iamdurent:
Fate seems like d best idea to any nigerian gay man

Yeah, waiting patiently for my knight in shining armor

tensazangetsu:
OP don't worry love will find a way. You will meet someone who will make sure you never feel lonely again. And to others you have no right to judge gay people, you can only pray for them if you think what they are doing Is wrong. People don't choose to be gay they are born that way.

Thanks.

DeCypherMe:


Yeah, waiting patiently for my knight in shining armor

You can say dat again

DeCypherMe:


You lynch a "gay" guy!
It massages your ego!
You probably orgasm at the thought?

So what next?
What's your gain?

My gain is to make him get intoxicated anytime he sights an unclad lady instead of a guy.


And you trying to be gay activist, gays are abomination to God according to the Christian doctrine and i know that the Muslims are against it too.


So if you need a place to practice gay better start preparing your papers to travel to America.


This is Africa and it can never ever be practiced here, if caught the 'lucky' ones goes to jail and the 'unlucky' ones gets lynched...just like you said.

UndisputedBosom:



My gain is to make him get intoxicated anytime he sights an unclad lady instead of a guy.


And you trying to be gay activist, gays are abomination to God according to the Christian doctrine and i know that the Muslims are against it too.


So if you need a place to practice gay better start preparing your papers to travel to America.


This is Africa and it can never ever be practiced here, if caught the 'lucky' ones goes to jail and the 'unlucky' ones gets lynched...just like you said.

Intoxicated at the sight of an unclad lady, That's what happens to you?

So YOUR BIBLE is ineffective in America?

I'm sorry, I'll be whoever I CHOOSE and WANT to be, WHEREVER I want!

Funny though how people are concerned with making sure people go to jail because of their sexual preference, yet they are themselves involved in hideous crimes.

DeCypherMe:


Intoxicated at the sight of an unclad lady, That's what happens to you?

So YOUR BIBLE is ineffective in America?

I'm sorry, I'll be whoever I CHOOSE and WANT to be, WHEREVER I want!

Funny though how people are concerned with making sure people go to jail because of their sexual preference, yet they are themselves involved in hideous crimes.

Be whatever you want to be is none of my business just know that you're doing so at self risk.


I rather be a Notorious Rapist or Criminal that to stoop so low in becoming a gay...

UndisputedBosom:



Be whatever you want to be is none of my business just know that you're doing so at self risk.


I rather be a Notorious Rapist or Criminal that to stoop so low in becoming a gay...

U Need a brain surgery.

now, gerrahia

UndisputedBosom:



Be whatever you want to be is none of my business just know that you're doing so at self risk.


I rather be a Notorious Rapist or Criminal that to stoop so low in becoming a gay...

A Justified Crime
How convenient!

And so you know, one doesn't just BECOME gay.

DeCypherMe:


A Justified Crime
How convenient!

And so you know, one doesn't just BECOME gay.

I lyk ur answer, 4gt abt dt oda guy wit "brain damage" it shows tht u re really matured.


You said and i quote "One doesn't just become a gay" so my question is this "WHAT PROMPT YOU INTO BECOMING A GAY".

UndisputedBosom:



I lyk ur answer, 4gt abt dt oda guy wit "brain damage" it shows tht u re really matured.


You said and i quote "One doesn't just become a gay" so my question is this "WHAT PROMPT YOU INTO BECOMING A GAY".

I'm not sure you got a clear understanding of my previous comment.
Yes, one doesn't just become gay.
To help you understand, I've got a question for you.
What prompted you into BECOMING straight?

"the guy with brain damage" ... I wont comment on that, I believe you've got a right to perceive anything about anybody. Your choice.

DeCypherMe:


I'm not sure you got a clear understanding of my previous comment.
Yes, one doesn't just become gay.
To help you understand, I've got a question for you.
What prompted you into BECOMING straight?

"the guy with brain damage" ... I wont comment on that, I believe you've got a right to perceive anything about anybody. Your choice.

I was wired/born to be straight.


Besides it was written that we should go into the world and multiply (check my signature) how then can we achieve that if we choice to be GAY.

UndisputedBosom:



I was wired/born to be straight.


Besides it was written that we should go into the world and multiply (check my signature) how then can we achieve that if we choice to be GAY.

Then you should get, I was WIRED gay.

And for your signature, I could easily artificially inseminate a surrogate mother.
I don't necessarily have to MULTIPLY by having sex.
And BTW I love kids, no matter whose they are.

lol... Iamdurrent... What made you gay? Please tell me. Haha..

