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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Loop1: 4:49pm On Jul 18, 2016
mizzbouqui:
I think the relationship is dead and you might be tempted to cheat since your love for her is not that strong again, you should break up with her before its too late at least you are not breaking her heart, she is definitely still seeing the one who took her virginity, ladies doesn't forget the person they loss their viginity to like that
I dint even know you still remember me , anyways I forgot untill today .
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by repogirl(f): 4:49pm On Jul 18, 2016
1miccza:
Lolz what!!!don't you want the OP to look for suggestions again??
This his issue doesn't warrant opening Nairaland thread.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
Are you beans??...

Mtcheww
Please ignore me on this forum.

I don't want to quarrel with anyone
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by TheNathan(m): 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2016
sad abeg leave her ........after all your wahala for more than a year, she left you and loosed it to another guy she met jst a month #useless
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by HRich(m): 4:54pm On Jul 18, 2016
cruzita:
my tongue is under lock
Doing what there?
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by justjify(m): 4:54pm On Jul 18, 2016
Pweedyfaszy:
Owk,because she was bleeped by som1else,u dnt trust her n wnt 2 break up..wat makez u fink ur next bae wud be better?
Abeg make i find chair sit down.

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by emma2406(m): 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2016
Pls, let her go coz 90% of female go back to male that defiled them even if d man is married with kids self Dat why there toopick girl
NOTE : I didn't say all female
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by BiafraBushBoy(m): 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Please ignore me on this forum.
I don't want to quarrel with anyone
You see the mistake??....
Was I seeking for your attention??...
Someone quotes you, and it becomes attention seeking...
Don't let me troll you... bullcrap!!
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2016
[quote author=justjify post=47668426][/quote]speaking sense
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Damfostopper(m): 4:57pm On Jul 18, 2016
ladies often turn a new
leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters...... Lol u notice too..... I dnt do gals who just gain admission..... Dose biitches feels like university is another country
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by justjify(m): 4:57pm On Jul 18, 2016
drpossibilities:
Brother, you may not be able to cope with the thoughts and so I will advice you quit. I found myself in a similar situation not long ago. I dated a lady for close to 4 Years and I didn't touch her because she was a Virgin and wanted to remain so till marriage. We had a misunderstanding and for sometime we took a break. When I tried reconciliation moves, she kept on posting until she finally opened up and said 'She is no longer the girl I used to know' and instantly I knew what she meant. A guy she had not dated for up to six months had already disvirgined her. I felt very bad but wetin man go do. I moved on quickly without any hesitation. Try and do the Same. There are so many good and beautiful women all over the place with their dignity still intact. You will never be able to fully trust this kind of Lady you are talking about and its dangerous for a relationship. Besides, I've often heard that a woman never forgets the man who disvirgined her.
.
Word!!

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by HRich(m): 4:57pm On Jul 18, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?
Any day you cheat on me eeeh, I sell your phone
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jul 18, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
You see the mistake??....

Was I seeking for your attention??...

Someone quotes you, and it becomes attention seeking...

Don't let me troll you... bullcrap!!
I didn't say you were seeking for my attention.

I just don't like to quarrel
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark
Rugged Capping grin
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by 99foxxy(f): 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?
Good one sweet sis.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2016
Kylekent59:
My advise to u is to leave d girl. Even if u still forgive her and tins get better. She will still sleep with that guy. U never can tell what spirit it is. So use ur brain well wink
laakaye ko si fun e rara
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by 1miccza: 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2016
repogirl:
This his issue doesn't warrant opening Nairaland thread.
He made a mistake he actually wanted to open a Nairaland needle
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by teebillz: 5:00pm On Jul 18, 2016
henrylowe:
It's not like I'm dull or something, since I aim at marrying her, I felt there was no need to rush sex
Just listen to your silly self and tell me if you are making sense.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by dopedealer(m): 5:01pm On Jul 18, 2016
From experience , relationships dont work for good without trust because any small thing your heart will just be going up and down !!!
I know you must have spent alot of money on the relationship in the past but not to worry ...
There is always a compensation ...
Chop your own Slowly , till satisfaction.
No need to rush and make sure you train her well
If you have expereince ...
I wish na me sabi this gurl But there is no way i wuld have kept her for one and half years w/out touchy kissy popo to avoid what happned to yhu... Look at it now .. Person wey no even contribute to d developement of the puna just come help you.
I dey vex ooo angry
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by cephsaidu(m): 5:01pm On Jul 18, 2016
Bro... My candid advice is to move on. The reason why she came back is because she has tried other guys and seen that she would never find someone that loves her sincerely like you do. #from experience..
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jul 18, 2016
OP, what a minute! You dated a woman and didn't do it? You're a total wussy. grin

Of course, somebody else has to pop up her cupcake.

