pweetyphola:


Lol Girls are not smiling bro. Just wish they stop killing the rest of us vibes..

You mean "Bitc* Dont Kill My Vibe"- Kendrick Lamar? Joking..

Wished you were there, you would have ran mad! The girl looked decent but she is just a plethora of baggage! Sorry about my language!

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

dude.. You messed up big time. All these acting up from her could have been avoided if you talked to her properly. I understand girls can be very crazy sometimes but from this post you seem to be the one who messed up. And if you think you were smart or whatever lie you convinced yourself, well your wrong. That girl right now has probably forgotten about you and doesn't give a rats ass about what your motives are. You handled every bit of the interaction wrongly. You could have easily turned her attitude to the positive side. Your a stranger so she has to test if your a real man and you so failed bro. 3k? . You actually gave her,that to prove what?

thesuave10:
Pweetyphola stop viewing and comment joor

Just saw your comment sef

thesuave10:



holy sh*t! Did you watch,cartoon for tips?! this is messed up bro

What is?

pweetyphola:


Just saw your comment sef

lol.. Yeye saw yours too. Sure you got those vibes huh?

nairaman66:


You mean "Bitc* Dont Kill My Vibe"- Kendrick Lamar? Joking..

Wished you were there, you would have ran mad! The girl looked decent but she is just a plethora of baggage! Sorry about my language!

No offence taken... I understand your sentiments perfectly

nairaman66:


What is?

you managed to get her attention when she was in her car. I gotta ask, did you let her hit you or break her head lamps or what?

tosyne2much:
Spending money on a lady is normal, no one argues about that. No matter how you try to embellish this act, it will never change the fact that no reasonable and responsible lady will hop on a man at the sight of money.

I don't know about you but as for me, I wouldn't like to see my sister or daughter unleashing such a demeaning habit

What if your sister tells you a guy she just met a few minutes ago asked her to come to the pool in the evening of same day to swim, what will go through your mind...be honest!

thesuave10:


you managed to get her attention when she was in her car. I gotta ask, did you let her hit you or break her head lamps or what?

Different strokes for different folks! You go ahead breaking lamps..n Hope one day they dont break your head instead!

Hipsofagoddess:

What if your sister tells you a guy she just met a few minutes ago asked her to come to the pool in the evening of same day to swim, what will go through your mind...be honest!

it's ok for a girl to do that actually .it's awesome in fact

pweetyphola:


No offence taken... I understand your sentiments perfectly

Thanks Sweetie

agabaI23:
If you only saw my heart, you won't have typed all that tbh. The last thing in my mind then was sex. But then you won't believe and it doesn't matter really.

Unfortunately the girl didn't see your heart like so many other people here, so why judge her, you should have revealed your heart to her, communication is always important between two parties not just on nairaland.

nairaman66:


Different strokes for different folks! You go ahead breaking lamps..n Hope one day they dont break your head instead!

lol.. But seriously dude.. You messed up. You shouldn't have let her enter the car. In her mind you were like someone selling gala on a highway

nairaman66:


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I eally taken aback and I told her outrightly that the money wasn't the problem but her unethical methods. I said I wasn't going to fall for that and I drove off!!

I was really going to give her that money for the fuel but somehow felt embarrassed by her methods!!

That's how it works. They will rush you and are so brazen that you end up being embarassed into giving in. Even after you leave the scene, whether you paid her or not, you go still dey shame.

BoboYekini:
That's how it works. They will rush you and are so brazen that you end up being embarassed into giving in. Even after you leave the scene, whether you paid her or not, you go still dey shame.

Man you need to see that look on my face!

thesuave10:


lol.. But seriously dude.. You messed up. You shouldn't have let her enter the car. In her mind you were like someone selling gala on a highway

Yeah she managed to buy 2 gala from me at the end! Thanks for the tips!!

nairaman66:


Yeah she managed to buy 2 gala from me at the end! Thanks for the tips!!

yh... And you were thinking of using the same money to buy fuel for her . Quick question tho, if you ended up buying fuel for her supposing her so called "ethics" were better, what in the world did you think you would achieve with her?

thesuave10:


it's ok for a girl to do that actually .it's awesome in fact

Oh really?

