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Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by sam6055(m): 4:49pm On Aug 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
sad embarassed

just giv ur relationship direction nd meaning

when a young child speaks... the elders can just hiss
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by sam6055(m): 4:52pm On Aug 23, 2016
smoby:
it was on my first semester when I saw her,ever then I have been In love with her,i told her hw I felt thought maybe she will understand. men! I was so much inlove with her bt later she started avoiding me, we didn't talk until the first semester ended. now we're back together this second semester..still have this feelings for her ...bt she said we can just be friends...that she don't love me... I have tried xo many ways to get rid of the feelings but it is still there in me...iwnt her bt she said she is Inlove with another..guys M so confused N sad right now..why did god create love is it to punish man for what Adam did? yes we spend time together,me ND her I wnt to get rid of this feelings bt it is still there .not that she is the only beautiful girl on campus not even close bt I don't have this feelings for other girls.......to me she's more than beautiful and I love her so much ....right now m so much sad ND my heart is always troubled....at times when I finish talking to her on phone I feel that happiness again.... please hw can I get rid of this emotions thanks because m tired of falling in love with the wrong girls ys I have asked her several times, if she hate me ...her answer was no I don't. u r the most amazing friend I have ever seen n u will be the last .xo what can I do pls help pls lala ..move it to the front page pls I need advice from people and even you to... thanks

There are many reasons why a girl will reject a guy...

1. He is not attractive enough
2. He is not her type
3. She is heartbroken from a past relationship
4. She is gay
5. She is a christian.. no sex ... no boys until after school..
6. You possess the qualities of a friend only

So op tell me which one do you think she is... so that I may help you with your feelings
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by Nobody: 5:43pm On Aug 23, 2016
smoby:
it was on my first semester when I saw her,ever then I have been In love with her,i told her hw I felt thought maybe she will understand. men! I was so much inlove with her bt later she started avoiding me, we didn't talk until the first semester ended. now we're back together this second semester..still have this feelings for her ...bt she said we can just be friends...that she don't love me... I have tried xo many ways to get rid of the feelings but it is still there in me...iwnt her bt she said she is Inlove with another..guys M so confused N sad right now..why did god create love is it to punish man for what Adam did? yes we spend time together,me ND her I wnt to get rid of this feelings bt it is still there .not that she is the only beautiful girl on campus not even close bt I don't have this feelings for other girls.......to me she's more than beautiful and I love her so much ....right now m so much sad ND my heart is always troubled....at times when I finish talking to her on phone I feel that happiness again.... please hw can I get rid of this emotions thanks
because m tired of falling in love with the wrong girls
ys I have asked her several times, if she hate me
...her answer was no I don't. u r the most amazing friend I have ever seen n u will be the last .

xo what can I do pls help





pls lala
..
move it to the front page

pls


I need advice from people


and even you to...
thanks
Your primary mistake is telling her how you feel about her at initial stage. It's a big turn off for some women.


I'm so sorry to tell you that she already friendzoned you. So, move on and approach another girl.
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 9:49pm On Aug 23, 2016
DeeTus:

Your primary mistake is telling her how you feel about her at initial stage. It's a big turn off for some women.


I'm so sorry to tell you that she already friendzoned you. So, move on and approach another girl.
true
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 9:52pm On Aug 23, 2016
sam6055:


There are many reasons why a girl will reject a guy...

1. He is not attractive enough
2. He is not her type
3. She is heartbroken from a past relationship
4. She is gay
5. She is a christian.. no sex ... no boys until after school..
6. You possess the qualities of a friend only

So op tell me which one do you think she is... so that I may help you with your feelings
ur number 4 ....got me rolling on the ground

can't tell.



.......maybe all...
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 11:50pm On Aug 23, 2016
westlius:
my dear read ur book forget any relationship and focus on ur education a successful man attracts people and mostly beautiful babes so leave her when u are successful she will com begin u for a relationship
yes that was what got me here.... and that was wat I vowed to do when I got admitted bt every thing changed when I saw her




do you believe in love by first sight
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by olempe(m): 11:52pm On Aug 23, 2016
Royle2014:
Lol. My brother, the kind plot of land wer u get for this 'friendzone community" na 250 by 500. Forget about dating this girl for now op. Because u love someone or something doesn't mean u must own it. U can decide to stop being a frnd completely if ur mind is not strong enough to handle unrequited love, or u can realise dat its not ur fault u love her, nd even if u guys dont date, friendship is just as nice (but konji na bastard). Stop pushing for a relationship with her. U have tried ur best. Accept her as a friend or move on
Be smart and take this advice op... Reject it and youre on ur own bro
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 11:54pm On Aug 23, 2016
njiasi30:
I really feel 4 u, it hurts when u love s/o and u dont get d luv back in return. u will b hurting urself d more by trying to force urself into her. Let her b she's no longer interested, it's not all relationship dat ends well.

