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Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by KD22(m): 11:18pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
When a father and mother disagrees, the children NATURALLY follow after their mother. What happens next is transfer of bitterness, anger and gall deliberately into the hearts, minds and soul of the kids who swallow it all innocently. The results? Women over the centuries have always used their womanhood and children- if any as tools against their husbands should there be disagreements or separation. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by CandyDiamond(f): 11:18pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista:In Igbo land,the part I am from, if a woman is treated badly in his husband house and she left with the children when they are young and grow up with their mother and decide not to go back to their father, they will be assimilated into the kindred of their mother. 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by manny4life(m): 11:19pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
freshvine: When they say "nwoke nwe nwa", it does not mean literally. Go and sleep, you don't know jack about Igbo tradition. You see yourself, it's not man returning any bride price, the woman's family is returning it, and it's done differently. Nnewi tradition I am quoting for you on NL, go and ask Igwe , and stop ranting on NL. You know nothing about Igbo tradition. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by freshvine(f): 11:19pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
manny4life: I wasn't born yesterday. Igbo men are traditional and proud species. If you don't give them their right, you start all over again. Just hang on but is about to boil, that Delta man will will exhumed that corpse even if it will take him ten years expect Stella Oduah confess that's not his biological son 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by PaulIdu: 11:20pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Compliance: I know nothing about them . But he can't possibly be richer than Stella..her building the Titanium in Ikoyi is probably the most expensive piece of property on bourdillon 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nihilist: 11:22pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
cococandy: How do you know this is actually the truth? Because a boy with a clear grouse against his father said so? Do you know what else has gone on behind the scenes to lead to this? Do you know the actual dynamics of the original custodial arrangement, assuming there actually was one? People like you jump to conclusions quicker than the leopard on a Puma shoe. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by freshvine(f): 11:23pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
manny4life: I was born in the heart of igboland. In my community, no woman returns with children belonging to another man 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Chinaka2014(m): 11:25pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Young man. U should be guided by reasonable elders. I feel ur pain but it Is very wrong talking to ur father this way. Money is not every thing. Make hast to apologize to your father before his ancestors strick again. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Xsmart22(m): 11:25pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
manny4life: My only concern bro is for peace to reign. It will always be a waste of gunpowder to aim at the moon. Two wrongs can never make a right |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by SlayerSupreme: 11:27pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
ogmask:Granted Oduah may not be a model wife,did the boy do a bad thing by informing his estranged father about his son's death,even though the man has being absent? Why did the stupid man go to the media to disgrace himself after 30 years? Was that the best course of action,at his age? You people are only saying this because the woman is rich and from a particular place. Shio!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:28pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
CandyDiamond:Which part of Igboland are you from? I must do my independent investigation. Is it what is applicable to Stealer Oduah? is she from your place? She has no right not to inform the father(don't tell me phone call) about the son's death. Why the haste? what is she trying to hide? Na their business sha my brother 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by AZeD1(m): 11:30pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Pidggin: How do you know the father abandoned his kids? The story says the marriage ended over 30 years ago, yet the dead person is not even 30. There are at least 8 different versions of the story and it would be wise not to judge until you hear all versions. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 11:30pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
That's why my comment started with 'IF'. You need comprehension in your life. Nihilist: 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nihilist: 11:31pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
KD22: Thanks for this. All the people shouting "he wasn't father" without fully knowing the dynamics of that family are extremely daft and stupid. Oduah has now been divorced twice. This is a woman that is clearly not afraid of leaving a relationship on her terms. What's to say she hasn't blocked the man from accessing her kids in life as she clearly has in death, all the while feeding them with hate against their father. Nobody knows... There is no justification for this boy's immature actions If the father was abusive, meet him in court. If you dont want anything to do with him, cut him off quietly. Inviting the entire world to be spectators at your family drama is just stupid. How can any sensible human being turn his familial intrigues into cheap entertainment for the masses? 5 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nihilist: 11:35pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
cococandy: It is only the first part of your statement that was qualified by the word IF, You went bold to state that the man had 30 years to show that he loved them yet didn't. If your use of English is so bad that you can't even understand the very things you write, then sadly you need more than comprehension in your life... 4 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
manny4life:leave them let them keep supporting evil in the name of tradition. 4 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by PaulIdu: 11:38pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
josite: Shut up |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by ikp120(m): 11:38pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
freshvine: My dad? Am not inviting him to my wedding for any reason. My dad is like that guy's father. I only call him when I hear he is sick (as his only son). He has never called me on phone. He doesn't give a dime about me. By the time I am done with school, I will change my surname. I know how he sees my mum. My mum always ask us to forgive him. That's why I can tell you that that man is only likely being mischievous. He told a clear lie that even a child can tell you is a lie. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by manny4life(m): 11:40pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
