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6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 12:50pm On Aug 23, 2016
Finding love is hard.
Sometimes when you’ve been single for a long time, you begin to question yourself. Finding isn’t easy. But the love search is easily complicated by some habits you have.

“And the worst part, you don’t even know you’re sabotaging yourself.”

Many longtime single people who have been searching for love usually have habits that reduce their chances. Some of your habits could be stopping you from moving past the first few dates. Here are some of the major things that make you undateable:

1.  You’ve got a big Ego
We know these kinds of people who think and act like everyone is beneath them. Like they’re better than everyone else. Your big ego could be getting in your way of finding love. If you think you’re better than everyone, how are you going to settle with one person?

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Estharfabian(f): 12:52pm On Aug 23, 2016
[ seems promising...undecided


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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Raydos(m): 12:57pm On Aug 23, 2016
cry cry cry cry cry :
Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:04pm On Aug 23, 2016
2.  Working too much
Hard work is good. Successful people are hard and smart workers. But how will you have time to date when you work a 12 hour day?

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:06pm On Aug 23, 2016
3.  Being too clingy
You know those guys/ladies that call your phone 5 times a day after knowing you for a few days. If you’re one of those people, you’re clingy. And this comes off as being desperate. It could be chasing away your love interests.

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by IamLEGEND1: 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2016
Another generic thread we've read different versions of thousands of time.

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by KINGinVAHALA: 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2016
Following bumper to bumper! Rosalieene, won't you come and sit near me?

But its imperative I ask, who dating don EPP?

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:17pm On Aug 23, 2016
4.  Unrealistic standards
Unrealistic standards can be hurting your chances of finding love. Example, a girl who wants an RMD-looking kind of guy will wait for a very long time. Or a guy who wants a girl who looks like Kim K and behaves like mother Theresa might find himself growing “mettu” as we say in Naija. Set realistic standards and you will find love sooner.

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:20pm On Aug 23, 2016
5.  Lying too much
Some people’s names need to be changed to Linus or maybe Pinocchio. This is because they lie about every little thing. Nobody likes being lied to. If you’re a Nigerian Pinocchio (male and female), please change your ways to find a partner.

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by jamalnation(m): 1:23pm On Aug 23, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Another generic thread we've read different versions of thousands of time.

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:27pm On Aug 23, 2016
6.  Being too argumentative
Nigerians love to argue. If you’re on a date and your partner thinks A is better than B. And you think B is better than A. There is no need to talk them to death till they agree with you. Nobody likes an argumentative partner. Respect people’s rights to their opinions even if it’s different from yours.

Hopefully, you will find love soon.

http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/habits-totally-undateable/?geoip
Cc: Lalasticlala

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by tens4real(m): 1:28pm On Aug 23, 2016
dis geh don dey turn relationship coach oo bt hu relationship EPP? abeg oluwa pick up my call

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by senibo1: 1:32pm On Aug 23, 2016
mizzbouqui:
6.  Being too argumentative
Nigerians love to argue. If you’re on a date and your partner thinks A is better than B. And you think B is better than A. There is no need to talk them to death till they agree with you. Nobody likes an argumentative partner. Respect people’s rights to their opinions even if it’s different from yours.

Hopefully, you will find love soon.

http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/habits-totally-undateable/?geoip
Cc: Lalasticlala
are you through with your long episode? if yes, clap for yourself

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Aug 23, 2016
Haterz everywhere grin
Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Aug 23, 2016
always calling lala cheesy your 77th post only 1 front page cheesy
Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Aug 23, 2016
mizzbouqui:
2.  Working too much
Hard work is good. Successful people are hard and smart workers. But how will you have time to date when you work a 12 hour day?
So they should prioritise their dating relationship over their jobs?. grin

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Aug 23, 2016
herbie27:
So they should priotise their dating relationship over their jobs?. grin
ask the i must post op

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 23, 2016
NairalandEFCC1:

ask the i must post op
Op, didn't do her homework well b4 posting. grin

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Re: 6 Habits That Make You Totally Undateable. by mizzbouqui(f): 1:54pm On Aug 23, 2016
herbie27:
So they should prioritise their dating relationship over their jobs?. grin
I dunno why you don't always read and assimilate
You just jump into dvmp conclusions
Who is asking them to prioritise their relationships over their jobs
And if they don't, how are you going to see the man that will date you or how did you see the man you are with{if you are with any} undecided

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