sukkot:
not the smiley. the ' HAHAHA ' after highlighting ' UGLY BABY ' . even you gotta admit it look bad. but hey maybe thats not your intention and i am sure it is not your intention but it looks bad.

Thebachelor:
You raped a girl,came online and justified your action with ''she made premarital demand''.

Let me tell you something,if that girl had a brother or friend like me,you really wouldn't be online by now. That's for sure.

And l'm not talking about reporting you to the authority.

RennyX:

[b]Yes! There is no crime on her part in the face of the law.

The same way you can't hold any girl/guy liable if he/she leaves you for another person and breaks your heart in the process. Despite all your commitments and dedication to the relationship.

But tell me the truth. Are you not going to feel robbed? Or let me put it in a better phrase "used". Why do some people go all out to hurt their ex after a heart break?

So it's the same thing here. The girl has actually not committed any crime legally. In fact that defense will not hold water. But as a human being how will you feel?

So, this is it. We have guys out there who have the mentality of "money for hand back for ground". If they meet a girl and she is demanding they all expect to get something back in return and we all know what it is.

We cannot hide the fact that we have many greedy girls who don't learn. Now this is not about rape, because rape can happen in many other forms.

That guy is guilty of rape no doubt. But will I blame him for thinking that's the best way for him to punish the girl? No.

When we look at it from another angle, RAPE is not justified, but it is not an excuse to do things that can lead to it. The girls are always told it is never their fault they are raped. I guess that's why they can do anything and when it leads to rape it becomes another thing.

If some girls reduce the way they follow guys for money up and down or they stop this their "maga" whatever, I believe we are heading in the right direction to also curb this rape menace.

I know we still have many st00pid guys that will rape for no reason, but in this scenario I feel differently.

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VolTOxic:


So because you spend money on a girl, you have the right to rape her ?— I'm convince now you're a rapist.

VolTOxic:


So because you spend money on a girl, you have the right to rape her ?— I'm convince now you're a rapist.

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

cococandy:
Fvck off.

You took a girl to buy fast food for her on a date and that's her depending on your money?. We don't hear anything when they buy gifts for you people or take you out. But you remits some miserly pittance and suddenly you believe that make you lords of the earth and owners of their ladies in question.

SmartChoices:

rapists everywhere on the thread .... am hugely disappointed with the female monikers especially the confirmed female cruzita I was a fan.... but Aybo I say no to rape or any form of genderbased violence gbv

exceltech:


I see many beggars on the street, even some ver persistent ones,
if I decide to give such people money does that give me the right
to force them to do anything ?

Since a lady can't force herself to be dependent on you why not
cut her off instead of whining on how she was eating your money ?

If the guy wanted sex from the lady and gave her money and the lady
refused why not demand for his money back or better still visit the nearest
brothel instead of complicating life by enticing an unwilling partner ?

Being dependent is not a crime neither is giving compulsory, a male or female
could be a dependant in different scenario and I am sure you once depended on
someone, if a guy isn't comfortable giving all he needs do is stop it.

LOL! I laugh you @bold.

Are you a guy? So you can easily call up a girl and asked her to return all the money you've spent on her? Can you really do that? Be sincere to your humble self.

Is it not this same Nairaland that a guy created a thread about how he wanted to collect the phone he bought for a girl who played him. I couldn't hold myself from laughing at the insults he received that day. From the same set of Nairaland women and some pusssy niggas.

He was called "broke" , "stingy", and other words. Simply because he wanted to collect back his phone.

Now if you're a lady. How will you feel about such a guy? Be honest to yourself. A guy asking you to pay back all he has spent on you. It's still you that will settle down with your friends to insult and laugh at him.

Please let's be realistic.

Ishilove:
So many perverted people on this thread. Nobody forced him to spend, yet they are blaming the girl for being raped. This is why so many rape victims are reluctant to speak out. When he saw she wasn't ready to play ball then why on earth didn't he stop spending?? It's her body and she has every right to determine who she gives it to. ANIMLALS!!!