Hipsofagoddess:

Oh really?

yh sure. Infact it would be very fun. You would wanna try it too

thesuave10:


dude.. You messed up big time. All these acting up from her could have been avoided if you talked to her properly. I understand girls can be very crazy sometimes but from this post you seem to be the one who messed up. And if you think you were smart or whatever lie you convinced yourself, well your wrong. That girl right now has probably forgotten about you and doesn't give a rats ass about what your motives are. You handled every bit of the interaction wrongly. You could have easily turned her attitude to the positive side. Your a stranger so she has to test if your a real man and you so failed bro. 3k? . You actually gave her,that to prove what?

Bruv forget all you read or think you know about women. The Nigerian woman is a whole different kettle of fish. There's no sussing her out or making her amenable once she's in Maga mode. She will get paid or she will bounce. Period.
Giving her the money wasn't bad in itself, but letting her go with it is the problem. I understand agabaI123 is not used to this breed of female hence he allowed the shock and embarrassment beat him into a hasty retreat. But we live to fight another day.

BoboYekini:
Bruv forget all you read or think you know about women. The Nigerian woman is a whole different kettle of fish. There's no sussing her out or making her amenable once she's in Maga mode. She will get paid or she will bounce. Period.
Giving her the money wasn't bad in itself, but letting her go with it is the problem. I understand agabaI123 is not used to this breed of female hence he allowed the shock and embarrassment beat him into a hasty retreat. But we live to fight another day.

That reference was to Nigerian women nothing to do with foreign,women.Both giving her the money and letting her go is extremely bad.Girls "embarass" and "shock" guys because guys let them do it. For you think that he was right is absurd. And one more thing, regarding this issue 97% of women are the same. Believe me I know what I'm talking about

Hipsofagoddess:

What if your sister tells you a guy she just met a few minutes ago asked her to come to the pool in the evening of same day to swim, what will go through your mind...be honest!

I would think the dude only wants to flirt with her. Mind you, sometimes, we may be wrong with the way we hurriedly jump into conclusion

tosyne2much:
I would think the dude only wants to flirt with her. Mind you, sometimes, we may be wrong with the way we hurriedly jump into conclusion

That's what happened with the girl so spare her. Tho I think she was a prostitute cos if it was me I won't even show up.

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Ujoan:


Yada yada yada . . . Please you guys are such hypocrites.

The same well men are always expecting women to sleep with them is the same way women will always expect cash from you . . . whether they work or not. I am a big advocate of women demanding HUGE amounts of cash from men . . . but only from those who expect you to sleep with them.

Do you guys ever think that women are becoming much more demanding these days because they are tired of 'giving it away for free'

While I was single, I really detested guys who approach me and start wanting some sort of sexual relationship without going through the proper channel of dating, wooing, getting to know one another e.t.c. So when you ask for sex, I ask for cash and I don't mean 3k. Na you do carry your two left legs run! [/s]

Now I'm married, I am even bolder with my demands. Shebi you saw my wedding band clearly and still expect me to send you 'a romantic picture' through whatsapp . . . I will ask you to buy me a car and we go see who go tire first!

YOU MADE NO SENSE WITH THAT. IF I AM YOUR HUSBAND; DIVORCE IS WAITING!!!

