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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:22pm On Aug 25, 2016

Caprigal:
A woman wants a man that can provide because it is the Primary duty of men to provide for families so she wants to be sure he can do that while they are dating

if he buys u "heaven & earth" during dating is an assurance dat he will provide for d family abi? nd wot if he poses to be what he is not. borrowing secretly to impress, u finally get married with pomp & pageantry, u move into his big mansion, he keeps borrowing to feed u & 2 months later, d original owner of d house walks in nd casala come bust. U now realise dat he only lives in a one room apartment & his monthly income is 20k. What do u make out of dat? TELL ME U WOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO DISCOVER BE4 U SAY 'I DO'.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by youngkhid(m): 5:23pm On Aug 25, 2016

Lordkylie:
i'll be in my fattening room

Broke Ass Dreamer LOL

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by olac21(m): 5:33pm On Aug 25, 2016

Lordkylie:
all of you shouting gold digger abeg goan sit down.It's not by force to marry broke niggars,am i a soothsayer to knw d future mtchew.Everyone is entitled to her or his opinion afterall many of you want wives that have big booties and boobs,are submissive etc and women cnt state their own preference?
Dear op,please stop dating broke guys it's not a crime,set your standards and ball out#awononiranuoshi

oponu leleyi ooo...aja tun ni e paapa

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Lordkylie(f): 5:44pm On Aug 25, 2016

youngkhid:
Broke Ass Dreamer LOL

you wish! everybody cannot be like you lol!!

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Lordkylie(f): 5:52pm On Aug 25, 2016

olac21:
oponu leleyi ooo...aja tun ni e paapa

calling me a dog will not change anything,i love dogs and frankly they are a step above you and ilk!Your little rant shows that you dont have the intellectual capacity to tackle my post;it's not a crime sha.
Besides to each his own,if a man wants to marry a pretty woman only(evn if she has bad character)it is his business,same also applies to any woman who wants to marry for money.Go For What You Want Shikena!

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 25, 2016

mizzbouqui:
I can't date a broke dude
And I might if he is ambitious

Then u must be broke too,
Only broke girls complain abt a guy been broke.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by youngkhid(m): 5:53pm On Aug 25, 2016

Wow,me reading some post just makes laugh louder and louder. See giirls talking about standards lyk they know wo they will marry tomorrow.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mizzbouqui(f): 5:55pm On Aug 25, 2016

MrTruth4real:
Then u must be broke too,
Only broke girls complain abt a guy been broke.

Okay, and only broke guys attack ladies like me

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 25, 2016

Girls can mumu ehn, and on Facebook them go dey upload pic wit caption "miss independent" yet dey are complaining of broke guys. They r broke as well and their father is also broke, so they are looking for innocent boys like us that is hustling to take care of them.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by youngkhid(m): 6:02pm On Aug 25, 2016

MrTruth4real:
Girls can mumu ehn, and on Facebook them go dey upload pic wit caption "miss independent" yet dey are complaining of broke guys. They r broke as well and their father is also broke, so they are looking for innocent boys like us that is hustling to take care of them.

Thank u oo dis is the same tin women wo are fat and have no jobs, that just sit in d house and wait for thier hard working husbands to come nd provide money to do brazillian hair say
This is how it started

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by manikspears: 6:05pm On Aug 25, 2016

This na how some girls dey sell themselves for money to yahoo boys wey go use them for rituals sad

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by xendra: 6:18pm On Aug 25, 2016

interesting, page 9 already. hard to believe this thread was opened today.
but seriously self made or not apart from providing for a lady what else is the use for a boyfriend abeg.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mctowel01: 6:19pm On Aug 25, 2016

LuvU2:
Sorry if this sounds offensive.Did ur mum sort out her financial issues before settling for ur dad? did ur grandma do same? ur great grand mum? Did their husbands care if they were financially buoyant?

If ur answer is yes to all, they re not the rule.

Hey first of all.. This is 2016. Times have changed. Or you want me to mention lots of things women did then which aren't in vogue again. Do you want to keep staying at home as a full time housewife? Thats why in the past, women were more oppressed than now. They had to be extremely submissive then because they weren't really productive, coupled with the level of civilization then. And those days, they didn't date for long before marriage.
Moreover, there is a clear difference between a dating relationship and marriage. Why should a man take the role of a husband when he is not married to a woman? Btw, Nobody is talking marriage now, we re talking about dating.

However, I personally hate over submission. But i see NO reason why i shouldn't treat a woman like crap if i pay all the bills and all she does everyday is to chat, gossip, party, edit and upload pictures looking for likes around; maybe wanting some kind of approval, with nothing productive doing, especially when shez from a broke family. . I m even trying to avoid such nowadays cos its really a waste of time. And it irks me when there is an over bloated sense of entitlement.
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Btw, my mum is a career person and she doesn't need to be married to pay her bills.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Luckymay(f): 6:24pm On Aug 25, 2016

Beamees:
yummy, your profile pic tells it all ;-)

Beamees:
yummy, your profile pic tells it all ;-)

Lol. Care for some?

