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Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by CSTR2: 11:59pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
This is why Igbo women should be very careful when making marital decisions beyond the boundaries of igboland ( and I don't mean the SE alone). We need to think about the future sometimes. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by KD22(m): 12:03am On Sep 03, 2016 |
"Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"- The Holy Bible The boy has been bewildered and bereaved( I sympathize). His emotions are troubled - stories he's been fed with for about 30 years. 30 years of pride, ego, arrogance and bitterness!! Mothers and fathers here, food for thought. To all in the act of baby mama and daddy, I pray devil doesn't change the lifescripts in you hands. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by esere826: 12:05am On Sep 03, 2016 |
1, the young man made a public defense of his mum to counter the public attack of the dad 2, the young man although 'rightly' angry ought not to have used words such as mad and bastard. it doesnt tell well of his upbringing 3, the young man informed his dad alright, but offering tickets to his dad (although gracious) for burial almost like a visitor in such a strained relationship with complexities was punching too far above his weight. His elders from both side of the families should be the ones leading burial arrangements, while he supports from the side. 4, Legal laws trump customary laws. Did the boy being of legal age have a will that states he be buried in his mums land? if yes, and the mothers land accepts it, then case closed. The law has no time for emotions. 5, If there are no overriding legal laws for or against, then customary laws come into play 6, Whose customary law? Do the customary laws of both families agree on this issue? If yes, then they follow its laid down procedure, whatever it may be. 7, If the customary laws do not agree, then both families will need to come to an amicable compromise. 8, I think that is what the father referred to when he talked of returning bride price. In his culture it symbolises the severance of a relationship from its root. 9, As part of the possible resolution, just as someone suggested, Stella can also claim that the child does not belong to the man. The man can also disown his dead and living sons from Stella, and completely cut of any blood links. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 12:13am On Sep 03, 2016 |
PaulIdu:please the father is seeking attention by lying about not being called . Did he talk to the boy about bringing his brother home,isn't the boy old enough to handle his relationships with his father. Instead the stupid man went to the press to start talking rubbish. Stop being biased please.some people have lost the right to be called father,a sperm donor isn't a father. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by freshvine(f): 12:14am On Sep 03, 2016 |
CSTR2: A wise and proud igbo man will find it difficult to pass the night in his maternal home how much more relocating there 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by rezzy: 12:14am On Sep 03, 2016 |
lanjum: The mother has judged and crucified the father. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by CandyDiamond(f): 12:15am On Sep 03, 2016 |
SlayerSupreme:Amen ooo,and you too |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by rezzy: 12:18am On Sep 03, 2016 |
noblemails: Laughing so hard |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by CandyDiamond(f): 12:21am On Sep 03, 2016 |
CSTR2:Such decision come with consequences, the person taking such decision have already make up his mind to absorb insult, but the children children Will be well integrated |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by ikp120(m): 12:24am On Sep 03, 2016 |
cococandy: Those sexist have not seen nothing at all. They don't know what life in a broken home is like, especially when your father is alive but doesn't want to have anything to do with his children. Then when something big about his child comes up, he would want to gain attention through it. That guy should have just switched to his mother's lineage and become part of Odua family. Like you didn't train me through school, then when I come to lime light you try to use me to gain global attention? No way. My mum should take the credit, not my father. 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 12:27am On Sep 03, 2016 |
PaulIdu:stop talking rubbish.its serves the father right.i know a lot of people that will say this and money was no where involved.men should do better and be a responsible father not just sperm donor. When the likes of Essien and Adebayo chose their mothers and their people over their greedy and absentia father,what money do their mothers have? Children don't go by hear say but what they see and experienced. 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by PaulIdu: 12:29am On Sep 03, 2016 |
tochimas: So you think a man that reached the enviable rank of Lt col of an Army is a man that would be unreasonable to be a sperm donor? Then you know nothing of the Army. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by PaulIdu: 12:33am On Sep 03, 2016 |
tochimas: You are terrible woman I must say .go ahead and teach Ur sons to insult their father when the time comes ..remember those sons will be father's some day too 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 12:33am On Sep 03, 2016 |
ensamy:you better try your best to be the best father you can be.if you're thinking you will just donate sperm and come back later to claim father,after some else have laboured,you can hold your stupid blessing. Keep deceiving yourself and hiding under stupid jargon to act stupid. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by loveourlagos(f): 12:38am On Sep 03, 2016 |