In other words, just because a man sleeps with you doesn't really mean he is thinking about the future. She realized this and quickly wants to return because you showed her pure love without sex meanwhile the other guy didn't keep the momentum after getting her on bed.

So, she felt the best way to gain your trust again and getting back is to confess to you. This is absolutely bullsh.itt

In order to be looked at differently, so to speak, you have to think differently and call the shots.

The b.itch is trying to use you as a back up plan. Do not fall into this trap. Just leave her like a shot. She obviously deserves it.

In addition, what's the advantage of having this girl around? Tell the b.itch to fvck off and let it be a lesson to her. Bitchhing around has its own drawback.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Itzurboi(m): 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2016
karryn:
In brymo's voice "chop ur own and clean mouth now" abeg oga forgive her if u want to
Sowie sista, did u zoom that upper region or d fault is 4rm my fne
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Ofornaira: 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2016
I inquired if she was still
intact the way I left her and she told me she was.
(Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but
she was on her period that day) for over a year and half and u didn't sleep with her. if it is true, u tried.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by I888(m): 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2016
Philipsdael:
The thing now is that she is acting suspicious to you because you don't trust her anymore.
Even if u decide to bang her and she start being faithful to you, you will still be having doubt of her fidelity because that hymen u savour to break has been broken by a "Bad Sharp Guy" in less than a month.....
the scar will forever be in your mind whenever you remember her sex life.....and will always threaten your trust on her.
A relationship built without trust is bound to smack Zuma rock real hard.... hehehehe.
Guy, forget all u dey talk say u save her for marriage. walahi u f up. even if na once in a blue moon u dey sex her, e for better pass u leave her. una be Reverend father n sister ?...even some of the aforementioned sef dey straff for out side wella.
Guy, just move on but it seems like you too, you're stuck .... I pity your condition shaa. it can really be worrisome.
Story of my life brother. I had been in the OP's shoes years ago bro.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by remigiusizunna(m): 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2016
After all disembarking z not hanging leg
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by RasheedUmar: 5:04pm On Jul 18, 2016
Op, I feel like insulting you even though the angels on my shoulders are yelling 'DON'T!!!' undecided
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by merg28: 5:04pm On Jul 18, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark
Rugged cool cool cool
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by ginggerxy: 5:04pm On Jul 18, 2016
Laveda:
Eiyaa embarassed

Please forgive her if she's really sincere about the whole thing, shít happens, that's if you really love her as you claim..
so because he loves her is enough for her to be f**king around and expect him to accept her back abi?
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by rigarmortis: 5:05pm On Jul 18, 2016
some guys sha.

at this age you still think about girls with imaginary halos on their head.

you think you will leave a girl for seven months and she will still come back to you ''intact"......

what do you think she is?......a graven image?
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by blaquemyc: 5:05pm On Jul 18, 2016
Itzurboi:
Bros, very very and very smart.... have always had dis mindset that u can never trust girls, i was just living my life with anyone that comes, no feelin attachd... not until my careless hrt go find lov 4 dis gal hrt in 2013, my mentality change, my friends even suprise sey i fit luv, only 4 d gal to come nd shatter, asin she brk d hrt beyond repair dis year by gettin married after she has bin well known by my family.... see no love again, i stil live with dat pain til date cos i just cant imagine d breakup was real....
Take heart and move on bro, sh!t happens, all we gotta do is flush it and take a chill pill. Trust gals at your own peril.
Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by andyanders:
Don't marry out of SYMPATHY because you cannot and will NEVER have any trust as her past MUST continue to hurt and hunt you.


What you don't know cannot kill you. If you get married to her in future, every of her move, you will keep suspecting her even if she is not guilty.

Op, for coming hear to voice it out, from what you stated herein, you cannot love her no matter what. Take a walk and allow her be.

It takes the grace of God Almighty to forget and forgive an issue like this. A white man can let go an issue like this, but a black man has the heart of a lion when relationship is involved and tend to be more over possessive of their women.

Remove your mind from her as the luv she claim to have on you is just fake.Just note that.
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