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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by sweetcocoa(f): 10:19am On Sep 10, 2016

Kgdavid:

Most of the women on this thread are daft. How is gleefully wishing harm on another girl as in the bolded above, any different from what the OP did? If anything, it is much worse.

I don't think they wish that anyone be raped, they just use such examples to show how stupid such mentality is.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 10, 2016

Op if I know you personally I would have gotten you arrested and jailed. You are an accessory after the fact and an accomplice to a rape case.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by sukkot: 10:19am On Sep 10, 2016

sweetcocoa:
I wouldn't like to think you and the lady are in the same league, like really?

Cococandy is smarter than that. I can't even' bring myself to say why I inserted that emoticon, because I seriously think only a f00lish person would read that post of mine and wonder why the smiley.

You are killing me right now.

not the smiley. the ' HAHAHA ' after highlighting ' UGLY BABY ' . even you gotta admit it look bad. but hey maybe thats not your intention and i am sure it is not your intention but it looks bad. wink

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:19am On Sep 10, 2016

yomz1e:
We know your type... You come here forming gangster boy and yet you soft like agege bread

Meanwhile i don't give a rat's ass what you know 'bout my type.
That's my opinion up there, if you don't like it, you can shoot yourself!

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by smellingmenses: 10:20am On Sep 10, 2016

sukkot:
honestly ? i think he made the story up because he was hurt by a girl who ate his money. its his unconventional way of letting out his anger. its therapy of sorts for him. this thread that is

I will like to see him explain that in a court of law or during interrogation.... apart from the act he is advocating for harm and injury to a set of human beings rape! that aint so legal innit?

Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by sweetcocoa(f): 10:23am On Sep 10, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
I think the victim(girl) should report to the police, the guy was wrong for beating and forcefully engaging in sex without his partner's consent, the girl too is at fault for milking the guy without giving anything back. So both is at fault.

What nonsense are you talking about? Since when is it a must to sleep with someone because they spent on you? Statements like yours is what gives these rapists part of the impunity to do what they do.

Like you can tell a person how to react to gifts, hian!

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Fourwinds: 10:24am On Sep 10, 2016

seriously, where is it written in the Nigerian constitution that if I see something and I choose to turn my face away become a crime?

Oboy it is a crime for u to see and not report...

if u talk this one for court., somebody wey dey vex fit slap u there.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Ayebatonye(f): 10:25am On Sep 10, 2016

I personally feel it is wrong. How can u as a guy see ur so called friend trying to rape a lady and u refused to do anything about it. U could have prevented it from happening. What if something happened to that girl as a result of u not helping her? Besides, no amount of money can make her recover from that rape incident. That incident is traumatizing. As for ur friend, must he revenge because he gave the lady some money

Let's fear God. If u don't have respect for anybody here on earth, fear God. What makes a friend, a friend is that u saw something wrong and u prevented it. Hmm. Na wa for this world o

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by yomz1e(m): 10:27am On Sep 10, 2016

Thank you, again my intellectual self will not respond to such stupidity

RennyX:

Meanwhile i don't give a rat's ass what you know 'bout my type.
That's my opinion up there, if you don't like it, you can shoot yourself!

Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 10, 2016

You raped a girl,came online and justified your action with ''she made premarital demand''.

Let me tell you something,if that girl had a brother or friend like me,you really wouldn't be online by now. That's for sure.

And l'm not talking about reporting you to the authority.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by skyo78(m): 10:30am On Sep 10, 2016

Op you were there before the rape incident took place. From your story your friend was just about to begin the rape process.
You should have stopped it immediately instead of waiting for 20 minutes in the living room.

Wether to report to the police now or not (after the fact) is another matter. But you messed up by not saving your friend and the young lady from this devilish act.

Even if a girl eats all your money, it doesn't give you the right to rape her..
And ladies, be warned... Even tho it doesn't give the man the right to forcefully take sex as part of his compensation for monies spent, don't put yourself in that situation.

Bottom line... You are wrong /guilty.... Your friend is wrong /guilty.

