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| Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 12:25pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Can you love without a reason and unconditionally? What is the true definition of love? I strongly believe that real and unconditional love only exist from God to man but anyone who believes in human love is a big dummy. In my opinion i believe that ,human love is a charade, a facade and a chase after the wind which is based on a selfish condition and if the condition is no longer there, love fades and tolerance sets in with an eventual crash. [b]But when this selfish condition is still present in that other person, we usually use the so called dumb words "I LOVE YOU", "PROMISE YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE ME", "I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU", "WILL YOU MARRY ME", "YES I DO TILL DEATH..." Let's cut the chase and face facts, human relationship is basically an exchange of obligation,a pure trade by barter. We will likely hear those vague words "I love you" from someone who actually desires you because of your sexual features,money,cuteness,fear of God, future prospect,moral standards, fame and so on and God help you that those reasons remain else you are a past tense or a mere partner that will be tolerated maybe because the other party is no longer at a vantage point to dump you and both of you will now become a good sample couple of real love while in actual fact you are only tolerating each other. So when next you hear a man ask you "will you marry me or can we start dating?" or a lady agrees to be your date or wife,rather than assume that it is love in action, just find a nice moment to ask that person why he or she wants you as a date or spouse so that you can always keep that reason alive to avoid heart ache.[/b] So my humble advice to people out there looking for true love or someone who will love them for real is to stop chasing shadows and be with someone who catches their fancy and keep the condition of the "attraction" alive or continue to wait for real love until Mongo park discovers them. I have deep things to write concerning this but on a second thought i have decided to hold back and throw this open for discussion as the title is self explicit. Call me a sadist, a pessimist or any name you desire but as I always reiterate, I am a realist but Maybe true love exist between a man and woman in a love affair in one out of a million chances but i would like to read from you if you believe in this 4 letter scam called L O V E, Over to you all. 74 Likes 10 Shares
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| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Kelvinadimora(m): 12:28pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Toks2008:.......serious......oga how eye tk resemble coke for you...opener ko closer ni 12 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by kingsilly(m): 12:36pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
I was here |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by ogorwyne(f): 12:38pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
I just did an evaluation using myself and I concur. What we call love is an attraction. Something that might fade if that feature we got attracted to ceases to exist. There is always a reason why we love our partners, that 'reason' is why we still say those 'I love U's. That's Love with conditions. I tried to imagine my partner without some of the features that got me attracted to him. Hmmm An elderly man once told me that 'Love' fades in almost every marriage at a particular point in time and that when couples get to that stage what keeps them together is the Friendship they built over the years, God, and the vows they exchanged. This topic is a bit complicated though. 105 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Laveda(f): 12:40pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
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| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by jonaifame22(m): 12:42pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
But God is love na! 3 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by AfroKnight: 12:43pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
If you mean romantic love, then I agree. Love is earned. 4 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by polariss(m): 12:46pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Generalization goeth before a falleth 8 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Well, then I'd rather be a red blooded Fool. 2 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by KevMitnick: 1:04pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
When you love without expecting, then walking away from it when its not worth it is very very easy. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Toks2008: You haven't just found the right person that's why, when you do story will change. 9 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by TopeQs: 1:55pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
hmmm |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by yemmit90: 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Nori: Can you love without a reason? This is a simple logic. Love is not natural, it is a result of personal perspectives, greed and gains/rewards. Have you ever asked yourself why the so called Love vanish between couple that once loved each other? 29 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Berbierklaus(f): 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Grandpa we are waiting  [size=20pt]If You believe that True Love Still Exist In this 21st century Click Like,If you Don't,Click share  [/size]57 Likes 32 Shares
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| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 1:59pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Nori: If I were you I will hold my peace until I read the piece. 7 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
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| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:00pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
yemmit90: Chai!..this is an excerpt. Were you in my head? maybe I should just ignore writing anything cos this sums it up. 6 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by McBrooklyn(m): 2:00pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Love is a scam!!  The day I came to realize love is a scam is when my long time ex girlfriend left me for a richer dude all because I don't have money then but now that I've hustled for the money, she wanna come back but I simply told her Woss Woss Wobi, Berlyn you wanna come back to my life now cos I've got money now, KOLEWERK!!! Who you Epp?? 30 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by McBrooklyn(m): 2:02pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Toks2008: Bro, you said it all, Love is a bloody scam!!! Who love epp?? 6 Likes
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| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by firstking01(m): 2:02pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
yemmit90:My brother, dnt be self delusional...love vanish between couples because they fell inlove for a "reason"...if you love with no reasons, then that love will last .31 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by firstking01(m): 2:04pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
This controversial man |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:04pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
firstking01: And can you love without a reason? This thread is getting interesting and taking its course even without the write up proper..let me see how far this will go. 12 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:05pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
firstking01:Call me a realist. |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:09pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
jonaifame22: Yes love only exist from God to man but anyone who believes in human love is a big fool. Human love is a charade, a chase after the wind which is based on a condition and if the condition is no longer there, love fades and tolerance sets in with an eventual crash just for us to start looking for the right condition in another person which triggers the so called dumb words "I LOVE YOU". 8 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by firstking01(m): 2:09pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Toks2008:Hope the thread would be convincing enough or as usual i'd prove you wrong |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:11pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
firstking01: For the first time I want to leave the discussion open so go through the comments so far and make your submission. |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by McBrooklyn(m): 2:13pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by yemmit90: 2:15pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
firstking01: Can you love without reason, YES or NO? If YES, then explain why you wanna get married? 6 Likes |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by firstking01(m): 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Toks2008:Love is supposed to be without a reason...inotherwords, it's supposed to be "unconditional"....you see, from the day you started seeing reasons why you wanna love somebody, be prepared to be keeping the reason up or else the love will vanish overnight...i just hope u get me?? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:16pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
McBrooklyn: While I have nothing to say to your comment, your signature is misleading..why 15? If they are more than 3 forget story. It is so sad that we just have to marry any lady we want regardless of her sexual past. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Berbierklaus(f): 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
firstking01:Can you love without a reason? your next reply can be your undoing,choose your words wisely  1 Like 1 Share |
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