freshvine: I just don't like arguing without purpose. You were born in the heart of igboland without a name. Like I said before, go and your elder how it's done when a man demands his bride price back. This is not any man, but a husband.... I won't argue this anymore. My part of Igboland is very known, so this is how it's done. 1 Like |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by HungerBAD: 11:42pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Nihilist: My man. 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 11:42pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Nihilist: That part is obviously true. Was he in their lives and he didn't know the whereabouts of his grown son? And if he was in their lives would the kids be hating on him now? Common sense shows that part is true. You guys are just looking for how to justify his bad behavior. In the first thread before this one where he claimed not to have been informed. I was of the opinion that Stella did bad by not informing him. Only for the son to claim he was informed. That's where all the ifs and assumptions come in. Because no one really knows who's telling the truth now. Although I'd bet he's the one lying. Because as a reasonable person that lost a child his first move shouldn't have been to go to the media. Still let's give him benefit of the doubt. 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by xtervaganza(m): 11:42pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Women are masters when it comes to turning their children against their father Nonsense. The marriage ended 30 years ago yet your late brother was just 28 Fool 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by freshvine(f): 11:44pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
I know of a family not divorced but separated. The man ran far away and the children grew up not having a father figure. Their mother never told her children bad about their father and their father never explain his absence or tell them anything concerning their mother. The grow up hating their father cos he wasn't there. But as they attend adult hood, they discover family members too despise their mother. The form a strong bond with their mother to fight adversaries and wicked family members. Lo and behold, it took the first son 39 years to find out himself that his mom chased away the father with her character and began reconciling with the dad. The mom saw the unity, became uncomfortable and rallied other children still under her control against the first son. The third son became wise and saw the light, she declared full war against them. Family is in disarray now as the female ones is against the males plus the second son giving them the man back up they need. That's a woman power 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by cococandy(f): 11:47pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Even with your mom telling you guys to forgive him, people will still blame her and accuse her of turning you guys against your father. Forgetting that you're not blind and can see the type of person he is. Let the irresponsible men keep deceiving themselves. They never take responsibility for their kids and when the results of such actions come knocking, they turn around with the help of their sexist society to blame it on the women. Nothing is ever their faults. ikp120: 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by SlayerSupreme: 11:49pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
pring:My brother you're either lying or you don't know tradition. In my place,if a boy cuts ties completely with his father's family he'll do some traditional rites and become a bonafide son of his mother's family and of his mother's place(he will even be given land) Anybody who dares call him a bastard will bear the consequences. 3 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by Nihilist: 11:50pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
cococandy: I am not justifying the father's behaviour because I don't know the history , and I don't pretend to know the history. It is very possible that a father who loves his kids can be denied access to them by a vindictive co-parent - This is the very reason why Custodial Rights are a key element of Family Law, and are one of the most contentious parts of Divorce Cases. I personally don't care if the boy has issues with his dad. He can still cut his dad off without inviting public speculation in the manner that he has done. That is just daft. As for you and the rest of your crew, you need to make sure you don't break your ankles while eagerly jumping to conclusions. 4 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by kayalla(f): 11:51pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
but how this story take affect Nigeria's situation? when the going was good we didnt hear it o |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by freshvine(f): 11:53pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
manny4life: I don't know in your place but I've never seen a man demand a bride price back! A megre amount of money to exercise that much energy? When marriage breaks up, it is usually the woman family chasing the ex husband to come collect his bride price. Why because it forms a significant traditional obligation. It declares the woman free of every marital encumbrances. Remember there are other rights done on the woman for the kinsmen and the community. Have you seen them return it? That done to the community is the most significant that marriage has taken place and the woman married out. It's never returned 2 Likes |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by SlayerSupreme: 11:53pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
CandyDiamond:My sister you will live long! |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by CSTR2: 11:54pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
CandyDiamond:Nobody is denying the fact that they will be assimiliated. Ofcourse, igbos are civilized and would always recognize their own blood. But when it comes to high positions, especially ones keenly contested in the Igbo community or as a group, that fellow is already at a massive disadvantage. Infact, it would take a miracle for such a fellow to rise to any prominent position in igboland. That is the fact. It is inhumane(I know), but the fact nonetheless. Children are traced to their father's house in igboland, and rise and fall on that merit. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah: "My Father Busy Seeking Attention" by walexix(m): 11:54pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
If two elephants fight the grass will suffer that's what happens in a broken home. The children will lake parental care. The boy lack home training. May God upholds our marriage for our children to have manner to elders. 1 Like 1 Share |
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