KINGinVAHALA:
Following bumper to bumper! Rosalieene, won't you come and sit near me?

But its imperative I ask, who dating don EPP?

mizzbouqui:

I dunno why you don't always read and assimilate
You just jump into dvmp conclusions
Who is asking them to prioritise their relationships over their jobs
And if they don't, how are you going to see the man that will date you or how did you see the man you are with{if you are with any}

herbie27:
Op, didn't do her homework well b4 posting.

McBrooklyn:



Haba! Why you sef dey do like this now




If all these people start with you now, you go regret for your life say you ever created this thread



Easy does it dear

McBrooklyn:




L-O-L
Haba! People dey vex for this girl wella oooo

Bruh, abeg make una take am easy with her na small pikin dey do her

Rocktation:
If you don't have anything reasonable to contribute to a topic, waka pass. Don't insult or bully the OP or others. I will not warn anybody again.

NairalandEFCC1:

agreed we were harsh on her but she makes it easy, no one is against anyone posting a thread but i believe that we have a right to question the Op's points and the reason why everyone is reacting is cause she posts many threads like this

Rocktation:
If you don't have anything reasonable to contribute to a topic, waka pass. Don't insult or bully the OP or others. I will not warn anybody again.

herbie27:
Do this slowly for me and tell me who's being dumb here.

Read your thread subject.
Read that your point i quoted.
Read my post.
Now, tell me who's actually dumb?..."yes" I don't have a bf, but will date one that prioritise his job.

mizzbouqui:

I still love you, inspite of all this

NairalandEFCC1:

abeg don't love me

mizzbouqui:

Why won't I
The more I love the more I get blessed
The more you hate the more (don't let me talk abeg)

mizzbouqui:

Smh for this kind of reasoning
How will a lady want to date a guy that threats his job as the most important thing?
Later they will say they don't have a happy home
Anyways it is your decision, it is none of my biz and I rest my case ma

herbie27:
My views of your thread is different from yours you don't need to pick offence, in any relationship, i don't reside in the guys house, he's not my husband yet, i love hard working guys...don't expect a guy i'm dating to spend time with me when he should be working.

What do you really mean by guys who spend more time working are undateable?, think again.

mizzbouqui:
2.  Working too much
Hard work is good. Successful people are hard and smart workers. But how will you have time to date when you work a 12 hour day?

rosalieene:

*Observation mood*
BTW It has helped a lot of people huh

iyke1989:
Number 2 tho......this factor can't be influenced in some contexts....so u quite wrong bout this one..
U can't tell a banker to cut out of his job to make time for a relationship to works topnotch

jaxxy:
mizzbouqui nice thread/topic bt the thing is most of us already know/heard/read this so it's sounds repeated. Cheers

mizzbouqui:

And that is why he/she is still not dateable
You got to creating time for the one you love
Most bankers doesn't have a perfect love life (don't ask me how I know this, I was once a banker and I will be one again when I have my ICBN cert.)

herbie27:
The same bankers you said are not dateable, end up having wives and kids they make out time for, this thing has to do with individuals, and how they feel about you as a spouse, if somebody loves you, no matter how demanding his/her job is they make out time to be with you, maybe after work, on weekends or while on leave, there're ways to make a relationship work.

mizzbouqui:

Okay when you read and understand the post you quoted
Come and attack me

herbie27:
What do you really call an attack?, have i abused you here b4?, you created a thread and opinions varies, have dated a banker too and know how our relationship was when it comes to being with each other.

You should have put more words into that your second point, then people would have reasoned along with you.

Have a nice day!.

mizzbouqui:

Your responses are like you are attacking tho

My relationship was not in a good state until I left the banking job (I couldn't create time for him, not even to chat with him, i use the little time i had to sleep or for church activities, people who enjoys banking are the ogas at the top, if I hadn't quit the job I wouldn't have known what romance section is on nairaland, the job is stressful)

Have a nice evening!!!

jaxxy:
mizzbouqui nice thread/topic bt the thing is most of us already know/heard/read this so it's sounds repeated. Cheers

NairalandEFCC1:

thanks bro thats just the truth!

mizzbouqui:

Do you see yourself nah
Open your eyes, lalacti..la moved the thread to FP
The thread you called "unreasonable"