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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by harlayoh(f): 9:39pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Another food for thought here. Thank you harlayoh

always welcome bro

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by whyx06(m): 9:45pm On Jul 21, 2016

nnamdi1993:
People wey i dey pity na guy wey thier babes dey uni,dem go dey hwz dey beat chest dat she cant do it. At dis level i dey nw,i no fit date babe wey still dey skul ooo, dem go jst use ur heart play pes2016

What of me way future wife studying outside d country and she kip boosting of her lov wit me... I'm so confused dis days wit d shocking episode of how lov stories end dis days on Nland

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by whyx06(m): 9:45pm On Jul 21, 2016

nnamdi1993:
People wey i dey pity na guy wey thier babes dey uni,dem go dey hwz dey beat chest dat she cant do it. At dis level i dey nw,i no fit date babe wey still dey skul ooo, dem go jst use ur heart play pes2016

What of me way my future wife studying outside d country and she kip boosting of her lov wit me... I'm so confused dis days wit d shocking episode of how lov stories end dis days on Nland

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Henz24(m): 9:52pm On Jul 21, 2016

nnamdi1993:
People wey i dey pity na guy wey thier babes dey uni,dem go dey hwz dey beat chest dat she cant do it. At dis level i dey nw,i no fit date babe wey still dey skul ooo, dem go jst use ur heart play pes2016

lol, girls second name na Konami

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by passionate88: 9:55pm On Jul 21, 2016

Nigerian girls ehn.. .. . God go help guys o

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by EricDonn(m): 10:00pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Of all the problems in Naija, this is what is making you loose sleep, see how you even talk as if the gal is ur mate or in final year, just a jambite....let me advice you small, don't tell ur friend exactly what you saw but just convince him that all gals in campus are spoiling and that u can't guarantee his gal is still clean, tell him to either hands off the babe or be ready for a shock very soon.... in that way you have lifted the burden from ur heart, if he goes on with her, he won't ask u to keep eye on the gal again, that's a senseless job he gave to you

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by firstking01(m): 10:12pm On Jul 21, 2016

Genoma:
If you have a way of confirming the authenticity of a product, would you buy the product before confirming its authenticity? how do u expect me to pay the brideprice of a girl i can't trust, how can i trust a girl without closely observing her actions both in my presence and in my absence?

If you like adopt all the strategy you knw in this world to monitor a girl or your wife, a woman that will still cheat on you will still cheat on you....so, save yourself the stress abegi.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Skmoda360(m): 10:12pm On Jul 21, 2016

chocolateme:
Ok.. is it that she begged you not to tell your friend with promises to break out the relationship she just started with the guy or not to tell your friend while she continues to enjoy the new guy?which one? Because ndi igbo si na "ekwue anughi na egbu umuazi but na ahu ekwughi na egbu okenye"
Call her to attention, give her options to either forget your friend now and continue with the campus guy before things gets messier or forget about campus live, focus on her studies and retain her man..
Let her know that you are not a fool too. Then let your friend know before he spends his life savings on someone that is not worth it. Thsts if he is truly your friend. We all know that predators will continue coming for her while in school but she should read a lot about how such relationships ended.

Always me

FTC
CHOCOLATEME

miss experience

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by firstking01(m): 10:15pm On Jul 21, 2016

Genoma:
If you have a way of confirming the authenticity of a product, would you buy the product before confirming its authenticity? how do u expect me to pay the brideprice of a girl i can't trust, how can i trust a girl without closely observing her actions both in my presence and in my absence?

If you like adopt all the strategy you knw in this world to monitor a girl or your wife, a woman that will still cheat on you will still cheat on you....so, save yourself the stress abegi...

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by restored2016(m): 10:16pm On Jul 21, 2016

Op this LOYALTY EXAM is not set for the girl instead it is set for you! Why are you finding it difficult to tell ur friend the turn of event he trusted you with, when you don't know the girl much( having met her only once) and u are taking her words more serious than ur friends trust. Indeed ladies have charms!
I guess ur friend chats with u every day to find out what is going on and ur posting him!
Let me tell you pump and plain, you are not a guardian but a spy. If your friend had physically handed over the girl to u to watch over then you can now form counselor or reconsilator, but he gave u her photo to spy on her and a call to hear her voice and report any suspicious mater! Trust me ur friend has an iota of mistrust in that lady that's why he spies on her, Don't be an accomplice! Perhaps he has other spies! Report what you have seen, man.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by silversonuc(m): 10:32pm On Jul 21, 2016

chocolateme:
Ok.. is it that she begged you not to tell your friend with promises to break out the relationship she just started with the guy or not to tell your friend while she continues to enjoy the new guy?which one? Because ndi igbo si na "ekwue anughi na egbu umuazi but na ahu ekwughi na egbu okenye"
Call her to attention, give her options to either forget your friend now and continue with the campus guy before things gets messier or forget about campus live, focus on her studies and retain her man..
Let her know that you are not a fool too. Then let your friend know before he spends his life savings on someone that is not worth it. Thsts if he is truly your friend. We all know that predators will continue coming for her while in school but she should read a lot about how such relationships ended.

