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My question is, do you even call him at all?

Well, him not calling doesn't mean he doesn't care at all. If you both see often and your communication is good, then there's nothing to be scared of.

donbenedict:
My question is, do you even call him at all?

yes i do....he was supposed to travel on fri pm so i called 2 knw if he has gotten 2 his destination,he didnt pick , and he has nt called bak up till now and am worried..buh i dnt want 2 look like a pest...so shld i call again or just let him be?

If you still think relationship depends on calls...then you need to go back to the 19th century...even players and cheaters call their spouses almost every mili seconds just to cover their asses..

If he doesnt call yu might be due to so many reasons known to him alone,,he mite not even tell yu the reason,,,even if he does,,he mite lie.

There are other ways yu ladies know wen a guy is cheating..He is to be trusted until caught red handed..

Look for another reason,,calling definitely not a solid prove..

Youngtrice:
Well, him not calling doesn't mean he doesn't care at all. If you both see often and your communication is good, then there's nothing to be scared of.

hmmm,aii...thanks much

Op, you have to be careful. If someone truly loves you as he claims he would make out time to call at least often. For him not to reply your calls since friday shows he might be up to something.

CindyeMerAld:

yes i do....he was supposed to travel on fri pm so i called 2 knw if he has gotten 2 his destination,he didnt pick , and he has nt called bak up till now and am worried..buh i dnt want 2 look like a pest...so shld i call again or just let him be?

why not send a text. I've been worried, hope you are safe, pls try calln bak wen u read this text"



Simple.

Israeljones:
If you still think relationship depends on calls...then you need to go back to the 19th century...even players and cheaters call their spouses almost every mili seconds just to cover their asses..

If he doesnt call yu might be due to so many reasons known to him alone,,he mite not even tell yu the reason,,,even if he does,,he mite lie.

There are other ways yu ladies know wen a guy is cheating..He is to be trusted until caught red handed..

Look for another reason,,calling definitely not a solid prove..

am nt saying he is cheating....i just want 2 knw if he truly cares or he is lying 2 me

Kingsasian:
Op, you have to be careful. If someone truly loves you as he claims he would make out time to call at least often. For him not to reply your calls since friday shows he might be up to something.

stop thinking that way please. Jumping into stupid conclusions can make one look stvpid.

donbenedict:
why not send a text. I've been worried, hope you are safe, pls try calln bak wen u read this text"



Simple.

thanks dear

CindyeMerAld:

am nt saying he is cheating....i just want 2 knw if he truly cares or he is lying 2 me

u cant know if he truly cares or not by d number of times he calls u. Some players even call more often than d sincere guys.

CindyeMerAld:

am nt saying he is cheating....i just want 2 knw if he truly cares or he is lying 2 me

Trust me i think he does...from my experience and the fact extracted from your post...

Let me tell yu this,
If a guy calls yu like every minute,, its either his conscience is conflicting(guilty mind because he mite be cheating himself) or perhaps he doesnt trust u abit......

My point here is,,,Calls is not really a yardstick to know if a guy cares or not....
There has to be some other things he is doing very well that makes yu wanna trust him so much..

Kingsasian:
Op, you have to be careful. If someone truly loves you as he claims he would make out time to call at least often. For him not to reply your calls since friday shows he might be up to something.

NOVICE...
How many times dyu call ur gf,,thats if u have any

CindyeMerAld:
hmmm,aii...thanks much

You're welcome

Israeljones:

Trust me i think he does...from my experience and the fact extracted from your post...

Let me tell yu this,
If a guy calls yu like every minute,, its either his conscience is conflicting(guilty mind because he mite be cheating himself) or perhaps he doesnt trust u abit......

My point here is,,,Calls is not really a yardstick to know if a guy cares or not....
There has to be some other things he is doing very well that makes yu wanna trust him so much..

thanks...he is very caring and is nt afraid to show me off at any lil chance he gets...just that i tend to doubt him sometimes.

CindyeMerAld:

thanks...he is very caring and is nt afraid to show me off at any lil chance he gets...just that i tend to doubt him sometimes.

I think yu shud even be commended for recognizing that he always try to show he loves/care for yu with the lil chance he got...Not every lady recognises this simple details.
Realising this fact can turn a rel into marriage..

Enjoy

Well. I once liked a girl but I noticed something about her that I don't like just like u are noticng now ..she's not expressive, I noticed it from her chats at 1st cus we met online.

I'll chat and type lots of words with smiley just to show how excited I was about her but I noticed even if I chat 1 full book page, all she'll say is just ''yes'' or ''no'' or ''nvm'' (meaning never mind).