I wish I can reach out to her let us pursue the rapist together. We should expose and disgrace the animal on every medium possible.

sekem:
I'm not supporting the rape in any way at all but then there's something called cause and effects.

If as a lady, you think that the reason why a nigga is spending all that money on you is because of love then I think you are not even mature enough to date in the first place.

Life is quid pro quo.

Don't tell me anything about he was willingly giving because that is utter balderdash!!!

If he didn't give; you won't even stay so let's just skip that part, okay?

Common sense should have told the lady in question, and all ladies as a matter of fact, that you cannot be stingy with your pussḯe and still expect the guy to be a cheerful giver!!!

No. It doesn't work that way. At some point, the guy will be provoked into action.

You call it rape.

He calls it justice.

It is as simple as that.

sweetcocoa:
What I wrote was exactly how I wanted it to be, I could've written 'hahaha' a thousand times and it would've meant the same thing I mean.

Btw, I didn't highlight any parts of the post I responded to nor mine but even if I did, it still wouldn't have changed the intention of my post.

I'm seriously finding it hard to believe you couldn't decipher what was meant, I really am but it's aight, some days are like that but if there's one thing I'm sure of, it is that, true Nlanders get it.

Trendin:
I wonder how rapists make their prick stand when they rape someone. Once you tell me no, my prick dies a natural death.

sekem:
I'm not supporting the rape in any way at all but then there's something called cause and effects.

If as a lady, you think that the reason why a nigga is spending all that money on you is because of love then I think you are not even mature enough to date in the first place.

Life is quid pro quo.

Don't tell me anything about he was willingly giving because that is utter balderdash!!!

If he didn't give; you won't even stay so let's just skip that part, okay?

Common sense should have told the lady in question, and all ladies as a matter of fact, that you cannot be stingy with your pussḯe and still expect the guy to be a cheerful giver!!!

No. It doesn't work that way. At some point, the guy will be provoked into action.

You call it rape.

He calls it justice.

It is as simple as that.

whizcartel:
Even if she reports. She has the right to mention him as a witness. and if the court hears that he saw the crime happen and he didn't report the incident. The state, Women rights NGO's can take up his case and sue him for obstruction of justice. He just made a mistake posting what happened on a public platform.

smellingmenses:



I don't give what I cannot afford! Funny a woman knows your worth most often at a glance...... hence I never feel robbed....

RennyX:
All these st00pid and hungry girls be forming smart!

If you will not have sex then why depend on the guy to cater for you? This life is give and take. She can't tell me she didn't know what the guy wanted cos I'm dead sure he must have made signs. But she wanted to play sharp.

If someone is helping you in anyway and you know he/she will demand something from you that you can't give away then it's better and wiser to cut yourself off before it gets bad. But people are too greedy. They will want to keep eating and eating even when it's clear things may turn bad.

Abeg make we hear word!

Naughtysite:


I have been reading all your comments. You are sounding like a cymbal like you have never met ladies who believe they can earn without a single labor..

Do you know that the said lady also committed a crime and she can be prosecuted ? She is engaging in extortion and obtaining under false pretence..

I am not a party to rape. But go ask that silly girl right now, she will still Bleep that ur friend again..

I am saying this because i have similar things happen..

joseph1832ng:
Have you ever heard people say "The penis_ have a mind of its own?".

VikingsOO7:

No normal human being will see a girl being raped and do nothing about it. Its just not normal. This is evil.

Regardless of the circumstance(s). It just doesn't make any sense. I honestly dunno how else to describe this act.

RennyX:

I wonder if you even understood my post. Any way that's you, not him. He felt robbed and he decided to take it back(albeit in a wrong manner).

Trendin:

Honestly, not mine. My prick has a conscience of its own, with a transmission channel to my entire body. My prick hates blood, virgins and unwilling pvssies.

Naughtysite:


That is where the guy messed up. He came in on time when the lady was yet to be molested and he didnt stop it.

All these fake padi mi padi mi boys.

I wont take that shit..

Naughtysite:


That is where the guy messed up. He came in on time when the lady was yet to be molested and he didnt stop it.

All these fake padi mi padi mi boys.

I wont take that shit..