If you were living in UK and you post this kind of story online, by tomorrow morning police would have traced you and your friend to your houses, and you would both be on your way (yes both of you) to spending some years in jail, where you will be raped by able bodied men

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by edbor(m): 10:31am On Sep 10, 2016

nothing much to say, deed has been done. .ladies should learn.

This is what happens when a foolish girl claiming smart meets an animal.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Nobody: 10:31am On Sep 10, 2016

sweetcocoa:
What nonsense are you talking about? Since when is it a must to sleep with someone because they spent on you? Statements like yours is what gives these rapists part of the impunity to do what they do.

Like you can tell a person how to react to gifts, hian!

can't the girl say no, abi dem sew her mouth ni? She brought this upon herself. Maybe she doesn't know that life is all about give and take not take and take, now she suffered the consequences of her actions. Don't blame me blame her sad

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by S2dT: 10:32am On Sep 10, 2016

Thebachelor:
You raped a girl,came online and justified your action with ''she made premarital demand''.

Let me tell you something,if that girl had a brother or friend like me,you really wouldn't be online by now. That's for sure.

And l'm not talking about reporting you to the authority.

Baba Wan go fight. Make u go fight chop beating.

Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by S2dT: 10:32am On Sep 10, 2016

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No matter what.. Raping is terrible. Der are lots of ways to scope guls I to getting down with you. Girls ain't that wise. But using force is out of the talk.. Haba don't worry. A boy wud buy biscuit for ur daughter and rape her..

Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Nobody: 10:34am On Sep 10, 2016

smellingmenses:

the girl has not committed any crime! the guy who deactivated also known as numericalguy should be in the gaol....

yes she hasn't committed any crime by law but the guy has and he's at the losing end grin

Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Ishilove: 10:34am On Sep 10, 2016

So many perverted people on this thread. Nobody forced him to spend, yet they are blaming the girl for being raped. This is why so many rape victims are reluctant to speak out. When he saw she wasn't ready to play ball then why on earth didn't he stop spending?? It's her body and she has every right to determine who she gives it to. ANIMLALS!!! angry

I wish I can reach out to her let us pursue the rapist together. We should expose and disgrace the animal on every medium possible.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by MartinBond(m): 10:37am On Sep 10, 2016

First of all,i think its lame insulting someone who is a witness to rape,he should have stopped it but i think both his friend and the girl should be blamed,i think its a game of greed and betrayal. Moral of the story OP you for just condemn with strongest terms to your friend his evil actions and keep it withthin yourself,see as some clowns de insult you??

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Odunharry(m): 10:38am On Sep 10, 2016

daretodiffer:
A man should not be so stvpid to shower gifts and money on a woman who is not ready to have sex with him. It is annoying and ridiculous how stvpid some Nigerian men believe that giving ladies money and gifts get her to open her laps. I'd it not the smartest Nigerians where a lady would say no but a man will insist on spending on her?

Rape means lack of consent. If she didn't consent to it then it is rape. Well, I hope your female relatives gets penetrated without their consent and going by your definition of rape, it can't be rape despite the lack of consent.

You are tight, stupidity has no consequences. When it happens to you, we shall know whether it is stupidity or not.

Sad some guys are just senseless. I wonder why many guys think it takes just gifts to get a woman. .

Some gals too are to blame.. If you tell them to stop collecting cash or gifts from guys not related to them can have consequences, they willl rebuff ur statement.
I wonder what she went there to do alone...

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:38am On Sep 10, 2016

smellingmenses:

the girl has not committed any crime! the guy who deactivated also known as numericalguy should be in the gaol....

[b]Yes! There is no crime on her part in the face of the law.

The same way you can't hold any girl/guy liable if he/she leaves you for another person and breaks your heart in the process. Despite all your commitments and dedication to the relationship.

But tell me the truth. Are you not going to feel robbed? Or let me put it in a better phrase "used". Why do some people go all out to hurt their ex after a heart break?