NevetsIbot:
lol... Iamdurrent... What made you gay? Please tell me. Haha..

I Was born this way

iamdurent:
I Was born this way

No you weren't!!! You think you were but you weren't. You were boen straight. Social life and pressures made you this way! I insist.

iamdurent:
Congrat masonkz

On what?

Thanks bro How have you been??

NevetsIbot:
No you weren't!!! You think you were but you weren't. You were boen straight. Social life and pressures made you this way! I insist.

Lol at I insist

Ioannes:
funny enough there are places in Lagos where I'm sure gay people get to hang out and meet each other.

otherwise I can't imagine how come my cousin has so much luck changing boyfriends. everyday he is seen with a new one.

that made me realise that the issue of homosexuality is something we have decided to pretend about in this country.

there are sooo many young guys involved in this stuff.

lesbianism reigns supreme among northern girls especially the Hausa/Fulani.

I sincerely believe that the government should make facilities available for all of them to be helped medically (including the OP), because let's face the facts it's a sickness of the mind somewhat.

proper counselling, psychiatric and psychological evaluation and possibly hypnosis or Hypnotherapy should be made available and cheap for them.

they are human beings like us. and they should be treated with respect though the act shouldn't be encouraged.

Best comment

Durentt I'm just seeing this thread of yours.

Instagram is enough platform to get all the gay guys you can, trust me


It goes down in the DM...

Hehehe.. So gays dey nairaland..

Sh*t
Op needs to be flogged, hanged, flogged and hanged continously until he regains his senses

DeCypherMe:


Then you should get, I was WIRED gay.

And for your signature, I could easily artificially inseminate a surrogate mother.
I don't necessarily have to MULTIPLY by having sex.
And BTW I love kids, no matter whose they are.

Am Straight and you're gay......let's live our lives at the end we will give account for it.


But remember 14yrs imprisonment awaits any gay caught in the act....i rest my case by the way

UndisputedBosom:



Am Straight and you're gay......let's live our lives at the end we will give account for it.


But remember 14yrs imprisonment awaits any gay caught in the act....i rest my case by the way

Hehe.

Its not all about SEX, my dear

NevetsIbot:
No you weren't!!! You think you were but you weren't. You were boen straight. Social life and pressures made you this way! I insist.

*Sigh.
Like i care what u insist.

masonkz:

On what?
Thanks bro How have you been??

On your promotion.
I've been great.

masonkz:
Durentt I'm just seeing this thread of yours.

Instagram is enough platform to get all the gay guys you can, trust me


It goes down in the DM...

Hmmm, i neva knew

iamdurent:


On your promotion.

I've been great.

How did know about his promotion though? Saw it today on his LinkedIn page.

Congrats Masonkz

GSKing:


How did know about his promotion though? Saw it today on his LinkedIn page.

Congrats Masonkz

I Saw it on his Diary, i was online when he updated and ran to check what he posted

GSKing:


How did know about his promotion though? Saw it today on his LinkedIn page.

Congrats Masonkz

loool. Thanks jare.

How are you and your gf?

iamdurent:
Today, I Quit Trying to find love and leave It to Fate to bring my love to me.
The same Fate that made me a gay man, the same fate that made me to be born into nigeria knowing fully well dat my sexual orientation would cause me to be lonely, devastated, isolated and discriminated against.

Don't get me wrong, Am not shy, I can go up to the guy i like and ask him out but excess Homophobia wont let me do that.
Today, I hear a gay guy was killed;
Tomorrow, i hear a gay guy was beaten.

Am afraid of hitting on the "straight" guy,


*sighs*

No gay bar,
No openly gay peeps.
No dating life, Online dating site like grindr isn't my kindoff thing!

Is this how life as a gay man ought to be?


I Leave it all to fate, i believe in fate to bring my significant other to me in the midst of all dis hate.

Okbye.

Ur struggle is real.I can relate.
But then again,'fate' is not the answer.Lest ur gonna be alone for long...(And I'm not tryna compound ur problem here)
Believe me...there's ways.

Much love to you @iamdurent

I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right.

I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison.

You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

foolinlove:
Much love to you @iamdurent

I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right.

I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison.

You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

Thanks dear. I've learnt to accept and love myself.

Homophobic comments dont shake me as much. I live my life how it deems fit to me and care less bout what others talk.

Perseus:


Ur struggle is real.I can relate.
But then again,'fate' is not the answer.Lest ur gonna be alone for long...(And I'm not tryna compound ur problem here)
Believe me...there's ways.

ways?
what type of ways?

I cant think of any.

Maybe u cud be of help?