though.

In senior secondary school, I was nicked "Caro".
Yeah, I said it. My classmates called me Caro. It didn't get under my skin though. A week ago, a classmate from junior secondary school engaged me on facebook and was telling me about how girly I was then and why[b] she didn't confess she liked me lol.[/b]

So I was effeminate. And did I mention I had a high pitched voice? I've worked on getting it strong after secondary school, over the years though. So its better now.

I guess you won't be needing the services of the chick, please can you do well to forward Mr her contact? Let me make good utility of her... Thanks in advance...

PaulKillerman:

I guess you won't be needing the services of the chick, please can you do well to forward Mr her contact? Let me make good utility of her... Thanks in advance...

lol, are you fine?

My worst female enemy, I won't even allow an inch close to you. Then someone I care about?

Oyode sha ooo.
Women are to be made utility of?
Who trained such a vile human being?

DeCypherMe:



lol, are you fine?

My worst female enemy, I won't even allow an inch close to you. Then someone I care about?

Oyode sha ooo.
Women are to be made utility of?
Who trained such a vile human being?

How was d exams

iamdurent:
How was d exams

Out of this world! I so enjoyed myself through it all.
I got one simple question like that wrong sha *sobs* Its all good.

Gay and Proud. Heeeeeyyyyyyy
#gay and proud
#gaylove#

Love comes when we least expect it. May we all find unconditional love regardless of our sexuality.
@iamdurent.you're a very interesting person.i wish you the best.

As few are trying to console,I will always pray that God open your inner eyes to see very well,Sin is sin fornication of all kinds unless married are all sin.

You kept preaching and promoting your gaysm on this forum at any given opportunity continue.

DeCypherMe:


Out of this world!
I so enjoyed myself through it all.

I got one simple question like that wrong sha *sobs* Its all good.

I Wish u luck

illusion03:
Love comes when we least expect it.
May we all find unconditional love regardless of our sexuality.

@iamdurent.you're a very interesting person.i wish you the best.

Thanks dear.

iamdurent:
I Wish u luck

Thanks muchy..

So una dey say toto no sweet,na yansh dey sweet una? The matter surprise me but I no get ill feelings towards una.

bomasek:
So una dey say toto no sweet,na yansh dey sweet una? The matter surprise me but I no get ill feelings towards una.

LOL. Thanks tho

iamdurent:
ways?
what type of ways?

I cant think of any.

Maybe u cud be of help?

Hello Durent,

I thought about how to respond to your message without giving away too much as this is a platform with lots of people...both those that mean well and the homophobics.
This is what I've got to say.I do not believe there are specific rules for meeting guys just as there aren't for straight guys that want to meet girls.You need to be out there,take every opportunity to start up conversations with guys you meet. Drop some hints while you talk..and be very observant of their reactions when you do this.And by reactions this includes body language.
How you proceed will depend on what you notice.
Networks help too (friends of friends).

Just like you,many guys out there would rather just remain alone to avoid awkward scenarios.
I wish I could say more.

Cheers!

Perseus:


Hello Durent,

I thought about how to respond to your message without giving away too much as this is a platform with lots of people...both those that mean well and the homophobics.
This is what I've got to say.I do not believe there are specific rules for meeting guys just as there aren't for straight guys that want to meet girls.You need to be out there,take every opportunity to start up conversations with guys you meet. Drop some hints while you talk..and be very observant of their reactions when you do this.And by reactions this includes body language.
How you proceed will depend on what you notice.
Networks help too (friends of friends).

Just like you,many guys out there would rather just remain alone to avoid awkward scenarios.
I wish I could say more.

Cheers!

Hmmm, thanks vry much. Dis is helpful. Cc; DeCypherMe, he has responded me

iamdurent:
Hmmm, thanks vry much. Dis is helpful. Cc; DeCypherMe, he has responded me

Thanks.

If only I can stop ogling and start being less tongue-tied.

DeCypherMe:



Thanks.

If only I can stop ogling and start being less tongue-tied.

Practice makes perfect.


I'd start praticing d tips tho.

iamdurent:
Practice makes perfect.

I'd start praticing d tips tho.

Lemme see if I can try to practice too

DeCypherMe:



Lemme see if I can try to practice too

Since u n durent dey sound miserable,y una no fit hook up. Una sabi wetin una want.

bomasek:
Since u n durent dey sound miserable,y una no fit hook up. Una sabi wetin una want.

Excuse me?

Told'ya I'm miserable since I can't hook up?

Hook ups get you alive?
Get a life dude.

iamdurent:
Hmmm, thanks vry much. Dis is helpful. Cc; DeCypherMe, he has responded me

Glad to share. Happiness should not have to require skills in 'rocket science'.

It's a shame, Op. You should be very ashamed.

Perseus:


Glad to share. Happiness should not have to require skills in 'rocket science'.

Yeah, true.


Homphobes everywhere though.
Like a course mate was teasing me about being Jussie Smollet like ( I was rocking my Empire playlist on Saturday and she could hear me sing from her room and while I walk past. I sing-walk lol.)


Guess what?
She says.
" My Jamal.... but not the gay part oooo"

bomasek:
Since u n durent dey sound miserable,y una no fit hook up. Una sabi wetin una want.

Excuse me.

how do we sound "miserable"?

If u have nothing Reasonable to say, u can walk by without commenting

Perseus:


Glad to share. Happiness should not have to require skills in 'rocket science'.

Yea.

Adisa89:
It's a shame, Op. You should be very ashamed.

Ashamed of what exactly

iamdurent:
Ashamed of what exactly

In this part of the world, you don't take pride in being a gay.

DeCypherMe:



Yeah, true.


Homphobes everywhere though.
Like a course mate was teasing me about being Jussie Smollet like ( I was rocking my Empire playlist on Saturday and she could hear me sing from her room and while I walk past. I sing-walk lol.)


Guess what?
She says.
" My Jamal.... but not the gay part oooo"

LOL


But Jamal's cute.

iamdurent:
Excuse me.

how do we sound "miserable"?

If u have nothing Reasonable to say, u can walk by without commenting

Make una no bore us with how una no see prick to drill una yansh na