magicminister: You type like a child Only if you knew that there are thousands of people even on this platform whose father abandoned but would not go this route of insulting him in public. |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by SlayerSupreme: 12:40am On Sep 03, 2016 |
freshvine:You don't know what you're saying. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by PaulIdu: 12:42am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Compliance: If his father is stinkiingly rich then why did he offer him flight tickets. .I am not even rich but nobody offers me flight tickets because they know I can afford one anytime |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by allstarfestus: 12:43am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Your foolishness will show forever...as old as you are, you are still not wise... , well you said it all...bastard...( instead to work for your money and takecare of your father... ,you are fooling yourself 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 12:43am On Sep 03, 2016 |
PaulIdu:there are sperm donors in every ranks and file of the society, irresponsible men abound everywhere.if you think it's only the poor ,then you're mistaken. He has every attributes of a sperm donor no matter what ranks he got.imagine spinning cheap lies just to gain cheap attention.you grown son called you about his brothers death,assuming the boy was not trained right,why didn't he started right there and tell him what he is suppose to do. That is what a responsible father would do.even if he is poor and he is not, he would tell the living son to bring his brother home to his father's house to be buried,instead he kept quiet and went to spread cheap lies about not being informed but reading about the death on newspapers. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 12:45am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Neither here nor there. Not supporting the dad but subtly doing so. Abeg swerve. Nihilist: 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 12:48am On Sep 03, 2016 |
ikp120:leave them. Let them keep typing jargon so up and down. Telling people how to feel about their own absentee fathers. Like they are the ones it happened to. 4 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by waShine(m): 12:52am On Sep 03, 2016 |
juman:And thats why they could anything to be opportuned, to the xtent of stealing national CAKE
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Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 12:54am On Sep 03, 2016 |
esere826:you are right in some things. But not everyone has a good control of their emotions when bereaved and angry. There are some words he shouldn't have used. But I still say that man is an attention seeker. Assuming the boy was not raised well and calls you the father about his brother's death, what stops the father from correcting the boy and telling him what should be done.like he should bring his brother home and get involved in the process self. What was his intention when he lied on the pages of newspapers about not knowing but reading about the death on newspapers ?This boy has every right to be angry. |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by waShine(m): 12:54am On Sep 03, 2016 |
tafabaloo:KARMA LAW |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 1:28am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Zico5: why did you delete your original post cuz i read it from where you were quoted by another poster, in the face of a serious family matters the best you can contribute is to go tribal claiming that your region are saints..huh !! instead of you to just read comments and improve your knowledge on family matters like so many other views you soon forgot the case of; ; Obasanjo and his daughter Kemi Olunloyo and her father |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Akolawole(m): 1:45am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Inspectahdeck: Exactly |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 1:47am On Sep 03, 2016 |
oyb: the man in question is Igbo rather he's from S/S |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Akolawole(m): 1:49am On Sep 03, 2016 |
PaulIdu: |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 1:55am On Sep 03, 2016 |
What army sir? You must think us foo.ls PaulIdu: |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nobody: 2:01am On Sep 03, 2016 |
JinX100: its rather she left as the man took a second wife and that might be what leads to divorce...if the man was Igbo he wouldn't have taken another wife since it wasn't our culture 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by grandstar(m): 2:10am On Sep 03, 2016 |
PaulIdu: The father claimed he was never informed. Apparently that was untrue since his son informed him the very day the death occurred. That lie is mischievous and highly damaging and discredits the man. The latter about inviting the dad down to Amanda etc is all nonsense however. |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Ayatullah(m): 2:21am On Sep 03, 2016 |
Stella oduah, how have you trained your children? Tuoyo! Tuoyo! Tuoyo! how dare you speak of your father this way. This is shameful, you should not have taken side with your mother, rather you should have continue to seek reconciliation between your mother and father. Never too late to apologise to your father, even though you have done a lot of damage to your family's reputation in your fit of anger. Grow up and be a man Tuoyo. 1 Like
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