Try and distract urself, gist and laugh with ur male friends, concentrate more on ur studies. Dats ur priority now. Keep her at distance 4 now, until u clear ur feelings. It's nt easy tho, but with time u get over her. Cheer up, such is life. wink
thank you sister
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 11:59pm On Aug 23, 2016
Phinity318:
Nigga wan draw oil u dy form Romeo, make u move on nah? u just dy obsessed with innocent girl wey Don tell u truth ..imagine say she be ur babe and another guy dy behave like u towards her? how u go feel?
the only oil wey I want drrw na the one wey I take dey rub my hair..
.ND besides I respect her so much thnk yu
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by njiasi30(f): 7:46am On Aug 24, 2016
smoby:
thank you sister
Uwlc
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by westlius(m): 8:12am On Aug 24, 2016
smoby:
yes that was what got me here.... and that was wat I vowed to do when I got admitted bt every thing changed when I saw her




do you believe in love by first sight




yap i do but women love successful men ladies turn u down when there is nofin and call u daily when they see u are progressin financially and professionally and dis from experience
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by Nobody: 8:29am On Aug 24, 2016
You've done your best, she cannot be with you, you got books to read, places to travel, and of course other pretty girls to love. Calabar girls go give you their love free of charge, just make you take care of them and... you know show say u be man when them carry you go corner grin .... I sabi say you sef go like "ihe corner"...grin

I assure you, when you start out with other girls, she'd come back to her senses. I had a girl I loved, grin (before I met this ma ex who wants to ruin me because she's confused) let me share a bit of the story to you...

When I was madly in love with her, I could do things for her, I could buy her things clothes, shoes, call her most times to know how she was, the girl not only converted me to maga, the friend zone way she keep me sef... na dungeon type of friend zone.... prison way no get prison ward. I bore it for sometime (yes, I'm the type who likes to be alone, don't party, if I wonna drink ,I drink alone, no much friends) but hey how long do I live with this, I got myself together, bought a new xbox 360, moved out to a new apartment, on a new street.... then a new girl came....

The day way the other babe catch me for street (she day with man o) na em she catch me with this girl coming out of ma house... she dismissed the man she was with and almost embarrassed my friend (the lady) who came to visit me.. I no lie o, I no sleep well that day o grin

Since then e get as e be, I had to live Owerri,and came back to lagos stayed with parents a bit and then moved on to where I am now. She sends me messages on FB, asks me if I've seen love and what not, if she sees me upload a girlie's pic on FB, the kain vex she go carry no be here.

Girls are jealous especially when you don't have their time again, so pls channel your time to something very reasonable. Let her be the one to love you, as you have done your part, if she still no gree, Nwanne free am biko. Save money visit your neighbourhood state,plenty girls day there, you hear, life is too short to worry over plenty nonsense, e fit be say her main guy doesn't take care of her much, if you push further, she fit use you do toy..

One love fam!
Salem.

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Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 9:40am On Aug 24, 2016
westlius:

yap i do but women love successful men ladies turn u down when there is nofin and call u daily when they see u are progressin financially and professionally and dis from experience
then ND this is how a nigga turns a player.if a gul can't stay now then she'll go when it turns bad in the future.....



thnks bro


from now on it jst me n ma music

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Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 24, 2016
smoby:
the only oil wey I want drrw na the one wey I take dey rub my hair..
.ND besides I respect her so much thnk yu
then u really no need advice cos she Don Friend zone u finish... excerpt u go dy as a side bobo as in side chick...lol
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 10:03am On Aug 24, 2016
gimakon:
You've done your best, she cannot be with you, you got books to read, places to travel, and of course other pretty girls to love. Calabar girls go give you their love free of charge, just make you take care of them and... you know show say u be man when them carry you go corner grin .... I sabi say you sef go like "ihe corner"...grin

I assure you, when you start out with other girls, she'd come back to her senses. I had a girl I loved, grin (before I met this ma ex who wants to ruin me because she's confused) let me share a bit of the story to you...

When I was madly in love with her, I could do things for her, I could buy her things clothes, shoes, call her most times to know how she was, the girl not only converted me to maga, the friend zone way she keep me sef... na dungeon type of friend zone.... prison way no get prison ward. I bore it for sometime (yes, I'm the type who likes to be alone, don't party, if I wonna drink ,I drink alone, no much friends) but hey how long do I live with this, I got myself together, bought a new xbox 360, moved out to a new apartment, on a new street.... then a new girl came....

The day way the other babe catch me for street (she day with man o) na em she catch me with this girl coming out of ma house... she dismissed the man she was with and almost embarrassed my friend (the lady) who came to visit me.. I no lie o, I no sleep well that day o grin

Since then e get as e be, I had to live Owerri,and came back to lagos stayed with parents a bit and then moved on to where I am now. She sends me messages on FB, asks me if I've seen love and what not, if she sees me upload a girlie's pic on FB, the kain vex she go carry no be here.