It got me so angry that I had to delete her since as a man I derive d motivation to chat further with her from her responses wch I would admit was lively at the begining but started declining drastically along d course of our chat that it became so bad. Sometimes she won't even reply for almost a day so I tot its d general ladies way of forming hard so I ended d stuff

She sent me a friend request back and asked why I deleted her. When I told her she felt sober and apologized. But when I saw her face to face I realized her calmness was a thing of tenderness and not rudeness or forming hard, she always found everything I said interesting but in a calm cozy way.

I narrated it so that u'll know that he may not know until perhaps u gently say ur mind to him. Since u knw him face to face, then u don't have cut off d communicatuon like I did mine. Just try to see him or go thru his best friend and explain ur mind to him..either he blends to ur taste or u blend to his by u doing d calling and he'll never take it 4 granted. All I knw is it will work in one way or the other.

Also, always knw that nobody really finds all that he/she wants in one person. Have a blissful relatonship

I didn't quote you.

Israeljones:

NOVICE...
How many times dyu call ur gf,,thats if u have any

and again I don't argue with kids.

CindyeMerAld:

thanks...he is very caring and is nt afraid to show me off at any lil chance he gets...just that i tend to doubt him sometimes.

you are a typical African woman....what happens to sms's, whaatsup and other means of communication voice calls are outdated btw lovers


your problem is insecurity

Kingsasian:
Op, you have to be careful. If someone truly loves you as he claims he would make out time to call at least often. For him not to reply your calls since friday shows he might be up to something.

How old are you?....

Kingsasian:
I didn't quote you. and again I don't argue with kids.

Sorry old man....but ur points here are the only ones different to show u r just the odd one from the enligntened..

He chyked you for five years?

op calls don't count

today is exactly 3weeks I called my estranged girlfriend last...and she herself don't call


I don't even reply most of her chats on watsapp

bottom plate be say

not calling often means he's trying not to be persistent

and again d sufa wey u sufa him just for u to accept

he de pay u back small small

Op, Calling Does Not Mean Anything, I Personally,Hardly Call My G.F, She Has Complained And Has Adjusted, I Hardly Call Cos We Chat, But If We Dont Chat For A While, Say A Day Or 2, I Call And We Spend Time Talking, If You Both Chat, Or See Each Other Often, Then The Calls May Not Be So Frequent, It Does Not Mean He Doesnt Care, He Might Be Very Busy, But If He Call At Least Twice Or Thrice A Week, I Think Its Fair.

Israeljones:

I think yu shud even be commended for recognizing that he always try to show he loves/care for yu with the lil chance he got...Not every lady recognises this simple details.
Realising this fact can turn a rel into marriage..

Enjoy

Very true. She's commendable!

RadicallyBlunt:
Well. I once liked a girl but I noticed something about her that I don't like just like u are noticng now ..she's not expressive, I noticed it from her chats at 1st cus we met online.

I'll chat and type lots of words with smiley just to show how excited I was about her but I noticed even if I chat 1 full book page, all she'll say is just ''yes'' or ''no'' or ''nvm'' (meaning never mind).

It got me so angry that I had to delete her since as a man I derive d motivation to chat further with her from her responses wch I would admit was lively at the begining but started declining drastically along d course of our chat that it became so bad. Sometimes she won't even reply for almost a day so I tot its d general ladies way of forming hard so I ended d stuff

She sent me a friend request back and asked why I deleted her. When I told her she felt sober and apologized. But when I saw her face to face I realized her calmness was a thing of tenderness and not rudeness or forming hard, she always found everything I said interesting but in a calm cozy way.

I narrated it so that u'll know that he may not know until perhaps u gently say ur mind to him. Since u knw him face to face, then u don't have cut off d communicatuon like I did mine. Just try to see him or go thru his best friend and explain ur mind to him..either he blends to ur taste or u blend to his by u doing d calling and he'll never take it 4 granted. All I knw is it will work in one way or the other.

Also, always knw that nobody really finds all that he/she wants in one person. Have a blissful relatonship

thanks so much...

Synzu:
He chyked you for five years?

lolz....yes,even though he is my superior in school

Young03:
op calls don't count

today is exactly 3weeks I called my estranged girlfriend last...and she herself don't call


I don't even reply most of her chats on watsapp

bottom plate be say

not calling often means he's trying not to be persistent

and again d sufa wey u sufa him just for u to accept

he de pay u back small small

lolz...

carmag:


you are a typical African woman....what happens to sms's, whaatsup and other means of communication voice calls are outdated btw lovers


your problem is insecurity

thanks for ur contribution.

CindyeMerAld:

lolz....yes,even though he is my superior in school

Dude is one devoted chyker o, his patience can rival that "patient dog's" patience.