Always me

FTC
CHOCOLATEME

okwu agwula.....lobaan

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by CaraJewel(f): 10:39pm On Jul 21, 2016

yorex2011:
Lol.. Not like I know it would happen o.. But the possibility does exist and if i find myself in the position again, would be the second time, and it would seem like i don't want to learn

Xo if at all it happens to mean will be d 3rd tym..does it mean am a mumu or ion learn

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by tokunegiye(m): 10:44pm On Jul 21, 2016

1stluv:
Let's see if you are loyal to your friend, am a lady but there is a saying "bros before hoo's" if am right.........dont dissapoint your friend

So you know the bro's code.... that is honor

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by TrueHeart365(m): 10:52pm On Jul 21, 2016

i wish i knew that your friend so i ca tell him to avoid you.

you don't sound like a loyal friend.

where does your loyalty lie? your friend or his hoe of a girlfriend.

imagine you pitying the guy and knowing he may be wasting his time and resources yet your only fear is the girl hating you for this.

i pray God doesn't give me this kind of friends

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by SexyStrawberry(f): 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Mind ur business, face ur studies and stop gossiping, after all they are still doing bf/gf ur friend hasn't gone to meet her people to drop a bottle of fanta on her head! So why do u want to be a bad belle? Guys these days dey gossip pass women, see as amebo dey chook u for body, u wan come do confirmation for Nairaland first before going to wag mouth

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by invinzible1: 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2016

Op are more dangerous to your friend than that LovePeddler, please if you cannot tell your guy what you saw in black and white, then forget it are more dangerous than judas. By now u ought to have to told him and not coming here to quote people's comments.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 11:11pm On Jul 21, 2016*

TrueHeart365:
i wish i knew that your friend so i ca tell him to avoid you.

you don't sound like a loyal friend.

where does your loyalty lie? your friend or his hoe of a girlfriend.

imagine you pitying the guy and knowing he may be wasting his time and resources yet your only fear is the girl hating you for this.

i pray God doesn't give me this kind of friends

Don't be too quick to judge.

I will let the cat out tomorrow when he comes around, I pray he accepts the outcome in good faith.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by invinzible1: 11:12pm On Jul 21, 2016

SexyStrawberry:
Mind ur business, face ur studies and stop gossiping, after all they are still doing bf/gf ur friend hasn't gone to meet her people to drop a bottle of fanta on her head! So why do u want to be a bad belle? Guys these days dey gossip pass women, see as amebo dey chook u for body, u wan come do confirmation for Nairaland first before going to wag mouth

Op ignore this daughter of Delilah

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Arabs999: 11:22pm On Jul 21, 2016

TrapQueen77:
it's very long story... I don't get it anyway

...@TrapQueen77, how and when u read am ?.. were u trapping ur boy friend for konji junction or u were doing d konji urself that made u not to get the story right?..
,..Look, the OP say, d girl dey carry him friend kongoh to go give another guy to hammer.
..Habaaa... monkey dey work baboon dey chop am..
... make u checkam well...and get am well @TrapQueen77...
.....
....

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by lieutenantHaven: 11:33pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Are you for real? I only know her as the course rep not an assistant class rep.

she is d assistant.. Am sure. By the way u don see where girl b course rep b4.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Obynolee(f): 11:47pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

Is your friend in the same school with you and his bae?,judging by paragraph four.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Obynolee(f): 11:50pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Is your friend in the same school with you and his bae?,judging by paragraph four of your essay

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 11:53pm On Jul 21, 2016

SexyStrawberry:
Mind ur business, face ur studies and stop gossiping, after all they are still doing bf/gf ur friend hasn't gone to meet her people to drop a bottle of fanta on her head! So why do u want to be a bad belle? Guys these days dey gossip pass women, see as amebo dey chook u for body, u wan come do confirmation for Nairaland first before going to wag mouth

Common sense they say is not common

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 11:54pm On Jul 21, 2016

Obynolee:
U

Is your friend in the same school with you and his bae?,judging by paragraph four of your essay

No sir, He schools in the neighboring state.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by ArchiPelago1: 11:58pm On Jul 21, 2016

1stluv:
Let's see if you are loyal to your friend, am a lady but there is a saying "bros before hoo's" if am right.........dont dissapoint your friend

That's the Bro code

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 11:59pm On Jul 21, 2016

invinzible1:
Op are more dangerous to your friend than that LovePeddler, please if you cannot tell your guy what you saw in black and white, then forget it are more dangerous than judas. By now u ought to have to told him and not coming here to quote people's comments.

And if I had dine that, na your type go they tag me 'Relationship breaker'

People are really insatiable.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by MrDoGood(m): 12:10am On Jul 22, 2016

op girls like this don;t deserve second chance. she will never lern!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cry

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by YOLO1(m): 12:22am On Jul 22, 2016

Topestbilly:
the types of friend this days...
sorry but u're not a good friend... same night and u opened everything up like fowl yansh kai! Since dis lady doesn't recognise u, u should hav just inform your friend about it.... cos ur friend will still find out without ur help, d gal will drag u into d mess n ur friend may never forgive u.

He pain me say the guy no get sense. He shouldn't have introduced himself. I trust myself. I go even bang the girl after reporting her to my friend

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Eminembuz(m): 12:23am On Jul 22, 2016

Relationship is not about distinguishing truth from lie rather its about unifying the two that's why its always cumbersome....Ops the fact is the truth hurt whenever its reveal. And it also goes around and comes around because it inevitable..I suggest you do the telling and forget the chaotic perplexed. So help you God.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by aloobright17: 12:24am On Jul 22, 2016

TrapQueen77:
it's very long story... I don't get it anyway

watch ur leg angry

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:28am On Jul 22, 2016

aloobright17:
watch ur leg

Which leg? angry

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:31am On Jul 22, 2016

solidman59:
Go to school, no. Now you can't even understand a simple write up.

Brother, tell your friend. No need to hide anything. Whores everywhere

U go to school!

Nonsense.

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