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He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 8:38am On Aug 20, 2016 |
I saw this somewhere and I think I should share it with you guys. Many ladies love that phrase a lot. How can he use you? Are you a tissue? On a serious note though, when you ask these ladies how they were used, it will all boil down to sex. She feels used because the relationship ended and she had sex with him while it lasted. If sex wasn't involved I bet there would be no room for the feeling of being used. Some ladies see sex as favour to men. She believes she is having sex to please you and not because she enjoys sex, talk about lying to oneself. So when the relationship doesn't go as planned she views it as bad investment and screams foul. If as a lady, you feel sex is a favour you give to your partner then you aren't mature enough to date. If you don't want sex then decline but the moment you open your legs it is assumed you want it too. Have sex because you want to not because you want to keep a relationship or you want to please him. That way when it ends you won't feel like he took something valuable from you. You won't feel used, if you want to have sex enjoy it and do it to feel good. You are doing nobody a favour as you also enjoyed it. So enough of the victim mentality, we are tired of hearing how guys slept with you and left. If sex was not enjoyable you wouldn't dare give it to him. When you were in ecstatic throes we didn't hear about it so we shouldn't hear about it when it goes sour. Men avoid having sex with ladies who feel they are doing you a favour because they are the ones that go berserk when the cookie crumbles. They are the type who would burn your car or bath you with hot water. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Used Me!!! by NevetsIbot(m): 8:39am On Aug 20, 2016 |
That ten days ban really sucked the juice in me. Berlyn, I'm back o.... imagine, got unbanned today and FTC today. Hehe... This month shall be good. On a serious note. Ladies who even think they're doing a guy a favour bygetting into a relationship with him aren't diff from those crying victim. I wonder why they've revolved to start thinking like this. Relationships and sex are a two way thing. Both party enjoys it. We can even say ladies enjoy it more... Attention,money, nerve ending that surpass that of men during sex, cash, hyping and all. My own two pence on the matter ojere. #nevets 1 Like |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Goldenheart(m): 8:40am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Re: He Used Me!!! by olaleks007(m): 8:41am On Aug 20, 2016 |
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Re: He Used Me!!! by Young03(m): 8:42am On Aug 20, 2016 |
they used each other |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Slimflame(m): 8:43am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Op you are one of them |
Re: He Used Me!!! by prettyAdaolisa(f): 8:45am On Aug 20, 2016 |
olaleks007:Meaning? |
Re: He Used Me!!! by M2dX(m): 8:45am On Aug 20, 2016 |
true talk. 1 Like |
Re: He Used Me!!! by EmperorLee(m): 8:46am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Anybody can use anybody |
Re: He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 8:46am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Slimflame:Hey I'm not Though I use to have such feelings, but that was a very long time ago I'm too mature for such now 1 Like |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Garshyzee(m): 8:46am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Oh boy!... Tiri gbosa for you missbouqui ✊✊✊ |
Re: He Used Me!!! by prettyAdaolisa(f): 8:47am On Aug 20, 2016 |
I kinda concur with you dear op... But what if u later found out that he is clearly the opposite of what he made u believe,and that's after u guys have gone intimate... Won't u feel used? 1 Like |
Re: He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 8:48am On Aug 20, 2016 |
EmperorLee:Hmm hmm So you don't enjoy the thing when you are doing it right You feel you are doing your partner a favour 1 Like |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Nobody: 8:49am On Aug 20, 2016 |
DUMB WRITE-UP!.... she(he) couldn't even rectify the errors in the post...... unapapadeycraze: One Million likes for yhu..... 8 Likes
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Re: He Used Me!!! by jamalnation(m): 8:50am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Oshe abeg tell dem
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Re: He Used Me!!! by EmperorLee(m): 8:50am On Aug 20, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Some times yeah. |
Re: He Used Me!!! by 2dice01: 8:51am On Aug 20, 2016 |
even okpo self don dey cash feelings diss days |
Re: He Used Me!!! by unapapadeycraze: 8:51am On Aug 20, 2016 |
The op is a boy. Click like if you agree with me. 4 Likes |
Re: He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 8:53am On Aug 20, 2016 |
prettyAdaolisa:No I won't I have sex when I feel like, I don't force myself to, and I make sure I enjoyed everybit of it So you have to stop the self guilt, don't ever think you were used by a guy 2 Likes |
Re: He Used Me!!! by olaleks007(m): 8:56am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Re: He Used Me!!! by prettyAdaolisa(f): 8:56am On Aug 20, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Nice one... 2 Likes |
Re: He Used Me!!! by prettyAdaolisa(f): 9:00am On Aug 20, 2016 |
olaleks007: Mtsheeeew! |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Rapmoney(m): 9:02am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Sex is a human act; nobody should feel used because of it |
Re: He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 9:05am On Aug 20, 2016 |
I clicked like unapapadeycraze: |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Nobody: 9:09am On Aug 20, 2016 |
If you want to avoid heartbreaker or avoid using the phrase " He used me" don't have sex at all that way you would be emotionally and mentally strong, be able to think straight and make logical decisions 3 Likes |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Nobody: 9:10am On Aug 20, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Nobody: 9:11am On Aug 20, 2016 |
I disagree! Its not all about sex all the time. It can be a broken engagement. Or maybe the lady invested in the guy and he later dumped her for another girl. Or maybe it can be emotional dumping, the pain of seperation like I gave him my heart, he used it and dumped it. 8 Likes |
Re: He Used Me!!! by RoyalBlak007: 9:14am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Goldenheart(m): 9:16am On Aug 20, 2016 |
My ex used me |
Re: He Used Me!!! by Daddytyrese: 9:17am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Young03:. Abi oo many girls are naive |
Re: He Used Me!!! by kellz0(m): 9:18am On Aug 20, 2016 |
I hate it when i broke up with a girl and she be " so After giving you my body, u still want to dump me" like say na fire wood me give am 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Used Me!!! by mizzbouqui(f): 9:19am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Adaure4ever:You don't have to disagree, I'm only talking about sex here not about engagement or investment stuff Heart break is a different thing entirely and you can't say he broke your heart by using and dumping you when you both enjoyed the thing together 2 Likes |
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