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Mom007:
I am tired of hearing stories like this! Have Nigerian girls degenerated to this extent? Just meet a random guy and start asking him for money! After they start talking trash about guys.[/s] In fact all you guys, stop walking up to a girl you have just seen for the first time and asking them out! Chances are that they are just hoes! Only date ladies within your circle whom you know from somewhere or someone. That will minimize encounter with such one chance babes

ARE YOU MAKING SENSE? WHAT ARE WE HUMANS FOR? WHAT DO WE HAVE DESIRE'S AND TASTE FOR?

planetx:
So you stopped calling her because of ordinary suya and pizza? If you cannot afford such mundane items why even try to get to know a lady.

nt because of that but because the way she went abt it, so meeting me now, the foods her parent cooked for her suddenly turned to poison, am looking for a wife nt thrift collector.

victorkc:
Op.my experience is like yours.A lady nurse by profession was introduced to me by her classmate who happens to be my friend.i got talking with this lady, and we agreed on a date. I travelled to Enugu just to see this lady and possibly deceide having been chatting with her on fb.As i got to Enugu and logded in a hotel as she told me she would come and see me.meanwhile she said she was doing a pg program in one of the schools in Enugu.As she came to see me she said she was hungry i called for the restraurant.she said we would go to a better place which we did. Can u imagine that after eating the girl took me to a boutique directly opposite where we ate. She said she did not come to Enugu with church cloths and shoes.she went in and selected a cloth and a pair of shoes worth about 18 to 20k.and asked me to pay.i was shocked. I called her aside and inquired how much she had she said none. You knw what I paid the money and bid her bye. Currently she is still not married though a pretty lady. Im married with 2 kids.she may not marry as long as she still into obtain by trick

Bro, you really tried to have given out such amount of money. The funniest thing is that you might give them money out of your kind gesture but they will go about bragging to their friends that they scammed you

Thought my own was worst but this one is extra. Check out my experience with a lady also on this thread. Seriously, what are ladies turning themselves to recently? But I am now wiser. I don't care about the friendship anymore. If you're a lady and you ask me money, you're gone. We can never be friends.

https://www.nairaland.com/3248206/lady-out-trouble-she-remember

Ujoan:


Yada yada yada . . . Please you guys are such hypocrites.

The same well men are always expecting women to sleep with them is the same way women will always expect cash from you . . . whether they work or not. I am a big advocate of women demanding HUGE amounts of cash from men . . . but only from those who expect you to sleep with them.

Do you guys ever think that women are becoming much more demanding these days because they are tired of 'giving it away for free'

While I was single, I really detested guys who approach me and start wanting some sort of sexual relationship without going through the proper channel of dating, wooing, getting to know one another e.t.c. So when you ask for sex, I ask for cash and I don't mean 3k. Na you do carry your two left legs run!

Now I'm married, I am even bolder with my demands. Shebi you saw my wedding band clearly and still expect me to send you 'a romantic picture' through whatsapp . . . I will ask you to buy me a car and we go see who go tire first!

as if sex between lovers is a gift from women to men?! highly laughable arrant nonsense!
arent we BOTH gonna enjoy the sex?! arent we BOTH gonna try to pleasure one another?! so why would you remotely think that men should pay for something FREE that we are both gonna enjoy?! NONSENSE! coochie comes a dime a dozen, and i suggest you look around you, at how your desperate fellow women are FREELY throwing coochies at us men, like frisbees!
btw: if you think that a man MUST pays for the luxury of fukcing a woman, then you are just confirming that women are nothing but WHORES, and thus should be treated as that!

niggi4life:
BRO, SOMETIMES ITS NOT ABOUT SEX, THE WAY A GIRL WILL BEG U FOR MONEY AT TIMES WILL MAKE YOUR PENIS TO FALL

Ehm is that so

On a first date

thesuave10:


yh... And you were thinking of using the same money to buy fuel for her . Quick question tho, if you ended up buying fuel for her supposing her so called "ethics" were better, what in the world did you think you would achieve with her?

Probably we would have been able to talk if she is able to carry a conversation.

tosyne2much:
Bro, you really tried to have given out such amount of money. The funniest thing is that you might give them money out of your kind gesture but they will go about bragging to their friends that they scammed you

Right on point! Ladies are terrible people Atleast most of them! Just wondering what wires their brain after birth! Watching a lady trying to play smart on me is nauseating!!