Girls are jealous especially when you don't have their time again, so pls channel your time to something very reasonable. Let her be the one to love you, as you have done your part, if she still no gree, Nwanne free am biko. Save money visit your neighbourhood state,plenty girls day there, you hear, life is too short to worry over plenty nonsense, e fit be say her main guy doesn't take care of her much, if you push further, she fit use you do toy..

One love fam!
Salem.
***********tears ****************thanks man..... .
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:05am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:
sad embarassed
just giv ur relationship direction nd meaning

What do you mean by giving DIRECTION ?
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by halfricanadian(f): 10:06am On Aug 24, 2016
theimmortals:



What do you mean by giving DIRECTION ?

nothing im nt in a relationship so I wudnt kno
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by Nobody: 10:09am On Aug 24, 2016
smoby:
***********tears ****************thanks man..... .

Remove the tears. Wipe em away, you a man. Just be strong.
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 10:13am On Aug 24, 2016
Phinity318:

then u really no need advice cos she Don Friend zone u finish... excerpt u go dy as a side bobo as in side chick...lol
the advice wey you want give me na to fu***k her men........ men what is it with u guys....... ND besides the ugly beast in me dey deep down xo I no go let it out........ one love BRO...
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:16am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:

nothing im nt in a relationship so I wudnt kno

If I hear..........
So you are among those that " friend zone" guys baa?
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by halfricanadian(f): 10:17am On Aug 24, 2016
theimmortals:



If I hear..........

So you are among those that " friend zone" guys baa?

ive been a sid3 chick for too long
only a side chick knos d 'oda women ' in a guys life main chick dont

I kno im worth more dan a side chick cheesy so i am d one dat got friendzoned tongue
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:19am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:

ive been a sid3 chick for too long only a side chick knos d 'oda women ' in a guys life main chick dont
I kno im worth more dan a side chick cheesy so i am d one dat got friendzoned tongue



And you expect me to believe that?
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by halfricanadian(f): 10:24am On Aug 24, 2016
theimmortals:





And you expect me to believe that?

which main chick will b treated like trash for months?
which main chick will b aware of all 'd oda women'
which main chick has never been happy in a relationship

i wasnt even a side chick I was an option a correct option

to b single saves a lot of stress

NO BAD BF NO PROBLEM
WITH A GOOD BF LIFE HAS A NEW MEANING #patiently wsiting for this cheesy
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:26am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:


which main chick will b treated like trash for months?
which main chick will b aware of all 'd oda women'
which main chick has never been happy in a relationship

i wasnt even a side chick I was an option a correct option

to b single saves a lot of stress

NO BAD BF NO PROBLEM
WITH A GOOD BF LIFE HAS A NEW MEANING #patiently wsiting for this cheesy


It is easier for to believe that BUHARI will win 2nd tenure in office than to believe what you are saying.


Aadonbelivit
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:27am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:


which main chick will b treated like trash for months?
which main chick will b aware of all 'd oda women'
which main chick has never been happy in a relationship

i wasnt even a side chick I was an option a correct option

to b single saves a lot of stress

NO BAD BF NO PROBLEM
WITH A GOOD BF LIFE HAS A NEW MEANING #patiently wsiting for this cheesy


It is easier for to believe that BUHARI will win 2nd tenure in office than to believe what you are saying.


Aadonbelivit
.
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by halfricanadian(f): 10:28am On Aug 24, 2016
theimmortals:



It is easier for to believe that BUHARI will win 2nd tenure in office than to believe what you are saying.


Aadonbelivit

av tolf u im fully done sworn 8n my grand ma's grave im done

tank u

takes a bow it was fun whike it lasted
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by theimmortals(m): 10:32am On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:

av tolf u im fully done sworn 8n my grand ma's grave im done
tank u
takes a bow it was fun whike it lasted
Are you for real?
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by halfricanadian(f): 10:32am On Aug 24, 2016
theimmortals:


Are you for real?

sealed signed approved cheesy

is it my real? tongue
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 24, 2016
smoby:
nope she doesn't, I have been with her for sometime now believe it when I tell you say she dey bluff.

Issorite! Waiting for season two. Please mention me abeg.
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by moski5(m): 12:56pm On Aug 25, 2016
i usually don't give advice but I'll make an exception 4u 1. Friendship is out of d pic 2. find out y yu love ha so (nb love/lust is a choice ) 3. find sm1 else dt will cherish your love 4. when tots of ha comes deliberately think of smtin else let me know how it goes

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Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 12:17pm On Sep 11, 2016
gimakon:


Remove the tears. Wipe em away, you a man. Just be strong.
pls m on whatsapp my phone number is 08115608728 pls add me so we can talk thnks.
Re: Pls I Need Some Reasonable Advice by smoby(m): 12:29pm On Sep 11, 2016
RelationshipPro:
She doesn't hate you, but love you just as a friend. I think you should respect her wish first. Who knows, she might change her mind when she observe that you respect what she wants.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n81NB0tIkp8
what about if she doesn't.

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