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Luckymay(f): 6:29pm On Aug 25, 2016*

Mznaett:
I don laff taya......@op,,thanks for saying the BITTERTRUTH...Dem broke azz niggas won't like this....cc: Lordkylie, Gewezzy and Luckymay

My name dey among the broke ass niggas? Lol. Don't mind them. That a lady wants some comfort from her guy doesn't make her broke. It's just what broke guys wants to think.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by shewa88(f): 6:33pm On Aug 25, 2016

songzDaniel01:
op why can't u be financially independent too., mind u I'm not broke but I was once nd I'm still with my girl that was with me when I was broke AF .. and she was independent. Now she's begging me to stop buying her gifts. Op u re a broke ass , gold digging biatch

You literally just MADE my very bleeped up day.......Thank you!
Some bitches be thinking like their brain is up their ass.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by nikkypearl(f): 6:36pm On Aug 25, 2016

alobright17:
This guy sef

this girl sef undecided

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mctowel01: 6:37pm On Aug 25, 2016

LuvU2:
Sorry if this sounds offensive.Did ur mum sort out her financial issues before settling for ur dad? did ur grandma do same? ur great grand mum? Did their husbands care if they were financially buoyant?

If ur answer is yes to all, they re not the rule.

You also still didn't answer my question as to what a woman's priority should be?
You just defined a man's priority of becoming financial independent. So what is that for the female folk?

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mctowel01: 6:47pm On Aug 25, 2016

Rexnegro:
both You and Your thread looks alike...You just poured Your mentality about relationship with a broke nigga, once a rich dude was a broke nigga, remember This saying that behind a successful man there's What? a woman...What Have You done to help The so called broke dude alleviate his brokeness? You definitely don't sound as a team players in relationship but onlooker. force Yourself on the rich dudes then and cry me a river later, saying all guys re The same. better be an independent lady with value and stop Being a gold digger.

Bro, forget the thought about a woman helping you in a relationship. I m not completely negating it as there are exceptions, but look around you, most relationships are now more like paying for sex... If you ve observed, you have more value driven discussions from your friends and family than with most girls nowadays. But the moment you start talking about the latest hair or make up, then you re having a conversation. So, how can such person help a struggling guy?

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 6:55pm On Aug 25, 2016

abouzaid:
please which network are you using because i want to send you a recharge card for this response.

haha bro.. I greet u o.. I just had to make it clear .. u know stating d very fact ! I use Glo. grin

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 6:56pm On Aug 25, 2016

addictiv:
[size=14pt]A million likes for you...hit the nail with a sledge hammer. [/size]

haha bro I hail u

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Sgwash: 6:57pm On Aug 25, 2016

always always talking about what men should do for the ladies... Men should b d only ones to shower gifts and give perform all d magic. Thought girls say they run d world huh

where has feminism gone? where has gender equality gone? Abi shouldn't it include financial sustainability, and an ability to be seen to cater to the male folk, just as is expected from a man. The bottom line is, generally, girls are in a continual state of confusion. They don't know what they want!!!

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 6:59pm On Aug 25, 2016

Jetjacky:
you're lucky dude. Hold tight to the good you found

ain't lucky but blessed bro grin

, holding her very tight

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 7:02pm On Aug 25, 2016

NevetsIbot:
bro... My thoughts exactly... You're correct. Africa, most especially Nigeria has wired most girls into thinking the man should be the income bringer for two people to spend... It's trash. If you wanna spend, make money for yourself and buy your things. No one is holding em

really fvved up mentality. may God deliver em all .. as for me I'm holding my baby mama tight, shes indeed a rare gem

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 7:05pm On Aug 25, 2016

anigold:
some girls just need to grow up.. money does not grow on trees..

Exactly bro , its high time they changed their mentality..

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Mznaett: 7:06pm On Aug 25, 2016

Luckymay:
My name dey among the broke ass niggas? Lol. Don't mind them. That a lady wants some comfort from her guy doesn't make her broke. It's just what broke guys wants to think.

Nooo na salute I been dey troway give una nw.....funny enough they (broke azz niggaz) are the ones making these whole noise......

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by anigbajumo(m): 7:09pm On Aug 25, 2016

rosalieene let see yer view.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by songzDaniel01(m): 7:11pm On Aug 25, 2016

shewa88:
You literally just MADE my very bleeped up day.......Thank you!
Some bitches be thinking like their brain is up their ass.

I'm happy to make ur day .. yeah pretty up their rectum

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by dmediator555(m): 7:14pm On Aug 25, 2016

Caprigal:
A woman wants a man that can provide because it is the Primary duty of men to provide for families so she wants to be sure he can do that while they are dating

Hehe sherrup... I say sherrup! Tough times don't last but tough people do. What do you wana be sure of when the future is still bright?

I can assure you, go for a man with Television while calling a man with vision broke, one day , you and your television man will sit to watch your broke EX on your television when you got to fill forms to see him except on your television.

A word is enuf for the wise. #ChangeYourPerspective

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by dmediator555(m): 7:23pm On Aug 25, 2016

xendra:
interesting, page 9 already. hard to believe this thread was opened today.
but seriously self made or not apart from providing for a lady what else is the use for a boyfriend abeg.

Don't tell me you are this myopic ? so your boy friend is useless to you if he is not providing for you at the moment ? Chai! Who do you this??

May God save young ambitious promising guys with great visions from people like you,

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Luckymay(f): 7:26pm On Aug 25, 2016

Mznaett:
Nooo na salute I been dey troway give una nw.....funny enough they (broke azz niggaz) are the ones making these whole noise......

That's it. Op just use style fish out them broke asses.

Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by dmediator555(m): 7:31pm On Aug 25, 2016

xendra:
interesting, page 9 already. hard to believe this thread was opened today.
but seriously self made or not apart from providing for a lady what else is the use for a boyfriend abeg.

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