So it's the same thing here. The girl has actually not committed any crime legally. In fact that defense will not hold water. But as a human being how will you feel?

So, this is it. We have guys out there who have the mentality of "money for hand back for ground". If they meet a girl and she is demanding they all expect to get something back in return and we all know what it is.

We cannot hide the fact that we have many greedy girls who don't learn. Now this is not about rape, because rape can happen in many other forms.

That guy is guilty of rape no doubt. But will I blame him for thinking that's the best way for him to punish the girl? No.

When we look at it from another angle, RAPE is not justified, but it is not an excuse to do things that can lead to it. The girls are always told it is never their fault they are raped. I guess that's why they can do anything and when it leads to rape it becomes another thing.

If some girls reduce the way they follow guys for money up and down or they stop this their "maga" whatever, I believe we are heading in the right direction to also curb this rape menace.

I know we still have many st00pid guys that will rape for no reason, but in this scenario I feel differently.

cool

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by exceltech: 10:38am On Sep 10, 2016

schumastic:

I don't insult ladies cus is a game meant for ladies alone.

if there is anything i will ask of you is for you to seek understanding in all you do with wisdom to address issues.

first of all go through my comment and read through it again, maybe then you will understand better.

check the meaning of going out on a date and to depend on someone, then come bck and tell me if both are the same.

if you go through my comment you will also notice I quoted u base on your comment which was generalizing on all guys n also insulting the parents as well..

in your words you said "this are the kind of guys being raised this days".

that's why i asked you what kind of girls are being raised as well.

there are always three side of a story side A, side B and the truth.

the op is wrong for not stopping his friend cus he had the chance too and him reporting right now will only implicate him cus we know the nigeria police n how they treat cases.

the friend in ? is also wrong for commiting rape n had no reason what so ever to.

as for the girl in ?, i would leave you to give her a girly advice.

above all learn not to generalize.

I see many beggars on the street, even some ver persistent ones,
if I decide to give such people money does that give me the right
to force them to do anything ?

Since a lady can't force herself to be dependent on you why not
cut her off instead of whining on how she was eating your money ?

If the guy wanted sex from the lady and gave her money and the lady
refused why not demand for his money back or better still visit the nearest
brothel instead of complicating life by enticing an unwilling partner ?

Being dependent is not a crime neither is giving compulsory, a male or female
could be a dependant in different scenario and I am sure you once depended on
someone, if a guy isn't comfortable giving all he needs do is stop it.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by RennyX: 10:39am On Sep 10, 2016

yomz1e:
Thank you, again my intellectual self will not respond to such stupidity

Good! You can fvck off now!

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by jayfierce(m): 10:40am On Sep 10, 2016

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

You waited 20mins amidst the tears of that girl. You watched and waited. You did nothing. You then called out to him and gave him extra 10mins for him to finish up.

It is well with you. Let God reward accordingly.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by mekuxiani(m): 10:41am On Sep 10, 2016

If you know you don't like a guy stop collecting money from him I believe after the first date you should know if you are compatible if you keep collecting money from him you are giving him the wrong message

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Smellymouth: 10:42am On Sep 10, 2016

"...Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly..."

This is just so sad..

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 10, 2016

Ishilove:
So many perverted people on this thread. Nobody forced him to spend, yet they are blaming the girl for being raped. This is why so many rape victims are reluctant to speak out. When he saw she wasn't ready to play ball then why on earth didn't he stop spending?? It's her body and she has every right to determine who she gives it to. ANIMLALS!!!

I wish I can reach out to her let us pursue the rapist together. We should expose and disgrace the animal on every medium possible.

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Re: Is It Necessary I Report This Rape Incident I Witnessed? by exceltech: 10:43am On Sep 10, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
can't the girl say no, abi dem sew her mouth ni? She brought this upon herself. Maybe she doesn't know that life is all about give and take not take and take, now she suffered the consequences of her actions. Don't blame me blame her

SMH,
well I don't blame you, kids usually can't understand the
gravity of their actions or speech.

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